Ishilove:

Huh? I'm sorry o. I have so many mentions that I sometimes miss some

Ishilove:

Huh? I'm sorry o. I have so many mentions that I sometimes miss some

Sistem007:
The disadvantage of bringing ur family issues online. Now they have insulted ur husband and called him all sort of names and may have also instilled some degrading thoughts into ur head concerning ur husband and soon u guys will start having issues that may end up leading to divorce just co zoo this singular act of bringing this issue here. Why not just settle this with him personally.

Jamean:


Really!

Weytin we no go hear. I don't think you've been around someone that had CS. The pain is terrible, you can't bend, can't sit upright, can't just eat anything, can't massage the stomach and even taking bath is worse because of the stitches.

Please don't come and mislead people o. For natural birth once baby is out the pain is greatly reduced, except you had a tear that was stitched.

nikenry:

Madam, you are a big time learner ooo. You want to risk your life because of a man. @Presva dey talk truth, you dey vex. Love still dey catch you wella Abi? Hurry up, go for CS and come back in two years time to tell us if that has stopped him for cheating on you.

stylesco:


I'll prefer you shut your dirty mouth.
Didn't they teach you respect at home?

stylesco:



Stop being a bitter person.
I'm not the reason for your misery.

5minsmadness:


Aunty, there are a lot of bitter people on this section. Most of them are broken-hearted little girls and single mothers who have been dealt with by men, and the corresponding small boys who are desperate to get between their legs .
Most of them will find the slightest oppurtunity to attack men so as to score cheap points.The current situation of the country is not helping as most are frustrated with what is on ground.

Forgiv them pls and look through the mature advice a select few have given. Ignore the rest.
Cheers!

Chai, Nairaland Una go kill person with laugh, Lol @ the bold

5minsmadness:


Aunty, there are a lot of bitter people on this section. Most of them are broken-hearted little girls and single mothers who have been dealt with by men, and the corresponding small boys who are desperate to get between their legs .
Most of them will find the slightest oppurtunity to attack men so as to score cheap points.The current situation of the country is not helping as most are frustrated with what is on ground.

Forgiv them pls and look through the mature advice a select few have given. Ignore the rest.
Cheers!

Evacroft:

You should preferably shut urs,instead of coming on this thread wanting pple to address ur topic but u can't take a single damn good hit thrown at u. Y risk ur life unnecessarily for anybody.

thorpido:
You could decide to go ahead with the C-section but i must tell you,if it's just to keep the vagina tight, it's not worth the trouble.
It's safer to have the baby in the US but it doesn't change the effect it has on the body.
Bodies will change over time inevitably.You are going to breast.feed and boobs will not remain the same.
It really doesn't stop a man who wants to cheat.

crackhaus:

But isn't that just it?

She alone is the one that gets to decide if it's worth the trouble of doing as her husband wishes.
Not like I'm holding brief for the man as I believe it isn't his place to 'force' it (mutual agreement supercedes here), but trying to discourage her on the 'worthiness'[/i]or [i]'her husband's presumed cheating tendencies' is kind of besides the point.

Do women get stretched after childbirth? YES!
Is it something some men or even women will be worried about? YES!
After childbirth, does it return back to normal? YES for some, NO for some!

That some women are here bragging and boasting about how they went back to normal down there is not gospel. After all, no one here is holding a microscope to their vaginas to confirm of it's really true - Only their husbands can tell if it feels different and 90% of the time, a sensible and understanding man will not even mention it to his woman. FACT!

So what exactly is the fuss here?

thorpido:
She or her husband get to decide if it's worth it,that's true.
'We' also from experience can advise if some things are worth it or not.

crackhaus:

Bros you no lie at all.

I don't understand the group-organized attack on the OP and what her husband is asking of her when she herself is considering it.
They all keep saying the man will still cheat.

Lmao..

I guess it proves there's a significant proportion of married ladies here who may have had to deal with cheating husbands. Lol...
Beats my imagination mehn.

Bro, you no lie at all at all..

thorpido:
She or her husband get to decide if it's worth it,that's true.
'We' also from experience can advise if some things are worth it or not,afteral she asked the men in the house what our experiences are.

5minsmadness:


As in, I had to chec the title of the topic again
How does the op's post and question translate to the husband cheating? Someone even called the husband 'the real demon' A soon to be father o! See insults over simple question!

5minsmadness:

Oga thorpido, what was your own experience?

thorpido:
Same same.You don't expect the body to remain the same over the years though but post pregnancy made no significant difference.

Abimbex007:
God bless you.

jadelyn007:
What people would do for love.
You have to weigh the pros and cons of your own health first.
Also CS leaves really ugly looking scars.
So would you chose a scarred body over a slightly lose vagina? I'll chose the later anytime, any day.

udoka2:


It doesn't leave ugly scar dearie; some like mine you will hardly see where the incision was made. I did one on the 15th of this month....if I take off my clothes you won't notice it.
Some of the reasons some preggers mamas Labour to death ....misconceptions about cs.

jadelyn007:
What people would do for love.
You have to weigh the pros and cons of your own health first.
Also CS leaves really ugly looking scars.
[s]So would you chose a scarred body over a slightly lose vagina?[/s] I'll chose the later anytime, any day.

Ishilove:

Op's hubby doesn't want madam's down below to turn to puzeze (cc hungryboy ), so he wants he to go under the knife. Imagine the selfishness. As if the discomfort of carrying another human being for 9months is not enough, she wants to add the pain of surgery and life scars to the mix. All because of what??
what's tight puzzay please





Tight puzzay!

Smh. And yet we have many women praying day and night not to have their babies via C-section.

5minsmadness:


As in, I had to chec the title of the topic again
How does the op's post and question translate to the husband cheating? Someone even called the husband 'the real demon' A soon to be father o! See insults over simple question!

5minsmadness:


No it doesn't.
We do pfannesteil incisions as a routine in Nigeria, talkless of the U.S. You can actually wear a bikini to the beach when we are done and no one would notice a thing.

Jamean:


Really!

Weytin we no go hear. I don't think you've been around someone that had CS. The pain is terrible, you can't bend, can't sit upright, can't just eat anything, can't massage the stomach and even taking bath is worse because of the stitches.

Please don't come and mislead people o. For natural birth once baby is out the pain is greatly reduced, except you had a tear that was stitched.

olymurphy:
I will advise u to go for vaginal birth.
I usually use kegel exercise and vaginal steaming to tighten myself after childbirth and this two helps women to orgasm wella too
You can Google about vaginal steaming.

crackhaus:

But isn't that just it?

She alone is the one that gets to decide if it's worth the trouble of doing as her husband wishes.
Not like I'm holding brief for the man as I believe it isn't his place to 'force' it (mutual agreement supercedes here), but trying to discourage her on the 'worthiness' or 'her husband's presumed cheating tendencies' is kind of besides the point.

Do women get stretched after childbirth? YES!
Is it something some men or even women will be worried about? YES!
After childbirth, does it return back to normal? YES for some, NO for some!

That some women are here bragging and boasting about how they went back to normal down there is not gospel. After all, no one here is holding a microscope to their vaginas to confirm of it's really true - Only their husbands can tell if it feels different and 90% of the time, a sensible and understanding man will not even mention it to his woman. FACT!