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He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by Tomaxzyn1(m): 5:07pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
It's over, isn't it? He betrayed you in the worst way possible by having an affair. While cheating on you may make you feel like there is no way that he loves you, it's not always that clean cut. Men cheat for many reasons and most of the time it's not because they don't love their partners. When you hear him say, "Please don't leave me ... I really do love you," take into account some of the signs that he is telling the truth. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1. He stops the affair For real. Knowing that you are about to leave him scares him so much that he stops the affair immediately. He doesn't want to lose you because you really are the one he loves. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- 2. He promises to do anything for you. It can be difficult for men to lay everything down on the line to win back your heart. If he truly breaks down and tells you he will do absolutely anything to have you back, you may have someone who truly does love you. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- 3. He seeks professional help. He wants to know why he had the affair and hurt the one person he loves most. To do this, he seeks counseling to help uncover the mystery, and show you that he is serious; he didn't cheat because he doesn't love you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- 4. He admits his mistakes to others. Men don’t want to come clean about their mistakes. If he tells everyone how much he messed up, you know he regrets what he did. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- 5. He follows through with promises. If you’ve told him he must do a list of things to show you he truly loves you, and he does everything you ask, you know that he is committed to you ... and ONLY you. It is hard to believe he didn’t cheat on you to hurt you, especially because YOU are so hurt. Some men truly don’t think about their significant others when they have an affair. It may not make any sense to you, and it may make you want to run far away from him so you never hurt again, but this is something to consider. If he truly didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't do everything above. |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by FlawlesRebirth02(f): 5:14pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
WE KNOW |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by HoneyB10(f): 5:19pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
It hurts so much when someone you love cheats on you, op forget all this stories joor, not saying there isn't some hard truth in what you wrote but...... |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by fernandoc(m): 5:23pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Men are polygamous in nature. You can't cheat nature Abeg. 1 Like |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by theEYe21(f): 5:42pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Women are polygamous in nature too. I don't need to show any evidence because you see, hear and experience the evidence everyday fernandoc: 2 Likes |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by halfricanadian(f): 5:45pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Will he forgive too if i go sleep around nd tell him i still love him? Give wat u can take nd take wat u can give 2 Likes |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by shyling(f): 5:48pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
y shud I cheat on u? halfricanadian: |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by halfricanadian(f): 5:50pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
shyling: dunno |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by shyling(f): 5:51pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
I don't need to, I won't. halfricanadian: |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by halfricanadian(f): 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
shyling: |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by lovingT(f): 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Yea.... men are polygamous in nature.... It's a man's world..... But if he Loves you n respects u, he will make sure he doesn't get caught... Sad to say but that's the truth |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by fernandoc(m): 6:21pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
theEYe21:You are wrong my dear. Ever wondered why our fore father's with their harem and concubines managed to live longer than we do today. Women knew their place and the men weren't afraid to be 'men'. Today civilization and religion has changed a lot. That's why divorce rates will keep skyrocketing . That's the price for civilization. |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by Missyetty(f): 6:59pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Uhmmm |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by theEYe21(f): 9:34pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
So you don't want Nigeria to move forward and be backward, you don't want Nigeria to be civilized. If you want to be a caveman so bad why not go and live in the jungle. Rubbish! fernandoc: |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by fernandoc(m): 5:30am On Jul 14, 2016 |
theEYe21:Coconut head. |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by LuveU2(f): 5:37am On Jul 14, 2016 |
theEYe21:True, i read stories about cheating wives, girlfriends, it means we are polygamous too nd men shd bear with us. 1 Like |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by Nobody: 6:16am On Jul 14, 2016 |
At op,u don't have any reason whatsoever to justify sin and please stop deceiving urself.A guy that wants to control himself and respect the woman he is married to will do that irrespective of the temptations that comes ur way . I don't see the moral lesson u are trying to pass here 2 Likes |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by Surfboard(m): 6:41am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Op, take one beer for my head. Seriously though, cheating is really both ways. What I can't say is if a girl will continue to love a guy after cheating on him. This is because I've seen/heard of more girls attaching emotion to cheating. |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by firstking01(m): 7:31am On Jul 14, 2016 |
No justifiable reason whatsoever for cheating...flirting might just be understandable sometimes. |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by theEYe21(f): 8:00am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Like my own. fernandoc: |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by Kenneth205(m): 8:01am On Jul 14, 2016 |
HoneyB10: Truth! |
Re: He Cheated On U Doesn't Necessarily Mean He Loves U Not by theEYe21(f): 8:01am On Jul 14, 2016 |
LuveU2: |
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