hmm

Quite tru

my girl is good, I still do not know how she won me... My mission over her was different.... but I love her dearly, and can't leave her again Love you dear.

Hit and run things oooo


No time to check time

LuveU2:
Really? i thought u were smart? smone just implied we are all hoes and what he does is just to fvck us. And u are very okay with that

No wonder i prefer controversial threads to all these shallow droppings.

Harsh realities lady. Harsh realities.

Yeah, trying to date doesn't work anymore

Ndi ala! Ibe unu na hussle eme ka Ihe di mma but ununu prefer E'kori maka Ike nwanyi! Chaii ebele mama unu emegbuo 'm.


Okwa onwa December na bia now

Unu ga fu onwe unu... Ndi ala!

Get serious bro. U are not getting younger to be jumping from one bed to another.

Identify her talk to her and make her yr own for a marriage bound relationship. Belive U me, time have gone for all this play boi stuff ok.

Of a fact, the thing is true. Who asks a girl out anymore? If you ask a girl out I can bet with you she will not agree.
Its because:
a) They probably have a bf.
b) Because of their conscience.
c) How many guys do they want to say yes too?.

Most times, just get along and if the emotions connect, kisses and all.
However, I believe this fall within the category of girls around 18 to probably 24.

On the contrary, do not try it with a very matured girl. You hear?. ***Holds there ear***

If you want to date a lady, someone who has direction and knows what she wants, follow her waves and when its the right time (when you probably notice she likes you), ask her out and define the relationship.
Except of course, you notice she is the type that takes charge not in a negative way, then just let her do her thing with you and follow the lead.
Don't jump.

Just make sure your intentions is right. Thats when you get the most of any relationship.
Most girls can die for their relationship if everything is right.
Love, care, romance, support, praise and faithfulness. Most especially if you are a man of direction not necessarily rich.

Trust me, an addition is just the money, height, handsomeness etc.

groomed:
Well, as you can see, the scenario in the OP was never for fvck sake but relationship sake bro. The second girl won't even say a word but wouldn't decline we spending time together like visiting places in other states etc.

IMO it is not the best, but what can I do if that is how she wants it?

relationship and f**k are the same as far as I'm concern, before you can f a girl at least the relationship son dey there na. Maybe I'm wrong that's how I feel

Network again...

The easiest way to fu<k a Naija girl is to start by talking dirty. I have had a girl come down from PH to Lag just because I warned her that she may not be able to walk properly for 2 weeks if she ever allow me anywhere near her pu5sy. She said, "na today, na you go taya". And that marked the beginning of our dirty and sexually explicit WhatsApp war. The day she came, we entered through my kitchen and she never made it to my sitting room until after one round of the most aggressive energy charged sex I have ever had.

iykenathan162:
Get serious bro. U are not getting younger to be jumping from one bed to another.

Identify her talk to her and make her yr own for a marriage bound relationship. Belive U me, time have gone for all this play boi stuff ok.

lol. What if your serious doesn't make them take you serious and you really like them?

You give people what they want bro, not what they need and that is how stay alive in any business venture.

groomed:
In some quarters, guys will say you do not woo a girl in this current time.

And certainly, events have shown that this true.

I was busy professing love, speaking how much I want this girl and want her to be mine BUT all I get was rejection, or indifference.

After while I switch to flirting mode and all seem well with her.

Another girl whom I kinda have a respect for have been acting same way as well. She wouldn't want to admit outrightly or accept when the question is ask. She would prefer I do not even ask her to date me but to just flow along.

Mind you, if I choose this route, I can easily bolt out--after all, "we were not dating" or "I never asked you out"

Compared to case whereby the relationship is defined from the onset.

So I ask: Do modern day Nigerian lady prefer not to wooed? Do they prefer undefined relationship to a defined one, a case that seem like flirting?

i will say yes and no. it is not only guys that have phobia for commitment too, girls too have it. a girl that is serious and wants u will not want to flow and assume, she will prefer d relationship to be defined so that she can mark her territory. but a girl who doesn't want you per say but maybe wants something you have to offer wont want the relationship to be defined, she is at d door, she can go on or out without feeling guilty, plus she is free to see other guys too.
It now depend on you to chose what you want, wooing works, maybe you are yet to meet the right girl.

groomed:
In some quarters, guys will say you do not woo a girl in this current time.

And certainly, events have shown that this true.

