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Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Reason2love(op):
I meet my wife immediately after Easter 2012, I am very ok. I mean financially ok at least I worth over N15 million as at then with also a promising business. I was 29 years and she was 19years then. One night she called me around after 11 pm, When I picked my her call I couldn't hear her clearly I only had pls come our house b4 I die.

Since we are living very close. I decided to go, when I got to their house I saw her bags out side with her parents. I walked down to meet his dad, I ask him what happened? He advised me to go with her to my place since is just two minutes to where I stay. Still I met her mum she told me that if she stays in this house I will pour her fuel and burn her.

I was cold when I had that words from her mother,i left with no other option than to save a life. I took her to my house she cried all through. it was around 3 am she told me she beat her younger sister her mother inter vain .she started telling me how her mother is maltreating her since was born sometimes she will wonder if throughly she is her Real mother. How she stopped her from SS2 and how she lost her virginity to a man that helped her pay her SS2 third term school fees when she taught she should at least have SSCE certificate. When she drop from school she started selling food for her mother in her canteen, everyday b4 they close her mother will thoroughly search her and will never give her N1000 for her up keep, she don't even buy her clothes on Christmas since she was 16 years and her Dad was a bus driver that hardly bring food home talk less of giving you money. After listen to her I became more interested, I gave her house key that night.

The following day I met his father at mechanic .Pls Help me talk to our wife. He told me that his wife is very angry now that is only one Of her daughter she can listen to.He gave her daughter contact details.

In the evening I went to their house with my landlord, we met her mother she angrily told us if it is because of her daughter we should go back, if I she see's her in this house I will pour fuel and burn her we have no option than to go.i took me a week after discussing with her daughter I collected her contact from his father to settle the matter.

Immediately the matter is settled I went to her parents that I want her and to learn stylist as she told me that's what she want now. At first her mother refused I told her that I want to marry her daughter since she don't have certificate she most have handwork b4 she come my house b4 they accepted my idea which I told them I will pay the bills.

II trained her stylist and computer school b4 we get married December 2014. Her mother told me that if I did not give her marriage right here in Lagos she is not going anywhere, I gave N63,350 cash according to the list she gave me with N20,000 transport to Imo state and N20,000 she said she will use to cook food for us. The marriage rights cost me N429,350 exclude traditional marriage .

Immediately we can back on January my wife became tiger chasing everybody that come around me include my own family.last December we travelled home her character made all my kindred to hate her. March this year I bought her android phone and install software that can record all calls which I only transfer all the calls she made and received while at work around 1am every morning,With immediate deleting she never knew I was monitoring her till march ending I cut her with her mother while she confessed to her mother that she went to native doctor to collect charm and sub stance she is putting in my food. Her mother told her that your husband is rich he has two building here in Lagos, one in Aba ,duplex in his village and landed properties with this charm he can buy dad a new bus, build house for us. After listening to them I sent her out on April with 7months pregnancy. Though I still give her N7000 feeding weekly and also pay her bills.I travelled to Enugu my village and do introduction to another 19 years old lady. She gave birth to baby boy on June and she is coming to beg me.even after I played the call to our pastor he was short of words he only told me to trade with cushion and told my wife to go my village and plead guilty to my people so that we settle everything.

Her mother advised her for settlement,she came my village and was demanding settlement before I play that call she left the village with shame. Am kind of confused should i bring her back and marry two wives while am just 33 years or still maintain I didn't want her again . but I don't love her again neither do I trusty her.

I am a successful businessmen don't criticize my English. Please advise,don't insult.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody:
Reading....
Your post in summary is, you married her our of pity and divorced her while still pregnant for you.
You then hurriedly married another 19 year old. Damn!

She wants back but there's no room for her and i bet you don't want to find yourself in a polygamous situation if you want to live long.
My advice, just fix her up on her trade and take responsibilities for the child. Also make sure you are part and parcel of the child's life while growing up.
Then let her go find another to settle down with.

That should fix your problem, just count your loss and move on.

#My2cents
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by WetSmoke: 7:34pm On Jul 08, 2016
wow shocked what if those charms kill you mistakenly huh
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
hmmmmmmmmmMmmmmmmmmmMmm
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by SeverusSnape(m): 7:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
You said you don't love nor trust her again, Then don't take her back. She's a heartless ingrate, After all you did for her, She still had the intention to charm and hypnotise you??... That's the height of it. You're a good man, At least you still send her feeding money and takes care of some of her bills.

