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Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 4:39pm On Jul 13, 2016

“Theres no universal consensus on what behaviors constitute having s3x,” relationship and sex expert Kristen Mark, Ph.D., tells BuzzFeed Life. Not to mention, the notion of “‘virginity’ is very heterocentric. It really excludes a large number of people who may consider themselves as having lost their virginity, but that definition is going to be very different for them.” So losing your v card might involve penetration, or it might involve anal s3x, or@l s3x, manual stimulation, dildos, whatever. There’s no rule that your first time has to meet a specific set of criteria.

2. That whole “popping the cherry” thing is mostly a myth. Not every v@gina bleeds like a stab wound the first time you have s3x. “Some women don’t notice any bleeding at all, but it is true that some women bleed a lot,” s3x researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good, tells BuzzFeed Life. This comes from tearing the hymen, which is basically just tissue inside the v@gina. All women have different amounts of hymenal tissue, and in rare cases they aren’t born with any. There’s really no way to predict how much you’ll bleed, so…maybe keep a light on, suggests Herbenick.

3. Along those lines, a “hymen check” is really no way to determine vi’rginity. Again, different people have different amounts of hymenal tissue, and some are thinner, worn away, or filled with fewer blood vessels than others. Plus, that tissue can tear from a variety of things, like physical activity, masturbation, fingering, etc., says Herbenick. So to use this as a marker of whether or not you’ve had s*x just…doesn’t make sense.

4. It doesn’t have to hurt. If your first time involves penetration, a little pain or pressure might be expected. That said, it should still be overall pleasurable — not painful. So if it hurts a lot, stop. This could be a signal that you need more pre-intimacy or lubrication, says Mark

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Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Cutehector(m): 4:42pm On Jul 13, 2016

Cmon remove that ur hand leme chin chum chin

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Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Layooluwa(f): 4:44pm On Jul 13, 2016

So this was what Graciia didnt post finish..........
I don't see the use of that picture tho undecided

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Layooluwa(f): 4:45pm On Jul 13, 2016

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 4:56pm On Jul 13, 2016

Layooluwa:
So this was what Graciia didnt post finish..........

I don't see the use of that picture tho

lol. Mayb you should help me out by posting ur pics undecided

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 4:57pm On Jul 13, 2016

Cutehector:
Cmon remove that ur hand leme chin chum chin

cutehector so na so ur life be? Endtime

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Cutehector(m): 4:59pm On Jul 13, 2016

tolexy123:
cutehector so na so ur life be? Endtime

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Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Layooluwa(f): 5:05pm On Jul 13, 2016

tolexy123:
lol. Mayb you should help me out by posting ur pics

Dnt just put any picture

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by flamezyprinz(m): 5:13pm On Jul 13, 2016

Cutehector:
Cmon remove that ur hand leme chin chum chin

u wanna c virgin p***y?..make ur eyes no blind o[color=][/color] grin

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Cutehector(m): 5:15pm On Jul 13, 2016

flamezyprinz:
u wanna c virgin p***y?..make ur eyes no blind o[color=][/color]

lol taa. Who dash am virgin kitty.. sontin wey don exceeed it's elastic limit. grin

Only engineering students will understand

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 6:42pm On Jul 13, 2016

Cutehector:
lol taa. Who dash am virgin kitty.. sontin wey don exceeed it's elastic limit.

Only engineering students will understand

hehehe. Yeye boi grin

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tosyne2much(m): 6:50pm On Jul 13, 2016

The lines "not all virgin bleeds" is what most Nigerian ladies will use to scam gullible guys now that they have seen this post

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 6:55pm On Jul 13, 2016

tosyne2much:
The lines "not all virgin bleeds" is what most Nigerian ladies will use to scam gullible guys now that they have seen this post

walai, tosyne2much don get am. Some go even say na jogging disvirgin dem

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by enshi(m): 6:57pm On Jul 13, 2016

Op pls no lady here is a virgin.... I suggest you change Ur topic from ladies to Girls

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by chibwike(m): 7:01pm On Jul 13, 2016

Ehen

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 7:11pm On Jul 13, 2016

enshi:
Op pls no lady here is a virgin.... I suggest you change Ur topic from ladies to Girls

hehehehehehheeheh grin

you wont kill me with laughter oooo. So you mean L[b]ayooluwa nd co are not virgin[/b]?