I was busy professing love, speaking how much I want this girl and want her to be mine BUT all I get was rejection, or indifference.

After while I switch to flirting mode and all seem well with her.

Another girl whom I kinda have a respect for have been acting same way as well. She wouldn't want to admit outrightly or accept when the question is ask. She would prefer I do not even ask her to date me but to just flow along.

Mind you, if I choose this route, I can easily bolt out--after all, "we were not dating" or "I never asked you out"

Compared to case whereby the relationship is defined from the onset.

So I ask: Do modern day Nigerian lady prefer not to wooed? Do they prefer undefined relationship to a defined one, a case that seem like flirting?

Outright wooing is not the best approach. If you tell a girl you like her and you're interested in dating her, she'll like say no. It's not a Nigerian girl thing. The best thing to do is to invite her.

The things I read on here
Smh

groomed:
I beg to disagree bro. Many girls have been forked by guys who never wooed them and I sure many guys here can attest to it.

Everytin in a relation is not all about Bleep.Bleep

Kakamorufu:
i can attest to that as well, buh am talking for relationship sake, not for fuvck sake

Relationship na means to an end. The end name bulala! I don nack many without wooing. I beg op drop that relationship talk jo, who get time for that one. Why roam about the fance when punagate dey open wide like dusakigate?

Naija girls sha

I read they way some guys think about ladies and I am forced to ask myself what kind of person could be behind that moniker, there is a saying that you are what you attract. If you keep getting cheap pvssies and think all women are like that, then it shows alot about who you are,last time I checked like attracts like, as for the topic, just like all men are.not the.same, so all women are not the same so op figure out her type

LuveU2:
Really? i thought u were smart? smone just implied we are all hoes and what he does is just to fvck us. And u are very okay with that

No wonder i prefer controversial threads to all these shallow droppings.

its xoxo disheartening. Quite unfortunate our motives nowadays ehn na God go save us. ... Vrry shallow indeed. Undefined relationship is bullsht

OP you are right. Wooing is a waste of time. Ladies don't take guy serious. There was this lady, I wooed her, she declined. Later on I started visiting her, she became comfortable with me, I stopped telling her my intentions. When it came to a stage we started kissing if not for the fear of God, I would have bleeped her.

No no no. it's not true, every girl wants to be woed. They love it when you walk up to them because it makes them feel they are valuable. Any girl that is not in a relationship could just get laid by just friend some days because they feel Hot like a normal being. That's why I don't fancy the girls word "just a friend". Considering no dulling guy like me being just a friend to a girl who is not in a relationship even those in relationships has been laid by those they called just a friend.
Guys wise!

yjgm:
Very true

dis na ur own contribution oooo

Thought I was the only one who noticed the trend.

1st stage: WhatsApp introduction and gentlemanly behaviour
2nd stage: guy acts like he really cares tries to be funny, girl calls him dearie, guy calls her sweerie
3rd stage : girl lets down her guard, guy initiates dirty talk, girl is interested but forms at first.
4th stage: guy tries again, girl loves it, wrong and s*xually explicit images start forming in their minds.
5th stage: first date (she doesn't visit)
6th stage: second date she visits and reproduction classes take place.
7th stage: uninterrupted access to the cookie jar, as guys will say "once debe Is ever debe"

lol undefined relationship in this time and age?

You better open your mouth and tell her what exactly you want if you're really serious. I can assure you that the babe is spreading her wings, she will send you her wedding IV in a few months and you will start telling stories that touch...

LuveU2:
Really? i thought u were smart? smone just implied we are all hoes and what he does is just to fvck us. And u are very okay with that

No wonder i prefer controversial threads to all these shallow droppings.

awww... She's truly female. Nice

Hello there...

2dugged:
I read they way some guys think about ladies and I am forced to ask myself what kind of person could be behind that moniker, there is a saying that you are what you attract. If you keep getting cheap pvssies and think all women are like that, then it shows alot about who you are,last time I checked like attracts like, as for the topic, just like all men are.not the.same, so all women are not the same so op figure out her type

My sister, don't mind all these NL guys with sharp mouth o.

Tell them to leave this virtual world online and go and approach a lady in real life, you'll see them stammering like their tongue just cut. But they will be online typing "hoe this, hoe that and blah-blah-blah"

Talk they say is really cheap...

Oahray:
awww... She's truly female. Nice

Hello there...

Lol hy there!