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It seems nowadays most people don't care about love anymore or they just want to get laid lol. I asked a few people and I got responses like 'Love is just an excuse to have sex' . . . or 'As long as she/he is attractive to me then I guess I love them'. . . From the religious bible thumpers they started lecturing me about how love is some bible thing or holy Union or whatever. lol. . . So what do you think? In today's society does love still exist? What do you think love is?

Fùck love..

Get laid and move on.

Laveda:
Fùck love..

Get laid and move on.

Fantastically said

Love is a myth. Don't take my word for it though. Ask Foolinlove.

PunkyV my dear, where are you?

Laveda:
Fùck love..

Get laid and move on.

As much as I'd like to, I'm quite the shy guy lol
18 yo and not had a girlfriend, been too busy making music, studying, watching anime or some shit. . . eventually missed out on learning how to approach a girl

AfroKnight:
Love is a myth. Don't take my word for it though. Ask Foolinlove.

PunkyV my dear, where are you?

I guess nobody does I'm disaapointed
Did bad experiences cause everyone to believe this or is this like general knowledge

AnonyNymous:
As much as I'd like to, I'm quite the shy guy lol
18 yo and not had a girlfriend, been too busy making music, studying, watching anime or some shit. . . eventually missed out on learning how to approach a girl

Not bad, women would come later, focus on the ones you feel have more importance..

AnonyNymous:
As much as I'd like to, I'm quite the shy guy lol
18 yo and not had a girlfriend, been too busy making music, studying, watching anime or some shit. . . eventually missed out on learning how to approach a girl

[color=#cc66ff]°No! Don't "get laid and move on" if you want love go and get it.

Your shy? Practice talking to women normally,friendly like gradually moving to something more.[/color]

AnonyNymous:
I guess nobody does I'm disaapointed
Did bad experiences cause everyone to believe this or is this like general knowledge

If it is not unconditional then it falls short. Yet the experience between romantically involved persons is very conditional. Fundamentally, as long as you look or act in certain ways, you are entitled to affection. How then can we say we love? Is it not a myth?

Laveda:
Fùck love..

Get laid and move on.

love at first fvck.

AfroKnight:
If it is not unconditional then it falls short. Yet the experience between romantically involved persons is very conditional. Fundamentally, as long as you look or act in certain ways, you are entitled to affection. How then can we say we love? Is it not a myth?

I guess. . .
But isn't it worth trying for still?
People who claim to be in lobe always seem very happy

Fuk love !!!!
Love fuk

AfroKnight:
Love is a myth. Don't take my word for it though. Ask Foolinlove.

PunkyV my dear, where are you?

So, you don't believe in love, Knight?

PunkyV:
So, you don't believe in love, Knight?

Are those tears? You crying? You? Strong woman Punky baby? Bride of Count Dracula? Don't tell me you believe in love.

I think "friendship" is a more believable concept. Love is just meh.

AnonyNymous:
I guess. . .
But isn't it worth trying for still?
People who claim to be in lobe always seem very happy

Hmmm. Being in love. Yes, it even feels like heaven at first, then the scales fall off and we see it for what it really is: a contract. Do this and earn my affection; do that and I'll walk away.

I think we would be more realistic in our expectations if we approached romantic partnership from the angle of friendship instead of that giddy, heady feeling of unexplainable affinity for one another. But again, where is the thrill without that risky ambience that leaves you vulnerable to your partner? My brother, let's just hope we don't fall for ladies who would turn us into philosophers. Karishikas are on the prowl.

AfroKnight:
Are those tears? You crying? You? Strong woman Punky baby? Bride of Count Dracula? Don't tell me you believe in love.

I think "friendship" is a more believable concept. Love is just meh.

I'm crying because I thought you were gonna be my knight in shining armour

Yes, cos I still love my ex and we're gettn back soon!

PunkyV:
I'm crying because I thought you were gonna be my knight in shining armour

well, it's not too late.

"...I can be your hero baby
I can kiss away the pain.."

Wish I could sing to you but I'm not particularly skilled in that area.

AfroKnight:
well, it's not too late.

"...I can be your hero baby
I can kiss away the pain.."

Wish I could sing to you but I'm not particularly skilled in that area.

LOL

AfroKnight:
Hmmm. Being in love. Yes, it even feels like heaven at first, then the scales fall off and we see it for what it really is: a contract. Do this and earn my affection; do that and I'll walk away.

I think we would be more realistic in our expectations if we approached romantic partnership from the angle of friendship instead of that giddy, heady feeling of unexplainable affinity for one another. But again, where is the thrill without that risky ambience that leaves you vulnerable to your partner? My brother, let's just hope we don't fall for ladies who would turn us into philosophers. Karishikas are on the prowl.

Haha thanks man! This really helped!

Generally, majority of women have a more refined feeling of love than men. My opinion though!
Some men experience love which is usually muddied with sexual feelings.
Many men cannot experience love. They only feel sexual attraction towards a girl, which they misconstrue as love.

I believe in love.

It's just really rare and often unrequited. Life is sad.

Having suffered two heart breaks, gotta say it worth the experience but I don't believe in love anymore.

foolinlove:
I believe in love.

It's just really rare and often unrequited. Life is sad.

AGREED. . . It always seems like one person 'loves' the other way more than they are loved in return