When she gives birth, Let her take care of the baby for some time after that, Take your child, She can come see him/her anytime she pleases
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jul 08, 2016
La English la dead.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Reason2love(op): 7:42pm On Jul 08, 2016
That's my fear
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Cadamlk: 7:42pm On Jul 08, 2016
OP ,from what i have read here the woman in question is dangrous
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by osesology(m): 7:43pm On Jul 08, 2016
Pheeew! l finally finished reading it. Ok, l am going to try and ignore all those grammatical chaos and tell you what l think...







I think you should forget about her and stick to your new wife, cos that woman is no good. Someone that had the mind to charm you will also have the mind to kill you some day. So, if you love your life, kindly let her go, take care of your child as much as neccessary, and if possible, take the child from her legally...that woman needs help, seriously.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by SeverusSnape(m): 7:43pm On Jul 08, 2016
Hipsofagoddess:
La English la dead.
Yes, His diction is bad. But you got the message, did you not?... Now give him an advice.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by blessedvisky(m): 7:47pm On Jul 08, 2016
Hmmmm. It's like you have your own charm for 19 year olds angry
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2016
Touching story, for we who managed to read through without having headache. Buh wait ooo, you divorce a lady who is 7months pregnant for you and you want us to clap for you? How heartless can men be? The jazz that she didn't use to kill you uptill her 7th month surely wouldn't have killed you for the remaining two months of her pregnancy.
Then you went back to marry another 19yr old, my brother do you have pedophilia or you just like young punnas
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by firstking01(m): 7:49pm On Jul 08, 2016
if you bring her back, you are certifically foolishundecided
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by AngelAhnie(f): 7:50pm On Jul 08, 2016
Reading cool
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by realdee44(f): 7:50pm On Jul 08, 2016
Obviously you like 19 years old girls.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jul 08, 2016
@29 you already have 15m in your account.

Op!, pls how did you do it?, that's all i'm interested in.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by makydebbie(f): 7:52pm On Jul 08, 2016
suzan404:
hmmmmmmmmmMmmmmmmmmmMmm
this my friend wey no like to advice person op...my advice
cool...abeg let the girl stay where she is..someone that can put charm in your food can kill you for your properties oooshockedshocked..and having to women at home with children can give to heartattack since you mentioned the first one is wild to avoid all this let the first one be far from you but pls still take care of your blood i mean you child..my two cents8)
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Reason2love(op): 7:57pm On Jul 08, 2016
She collected the charm on Tuesday and I didn't eat her food that night because we had misunderstanding. And I find out the following day Wednesday at work.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 08, 2016
SeverusSnape:
Yes, His diction is bad. But you got the message, did you not?... Now give him an advice.
I'm sorry I didn't.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by AngelAhnie(f):
Reason2love:
I meet my wife immediately after Easter 2012, before I we met I am very ok. I mean financially ok at least I worth over N15 million as at then with also a promising business. I was 29 years and she was 19years then. One night she called me around after 11 pm, When I picked my call I couldn't hear her clearly I only had pls come our house b4 I'm dead.

Since we are living very close. I decided to go, when I got to their house I saw her bags out side with her parents. I walked down to meet his dad, to ask him what happened. He advised me to go with her to my place since is just two minutes to where I stay. Still I met her mum she told that if she stays in this house I will pour her fuel and burn her.

I was cold when I had that words from her mother,i left with no other option than to save a life. I took her to my house she cried all through. it was around 3 am she told me she beat her younger sister her mother inter vain .she started telling me how her mother is maltreating her since was born sometimes she will wonder if throughly she is her Real mother. How she stopped her from SS2 and how she lost her virginity to a man that helped to pay her SS2 third term school fees when she taught she should at least have SSCE. When she drop from school she started selling food for mother in her canteen, everyday b4 they close her mother will thoroughly search her and will never give her N1000 for her up keep, nor buy her clothes even on Christmas since she was 16 years and her Dad was a bus driver that hardly bring food home talk less of giving you money. After listen to her I became more interested, I gave her house key that night.

The following day I met his father at mechanic that I will like her daughter to come back in the evening. Pls Help me talk to our wife. He told me that his wife is very angry now that is only one Of her daughter she can listen to.He gave her daughter contact details.

In the evening I went to their house with my landlord we met her mother she angrily told us if it is because of her daughter we forget it, if I she see's her in this house I will pour fuel and burn her we have no option than to go.i took me a week after discussing with her daughter I collected her contact from his father to settle the matter.

