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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Jexbabs: 1:18am On Jul 01, 2016
Telling dad or mum is the right thing but what evidence do you have?

You know dads and mums na!... The story might just be unbeleiveable to them considering the state(place) and state(status) you found her.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by 9ja4show: 1:22am On Jul 01, 2016
cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

Go n sit down , see how you are openly defending cheating ; you should be ashamed of yourself

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by histemple: 1:49am On Jul 01, 2016
Mindfulness:
The receptionist should be fired for not respecting the guest's privacy.

If I were you, I would mind my own business since you are not close to your uncle.
If it was an uncle who is close to me, I would confront the lady on the spot and tell her that she has a week to go to confession or else I will.

Most Nigerian businesses don't consider the quality of their employees and they don't train them either. And they fail to understand is that the action/inaction of an untrained employee is capable of closing down a company.

How can a receptionist be telling you things about a guest? And he/was even revealing what wasn't asked.

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by yakubumohammed81(m): 2:36am On Jul 01, 2016
sanyahkod:
I once saw my friend's mum whom I know to have a loyal husband with another man in a hotel.



It's 12 years now and I didn't tell a soul. I don't want to be the cause of a broken home.


It's not everything the eyes sees that the mouth says.


It's such a cruel world we live in.
but bros you just told the world na...
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by arnold123: 2:51am On Jul 01, 2016
Tell her mother and then tell ur uncle cos she can deny,u need to talk cos when she gets STD she will infect him too and he will die more than the way a fly does
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ceejay4real(m): 3:00am On Jul 01, 2016
cococandy:
grin

Na that time he will remember to preserve their marriage and not be a home wrecker.

Madam, do you cheat on your husband? Cos u really sound like you do!

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by christboytins(m): 3:02am On Jul 01, 2016
Man keep it to yourself

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Uprightson2000: 3:07am On Jul 01, 2016
What do you plan to do next enlighten us please thanks
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ceejay4real(m): 3:07am On Jul 01, 2016
cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

It's either u are a serial cheater or a fvking feminist! Whichever, just remember that we are Africans whether you stay in the UK, USA or wherever and that a woman must not cheat in marriage on whatever grounds. It's not as if men are encouraged to cheat but there's isn't STIGMATIZED. So get that in2 ur skull madam. Stop encouraging cheating by women unless you are involved in the dastardly act urself. Shalom!
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Askmewhy(m): 3:08am On Jul 01, 2016
cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.
What exactly is your point?

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Wonder007: 3:28am On Jul 01, 2016
It"s better you tell your parent, then they will decide what best to do(preferably your dad) breaking of the marriage is far better than one of them ending dead . A cheating wife will mostly likely kill the husband one way or the other. So you wont blame yourself if the woman kills her husband.
if something happens later and you mention it to your parent, they wont be happy with you at all .
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by deltateam: 3:55am On Jul 01, 2016
Op you are in the guest house to see the manager abi? Okay I believe you!

So you must believe when I tell you that your uncle's wife is there for prayers!

Better mind your business! What God has joined together let no man put asunder.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by dickoflife(m): 3:56am On Jul 01, 2016
How is what you saw your business? Firstly are you sure your mind isn't playing tricks on you? Second are you sure your uncle isn't on top of another woman? Lastly, please mind your businits not your life and people like you have been killed for far less.
Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Nobody: 4:03am On Jul 01, 2016
Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Mind your bizwhacks.

If it's my wife, please don't tell me.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by DIKEnaWAR: 4:11am On Jul 01, 2016
HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha


That family is already destroyed. She could go and get HIV and infect her husband which will destroy his life and dreams. She could conspire with her lover and kill the man, so they can have unrestrained access to the thing. The best is for the husband to walk out of the marriage alive and intact.

Isn't it funny that you women who preach to other women to leave abusive relationships with their lives are the ones refraining from saving a man who has been totally abused in his own marriage(cheating is the worst crime in a marriage) because you don't want to' destroy' the marriage. Where is the marriage in this instance?
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by smileysmiley(f): 4:12am On Jul 01, 2016
babysophie:
U should v shouted n booed her ryt dre so pipul wil gather,beat d hell out of her before snapping n videoing it for d internet.
you seriously don't believe what you typed, right your thinking is quite shallow o... beat and boo her for what? did she kill anybody? and then you had to end it with snapping and videoing for the internet... Nigerians are truly barbarians, what happened to minding your own business.... that is how a man was killed for stealing a generator early yesterday morning and he was tied to it and his dead body was being ridiculed with different camera snapping for the Internet... see people hailing his murderers like they were some kind of heroes.... why should such barbaric step be taken? sweetheart have you never cheated on your lover before? should such be done to you if you were caught? stop the barbaric thought before it eats too deep into you.... say no to jungle justice
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Thobiy(m): 4:17am On Jul 01, 2016
sanyahkod:
I once saw my friend's mum whom I know to have a loyal husband with another man in a hotel.



