Envy has never been a trait I possessed, I was practically happy for anyone and everyone around me, it doesn’t matter the news, I’d jubilate with you even if we were enemies, I’d still wish you well in my heart, I was never jealous of anyone well not until recently.


I am in my mid-30’s, very successful, I have dedicated almost a decade of my life building up my company, my last serious relationship was five years ago, I had always said to myself, “One more deal, One more contract and I’d settle down” but one more deal or contract was never enough, I wanted more, I needed more, I never had time to date or keep a relationship, today I was in Austria, tomorrow in Spain, in a month id travel internationally more than four times, who would want to date someone like that? My EX complained all the time, how I was neglecting him, I didn’t have to travel much, I could control my business from Nigeria, problem is I am a control freak I needed everything to be done by me, only I could do it perfectly.


For years my vibrators have been my sexual companions, I have about six of them, depending on the mood, each one has its special duty, there’s Jimmy whose job it was to make me cum within minutes, there’s Jack whose job was to go real deep and relieve tension, there’s Joe for lazy nights and so on, then there are random guys I have met on the plane, we just go to a hotel and Bleep.


I had given up on men, the little I have met in a short while just wanted money, connections and sex, no one wanted long term, I was getting old, I looked young though but women will always see themselves as ten years older in looks, I said to myself, go adopt a baby, forget men, work hard and make a name for yourself, these were my plans, it was perfect and about to be executed not until my friend introduced her fiancé to me.


Jessie: Hello Bimpe, are you at the office?


Me: Yes I am


Jessie: Good, I’m on my way


Me: Sure no problem, please get me lunch I’m starving


Jessie: I’m coming with someone; we would go have lunch together


Me: Fine.


How I wish I could turn back the hands of time, how I wish I had told her not to come, I wasn’t around, I was out of the country, anything! But I guess fate wanted to Bleep with me real hard. Jessie came to my office with a guy who I felt Zeus carved himself perfectly, Dayo was tall, dark, handsome, fit, oh my, he was structurally perfect and I knew from the second I laid my eyes on him, I wanted him, when Jessie introduced us and we shook hands, it was the softest palm I had ever felt in my life, he’s voice was soothing, everything about him was perfect, I tried to stay calm but I was lost.


We went for lunch, talked, laughed, and we discussed their marriage plans, for the first time in my life I was jealous and it was over a man, not even business, how did this happen I began to ask myself? I said to myself, I’d go home and masturbate if off, while I was doing it, I was picturing Dayo’s face, it was bliss, he wasn’t even there yet it felt like I could feel him deep inside me.


Next day at work, I got a call from the reception; Dayo had come to see me, I was surprised and happy, I wondered if something was wrong, I asked them to let him in, he was so polite, telling me how sorry he was for coming in like that without an appointment but he needed my advice on something, oh I was so glad to help, anything to keep him with me in the office for a long while. He said since I had been to so many countries, he would like to know which place I’d suggest for a honeymoon, I didn’t even think I said, ”come to the house for dinner tonight and we will discuss it” he welcomed the idea wholeheartedly.


He came, we talked, drank, ate, drank some more, I can’t really remember who kissed who, next thing I knew our clothes were flying off our bodies, he was everything I had imagined him to be, he was a freak in bed like me, we were all over each other, I was selfish at the moment, I didn’t even stop to think he was someone else’s man, I didn’t care, I wanted him there and then, I made him spank me, tie my hands, choke me, hit my face, damn I haven’t had it this good in ages, he allowed me play out all my fantasies on him, Dayo was the perfect “Bleep Specimen”


All these happened six months ago and we are still fucking, he’s promised to break up with Jessie, but he hasn’t, he keeps saying he doesn’t want to hurt her but he wants to be with me, I have reduced the way I travel because of him, I give him 40% of my time, I know I am in love with him and I want to have his kids, why won’t he just break up with Jessie already?


What do I do?


Talk2Bella

http://talk2bella..com/2016/08/i-am-in-love-with-my-friends-fiance-i.html

Eleyi gidi gan. ...............

We all know most men's words are juz fully sugar-coated...nothing was new to his promises.. He was juz giving this lady a false hope...


If I we're her, I wud let him go since he can't decide what's good for them...

in order new just saw this

baby but why

TrapQueen77:




We all know most men's words are juz fully sugar-coated...nothing was new to his promises.. He was juz giving this lady a false hope...


