Ahmed0336:
3k for dis bihari rigme? You for just dash begger the money for street

adewumiopeyemi:
can i be ur boyfriend..

ourchoice:
Fortunately or unfortunately, majority of Nigerian girls and ladies (working class or student class) survive from begging guys directly and indirectly.

I read someone said he prefers dating working class ladies, I laugh in Greek hehe ....working class ladies are the most greedy insatiable ladies in Nigeria! Their own demanding is first class....flight ticket, MBA school fee, this and that, and some even demand for car, house if they notice that you have the money. Ladies of our time are really not encouraging at all!

I still wonder why Nigerian ladies labor to go to school, secure job and still end up begging and collecting money and material things from men yet they demand gender equality.

Some guys will think dating rich ladies like Linda Ikeji will save them from spending on ladies...hehe....Linda type don't demand naira, they demand for pounds and dollars and they can't even reply a hello from any guy who isn't popular or well-loaded financially, so they are all the same, sadly

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

HungerBAD:
You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

Florblu:
Are you sure this was all that happened? Audi alteram patent(Hear both sides)
On a lighter note,if the accused is on Nairaland let's hear your side of the story.

agabaI23:
Thanks, anymore blessings from your stables?

Fedayeen02:
i got scared looking at your face with the story you are spewing here.so you look like this and you ve been sitting on igbo matter since last week.



Nsogbu di na ebea

amokeme:
hehehehehe

Let's talk behind the camera

amokeme:
some female students are very independent and don't go about depending on guys for money... while some so called "working class" ladies are the real set with the MDS (man dependency syndrome) so I think it's an individual thing and how a lady values herself. Me personally, I'm a student and no guy under the surface of this earth can tell me "I got you this" or "she begged me for money" I don't accept birthday gifts I can't afford... I hate insults so I avoid it at all cost, especially when it comes to this kind of thing. And yes, I'm a student. So I think it's more of a personality thing.
If I can't afford it, then I have no business having it.
So incase a guy gets me a birthday gift amd starts feeling like he has some kind of entitlement towards me, ill simply throw your nonsense back at you.
This particular lady the OP is talking about seem to be a "packaged hungry girl"

MRBrownJ:


do you think that giving her what she was cunningly seeking from you (knowing that this was obviously the only reason she agreed to meet you), would make such babe change her ways in the future? why do you think she would be mortified when she got gifts, that she didnt deserve, from someone she will probably never ever see again?

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

agabaI23:
Lol, How would you know a student and all that ish from a fitness arena? She had the classy outlook of someone independent. And you know it takes some independence for a lady to go out with a low cut. I always see such people as people who don't care about the crowd. You can imagine my disappointment when I saw her on a wig.

I gave her the money. There was no plan to see her again. So it was a way of telling her off but in a respectable way assuming she has the brain to understand that.

All the same I have helped a sister/beggar in need

MummyE:
I really like your action.u displayed discipline and maturity. Ladies nowadays can do anything just to extort money from men unknowingly to them that men has stepped up their game n become wiser.I pity my fellow ladies cos I am one.God help our generation.

blueseacats:
The moment you handed her money she begins to think you atm, that's where they get it all wrong. Most of them with without brain don't even know that for you to hand her 3k you probably have multiples of that to spare ,and that by you giving her 3k is not a show of weakness but kindness.

agabaI23:
Lol, How would you know a student and all that ish from a fitness arena? She had the classy outlook of someone independent. And you know it takes some independence for a lady to go out with a low cut. I always see such people as people who don't care about the crowd. You can imagine my disappointment when I saw her on a wig.

I gave her the money. There was no plan to see her again. So it was a way of telling her off but in a respectable way assuming she has the brain to understand that.

All the same I have helped a sister/beggar in need

tohpahz:
I like the op.. Some gals can fall hand ehh

Coldfeets:


You definitely have a point MrBrownJ

But the thing is, you have to understand that people are different and it is not everyone that will see things the way you see it

I don't know for sure, but I think Mr. agaba123 is a man who values his pride so much so to him, what the eff is three kay compared to saying good riddance to such a bad rubbish of a girl?

But agaba nnaa, biko, just take a moment and listen to MrBrownJ because he's right. Nothing on earth will make that girl to stop. Believe it or not, you might be thinking the girl will realize her mistakes but I'm telling you right now that there's every possibility the girl believes she was 100% right in collecting that money from you

O yes! She thinks it's her right. So many girls are like that. They always think it is their right to collect from guys and the guys should be okay with that.

But like you and I know, so many guys are not just OK with that

Which means it is now left for us guys to teach these girls how it should be

And you will be doing so many men out there and the entire MANosphere so much favor if you can be firm enough to tell any girl who tries to mugurize you NO at any given time

It's not a matter of you being a gentleman or smart or something. These girls really need to learn. They need and must be forced to learn that it's not and never their right to demand from guys. They must be forced to learn and accept that it is not right to be making unnecessary demands from guys.

They need to learn that they will earn more respect for themselves if they can learn to depend on themselves rather than on guys. They need to learn that they can actually add some other other values to a guy's life apart from puŝsy value. Simply put, they really need to learn how to start making their own money

I believe the girls who are like this are so because the guys allowed it in the first place

And like the Igbos say, arụ gbaa afọ, ọ bụrụ omenaala

So if we must put an end to this unholy exploitative behaviorial tendencies exhibited by so many girls once and for all, it must be a collective effort from all guys who are not just comfortable with the status quo

And agaba nwa nnaa, it begins with you

skimpychick:
I once dated a guy who takes care of me like a sister. That was when I was searching for a job. Gives me money for my hair when he notices that its old n stuffs like that. Like a sister I said. I wonder if we still people like that.
Now, I've seen guys who talks to a lady today and would want to go to bed with her today today. Maybe she acted from her past experiences.
But op 3k n you are complaining, supposing she asked for a trip to UK nko

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

adewumiopeyemi:
can i be ur boyfriend..

oyetunji12:
I respect d way u view this mater, I once had a female frnd honestly I ws nt emotional attached to ha bt u knw all dis frnd frnd stuf. We wey gistin 1 day nd I scrolld tru ha fone nd all d calls I ws wey reciefd for like d past 5days so ws forced to ask haaa babe u no call dey person bt bleaf me ha reply shocked me she said 'any guy that once to talk to me must call me and if na chat u must subscribe her fone' I ws like y she said jst like dat cos ha mum made ha bleaf dat guys must alws run afta her nt d oda way round.........I jst laufd nd told ha c if me ty will call u 2mrw den let my fone get missin 2day.....nd eva since den we ve gone apart.... So as u said sumladis jst bleaf guys ve to b responsible for dre bills

johnsonjosbles:
I tell you! T slap op dey hungry me sef, me wey wan buy 2mudu f rice go come give woman 3k just like dat? Op for even buy perfume for his car! The car for apreciate beter than that ashewo sef.

Rexnegro:
at first You appeared to be a sharp guy but eventually You became a dumm*...how on earth did You fall for giving her 3k to buy her perf when You guys outing was strictly to go catch some swimming fun? Why did You even stop to shop sef? the idiot con dey ask for money again to buy bikini, chai smh for some girls...even if I get all The billions on earth such girlls who behave like they Are wise won't taste a dime from my billions #justbeingreal

oyetunji12:
nop babe dnt luk @ it from a poverty view cos it damn pocible aldo d OP 4k up sha bt I guess e is jst a natural nice guy

Ezeego1:
That's how she gets her own money, if you are not comfortable with her attitude. Don't stop random girls again next time.