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 7:12pm On Jul 13, 2016

enshi:
Op pls no lady here is a virgin.... I suggest you change Ur topic from ladies to Girls

hehehehehehheeheh grin

you wont kill me with laughter oooo. So you mean layooluwa nd co are not virgin ?

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jul 13, 2016

tosyne2much:
The lines "not all virgin bleeds" is what most Nigerian ladies will use to scam gullible guys now that they have seen this post

[color=#cc00ff]What he said was absolute fact. But you ascribe to the 'Hymen myth'.[
The myth physiology today debunked back in 2011[/color]

[The Hymen: A Membrane Widely Misunderstood | Psychology Today] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201103/the-hymen-membrane-widely-misunderstood

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tosyne2much(m): 7:59pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#cc00ff]What he said was absolute fact. But you ascribe to the 'Hymen myth'.[/color]

Hmmmm

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jul 13, 2016*

tosyne2much:
Hmmmm

[color=#ffc400]Dang it! You too quick!
I modified and brought you proof
... Look back at my post.[/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 8:08pm On Jul 13, 2016

Lol

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tosyne2much(m): 8:09pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#ffc400]Dang it! You too quick!
I modified and brought you proof . Look back at my post.[/color]

Of course I know that not all ladies bleed but what I'm trying to say is that some ladies will scam you with it when in fact they have lost it

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 13, 2016

tosyne2much:
Of course I know that not all ladies bleed but what I'm trying to say is that some ladies will scam you with it when in fact they have lost it

[color=#cc00ff] grin

I wish I could be around ta witnesses the show with popcorn in hand....[/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 8:24pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#cc00ff] I wish I could be around ta witnesses the show with popcorn in hand....[/color]

you are one of them I guess

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jul 13, 2016*

tolexy123:
you are one of them I guess

[color=#64dd17]No.I truly am virgin.
❤ But I gotta say I find it dang funny some women would trick a man with her new found knowledge. cheesy

....good too❤Cuz he shouldn't be seeking/demanding for a virgin knowing he fo' sho ain't 1 himself.[/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 9:18pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#64dd17]No.I truly am virgin.
❤ But I gotta say I find it rang funny some women would tick a man with her new found knowledge.
....go too❤Cuz he shouldn't be seeking/demanding for a virgin knowing he fo' sho ain't 1 himself.[/color]

well I wud av loved to beleive u until I heard my "virgin" neighbour screaming yeeee, harrrrder yesternyt

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jul 13, 2016

tolexy123:
well I wud av loved to beleive u until I heard my "virgin" neighbour screaming yeeee, harrrrder yesternyt

[color=#cc00ff]It was her 1st time! cheesy

[/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 9:45pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#cc00ff]It was her 1st time! [/color]

kingcheezypuff wont kill me with laughter oooo. Which kin 1st time be dat, she dey always claim virgin naxoxo she dey scream harder yesternyt. Shey virgin dey always say "haaaaarrrder" on their forst ni?

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 13, 2016

tolexy123:
kingcheezypuff wont kill me with laughter oooo. Which kin 1st time be dat, she dey always claim virgin naxoxo she dey scream harder yesternyt. Shey virgin dey always say "haaaaarrrder" on their forst ni?

[color=#64dd17]yes sir. ❤It was so good she had to scream out for more [/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 10:29pm On Jul 13, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#64dd17]yes sir. ❤It was so good she had to scream out for more [/color]

I smell lies. Infact I refused to accept you are a virgin

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jul 13, 2016

tolexy123:
I smell lies. Infact I refused to accept you are a virgin

[color=#ffc400]OK,yer entitled to yer opinion. [/color]

Re: Ladies: Here Are 4 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virgnity by tolexy123(op): 6:27am On Jul 14, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#ffc400]OK,yer entitled to yer opinion. [/color]

you got it grin

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