If I we're here, I wud let him go since he can't decide what's good for them...

Be deceiving yourself calling lust love.

my sister

So you fooorked?

You are not in love with each other. You two are glued to yourselves because of the sex. He really loves his girlfriend and that is why he won't leave her for you. Also, you are betraying your friend by shagging her man behind her back. What if she finds out? Relationships take time and effort to build. I'm positive that there is someone out there for you, just don't extinguish your friend's happiness to gain yours. It's not worth it.

Is this Bimpe the Facebook girl?

naijaboiy:
In your presence he will marry Jessie and you'll still be that frustrated spinster you've always been.

What kind of man in his right senses will marry a betrayer? So that you'll do the same thing to him when you get married abi?

Continue deceiving yourself.

Is this for real. Or Op just cooked up that story cos she needs viewers on her blog.

It's real, I actually got this new blog because I couldn't post relationship issues on my news blog, you would be surprised at the number of people going thru different issueseveryday

naijaboiy:

Lol! I don't click blog links pasted on NL. Waste of time.

It may not be real but there are definitely some women who are doing this type of thing right now. So they better know what's up.

ournaijablog:
It's real, I actually got this new blog because I couldn't post relationship issues on my news blog, you would be surprised at the number of people going thru different issueseveryday

The story is sooo fake and just too glaring. I hadn't gone beyong the second paragraph before I saw through your story.there are just too many issues that are just not adding up. Whoever wrote it sef don't have any idea how the business world goes.

Traitor, matress n fool

Your opinion

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numericalguy:



The story is sooo fake and just too glaring. I hadn't gone beyong the second paragraph before I saw through your story.there are just too many issues that are just not adding up. Whoever wrote it sef don't have any idea how the business world goes.

ournaijablog:
Your opinion

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I respect your hustle in trying to promote your blog but why try to pass a very fake story as real.

I honestly do not know what your problem is, do you really find it hard to believe that there are People who really got problems like this? anyway believe whatever you wanna believe your opinion really counts for nothing and if you really did respect anyone's hustle you wouldn't try to discredit their hustle openly so i'mma go ahead and call your a he po critter thanks

numericalguy:

I respect your hustle in trying to promote your blog but why try to pass a very fake story as real.

ournaijablog:
I honestly do not know what your problem is, do you really find it hard to believe that there are People who really got problems like this? anyway believe whatever you wanna believe your opinion really counts for nothing and if you really did respect anyone's hustle you wouldn't try to discredit their hustle openly so i'mma go ahead and call your a he po critter thanks

What is this useless liar yapping about sef.
You are here trying to pass an obvious lie as a real story just because of traffic to your blog.
Go back and real your stvppid story and you just might see how dumb and fake it is.

get back to me when you learn how to spell.......... uncle Iranu

numericalguy:



What is this useless liar yapping about sef.
You are here trying to pass an obvious lie as a real story just because of traffic to your blog.
Go back and real your stvppid story and you just might see how dumb and fake it is.

ournaijablog:
get back to me when you learn how to spell.......... uncle Iranu

Useless scammer. This is how they start before they graduate to full blown yahoo yahoo.

ournaijablog:
get back to me when you learn how to spell.......... uncle Iranu

Useless scammer. This is how they start with fake and dumb stories before they graduate to full blown yahoo yahoo.

Yahoo boy don collect your babe before

numericalguy:


Useless scammer. This is how they start with fake and dumb stories before they graduate to full blown yahoo yahoo.

u needed to be flogged

ournaijablog:
Yahoo boy don collect your babe before

Hehehehe.. See this olosho. You are a disgrace to Nigerian girls with dignity. Its greedy girls like you that can do anything for money that runs after yahoo boys only to end up being used for rituals your yahoo boyfriend.

Take my candid advice and turn back from your unfortunate ways because you'll only end up in prison or to be used by ritualists.

Ok

herbie27:

Is this for real. Or Op just cooked up that story cos she needs viewers on her blog.

Same tin I was tinking dear, the story is so fake like d change we where promise by apc

jeez see y i dey fear female friends,smh. Dnt bliv dis poo sha.

ADONBILIVIT...!! Op show us ur cerfiticate and ur work i.d.. Dis ur story na fiction

I totally get why everyone finds this hard to believe, but this is real, u think because it's a new blog its fake I totally get it, but hey y'all got opinions and I respect that a lot, be it real or fake we all know things like this happen in real life and almost everyday