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mayorall:
Please contact me on whatsapp 07066435369 will connect you to a young prophet.

what for ?

Hold onto d creator of heavens & earth and all that it contains with firm faith without ascribing partners to Him. By His (Allah or God) will, ur problems will b over.

Good scripts! Definitely not your life story, doesn't sound like one

If this is a true story...go and find out...she might not be your biological mother.maybe she exchange you with someone after birth...my own mum shared her love with everyone around her...she care for all her sister inlaw not to talk of daughter inlaw...may God heal your wound sharp sharp

omonighoblessing:
what for ?

Lols...for spiritual counseling and how to secure a good mother in law...hahahah

Hello,hmm it is well.I also have a mother like that.I've done all I can to make her love me and to be her friend has a daughter but she just hates me.I've giving her gifts,money begged her.the wicked will always be wicked no matter what u do.take it that she his not alive.don't call her,don't go to her.cut off relate wit ur father from a distance. Pray,fast,praise God midnight for seven days.I invite u to come down to winners chapel cannnaland ota come and test my God the God of bishop David oyedepo.this Sunday.u can whataspp me 08069492392.God bless u heal ur wife and give u a peaceful home in Jesus name.

Taryur3:
Lols...for spiritual counseling and how to secure a good mother in law...hahahah

hehehehee don't worry about that...it's taken care of already

omonighoblessing:
hehehehee don't worry about that...it's taken care of already

Lol...I hope u check the name of the person that asked you to add her...it was your reply that made me to wrote what is there.lol

Nollywood. But if at all it is true, OP dey there de pray and fast till you lose your wife as you lost your kid. No go find real and practical solution. Praying and fasting my assss.

sweetpies:
Great. Abeg read and summarize. I no fit for this kind handout

only God knows when am going to finish reading.

Taryur3:
Lol...I hope u check the name of the person that asked you to add her...it was your reply that made me to wrote what is there.lol

don't get u

Hello everyone..I never thought someone could have the guts to share some challenging times that seems like a nollywood..as for the op, I know victory is yours ijn...I have always be on the other side of the world where you get to watch an epic movie together either with family or friends or even coincidental where you guys get to argue if some series of scenes wasn't nollywood(mock name) or not?..not until I encountered the real nollywood.

I can never forget those periods in my f..cking life..

It all started when my mum was diagnosed with cancer..to cut this note short,she went through series of medical care including chemotheraphy and stuffs..until she passed on..but what lies within was another world entirely..my mum happen to come from a muslim family and also a royal family.. but got married to a christain..there was war even before we were born..I later found out when she was sick that her sickness wasn't ordinary but an attack...some would say nollywood right?

Within those periods she was going through treatments. we were also praying for her and within those processes too , we received similar prophecies from diffrent men of God confirming that her illness was an attack..

One day within the period I was taking her for treatment and prayers in the church. The man of God called me that he saw all my efforts and how I was striving to see she survived..

I was the only one and my kid brother..
present to take care of our mum..we are five in numbers..

He was writing his final exams and projects in school but was very supportive too...na we all mama..you know that kind thing

The remaning were also having side challenges as not to be able around to come check her or something...still they were all trying with prayers and finance to make her whole again..

The man of God called me on side and told me things I never heard in my life before..

He told me that my Grandma was a witch and she's is responsible for my mums illness..

I was shocked..he revealed a lot...

Later I sat down to analyse things right from the very first day I had sense to discern till now and I also got some proof to this..

First was that ..my grandma had 5 children..2 females and 3 males..
Out of them all, we are the only children that was complete till now..the rest children has lost one of their children each...meaning that my mum was the only child of her mum that never lost a child out of her rest sisters and brothers...
They all died through an attack (sickness)

Secondly there was a time we had to relocate to my grandmums place when they were crisis in the north then..that was around 1994..
After a month, we were diagnosed with herpatitis..the doctor said we ate poison and that our liver is damaged and that we loose blood everyday..we were moved back to north for proper treatment..
But before we moved,there was a time when they were praying while the hospital, with my mums step sister that later converted to christain..while they were praying hard on me and my brothers behalf. our last brother started speaking in another language that if my mum don't want to loose her children,she should move the children from the hospital we were before 12am in the morning..this period was around 11:07pm in the midnight..my mum and the sister went to see the doctor that she wants to move us..but the doctor resisted saying it was late..but my brother still reminded us while he was speaking in tongues that the doctors work together with the forces... We should hearken to whatever they say..
That was how mum rushed us out of the hospital and took us to his step brothers house before we moved back to north for treatment..
With prayers and treatment, we were saved...

