kamel4real2015:
ok am not a masquerade you are the one still doing like one dont no why, ok let chat then if you are not one of those ojuju calabar masquerade.

abeg am not ooo

annnikky:

abeg am not ooo

you are one of them just visiting nl right so how can we talk apart from this forum.

annnikky:

abeg am not ooo

hopefully you havent elope again so answer me madam ojuju.

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U guys r needed here...

kamel4real2015:
hopefully you havent elope again so answer me madam ojuju.

Nope am still here..

annnikky:
naturalwaves, amicable24, femi4, kobonaire, AgricSalt, mikaelzX, HyDef, saintneo, Davbams, KINGinVAHALA2, AgricSalt, Tuham, Cherishing, repogirl, enoch273, naijamakossa, 3rdlegxxx, greatness22....

U guys r needed here...

you are funny calling peep because i want to chat with you that sucks.

annnikky:

Nope am still here..

yeah but you have not answer me just twisting and turning me around.so answer then.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a husband helping with house chores.
The problem is that, in this country, we see wives more as privileged employees. It's wrong.

Bathing a child, is it not OUR child, why should I leave bathing my child to the mother?

Cooking, well, if it's a man that can cook, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And if you can't cook, at least help her cut onions or something.

Washing dishes. She cooked, you ate, and you can't even offer?

I'm not trying to spark a revolution here. Not saying you should do these everyday. But don't take a wife to be some form of High Class slave who does what you want.

Yes I can do all that and more with a sense of love and care, not with a sense of duty.

If my wife start seeing it as a duty for me and stop appreciating it, I may stop too.

Why not?

What's d big deal?

annnikky:
Hi guys this question has bothering me for a while now so I decided to throw d Q here.

Is it alright for d husband to help out in doing d houz chores like bathing d baby, cooking, washing d dishes etc?

It is possible especially when there is understanding in the marriage; however, your question refers to being right or wrong, to which I am not sure myself.

Let's assume the woman is not around or dead, won't the husband do the same chores anyway?

Nevertheless, women tend to expect too much; when a man helps out, a woman should not take advantage of it.

saintneo:


It is possible especially when there is understanding in the marriage; however, your question refers to being right or wrong, to which I am not sure myself.

Let's assume the woman is not around or dead, won't the husband do the same chores anyway?

Nevertheless, women tend to expect too much; when a man helps out, a woman should not take advantage of it.

Tnx for d@

chigoizie7:
Why not?

What's d big deal?

Tnx Gozie

AgricSalt:
Yes I can do all that and more with a sense of love and care, not with a sense of duty.

If my wife start seeing it as a duty for me and stop appreciating it, I may stop too.

Wow! I like d@ tnx dude

kamel4real2015:
you are funny calling peep because i want to chat with you that sucks.

HHaaa.. Y will u say d@ na

kamel4real2015:
yeah but you have not answer me just twisting and turning me around.so answer then.

Guy this is a public forum n u dnt expect me to chatting to u here

HyDef:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with a husband helping with house chores.
The problem is that, in this country, we see wives more as privileged employees. It's wrong.

Bathing a child, is it not OUR child, why should I leave bathing my child to the mother?

Cooking, well, if it's a man that can cook, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And if you can't cook, at least help her cut onions or something.

Washing dishes. She cooked, you ate, and you can't even offer?

I'm not trying to spark a revolution here. Not saying you should do these everyday. But don't take a wife to be some form of High Class slave who does what you want.

Gud point u've there n that also will strengthen d "LOVE " more n more

annnikky:

Guy this is a public forum n u dnt expect me to chatting to u here

so i knew ok where can i chat with you madam am a man, guy is for a kid.

kamel4real2015:
so i knew ok where can i chat with you madam am a man, guy is for a kid.

Hhahahahahha.. Ok sir point taken

annnikky:

HHaaa.. Y will u say d@ na

Because there is no big deal in chatting with you atleast you are not a kid of yesterday why creating unnecessary scene they cant help you out see none respond to your plea . So no where to run too again .

annnikky:
Hi guys this question has bothering me for a while now so I decided to throw d Q here.

Is it alright for d husband to help out in doing d houz chores like bathing d baby, cooking, washing d dishes etc?

there's absolutely nothing wrong for a man to do house chores but not every man is the same. Don't expect that because one does it, the other should. Due to ones upbringing and some other factors, people are wired differently.

It's just best to know and understand the kind of man he is and work with it.

annnikky:

Hhahahahahha.. Ok sir point taken

yes ma thank God it is taken but why is it difficult to talk with you outside nairaland if i may ask.

annnikky:

Tnx Gozie

Sharp

chigoizie7:



Sharp

Ok

kamel4real2015:
yes ma thank God it is taken but why is it difficult to talk with you outside nairaland if i may ask.

I dunno y besides d peeps u said I called, I called them to come n air their view on d topic on ground so is not wat u're thinking

annnikky:

I dunno y besides d peeps u said I called, I called them to come n air their view on d topic on ground so is not wat u're thinking

tell me what you are thinking

kamel4real2015:
tell me what you are thinking

Hw r u doing n hw was ur day?

annnikky:

Hw r u doing n hw was ur day?

my day is going on well and what about yours hopefully we are going to settle our matter today, just want to know you off NL is that too much to ask .

I will ONLY do it if the chores are too much for her..

greatness22:
I will ONLY do it if the chores are too much for her..

Hmmmm... Ok

annnikky:

Hmmmm... Ok

You're back?

greatness22:
You're back?

Is it from d banning?