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Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 9:09am On Jun 25, 2016
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.


My question is does it really change down there after child birth?

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Nobody: 9:11am On Jun 25, 2016
stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?

google

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by thorpido(m): 9:26am On Jun 25, 2016
Going through C-section just to keep the vagina tight is unreasonable.C-section should be used only when vaginal birth is not possible or may lead to complications.
Having a C-section is a surgery and why would you opt for a surgery ahead of normal birth?C-section takes a longer time to heal and sometimes leaves lingering pain.
After vaginal birth,take time to heal and you can start what is known as Kegel exercises.You will have your vagina back in shape.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 9:42am On Jun 25, 2016
Drabeey:


google


I've been researching on this for a long time before I decided to create the topic.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by corisande: 9:52am On Jun 25, 2016
I wish a lot of people would share their experiences on this matter. lol. I'm following this thread
*chopping my garden eggs slowly*

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by olymurphy(f): 10:35am On Jun 25, 2016
I will advise u to go for vaginal birth.
I usually use kegel exercise and vaginal steaming to tighten myself after childbirth and this two helps women to orgasm wella too wink
You can Google about vaginal steaming.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by PresVA: 11:05am On Jun 25, 2016
stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?
Sorry ma, but your husband seems to love your pu $$y more than he loves you. ..


Odiegwu, going for a surgery just to keep the pus $y tight . .. He should go for pen! S enlargement if it's too loose for him... undecided

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by ElDeeVee(m): 11:44am On Jun 25, 2016
PresVA:
Sorry ma, but your husband seems to love your pu $$y more than he loves you. ..


Odiegwu, going for a surgery just to keep the pus $y tight . .. He should go for pen! S enlargement if it's too loose for him... undecided

Choi PresVA....take it easy na

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Jamean(f): 12:03pm On Jun 25, 2016
PresVA:
Sorry ma, but your husband seems to love your pu $$y more than he loves you. ..


Odiegwu, going for a surgery just to keep the pus $y tight . .. He should go for pen! S enlargement if it's too loose for him... undecided

My dear you talk am finish. Conditional love. Just for his own selfish interest. How is he sure he was even satisfying her sexually before, or the wife was just coping. lipsrsealed

This same man will not let her breath when he sees the scars and her stomach doesn't go back to normal after the c-section. Or is it not his name the children will bear. Smh!

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by PresVA: 12:17pm On Jun 25, 2016
ElDeeVee:

Choi PresVA....take it easy na
Lol grin grin angry
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by cococandy(f): 1:26pm On Jun 25, 2016
stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?
you'll bounce back in no time. C-section is a major surgery. Don't do it for flimsy reasons.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 2:25pm On Jun 25, 2016
PresVA:
Sorry ma, but your husband seems to love your pu $$y more than he loves you. ..


Odiegwu, going for a surgery just to keep the pus $y tight . .. He should go for pen! S enlargement if it's too loose for him... undecided

I'll prefer you shut your dirty mouth.
Didn't they teach you respect at home?

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by austine4real(m): 3:09pm On Jun 25, 2016
Reading comments through buhari's eyes glasses

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by SirVintageCock: 6:08pm On Jun 25, 2016
stylesco:


I'll prefer you shut your dirty mouth.
Didn't they teach you respect at home?
Look at this adulterated diethyl ether talking about respect.
Anyway,
Go ahead with the CS also with tummy tucks and liposuction to fasten your belly or better still after vagina! birth do a vaginoplasty to restore your loss virginity. Do a boob job too cause gravity is coming for ya.
Maintain the sex machine of that man cos that's all you are to him.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Abimbex007: 6:16pm On Jun 25, 2016
SirVintageCock:
Look at this adulterated diethyl ether talking about respect.
Anyway,
Go ahead with the CS also with tummy tucks and liposuction to fasten your belly or better still after vagina! birth do a vaginoplasty to restore your loss virginity. Do a boob job too cause gravity is coming for ya.
Maintain the sex machine of that man cos that's all you are to him.
God bless you.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Ishilove: 8:42pm On Jun 25, 2016
Some people sha. C-section because of loose punny.

Op go ahead and do the C-section. No one will tell you to open that puzzay wide and push your baby through when you have a second pregnancy.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:43pm On Jun 25, 2016
Ishilove:
Some people sha. C-section because of loose punny.

Op go ahead and do the C-section. No one will tell you to open that puzzay wide and push your baby through when you have a second pregnancy.


Lol this is funny.
Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Ishilove: 8:49pm On Jun 25, 2016
JeffreyJamez:



Lol this is funny.
Op's hubby doesn't want madam's down below to turn to puzeze (cc hungryboy grin), so he wants he to go under the knife. Imagine the selfishness. As if the discomfort of carrying another human being for 9months is not enough, she wants to add the pain of surgery and life scars to the mix. All because of what??