Thirdly..there was one of my mums brother that she converted to christain.
He had already lost a daughter to sickness before he converted to christain.his wife was also a christain..before he finally converted..
After some time, he had several challenges until he was assasinated before his wife and children...
The assasisn told his wife that they were not after money when she offered them money, that they were after his life..when they were sure he was dead..they left..

The wife was very angry and sought a diabolical means to know how her husband was killed..because the husband was a very cool headed, caring, and very gentle to the core..man..
She told us that..her husband ghost came out in a glass that its those people she loved most that killed him...she said he didn't say more than that..
She has ever since then become a very strong christain,she never plays with prayers and it was evident in her life and that of her children too..

Another proof was that when my mum was in the hospital bed..I remenber when she will wake up and say that she had a dream like "she will see a table rounded with people offering her calabash to take..if she wants to live..and she will deny and then wake up..

I still remenber when she told me to tell her story to the world..guess that day Is today

My pastor told me that my G/mother was like the strike chief in the witches world within and outside our shores..that she's very powerful

He said that my G/mother was trying to hand my mum her powers before she passed on..since she's the first daughter

He also said that while they were praying and fighting in the spirit realm...that she said she gave birth to my mum and has the right to do whatever she wants with her..

I remenbered when my mum told me about her last visit to the village before she was sick and passed on...she told me there was a time my mum was lying together with my G/mum..that in the middle of the night, she started hearing a sound like a hiss..she now woke up to find out that it was her mum..she now asked what the problem was before..my G/mum told her that she was snoring and was disturbing her..she later changed her direction to please her mum..still she was still complaining..
I later analysed that she was trying to go to their meeting but my mums presence was an hindrance..light and darkness can't agree..una know now..

My mum step sister later revealed to us that she knew all along but was hard for her to say such statement out...might cause misunderstanding..she said she was using codes and revelation gotten while she and my mum always pray..but my mum loved her mother so much that she wuldnt believe..

My mums brothers wife that her husband was assinated also confirmed this...but said she always tells my mum cause she's so blunt..that my mum never beleived..

I use to imagine if my mum had collected the calabash in her dream..what would have been our fate as of today..

Don't you think if she has collected the calsbash and live..she would eventually joined them and sacrifies one of us or more along the line..

I believe you died a hero
You stood for what you beleived in
You loved those who hated you...even though they took your life..
You also loved your children and was ready to die for them..
We also thank God that those who thought they would never die could not buy death with all the powers they got..

I love you mum..
You will forever live in our hearts..

ibroh22:
Don't know what to say,but mother will always be a mother,in my own opinion,i will advice op to go with his father, a pastor and the wife to beg the mother and ask for forgiveness

Ask for her forgiveness indeed! Please what did they do that they need being forgiven

IRserveMyComent:
Ask for her forgiveness indeed! Please what did they do that they need being forgiven

Thank God you asked that last..
The mum aint God..

The solution to your problem is very simple. You don't need any man of God or prayer warrior to intercede or lay hand on you. Depending on your faith and the God you believe in, quietly talk to him. And the most important aspect BELIEVE in your heart that nothing will happen to you and your wife without God's consent. FEAR NOT! You can fast all you can, pray all you can or even speak in tongue; but if you have no faith, you are just wasting your time. AGAIN, I WILL TELL YOU: FEAR NOT. Tell your wife to FEAR NOT. Don't try to do further findings about hidden things done by your mother or anyone. That can only ignite some fear in you. If you can follow the simple advice I am giving you, what you see as a problem will be over before you know it.

omonighoblessing:
don't get u

I mean am not the one who actually ask you to add him on whatsapp. I just quote you as you ask"for what"

omonighoblessing:
what for ?

