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| Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by Keziehenry(op): 5:34pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly. 2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs? 3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that? 4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous? 5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life? 6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s grace? 7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother. 8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage, please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and resource. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
 hope he read this loud and clear... |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by Came: 5:38pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Gbammmm!!!!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by abbeyboy2o15(m): 5:40pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
What about the lady or is it one man show |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by sinaj(f): 5:41pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Nice points  |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by Keziehenry(op): 5:46pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
abbeyboy2o15:Watch out for a counter thread |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by abbeyboy2o15(m): 5:49pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Keziehenry:yeah it is too sentimental is it only guys that are in it what about the ladies or she wont contribute any positive vibe. |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by abbeyboy2o15(m): 5:51pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
sinaj:how is it nice since it is talking about the guy only so what is the lady impact in that relationship or is she going to be a back bencher. |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Okoo |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by theEYe21(f): 5:52pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Keziehenry: |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by lovingT(f): 6:02pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Lolz... now when they put up a thread about guys they all getting touchy...... Learn from it n stop asking what about the ladies.... |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by 007Nasky(m): 6:12pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Gbagam. Anyway am ready 4 all dat bt hav nt seen d rite 1 |
| Re: Eight Questions A Guy Should Ask Himself Before Going Into A Relationship by KnightRod(m): 7:06pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Keziehenry:1. Do you have money? 2. Do you have enough money? 3. Do you have sufficient money? 4. Can your money take care of her? 5. Do you have good money? 6. How much money do you have? 7. Do you know how much it costs? Do you have the money? 8. Do you have more than enough money? |
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