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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
nkemjacob2: Thats 101% wrong, any beating that cant serve its desired effect before ages 15-17 has lost its value instead it starts creating longlasting hatred between offspring and parent.... Or you've never heard boys of 16&17 do certain things and say 'Afterall, the highest they can do is to beat me' .... Truth is, they can actually do other things but too much beating has made the child to subconciously believe thats the highest they can do therefore making him do what he wants anytime... |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by enoch273: 12:03pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: There is nothing bad there, I also received beatings from my mum too, one thing to put in mind is that no matter how tall or how big, you can never over grow your parents. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Koreslee(m): 12:16pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
At 22 hehn still dey chop beating
Like yoruba do say(iya i.e beating kole je ki omo gbo) |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
enoch273: No one's talking about outgrowing parents, we're saying its not right to beat someone of that age, thats clear violence and you know there's something called retaliation, right ... It never occurred to me until someone on this thread mentioned that we(his friends) are going to push him into retaliation by throwing banters at him, i just hope it doesn't lead to a whole new level of madness.... Things like this are the roots of strained relationships in different families today, you may think that after everything things will return to normal but its exactly the opposite, the one at the recieving end may not talk but you'll be shocked at what he can do the day he gets an oppurtunity to make them feel pain, Lincoln said 'If you really want to test the true character of a man, give him power'.... Btw, any beating that can't serve its desired effect by ages 15-17 has lost its value. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by iomoge2(f): 12:36pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Omoluabi16: Last child but he has an elder brother who is 5years older but one year older in academics because that one had to do Nd here n IJMb for Uni-ilorin. The brother came out fine too. In a class of 70 something only 15graduated without a carry over and he was one of them with a 2.1. Well, I think the baby of the house thinks life is fair. Since everything is given to him on a plater of gold. He never suffered like me n his elder brother (am d first) who even had to hawk pure water n become factory workers /sales girl boy to ensure the factory grew. Honestly, I have lost interest in his cause..... Someone who can't help in anything but has d guts to call n ask for monthly recharge card to subscribe n ask for weekly transport n upkeep to galivant around Town. Lemme stop talking cos it hurts..... |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ewizard1: 12:51pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Tunechi1:Lmaooo!!! |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2: Thats a priviledge the last child always enjoys, its unfortunate that this one took his too far ... Well, lets hope for the best 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by 99foxxy(f): 1:40pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:How do i prove it na? don't let ma mum hear this oh. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
99foxxy: Hmm, ok oo.. but dont forget to vote for VIZKIZ in the Mr NL contest shaa |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Myself2(m): 2:12pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
If course,that"s if he is one if the zombies that voted for the dullard.Those ones should be given hot slaps everyday of their zombic lives |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Greenbullet: A weakling? Really?! Isn't it funny how you refuse to understand the diff between that "correction" and "torture"! |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Gwazah(m): 2:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
As long as the son is not complaining, its cool!!. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Rukkydelta(f): 2:46pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
LabiaDestroyer:Doubting Thomas |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by natedalo: 2:50pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
wildguy:One of the best comments so far. I concur 100%. It is domestic violence and abuse anyhow you look at it. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Reference(m): 2:58pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Failed parenting. What are you correcting for 22 years, haba. Violence remains the tool of the weak and the ignorant. Start early, raise wisely, live by example and always communicate (an area women oft fall short, that's why they tend to do it more) leave no doubt as to the direction you are leading, love them unconditionally and you will never have to raise your hand against your child. I received the cane as a child but cannot remember exactly what those were for. The things that I do remember today, the things that have moulded my character I still remember and will remain with me till I die is how mamy parents lived. And this is a biblical principle. The Old Testament was full of the rod, God's judgement but until Jesus came did we have a true example of how man should live and it is now easier 'to become'. Worked examples are the best tutor in life. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Lotechi(m): 3:19pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
when some1 can engage his or her parent/parents in a reasonable discussion, I see no reason y such person shud be beaten!!!! I feel once u are in the University, nobody has the right to harass you physically. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Greenbullet(m): 4:04pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Jadonjack:don't patronize me,weakling!. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by 99foxxy(f): 5:40pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:Bribe me na GloryIsaac:Bribe me na |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Mtcheew! Even with khaki a soldier is still battered by his parent. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by enoch273: 6:43pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: you just stated your opinion, thats what society like and not what is right....they are clearly two different things. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Isn't it wrong for ur own mom to mal-handle you? GloryIsaac: |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by 99foxxy(f): 7:15pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:You won't understand. Among my siblings I'm the only one that who's untouchable, reason, daddy's girl. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Barigaboy(m): 7:56pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Hen hen, if 22 child misbehave na slap he go get. Nobody is above punishment when u misbehave. Only that punishment have levels. I saw your slag(Nigga Nigga). My broda dis is Nigeria. D way a child behaves determines d size of his cane. If your parent don't beat u thank God. Don't put your nigga into anoda trouble instead just tell him that his parent will change as soon as he is able understand them n behave well. Console him n don't let him see them as enemies |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
99foxxy:How much |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Silkmoth33: Take a chill pill bro, i'm not talking about myself lol and thankfully mum and i have a wonderful relationship , not some royal rumble stuff |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
99foxxy: Hmm, i see ... hope being a favourite wont bring bad blood amongst you and siblings |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Reference: God bless you brother for this comment |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Myself2: I understand your frustration bro but this isn't about politics so dont start a Zombie vs Wailers war here pls Dont forget to check my siggy, its Vizkiz or no one |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Greenbullet: Pls bro, dont start an e-war on the thread, you can bring forth your point without throwing stones( you know what) .... but dont forget to vote Vizkiz From an epl supporter |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
No bruh! The way you coined the forum topic specifically puts you in that ignorant position. I just thought I would point that out to you. So answer my question now, "is it?" GloryIsaac: |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Barigaboy: Truth be said, i've moved on from his issue, told him to Man Up and stop being a chicken but i think i'll give him this piece of advice, thanks bro... Btw, would love you to vote for Vizkiz in the Mr Nl contest |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
truthsayer007: So true, Timaya said it all in that 'Money' song |
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