Am sorry miss. You are not the one I wanna quote.

Sabuta:
Hello family. I write this memo to seek your opinion about a pressing family issue am confronted with. My story is a very long one but I wil try and make as brief as possible.

I was dating this beautiful lady and all was going well until the issue of marriage popped up. I really loved her and I believe she loves me too. We are both working in thesame city and stay independent of our parents who are in the village. I introduced her to my family and there was little or no resistance from my dad and brothers. Unfortunately, my momsy and her sisters reject and forbid me to marry her. I ask her why and she came up with lazy excuses- the lady's background, family, and all that. I understand that my mum really wants to hand pick a wife for me- but I vehemently refused. I kept pushing for it- going after my heart and praying about it. Of all the excuses my mum gave me, non was personality related. This lady's personality is hard to come by. So I decided to go ahead with the wedding. A few weeks to the wedding the lady took in for me and I informed my parents. We are both cool with that as I counted it a blessing. I was already counting months to been a father.

On the wedding day my mum refused to turn up for the wedding. Now I know it sounds crazy but that what actually happened. Anyways, it was a success and we were pronounced husband and wife.

We started our little home praying for each other and for peace with my mother. Everyday my wife cries out to God to soften the heart of my mother and we kept seeking for forgiveness. She reminds me to call my parents and encourage me to remember my siblings after collecting every paycheck. She was always in touch with my dad and even sends my siblings little token after she collects her salary. I cannot express how much she loved my family and really wanted peace with everybody. She has committed more effort to integrate into my family than I have myself. In everything she does, she puts my siblings first before hers. They say women are selfish- but my woman is selfless.

After nine months, it is time to become a father. We went shopping, bought all the necessary things required to welcome our little angel. Our hearts were filled with joy despite all the hate from my mother. Thank God we are living very far from my mother. So it was kinda easy to manage her hatred towards my wife. But just when I was assuming how easy it was to manage her, trouble began.

A few days to My wife's EDD, she noticed slow movement of the baby in her womb, went to the hospital and doctors advised a CS. Baby's activity was fast decreasing and doctors evacuated the baby. Baby was born- and I was a father. Sadly doctors said the baby had an uncommon disease (name withheld) and would require a surgery. Surgery was done and baby pulled through. All the while we were praying as the disciples did on Pentecost day. We got many pastors involved and all that. Regretfully, baby couldn't survive this wicked world and she gave up after few weeks.

Now it was grieving time. I called my mom to tell her of the demise of my baby but guess what- she laughed over it and said 'this is just the beginning'. Thank God for my in laws, they were there every step of the way- may God bless and prosper them, Amen. I didn't receive any sympathy from my sister either, only my dad and brothers. Life goes on.

I thank God because I was able to be a man and stand by my wife. God gave me the grace to be there for her against all odds. Financially, I bless God. At my age I am able to do a lot of things my peers couldn't . The last time I received any financial help from anybody in my life was in 2010. Since then, God has always prepared a table for me before my enemies. Baba God noni.

Now God has a way of revealing things to the holy. My wife is more religious than me. I am more of an evidence based reasoning person than faith and all. However I always believe in doing good to people. That could possibly be the reason why my plate is always full with manna.

So my wife woke me up one night and told me of how God has been making revelations to her. She has kept this in her heart for so long because she doesn't want anything that will cause any further damage to the peace we are trying to achieve. But it was too much for her to bear- she told me of a dream she had. She saw my mum carrying our wedding photo to a witch doctor. Yes that sounds crazy, right? But you know what? It sounds crazier to me at first. Like I earlier said am more of evidence based person, so I started looking for evidence. Thank God to my Frnd working in telecom industry (name withheld). I started looking for my mum call records since my wedding. My Frnd at first told me of how sensitive it is to release such records- it has has cost people their career. Long and short of it- I was able to listen to her call records.