It's 12 years now and I didn't tell a soul. I don't want to be the cause of a broken home.It's not everything the eyes sees that the mouth says. It's such a cruel world we live in.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by peggycious(f): 4:19am On Jul 01, 2016
What if after telling your uncle and the issue got settled between the wife and your uncle, do you know you can never be free in their house or be free with the woman, you ll be scared she dosn't arm you.want you to know that the bound between them might be string, if you think your uncle wont tell her who told him then you must be deceiving yourself.cos one day he ll say it.also you might need your uncle''s help in the nearest future, the wife ll be the one to block you.what I ll say is why not call her and talk to her to stop it, let her know the consequence.Also pray for her.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Thobiy(m): 4:20am On Jul 01, 2016
Things are really happning in this world It such a cruel world
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ummeey: 4:41am On Jul 01, 2016
If it was your uncle you saw with another woman, you won't be telling us.

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Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ummeey: 4:46am On Jul 01, 2016
Mindfulness:
The receptionist should be fired for not respecting the guest's privacy.

If I were you, I would mind my own business since you are not close to your uncle.
If it was an uncle who is close to me, I would confront the lady on the spot and tell her that she has a week to go to confession or else I will.
In Nigeria? Amebo everywhere.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by youngest85(m): 4:46am On Jul 01, 2016
cococandy:
grin

Na that time he will remember to preserve their marriage and not be a home wrecker.


If marriage wan wreck make e wreck na! Titanic no strong pass am?
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ummeey: 4:47am On Jul 01, 2016
Op if I hear peem, hmmm
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by diva90: 4:52am On Jul 01, 2016
DIKEnaWAR:



That family is already destroyed. She could go and get HIV and infect her husband which will destroy his life and dreams. She could conspire with her lover and kill the man, so they can have unrestrained access to the thing. The best is for the husband to walk out of the marriage alive and intact.

Isn't it funny that you women who preach to other women to leave abusive relationships with their lives are the ones refraining from saving a man who has been totally abused in his own marriage(cheating is the worst crime in a marriage) because you don't want to' destroy' the marriage. Where is the marriage in this instance?

But what of if the husband is a chronic cheat too?
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ummeey: 4:52am On Jul 01, 2016
youngest85:


If marriage wan wreck make e wreck na! Titanic no strong pass am?
Abi oo
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by youngest85(m): 4:55am On Jul 01, 2016
ummeey:
Abi oo
How is d fasting going?
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by ummeey: 4:57am On Jul 01, 2016
youngest85:


How is d fasting going?
Alhamdulillah thanks
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Nobody: 5:00am On Jul 01, 2016
Einl:
Chaiii!!! Nigerians and hypocrisy!! If it were your Uncle cheating on his wife, you wouldn't have given a second. If a man cheats on his wife it's her fault. If a woman cheats in her husband it's her fault.


My dear, I dnt make decisions when I'm angry, so this is exactly what I ll do if it was I uncle I saw with another woman
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by youngest85(m): 5:00am On Jul 01, 2016
ummeey:
Alhamdulillah thanks


Uwlcm.....cheers
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by sirkezman: 5:01am On Jul 01, 2016
are you close to the woman? maybe you should talk to her.

Keeping mute is dangerous
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by defash8: 5:02am On Jul 01, 2016
I will greet the wife on the spot after taking the pictures & even ask for my uncle, if they have children I will ask how they are doing.
That will stop her wakawaka with the cheater man.
Re: I Just Saw My Uncle's Wife In A Guest House by Shirleytemple(f): 5:06am On Jul 01, 2016
sanyahkod:


Bros...this one no be matter of woman wrapper.


I no dey there when they build their r/ship to become husband and wife, na me go come destroy am with my mouth? Besides, I was still very young then.
Lol

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