Tight puzzay! cheesy cheesy

Smh. And yet we have many women praying day and night not to have their babies via C-section.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:55pm On Jun 25, 2016
Ishilove:

Op's hubby doesn't want madam's down below to turn to puzeze (cc hungryboy grin), so he wants he to go under the knife. Imagine the selfishness. As if the discomfort of carrying another human being for 9months is not enough, she wants to add the pain of surgery and life scars to the mix. All because of what??






Tight puzzay! cheesy cheesy

Smh. And yet we have many women praying day and night not to have their babies via C-section.


The accountant in my office is one who prays day and night not to be cut open.... I believe the OP and her husband are just naive.. If only they know the complications surrounding C-section.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Alphaoscar: 9:20pm On Jun 25, 2016
Op's husband is the real devil in human form.



When every human being is praying against having to go through CS our oga is brainwashing his wife to go under the knife just to protect pussey


Iranu.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by bebe2(f): 10:29pm On Jun 25, 2016
stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?

My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by cococandy(f): 10:48pm On Jun 25, 2016
I had a vaginal birth and I didn't feel a thing.
I had epidural. In my opinion that's better than CS.
I was healed in a few weeks and never felt more like my old self. Probably better.

I mean if the pain is the reason, then CS isn't the way to go. She will still be in pains after surgery and need pain pills for weeks or even months.(from what I heard).
bebe2:


My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Jamean(f): 11:08pm On Jun 25, 2016
SirVintageCock:
Look at this adulterated diethyl ether talking about respect.
Anyway,
Go ahead with the CS also with tummy tucks and liposuction to fasten your belly or better still after vagina! birth do a vaginoplasty to restore your loss virginity. Do a boob job too cause gravity is coming for ya.
Maintain the sex machine of that man cos that's all you are to him.

Gbam!

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Jamean(f): 11:16pm On Jun 25, 2016
bebe2:


My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.


But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

Really! shocked

Weytin we no go hear. I don't think you've been around someone that had CS. The pain is terrible, you can't bend, can't sit upright, can't just eat anything, can't massage the stomach and even taking bath is worse because of the stitches.

Please don't come and mislead people o. For natural birth once baby is out the pain is greatly reduced, except you had a tear that was stitched.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by Momcherry(f): 11:54pm On Jun 25, 2016
Choi!
Nothing person no go hear (read) for this Nairaland

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by nnamdibig(m): 3:58am On Jun 26, 2016
God, this tread is already painful to read. Women they suffer oooo
all these for child birth. and the duty of a man is to just climb on top and pour akamu inside, then the woman carries another human for 9 months then delivers either naturally or through CS(both very painful). then another round of painful experience to tighten down there again to satisfy a man. And you hear some men say, I beat her because she provoked me...hmmmmmm.
shout out to all mothers and intending mothers abeg.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by nikenry(f): 4:23am On Jun 26, 2016
stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?
Madam, you are a big time learner ooo. You want to risk your life because of a man. @Presva dey talk truth, you dey vex. Love still dey catch you wella Abi? Hurry up, go for CS and come back in two years time to tell us if that has stopped him for cheating on you.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by elektra(f): 4:52am On Jun 26, 2016
bebe2:


My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

How do you know that? Were you there when the said celebrities were giving birth? Did they call you themselves to inform you of their painless CS? I don't understand why someone would make such a serious decision based on what they think celebrities are doing. Why don't you also get buy Ferraris, get sex change plastic surgery, and start doing drugs because celebrities are doing it.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by eyinjuege: 5:24am On Jun 26, 2016
bebe2:


My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

Most celebrities do not have cs in advanced countries. They have the option of good pain relief during labour.
They do have normal vaginal deliveries unless contraindicated. As with all surgeries, cs does have its own possible complications, even though it's done safely majority of the time.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 6:53am On Jun 26, 2016
bebe2:


My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.


Thank you.
People find every reason to say horrible things to people they don't even know.

I'm having the baby in the us and he feels it's safer too.

Isn't it easier to talk about the issue instead of insulting/judging someone's personality.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 6:57am On Jun 26, 2016
SirVintageCock:
Look at this adulterated diethyl ether talking about respect.
Anyway,
Go ahead with the CS also with tummy tucks and liposuction to fasten your belly or better still after vagina! birth do a vaginoplasty to restore your loss virginity. Do a boob job too cause gravity is coming for ya.
Maintain the sex machine of that man cos that's all you are to him.


Stop being a bitter person.
I'm not the reason for your misery.

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Re: Men: Sex Life After Vaginal Childbirth. by stylesco: 7:16am On Jun 26, 2016
I didn't ask you guys to analyse my marriage .
if you don't have anything to say as regards the topic just move along.

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