They say wonders shall never end. I have heard of stories of parents halting their children successes and vice versa ( thanks to nollywood). I never knew that I would be the next victim. I tried not to believe it but the more I try the more I am in touch with reality. To cut the long story short, my mum has connived with her sister to travel to the east to consult a witch doctor with our wedding photo. Nollywood movie, right? May you never experience this in Jesus name.

Now let me take a flash back to my childhood days- my mom loved all her children a lot. She's a disciplinarian and she tried in raising us the best way she could. Several times when I was a kid, she selects my friends for me, regulates my movement etc. Even in my university days she scrutinizes my friends. But one thing she tried to develop in me was how to hate her 'perceived' enemies. Whenever she has a problem with any woman or family in the estate, she doesn't allow us to play with the children of such. She will stop us from talking to kids in that house and would paint that family black. But the stubbornness in me wouldn't let me follow her directives on this one. She want us to have common friends and enemies. Worst case scenario is I collect koboko.

A brief background of her sister: Her sister has similar character with my mom, very possessive and always exercising control over other people's affairs. About 15 years ago, I remember her visiting a witch doctor to help her solve some family issues. When our going was good, she once boasted to me saying 'the death of my mother in law was the saving grace of my marriage'.

It's been more than 6 months since I spoke to my mom. Crazy, right? Pls don't crucify me yet- this world is a wicked place. I and my wife decided to pray and fast about the dream she had. Coupled with the evidence of call records, I informed my dad of the malicious attack on my daughter and how she died. He encouraged me to pray and he equally joined me in fasting. #heartOfaFather. As I type this story on my phone, my wife and I have not broken our fast.

Recently, my mum sent me a message threatening that my wife will never give birth. In her words 'over my dead body will your harlot bear children'. Yes! She said that. Still doubting? Ride on...

Of recent, my wife started complaining of stomach issues- lower abdominal pains. She had several scans that revealed a growing ovarian cyst. It is growing at an alarming rate. Doctors said if it doesn't stop growing then she will need a surgery. In the last 3 weeks she has had four scans.

Two days ago she cried out to me 'baby my only mistake in this life is being your wife- I haven't done anything wrong to anybody. I was living a happy and fulfilled life before I met you. I have parents and family who love me. Why does your mother wants to take away my life? Am counting days to leave this wicked world. I have had enough of its wickedness.'

I consoled her, prayed over her and gave her hope. I told her these times are hard but we shall overcome. I immediately called my dad and request him to warn my mum from hurting my wife otherwise I will take unpleasant action.

Today I am to take a decision of what to do to save my ailing wife from dying. I want to save her without hurting anybody but if need be for me to hurt someone, I will.

Comments strictly for matured minds pls.

God is the answer to ur question if ur real and belive in wht God can do a reall man of God is neded in dis issueor don't u have any u trust?if no den let m know

MadCow1:
Oga O.P,

First of all, I sympathize with you and your Wife on the loss of your baby. That is a trauma that no Parent should ever have to experience. I pray you both find the strength and support in each other to pull through.

Secondly.. I really find it hard to believe that your friend can pull up actual Conversations of your Mothers Call History. He may be able to call up her Call history and the general area from where the call was placed, but actual Chat history, I really cant hack that.

Now to the main matter. What I am about to say will not go down well with alot of people, but then again, I don't care. We were all raised differently. I think you and your wife need to Pray together about your extended family as a whole (in particular about your mother).

Secondly, you need to start distancing your Mother from your marriage. The way I was raised, the Moment a Man gets married, his priorities switch from his extended family to his immediate family. As the Head of the House, its your Job to protect your wife from your Mother. Since its clear to you that your Mother does not like your wife, then there is no point bringing matters regarding your home and family to her. You can call her up from time to time, check on her welfare, Send her money via transfer only, never cash (For superstitious and spiritual reasons) and never ever discuss your families welfare or your Families business with her. Also limit the information you give to your Father about your family as he may also pass that message across to her. BASICALLY, the less your Mother knows about your home, the better.

