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Honestly, am undergoing the same situation right now.
My babe texted me this morning to say the same thing.
To be honest, I don't really care, not because I don't love her but. Because I think she is not matured enough . How can she say that when I can't even spend 30mins without her running through my mind, special people like her are part of my memories that time and distance not even carrer can erase so if I don't call more often that dosent mean I have forgotten or careless about her. True Love is in the heart in the communication. Secondly I suspect she is seeing or trying to see another guy. So why bother my self over a lost battle all in the name of winning her back. For me am letting it go.


So my friend, LET IT GO.
Move on.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Oh really?

She quit a relationship because he couldn't call frequently as she liked, and she refused to call him as frequently as she wanted.

If that makes me "judge too fast", I'll judge again and again.[/color]

lol

i believe u, now

Estharfabian:

Why won't you call her in the first place??
how could you claim you love someone n not call that person
what's your reason? Pride or brokenness?



Smh...You're lucky she Even told you beforehand. I would've broken up witcha long before you come to your senses.

giving a girl too much attention is sh¡t, like a girl i was giving lot of attention she was like send me airtime, i stopped, am i her father? if u truely love someone u don't wait for the guy to call, send him call me back sms to remind him that u care, girls have lot of admirers, i may be one of them and in my mind i will be like she is my bae, while another guy is banging her front and back, i have this friend of mine a girl if i don't call her for like 6months she will remind me that eventhough i don't care about that her she cares and understand me,

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Omo, that's a stupid excuse for quitting. . .

Communication blah blah blah. If you don't call, why doesn't she call? Communication is communication whether you call or she calls. What kind of vague nonsensical excuse is that? It's these kind of girls that you'll send airtime to, they'll never use it to call you for even a minute, and they'll still blame you for not calling. . .

Good riddance to bad rubbish, o jere.

Look for a girl around you to start a new relationship with. Once a girl starts complaining, she's getting the attention and calls from somewhere else, and she'll keep looking for new ways to frustrate you and make you think the break up was your fault, when she has already jotted and planned every thing to a T!

Go and drink and celebrate your freedom. . .[/color]

God bless u

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Omo, that's a stupid excuse for quitting. . .

Communication blah blah blah. If you don't call, why doesn't she call? Communication is communication whether you call or she calls. What kind of vague nonsensical excuse is that? It's these kind of girls that you'll send airtime to, they'll never use it to call you for even a minute, and they'll still blame you for not calling. . .

Good riddance to bad rubbish, o jere.

Look for a girl around you to start a new relationship with. Once a girl starts complaining, she's getting the attention and calls from somewhere else, and she'll keep looking for new ways to frustrate you and make you think the break up was your fault, when she has already jotted and planned every thing to a T!

Go and drink and celebrate your freedom. . .[/color]

thank you bro, u understand the situation, the girl is not meant for him period

I know some guys too the are bad with calls...buh truth be told, 'Nearness is love' @least if ure not there physically, u call steady...I personally call my bae @least 3times a day, Nd she calls too...so bro, up ur game

sapiosexual1:
Ce qu’exactement vous paraissent-elles inspirante de son commentaire ?
Ou êtes vous vient d’être féministe ?

lol, Chief


I'm a Nigerian...

Yuneehk:
Did you check the title of the thread hunie?? He rarely calls! I'm sure the girl isn't saying he should be on the phone with her 24hours as that'll be very annoying and choking. No one is asking the Op to turn to mtn customer care. Moderation should do and she'll be happy.

Tommfrench, weren't you the guy I heard deactivated after taking the crown? How are you

gud

Her reason for wanting to break up with you is very genuine and you are the cause of your problem.

Yuneehk:
So if you rarely call her, who do you call?? I don't know how much you see her but if it's once in a blue moon, it's advisable you call as that's another means of communicating with her.

You're lucky she told you she wants to quit due to infrequency of calls. Someone like me would call it quits without telling you why I'm doing it 'cause once I tell you, you'll start calling not because you want to hear from me but 'cause you feel it's an obligation as my boyfriend

Do you think its bad if she did the calling

sauceny:
Do you think its bad if she did the calling

No there's nothing bad if she calls. It only becomes bad and worrisome when she does the calling alone.

She was on her own when he came to ask her out abi? . He should just try to make things right if he still wants her around. That's all

Benita27:
If you truly love her.

Her voice will be the first you will want to hear in the morning, and lastly at nyt.

You don't have an excuse for not calling, you just don't care.

and if she loves him why not hear his voice every morning by dialing his number? Abi what excuse does she have for not calling too? later una go dey clamour for gender equity

Yuneehk:
No there's nothing bad if she calls. It only becomes bad and worrisome when she does the calling alone.

She was on her own when he came to ask her out abi? . He should just try to make things right if he still wants her around. That's all

nah, u can conclude if he was the one who asked her out, she might have done it and besides when he 'asked' her out, he didn't force him to accept

Shinkava:
nah, u can conclude if he was the one who asked her out, she might have done it and besides when he 'asked' her out, he didn't force him her to accept

Oya come let's go and ask Op who asked who out

Tommfrench:
lol, Chief

I'm a Nigerian...

lol, was swayed by your moniker

Yuneehk:
Oya come let's go and ask Op who asked who out

lols.....am right behind you...cuz I love behinds

Her reason is genuine enough...you don't care and you expect her to stick around. check am nah...if you're the one that's not getting the attention, will u stay?

Yuneehk:
No there's nothing bad if she calls. It only becomes bad and worrisome when she does the calling alone.

She was on her own when he came to ask her out abi? . He should just try to make things right if he still wants her around. That's all

You look beautiful though!

sauceny:
You look beautiful though!

Thanks