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A female shared it and I decided to share here..
I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are
blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last
boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting
my hubby’s attention over the years has been very
difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’
basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew
that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from
worse to worst.
I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and
she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was
working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to
end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new
accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body
parts as the display/profile picture, especially on
facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request
to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in
accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I
still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I
went back to being the way I used to be with him that
made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and
he keeps falling more and more.

you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to
him every morning and if you see how excited he gets.
Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The
relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In
that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me.
He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I
try that…the relationship will be over.
Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned
but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now
locks his phone, as if…

I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a
husband. What do you think?
Should I continue or should I stop?

Source : https://relationshipklinic./2015/06/24/must-read-18-my-husband-is-my-boyfriend-on-facebook-whatsapp-bbm-and-he-does-not-know-it/

So what exactly did you achieve with this trickery?

He still is not sleeping with you.

The time you are using to pull this stunt, is a time you could have used to have a one to one talk with him.

HungerBAD:
what?

yea

This woman is digging a grave for her marriage cos at the end, I don't see this turning out well for the marriage, it may even be what will eventually break up the marriage

Wow..women been scamming men since 12b.c.Ok now, apart from the money he sends to you as his online girlfriend, what else are you benefiting from it?no physical contact so where's the fun?what's your end game?smh..I dn't get,how long do you plan to keep this up sef?

From where I stand,all I see is you pushing him to another woman,il advice you to be as kinky with him offline same way you do online,gradually do exactly what you do with him on Facebook in the real world too,good luck tho

jamolonblog:
I
went back to being the way I used to be with him that
made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and
he keeps falling more and more.

Your friend came up with this and you think its a wise thing to do.

And you knew that going back to being the way you used to be that made him fall in love with you would work and instead of doing it at home, you went online.
I think you are the problem with your marriage.

how does it concerns nairalanders?

in DJ khaled voice

You smart

Use ur head... I mean ur brain not ur weavon .

Try a better nollywood script.

Who be the mumu who will send money to some one without seeing the face even if it is fake picture.

Secondly he sent money to an account without a name ?

Aunty calm down na

na wa for that lady oh, she will be the one to suffer at the end.

I don't understand, is she happy that her husbando is a complete ret.ard or what?
How is it that your man cannot identify your puzzy after 1month of dating?
Does she have two pu.ssi.es or does the hubby develop partial amnesia after they both fvck.

I feel for you my dear, really. I don't know why some marriages later become sour over lack of emotional needs. You just have to pray fervently and hope in God for a miracle.

Toor, just here to read comments jare

Mama you mumu eeeh

Woman. It's this very thing you're doing that is making your marriage get worse.

The simple fact is he is getting the excitement he used to get from you from what is supposedly someone else.

You should bring back the spark to yourself at home. Let the attraction come back.

I'm not saying be naked all the time at home.. Cover up some, yes? But only enough to get him excites about uncovering what's hidden.

Don't tell him about the social,media relationship... Quit that ASAP.

How many times will you guys post this same story?

SAINTSAMURAII:
how does it concerns nairalanders?

Happy new month dearie

ladyF:
Happy new month dearie

thanks my lady f. good evening.

Both of her capable cheating.