Do not engage your Mother. There is nothing to be gained out of it. But I will advise you to shut her out and keep her at arms length especially now that you know she is ready to go to extent to fhuck shiit up in your home and harm your wife. Place an embargo on her; No Visitations whatsoever and No direct Phonecalls to your wife. No more going to the Village until further Notice. Also get this thought out of both your minds that your mother had anything to do with the death of your baby and/or the cyst the Doctor is talking about. Your mother may have had ill wishes for your wife and baby, but she did not kill your kid.

Ask for her text, I will advise you ignore it (as I don't believe in all that nonsense..) but since you are Spiritually inclined, pray about it and move on. DO not let your Mother have this type of mental influence on you and your home.

Its time to test your strength and resolve as a Man. You must now stand up and shield your wife from your Family. Your Mother does not need to enter your home physically or psychologically. She should not be discussed and she no longer should be an issue. be there for your wife and help get your mother out of your wife's head as well. The both of you should just learn to have a strong prayer habit together. Go to another Hospital and get an alternative diagonisis and together, the both of you should walk through this storm. Trust me when I say it will pass. You must both Forgive her and move on.




Children will come to your home as they are a reward from God and an Inheritance of the Lord. Your Mother has no powers whatsoever to determine what happens in your Home. All you need to do is just be there for your wife in this times of troubles, be her support, never make her feel like she is alone in this and show her that you are in this for the long run.

It is for this reason that a Man shall leave his Father and Mother and CLEAVE to his wife.

God Bless your Home my Friend.


MadCow..

Best counsel by far!

To all doubting Thomases on the thread, this is African, where the gods are crazy!

Ovarian cysts can be removed yeah, but pray hard like they said man and ur gonna prevail, because av seen weird shhyt men. Kinda shytt that'd make ur toes curl and u only notice the fact that you'd pee'd when ur toes start feeling extra-cool

My dear, if your story is true, which i want to believe it is. Some mothers are over protective but this one is not like it. I hope your father is still in control of your mother and the household? If yes, you and your wife should see him to intervene and plead with your mother for forgiveness. Invite your brothers and sisters to the meeting if you have. Your wife needs your care now more than ever. Please, don't quarrel with your mother becos you need all the peace and happiness in the world. May His grace be with you both always.

mayorall:
Am sorry miss. You are not the one I wanna quote.

oh ok...

Taryur3:
I mean am not the one who actually ask you to add him on whatsapp. I just quote you as you ask"for what"

oh ok I get u now..

@ OP, our stories are almost the same just that I am a female and your case is also heavier.

Let me be frank with you, you and your wife cannot fight this battle alone. You need help and directions. You need to talk to real men of God for directions.

My MIL would have seen my end last year if not that I obtained grace from God through prayers. I almost kissed death.

Anytime she sees me now na side eye she dey take look me.

If you don't engage in serious directional prayers now, I pray evil will not happen to you oo. Please protect that woman (ur wife) at all cost. You really need her alive.

Yoruba will say he who won't allow one to eat, you have to prepare such person own alongside your own. Na craze dem dey take cure craze o.

A word is enough for the wise.

prayers can solve d issue

MY BELOVED BROTHER, YOU ARE BLESSED! 2 WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT! SO NEVER TRY TO DO ANYTHING EVIL TO HURT YOUR MOM. I WOULD SACRIFICE MY TIME TO JOIN YOU 2 ON A FAST 6-6 TOMORROW. I KNOW A GOD THAT WORKS OUT THINGS AS THIS. AM IN LAGOS. IF YOU ARE, send me a mail on ifeanyichukwueze@yahoo.com. Lets talk. Your case is a small case to the GOD i know.am waiting. I DECREE IN THE NAME OF JESUS THAT THE HOST OF HEAVEN COMPREHENSIVELY SURROUND YOU AND YOUR WIFE. I CANCEL EVERY SICKNESS AND DEATH SENTENCE ON YOU AND YOUR WIFE! I COMMAND THE ARROWS TO RETURN TO THE SENDERS IN THE NAME OF JESUS. YOUR WIFE GETS BACK TO HEALTH TONIGHT IN THE NAME OF JESUS. I GIVE YOUR MUM 7DAYS TO LEAVE THAT INNOCENT GIRL. IF SHE DOESN'T,WHATEVER SHE SEES, SHE CARRIES IN THE NAME OF JESUS! AMEN

Sabuta:
Hello family. I write this memo to seek your opinion about a pressing family issue am confronted with. My story is a very long one but I wil try and make as brief as possible.

