Hello nairalanders,

I will need to make this brief and sorry I created a new monicker, I need to remain anonymous. Please I need your help . I am married with two beautiful kids. I have a great job and provide so much for my family. I spend two weeks with my family every month and the remaining half at work. I spend time with my family for the two weeks and treat my wife so well. I recently noticed a change in her attitude . I try to touch her and she refuses and tells me she is tired. I noticed she spends time more on the phone( whatsapp ) . Whenever I try to call her when am away, she doesn't pick up the call and when she does, she tells me she was busy and didn't see my calls. When I came back from work , I tried to kiss her and touch and she refused and said she is tired. I allowed her to fall asleep and I picked up her phone and couldn't access the phone due to he fact it has a security code . I sat and thought of what to do. I called her in the morning and told her I wanted to change her phone to a better one. I took her out that morning and go her an iPhone 6s . When we got home, I immediately inserted my thumb print as to enable me get access to her phone. We where having dinner and I took her phone and told her to get me her password but she refused( I had to ask so she would feel I can't have access to her phone ) I helped her install her whatsapp and other applications. I waited for 10 days before using my thumbprint to access the phone and I was able to get into her whatsapp. A guy named mike sent her a message saying he like the way she kissed her cap and he also warned her to delete the message. My wife sent nude pics and I saw all. My wife also said he shouldn't worry that once he gets she gets the money from me, she would immediately transfer it to him . She had asked me for 4 million for a change of business and I agreed and was about giving her the money until I found those messages and thank God I never did. I am in pains now and don't know what to do about this. I feel betrayed. Please help me.

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what's this one saying

best advice divorce ur wife....... if u want to prosper in life bro

What's wrong with marriages these days??



I think the devil is seriously having a cheerful party for this.

Hazardd:
what's this one saying

Please if you don't have something reasonable say STFU

Kinghaller:

Please if you don't have something reasonable say STFU

this ur script will be nice for super story

You have evidence. But you have to take screen shots before she deleted everything. Its even more painful because you have kids. You can seek advice to the lawyers on this matter.

Hazardd:


this ur script will be nice for super story

I am really disappointed in you. You sit at home and wait for your mums Ogbono soup and hence you do not know what life is all about. I pity you

Wish there was a way to verify all these hard luck stories here on NL.

Anyway OP, in case this is true, you need to get evidence of her infidelity and when you've got enough you need to divorce her sorry @ss.

Meanwhile stop eating at home so she won't poison you because she is one step away from killing you.

So go get that evidence and file for divorce. Don't worry, you will get custody of the kids.(if they aren't too young)

ForeverYoung197:
You have evidence. But you have to take screen shots before she deleted everything. Its even more painful because you have kids. You can seek advice to the lawyers on this matter.

Thanks for your advise .

She married u for ur moni bro

@poster

Are u scared of her?

Call her and say all this to her face and see her reaction. But whatever sha...... She can no longer be trusted!!

Ioannes:
Wish there was a way to verify all these hard luck stories here on NL.

Anyway OP, in case this is true, you need to get evidence of her infidelity and when you've got enough you need to divorce her sorry @ss.

Meanwhile stop eating at home so she won't poison you because she is one step away from killing you.

So go get that evidence and file for divorce. Don't worry, you will get custody of the kids.(if they aren't too young)

I was even thinking filing for a divorce is a long walk...
Well dunno the circumstance surrounding the marriage. But as an African, you simply kick her ass out of the house...






Then the problem of kids can be settle another day with families, friends and whoever cares.

First thing you should do is go conduct a DNA test on the kids

Kinghaller:
Hello nairalanders,

I will need to make this brief and sorry I created a new monicker, I need to remain anonymous. Please I need your help . I am married with two beautiful kids. I have a great job and provide so much for my family. I spend two weeks with my family every month and the remaining half at work. I spend time with my family for the two weeks and treat my wife so well. I recently noticed a change in her attitude . I try to touch her and she refuses and tells me she is tired. I noticed she spends time more on the phone( whatsapp ) . Whenever I try to call her when am away, she doesn't pick up the call and when she does, she tells me she was busy and didn't see my calls. When I came back from work , I tried to kiss her and touch and she refused and said she is tired. I allowed her to fall asleep and I picked up her phone and couldn't access the phone due to he fact it has a security code . I sat and thought of what to do. I called her in the morning and told her I wanted to change her phone to a better one. I took her out that morning and go her an iPhone 6s . When we got home, I immediately inserted my thumb print as to enable me get access to her phone. We where having dinner and I took her phone and told her to get me her password but she refused( I had to ask so she would feel I can't have access to her phone ) I helped her install her whatsapp and other applications. I waited for 10 days before using my thumbprint to access the phone and I was able to get into her whatsapp. A guy named mike sent her a message saying he like the way she kissed her cap and he also warned her to delete the message. My wife sent nude pics and I saw all. My wife also said he shouldn't worry that once he gets she gets the money from me, she would immediately transfer it to him . She had asked me for 4 million for a change of business and I agreed and was about giving her the money until I found those messages and thank God I never did. I am in pains now and don't know what to do about this. I feel betrayed. Please help me.

