jashar:


trés possible. I've been in a relationship no kissing, no sex. It's normal to me

KdotThaTruth88:



Hian!! wetin? una no dey see each other?

una no dey hug? blood cells don kpai for your body nii?

jashar:


Self Control. Don't give in to the feelings.

herbie27:
my question is, how can one be in a Godly relationship without intimacy and not leave your spouse perturbed?.

Laveda:
Yes

My buddy Naijab oiy can be in this type of relationship

Make you dey use me lie o

It's not possible for me o.

naijaboiy:

Make you dey use me lie o

It's not possible for me o.

Laveda:


Why? Thought there's happiness even without intímacy?

You don forget?

I said that?

naijaboiy:

I said that?

Laveda:


That thread the other day

Me sha know you can't..

[b]You simply didn't understand me.

We were never talking about involving sex in a relationship. The question the Op asked was if a guy can love a girl without feeling sexually attracted to her and I explained that when there is true love, sex is not the primary objective. Other things become more important.

I never said I can be in a relationship without sex, I only said I find other things more important than sex and it's very normal. Doesn't mean my dick doesn't rise and I won't have sex.

And yes, there should be happiness even without intimacy of course. Do you date someone only because of sex? If there is no happiness how then do we compare those who date without having sex?

Are they not humans too?

When the love is real it won't just be about sex, sex, sex. That thing go tire you one day if you both plan to be together for a long time, so why not invest your emotions into other things that you can bank on when some things start fading?

Why do you think our parents are not having sex as much as they did while they were younger?

You still don't understand a whole lot of things concerning relationship madam. [/b]

herbie27:
Plz don't get me wrong.

In my church if you've slept with the man, the pastor won't join you cos is biblically wrong(sin).

In this century people still do that, i have seen.

ronald4lif:


It's a fairy tale that never happened. If you believe that two people will date and get married without romancing and smooching then I can tell you that before the end of the year Nigeria's power instability will be history and you've to believe it too.

I know this is your ministry bro

naijaboiy:

[b]You simply didn't understand me.

We were never talking about involving sex in a relationship. The question the Op asked was if a guy can love a girl without feeling sexually attracted to her and I explained that when there is true love, sex is not the primary objective. Other things become more important.

I never said I can be in a relationship without sex, I only said I find other things more important than sex and it's very normal. Doesn't mean my dick doesn't rise and I won't have sex.

And yes, there should be happiness even without intimacy of course. Do you date someone only because of sex? If there is no happiness how then do we compare those who date without having sex?

Are they not humans too?

When the love is real it won't just be about sex, sex, sex. That thing go tire you one day if you both plan to be together for a long time, so why not invest your emotions into other things that you can bank on when some things start fading?

Why do you think our parents are not having sex as much as they did while they were younger?

You still don't understand a whole lot of things concerning relationship madam. [/b]

Dee I didnt know were gonna come back with this epistle?

I thought I said almost same thing the other day?

A guy on that thread said " he loves a girl but his dick won't get erêct even when she's nakêd "
And I asked him how that works..

I'm not banking my relationship on sex alone, not possible, what happens when we are far apart? Does that mean I'll go out for another just because I can't close my legs?

My point was, I can be with a man I love but along the line sex would definitely come...

Naijaboíy I understand. at least, I told you I'm grown?

tosyne2much:
And you think intending couples can be so open to their pastor about engaging in sex before marriage?

herbie27:
Will you lie to ur spiritual leader?.

Don't forget the story of ananias and Co.

tosyne2much:
I know this is your ministry bro

cooljude:
I think it kills everything in the relationship, no kissing imagine. I am presently experiencing this predicament from my girl. I protested and refused her view and she was claiming holy. it didn't take me a week to get a new girl and I think I am enjoying this relationship better. quite spontaneous everything is allowed and she succumbs to my every wish. abeg o, I still too young make one girl turn me to robot, abi blood no dey flow for my vain. I would just looking at bae make she dey deceive herself.

herbie27:
So any man i meet that puts marriage first, i shld jst be generous and stop being selfish.

How many will i make love with before settling down?.

tosyne2much:
Good argument so far.. But the problem I have is that, why is it that when premarital sex topics are being discussed, ladies always try to portray themselves as being sexually inactive and restrained but will put the blame on men for their impatience.

Does it mean that ladies also don't dump a men's ass on the ground that they refused to sleep with them?

Laveda:


Dee I didnt know were gonna come back with this epistle?

I thought I said almost same thing the other day?

A guy on that thread said " he loves a girl but his dick won't get erêct even when she's nakêd "
And I asked him how that works..

I'm not banking my relationship on sex alone, not possible, what happens when we are far apart? Does that mean I'll go out for another just because I can't close my legs?

My point was, I can be with a man I love but along the line sex would definitely come...

Naijaboíy I understand. at least, I told you I'm grown?

You were misunderstanding me so the need to re explain myself arose.

And that was not an epistle, since you could read it up quickly.

2BB4CB3E:
And i suppose that you expect him to be faithful and also provide for you in return
lmao
op kneel down where ever ure!
i rebuke
i cast
i reject
the spirit of such a selfish mindset from your life in jesus name!

tosyne2much:
Look at you... If people can try deceive God, who are spiritual leaders?

princeakins:






U nail am without hammer.

Seconded

2BB4CB3E:


Anyman that tells you that he wants to marry you first before sex lol, is just lying so you will let ur defenses down!
..... i want to start talking now lol, i too like relationship gist.....................
Trick is this! i see a big yansh and she is like i dont want sex, i will be like me too till we marry and she dates me, i become so amazing that even her conscience and friends will be questioning her, that she should bang me before another girl takes me from her because she now loves me, she lets her guard down and makes love to me! after eating the fruit i disappear! works every time!!!!!
next question will be! why will you go thru all that stress just to sleep with someone?
well its just for fun!
i know people that do INTRODUCTION buy wine, cook and do everything just to sleep with a girl!

what to do? the power is actually in ur hands! read this https://www.nairaland.com/3230703/single-woman-above-30years

jubrealguy:
wetin u want make dem talk.....dey sud start dropping punch lines, ba? and how do u think guyz on NL will respond to their quotes...... blame it on our Environment where a guy fuvks some gal and it's cool and a gal fuvks some guy, then she's ashawo

PEPPERified:
2 instances where it is very possible.
where one of the parties is naive and the other is having his/her fill elsewhere.
where both parties have common faith, doctrine and their relationship is founded on religion. (this form of relationship don't last. it either leads to sudden marriage or breakup)

jubrealguy:
Just like my friend Smellymouth once said "A relationship is like a boat, love prevents the boat from sinking while sex makes the boat rock" Intimacy in a relationship....eez really needed

herbie27:
See ur mouth, na all of una join dey finish girls.

herbie27:
I knw how this psychology works, so i try not to fall, except if the guy doesn't put marriage first bt a genuine relationship that could lead to one.

herbie27:
I knw how this psychology works, so i try not to fall, except if the guy doesn't put marriage first bt a genuine relationship that could lead to one.