I was dating this beautiful lady and all was going well until the issue of marriage popped up. I really loved her and I believe she loves me too. We are both working in thesame city and stay independent of our parents who are in the village. I introduced her to my family and there was little or no resistance from my dad and brothers. Unfortunately, my momsy and her sisters reject and forbid me to marry her. I ask her why and she came up with lazy excuses- the lady's background, family, and all that. I understand that my mum really wants to hand pick a wife for me- but I vehemently refused. I kept pushing for it- going after my heart and praying about it. Of all the excuses my mum gave me, non was personality related. This lady's personality is hard to come by. So I decided to go ahead with the wedding. A few weeks to the wedding the lady took in for me and I informed my parents. We are both cool with that as I counted it a blessing. I was already counting months to been a father.

On the wedding day my mum refused to turn up for the wedding. Now I know it sounds crazy but that what actually happened. Anyways, it was a success and we were pronounced husband and wife.

We started our little home praying for each other and for peace with my mother. Everyday my wife cries out to God to soften the heart of my mother and we kept seeking for forgiveness. She reminds me to call my parents and encourage me to remember my siblings after collecting every paycheck. She was always in touch with my dad and even sends my siblings little token after she collects her salary. I cannot express how much she loved my family and really wanted peace with everybody. She has committed more effort to integrate into my family than I have myself. In everything she does, she puts my siblings first before hers. They say women are selfish- but my woman is selfless.

After nine months, it is time to become a father. We went shopping, bought all the necessary things required to welcome our little angel. Our hearts were filled with joy despite all the hate from my mother. Thank God we are living very far from my mother. So it was kinda easy to manage her hatred towards my wife. But just when I was assuming how easy it was to manage her, trouble began.

A few days to My wife's EDD, she noticed slow movement of the baby in her womb, went to the hospital and doctors advised a CS. Baby's activity was fast decreasing and doctors evacuated the baby. Baby was born- and I was a father. Sadly doctors said the baby had an uncommon disease (name withheld) and would require a surgery. Surgery was done and baby pulled through. All the while we were praying as the disciples did on Pentecost day. We got many pastors involved and all that. Regretfully, baby couldn't survive this wicked world and she gave up after few weeks.

Now it was grieving time. I called my mom to tell her of the demise of my baby but guess what- she laughed over it and said 'this is just the beginning'. Thank God for my in laws, they were there every step of the way- may God bless and prosper them, Amen. I didn't receive any sympathy from my sister either, only my dad and brothers. Life goes on.

I thank God because I was able to be a man and stand by my wife. God gave me the grace to be there for her against all odds. Financially, I bless God. At my age I am able to do a lot of things my peers couldn't . The last time I received any financial help from anybody in my life was in 2010. Since then, God has always prepared a table for me before my enemies. Baba God noni.

Now God has a way of revealing things to the holy. My wife is more religious than me. I am more of an evidence based reasoning person than faith and all. However I always believe in doing good to people. That could possibly be the reason why my plate is always full with manna.

So my wife woke me up one night and told me of how God has been making revelations to her. She has kept this in her heart for so long because she doesn't want anything that will cause any further damage to the peace we are trying to achieve. But it was too much for her to bear- she told me of a dream she had. She saw my mum carrying our wedding photo to a witch doctor. Yes that sounds crazy, right? But you know what? It sounds crazier to me at first. Like I earlier said am more of evidence based person, so I started looking for evidence. Thank God to my Frnd working in telecom industry (name withheld). I started looking for my mum call records since my wedding. My Frnd at first told me of how sensitive it is to release such records- it has has cost people their career. Long and short of it- I was able to listen to her call records.