hmmmmmmm,ah feel pity for yah....well firstly, don't give her the money.... ah wanna ask u a question dough...


are u still interested in the marriage?, would u lyk to save it or forget about yah wife ...so ah can advice u .

this is NOLLYWOOD! u re tony umez and she s monalisa chinda............. DIVORCE her n mike children pls

Kinghaller:
Hello nairalanders,

I will need to make this brief and sorry I created a new monicker, I need to remain anonymous. Please I need your help . I am married with two beautiful kids. I have a great job and provide so much for my family. I spend two weeks with my family every month and the remaining half at work. I spend time with my family for the two weeks and treat my wife so well. I recently noticed a change in her attitude . I try to touch her and she refuses and tells me she is tired. I noticed she spends time more on the phone( whatsapp ) . Whenever I try to call her when am away, she doesn't pick up the call and when she does, she tells me she was busy and didn't see my calls. When I came back from work , I tried to kiss her and touch and she refused and saidH��aH��a�����������k���shocked.gif" class="faces"></a>
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I feel ur pain like it were happening to me..., am really sad about this.

My brother, it's at least obvious ur wife doesn't love u anymore, but u should fear for ur life too she might be capable of killing you and marrying that good for nothing hand-to-mouth guy, she is showing u the signs already and I'll advice u have duplicate of those exchanged messages and nude pics as evidence.

Take this to both families (urs and hers), just like a family meeting and make it clear to them that you are QUITING " yeah, I said so... Quit that woman before she quits u from this earth... And take note of every threat she makes cos she definitely would carry them out, hence u get the police to have her make some statements that if anything should happen to you, she should be held responsible.. after this, divorce the shii outta her and face like again. Chai! Some ladies don't know what they have till its gone. Take heart bro and just dab the way I told u and u'll be happy again

Kinghaller:


I am really disappointed in you. You sit at home and wait for your mums Ogbono soup and hence you do not know what life is all about. I pity you

lolz, if you are been pained, just find one wet transformer and do the needful..abeg swerve jor

That's women for you bro..very difficult to trust.All women like dick and the truth of the matter is that she is enjoying banging from Mike in the absence of the two weeks.All you have to now is to take the evidence to your couselor and let him advice you on the best legal action for you to take.Don't law into your hand,don't chase her,do not show it to her,just pretend while you take necessary action.

Kai! It's such a pity. Is it your always being away that she will use as an excuse or what biko nu? Sir, Please just to have a 'happy' departure (incase it gets to that), can you just sit her down and ask why? Perhaps things could be worked on else please just separate/get a divorce.

Kick her out asap.no time!don't give her a second chance cos she will do it again but will be more careful next time.

You're finally free bruh! and I congratulate you on that
How to go about this is simple if you're gonna allow yourself to take it that simple
1.Don't loud it

2. Stop giving her more than enough, just enough to take care of herself and your kids should be OK for the maid she's to become now

3.You now hate her literally so, her food and her body is now poison to you

4. When you're to buy things buy only for your kids and buy inferior stuffs for her if at all.

5. You don't dare discuss this with her even if she starts complaining of your new I don't care attitudes.

6.Get a new and befitting mistress to satisfy your sexual urges with outside and start enjoying your life like a bachelor

7.Get a blueprint of the chats and all and keep it safe in case she's gonna go kaboom reporting you to those you both respect.

On the D-day expose her ass and tell everybody u didn't mean to do this if she hasn't taken it this far.

Everybody will praise u for being such a great man who wouldn't expose his wife's maladies no matter what, she packs out of the house in shame and you walk the rest of your life with your new found love like a boss. No story!