what i want to say is just plain simple....please stop patronizing runs girls and prostitutes because in so doing you are only indulging them,if you can't get kitty kat without paying for it can't you just self-service and use that time and money to do something else that would put a smile on someone's face maybe give a beggar and get blessings,because the more you patronize these people the more they see it as being lucrative and will not stop,the amount of runs girls these days is just shocking.

i had an experience with one bukky yesterday....i met this girl on sunday night when i was having wine with a friend in front of my house she seemed lost cos she was walking and looking around and seemingly talking to somebody on phone so i walked up to her and she said she was looking for a particular number,i told her i didn't know that number but then we talked a little(she was eloquent and spoke very well) and i got her number...i called her to come over yesterday cos i was free and when i saw her i didn't know if it was being tipsy or the dark night that made me not notice her rugged face,but well i couldn't chase her away so i let her in,i asked this girl......."whats your parole?"and i wanted to know if she was in school,learning a trade,working or doing business,she sat up and put a on a serious face like it was a business meeting,and her response was....IS IT SHORT TIME OR...?i just shook my head and asked her what the hell does she mean...she kept quiet,then i asked her how much is this short time you talk of.she immediately said 4k..i said ok oooo that she should go to her house and when i have 4k to throw away i will call her,she said i must give her money for transport.she asked for 1k but i said no no no i will give you 200,she agreed..oya how much do you have in your hand cos the least change i had was 500.she said she came with no money..now this is the part that burst my head...i said to her so you intended to come here to straff and collect money and use out of it for transport home..she said i am rude and she knows that is how ibo guys are they don't have respect and don't know how to talk.i said abeg come out from my house let me lock my door cos i don't know you and can't leave you in my house while i go to look for change and she continued her rants about ibo people

Now the thing is if she has not been patronized in the past she will get herself a job or do something productive,there are companies out there needing cleaners or security,in market people help carry your load or wash your legs and other kinds of menial jobs out there,but these empty barrels will prefer to hop from guy's thingy to thingy for a living.

Why didn't you give her a job or hope about getting a job... why didn't you try to teach her the right process to acquire things ..... Instead you sent into the streets, into the arms of other men...

Aren't you the same with those patronizing them?

Hmmm

newsphase:
Why didn't you give her a job or hope about getting a job... why didn't you try to teach her the right process to acquire things ..... Instead you sent into the streets, into the arms of other men...

Aren't you the same with those patronizing them?

they will never listen i have talked to about 2 before,and mind you I'm not ngige i'm tobe i got nothing to do with employment,best way to go about it is when people like you stop patronizing them

tobe4real:
they will never listen i have talked to about 2 before,and mind you I'm not ngige i'm tobe i got nothing to do with employment,best way to go about it is when people like you stop patronizing them

There are two things girls will listen to physical or psychological reason.... and someone who is willing to assist....

Girls turn to runs girls so that they can get money to survive... some go into it because they are lazy and looking for free money, so when you are trying to convince this girl to leave her free money and go about every morning killing herself with work, do you think it will just take a 15 minute gist.... if you give her 100k she will still go back because of that laziness (only the ones that do it because of the current economical situation that would withdraw) if you are really interested in promoting girls you go about getting information about employment opportunities and how to empower women...

But am not sure you can do that since you got your own problems and that is why runs girls will never listen to you

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

newsphase:


There are two things girls will listen to physical or psychological reason.... and someone who is willing to assist....

Girls turn to runs girls so that they can get money to survive... some go into it because they are lazy and looking for free money, so when you are trying to convince this girl to leave her free money and go about every morning killing herself with work, do you think it will just take a 15 minute gist.... if you give her 100k she will still go back because of that laziness (only the ones that do it because of the current economical situation that would withdraw) if you are really interested in promoting girls you go about getting information about employment opportunities and how to empower women...

But am not sure you can do that since you got your own problems and that is why runs girls will never listen to you

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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