They say wonders shall never end. I have heard of stories of parents halting their children successes and vice versa ( thanks to nollywood). I never knew that I would be the next victim. I tried not to believe it but the more I try the more I am in touch with reality. To cut the long story short, my mum has connived with her sister to travel to the east to consult a witch doctor with our wedding photo. Nollywood movie, right? May you never experience this in Jesus name.

Now let me take a flash back to my childhood days- my mom loved all her children a lot. She's a disciplinarian and she tried in raising us the best way she could. Several times when I was a kid, she selects my friends for me, regulates my movement etc. Even in my university days she scrutinizes my friends. But one thing she tried to develop in me was how to hate her 'perceived' enemies. Whenever she has a problem with any woman or family in the estate, she doesn't allow us to play with the children of such. She will stop us from talking to kids in that house and would paint that family black. But the stubbornness in me wouldn't let me follow her directives on this one. She want us to have common friends and enemies. Worst case scenario is I collect koboko.

A brief background of her sister: Her sister has similar character with my mom, very possessive and always exercising control over other people's affairs. About 15 years ago, I remember her visiting a witch doctor to help her solve some family issues. When our going was good, she once boasted to me saying 'the death of my mother in law was the saving grace of my marriage'.

It's been more than 6 months since I spoke to my mom. Crazy, right? Pls don't crucify me yet- this world is a wicked place. I and my wife decided to pray and fast about the dream she had. Coupled with the evidence of call records, I informed my dad of the malicious attack on my daughter and how she died. He encouraged me to pray and he equally joined me in fasting. #heartOfaFather. As I type this story on my phone, my wife and I have not broken our fast.

Recently, my mum sent me a message threatening that my wife will never give birth. In her words 'over my dead body will your harlot bear children'. Yes! She said that. Still doubting? Ride on...

Of recent, my wife started complaining of stomach issues- lower abdominal pains. She had several scans that revealed a growing ovarian cyst. It is growing at an alarming rate. Doctors said if it doesn't stop growing then she will need a surgery. In the last 3 weeks she has had four scans.

Two days ago she cried out to me 'baby my only mistake in this life is being your wife- I haven't done anything wrong to anybody. I was living a happy and fulfilled life before I met you. I have parents and family who love me. Why does your mother wants to take away my life? Am counting days to leave this wicked world. I have had enough of its wickedness.'

I consoled her, prayed over her and gave her hope. I told her these times are hard but we shall overcome. I immediately called my dad and request him to warn my mum from hurting my wife otherwise I will take unpleasant action.

Today I am to take a decision of what to do to save my ailing wife from dying. I want to save her without hurting anybody but if need be for me to hurt someone, I will.

Comments strictly for matured minds pls.

OP read psalm 35 and 121. And when the good Lord has done it, which i believe He has, don't forget to thank Him with psalm 30 and 31.

Note: Mention your name and that of your wife where necessary. GOD IS IN CONTROL.

Other members and visitors reading this post lets join hands in solidarity to pray for,this family and I also,urge us to be,prayerful. This is a wake up call for each and every one of us.

GOD BLESS

MadCow1:
Oga O.P,

First of all, I sympathize with you and your Wife on the loss of your baby. That is a trauma that no Parent should ever have to experience. I pray you both find the strength and support in each other to pull through.

Secondly.. I really find it hard to believe that your friend can pull up actual Conversations of your Mothers Call History. He may be able to call up her Call history and the general area from where the call was placed, but actual Chat history, I really cant hack that.

Now to the main matter. What I am about to say will not go down well with alot of people, but then again, I don't care. We were all raised differently. I think you and your wife need to Pray together about your extended family as a whole (in particular about your mother).

Secondly, you need to start distancing your Mother from your marriage. The way I was raised, the Moment a Man gets married, his priorities switch from his extended family to his immediate family. As the Head of the House, its your Job to protect your wife from your Mother. Since its clear to you that your Mother does not like your wife, then there is no point bringing matters regarding your home and family to her. You can call her up from time to time, check on her welfare, Send her money via transfer only, never cash (For superstitious and spiritual reasons) and never ever discuss your families welfare or your Families business with her. Also limit the information you give to your Father about your family as he may also pass that message across to her. BASICALLY, the less your Mother knows about your home, the better.