Immediately the matter is settled I went to the parents that I want her to go and learn stylist as she told me that's what she want now. At first her mother refused I told her that I want to marry her daughter since she don't have certificate she most have handwork b4 she come my house b4 they accepted my idea which I told them I will pay the bills.

I trained her stylist and computer school b4 we get married December 2014. Her mother told me that if I did not do her marriage right here in Lagos she is not going anywhere, I gave N63,350 cash according to the list she gave me with N20,000 transport to Imo state and N20,000 she said she will use to cook food for us. The marriage rights cost me N429,350 exclude traditional marriage .

Immediately we can back my wife became tiger chasing everybody that come around me include my own family.last December we travelled home her character made all my kindred to hate her. March this year I bought her android phone and install software that can record all calls which I only transfer all the calls she made and received while at work around 1am every night. With immediate deleting she never knew I was monitoring her till march ending I cut her with her mother while she confessed to her mother that she went to native doctor to collect charm and sub stance she is putting in my food. Her mother told her that your husband is rich he has two building here in Lagos, one in Aba ,duplex in his village and landed properties with this charm he can buy dad a new bus, build house for us. After listening to them I sent her out on April with 7months pregnancy. Though I still give her N7000 feeding weekly and also pay her bills.I travelled Enugu my village and do introduction to another 19 years old lady. She gave birth to baby boy and she is coming to beg me.even after I played the call to our pastor he was short of words he only told me to trade with cushion and told my wife to go my village and plead guilty to my people so that we settle everything.

Her mother told her to tell me to settle her,she came my village and was demanding settlement before I play that call she left the village with shame. Am kind of confused should i bring her back and marry two wives while am just 33 years or still maintain I didn't want her again . but I don't love her again neither do I trusty her. Please advise don't insult.
Na this waka waka SeveruSnape bring me herecheesy


Headachegrin
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by adonismuller(m): 7:59pm On Jul 08, 2016
Please retype in pigin English...

Thanks for understanding..
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by adonismuller(m): 7:59pm On Jul 08, 2016
Please retype in pigin English...

Thanks for understanding..
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jul 08, 2016
makydebbie:
this my friend wey no like to advice person op...my advice
cool...abeg let the girl stay where she is..someone that can put charm in your food can kill you for your properties oooshockedshocked..and having to women at home with children can give to heartattack since you mentioned the first one is wild to avoid all this let the first one be far from you but pls still take care of your blood i mean you child..my two cents8)
lmao......u don say everything nah
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by makydebbie(f): 8:29pm On Jul 08, 2016
suzan404:
lmao......u don say everything nah
abi na...ow fa..i don miss Juhan no be smallcry
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by chelseabmw(m): 8:30pm On Jul 08, 2016
cry
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by ireneony(f): 8:31pm On Jul 08, 2016
Hmmm
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jul 08, 2016
makydebbie:
abi na...ow fa..i don miss Juhan no be smallcry
awwww,sorry dearie grin,juhan baby,your twinnie is missing you ooo....she go come now,,hmmmm where is my bobo and cheeseballs??
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by SeverusSnape(m): 9:55pm On Jul 08, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Na this waka waka SeveruSnape bring herecheesy


Headachegrin
grin grin

You still didn't get the spelling well. tongue
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by Holywizard: 10:18pm On Jul 08, 2016
Jesus...

I dnt knw wot to say.

God is ur strenght. Dnt marry her again bt make sure u take care of her well.


Oga it seems u luv small fresh girls wit oil
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by placeofallure(f): 10:55pm On Jul 08, 2016
The girl obviously is a true born of her mother. A Yoruba adage says: You can marry a bad wife, but you cannot dare to have a bad in-law. I'm telling you what I will tell my brother. Fetish women are evil, living with them is like dinning with the devil himself. Thank God you detected on time. Keep her and her family as far away as possible. This however does not mean you should ignore your baby. You should be responsible for his upkeep. Aside that, run for your dear life.


Meanwhile, if you claim to be so rich, you should add some touch of finesse to it don't you think? I mean improve on your spoken and written English. I can help if you don't mind.
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by AngelAhnie(f): 11:06pm On Jul 08, 2016
SeverusSnape:
grin grin
You still didn't get the spelling well. tongue
Noted, double sS
Re: Why I Divorced My Wife With 7months Pregnancy by olarhtunji(m): 11:17pm On Jul 08, 2016
The Last English bender

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