Do not engage your Mother. There is nothing to be gained out of it. But I will advise you to shut her out and keep her at arms length especially now that you know she is ready to go to extent to fhuck shiit up in your home and harm your wife. Place an embargo on her; No Visitations whatsoever and No direct Phonecalls to your wife. No more going to the Village until further Notice. Also get this thought out of both your minds that your mother had anything to do with the death of your baby and/or the cyst the Doctor is talking about. Your mother may have had ill wishes for your wife and baby, but she did not kill your kid.

Ask for her text, I will advise you ignore it (as I don't believe in all that nonsense..) but since you are Spiritually inclined, pray about it and move on. DO not let your Mother have this type of mental influence on you and your home.

Its time to test your strength and resolve as a Man. You must now stand up and shield your wife from your Family. Your Mother does not need to enter your home physically or psychologically. She should not be discussed and she no longer should be an issue. be there for your wife and help get your mother out of your wife's head as well. The both of you should just learn to have a strong prayer habit together. Go to another Hospital and get an alternative diagonisis and together, the both of you should walk through this storm. Trust me when I say it will pass. You must both Forgive her and move on.




Children will come to your home as they are a reward from God and an Inheritance of the Lord. Your Mother has no powers whatsoever to determine what happens in your Home. All you need to do is just be there for your wife in this times of troubles, be her support, never make her feel like she is alone in this and show her that you are in this for the long run.

It is for this reason that a Man shall leave his Father and Mother and CLEAVE to his wife.

God Bless your Home my Friend.


MadCow..

Best counsel by far!

To all doubting Thomases on the thread, this is African, where the gods are crazy!

Ovarian cysts can be removed yeah, but pray hard like they said man and ur gonna prevail, because av seen weird shhyt men. Kinda shytt that'd make ur skin creep, hair stand, toes curl and u only notice the fact that you'd pee'd when ur toes start feeling extra-cool .

When living the African life includes being on the arsse end of strange phenomena like this, it don't come off easy but
I. get saved,
Ii. pray, enter prayer mountain (mfm etc), iii. study and stand on Bible promises for ur dominion, protection, prosperity & wifeys healing (baddoes only creep u as far as u allow),
Iv. get some genuine pastoral/prophetic help, rid urself of all bitterness towards ur mom (unforgiveness blocks easy answer prayers),
V. spend more time in worship (find good inspirational music and get stoned with it, as in, get high as a kite), get a dedicated prayer group together around you, quit quavering (nuffin do you, ok?). This ur issue is about entering its expiry date, OK?! So cheer up and give that good woman all the courage she needs.

Godspeed Sir Geofrey, Go with God and may ur way be smooth henceforth!

Wow! Mercy of the lord! May God touch and heal your wife...amen!

nawao...so many things are happening in this world.

commenting for the first time.

Please go for deliverance prayer with your wife, the type of prayer they pray in MFM. Any witchcraft power troubling you and your wife shall die, whosoever. People who bewitch others sacrifice things to make their power over you very potent, but i am yet to see the power greater than that of God.

Mountain of fire prayers delivered me from all such attacks, i lost a pregnancy and a child. eventually God put them all under my feet. Please i am not preaching church but God raised that man up for this kind of thing.

Any power calling your name and that of your wife for evil shall run mad. The heavens will open up and pour hot coals of fire on them. in their home they would begin to run even when no one is pursuing. Every coven where deliberations and wicked decisions are taken against you, the Lord will arise and send consuming decease upon them. They shall stumble in the day time as if they are in darkness......God is a man of war...please get relevant prayer points from MFM. I can see every thing turning around to your favor.

My dear brother, pls be very careful abt ur mother infact abt ur family members take ur wife far a way of them. And pls make sure u did nt give ur mother money I mean (cash) is very important never discuss issues that concern ur wife of any of ur family members. And be prayerfull.

Op, pls I need to know, has ur mum ever rejected any of ur relationship?


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