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pcguru1:
That was meant to be a joke o, but then again guys spending on girls is not a problem it's the other way that's the problem, I don't spend on stingy people or even date one makes no sense , sadly alot of girls fall into this category, I have no problem spending in people as I always have good Intentions

dollyjoy:
Can you be real for once

dollyjoy:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in helping your girl friend out financially once in a while, that is different from investing on a lady.



Just say you don't have, that is understandable.

MzPecs:
[size=15pt] Why the hell will you invest on a girl? Who does that?



Invest on a WOMAN and not on a girl.
Kapish!!! [/size]

jamex93:
Op God bless u

I saw a topic of one foolish driver wey steal over 2m and spent it on women

I dey craze

No b small thunder go fire d gal wey go want try make me do such

dollyjoy:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in helping your girl friend out financially once in a while, that is different from investing on a lady.



Just say you don't have, that is understandable.

dollyjoy:
It doesn't look like a joke though but its cool..

SAINTSAMURAII:
na wao!!! are u not a girl?

I'm not a girl?

Any problem with that?

dollyjoy:
It doesn't look like a joke though but its cool..

MzPecs:
I'm not a girl?

Any problem with that?

MzPecs:
Yeah, you can say that again!

Been so long, you know..

SAINTSAMURAII:
na wao!!! are u not a girl?

SAINTSAMURAII:
the lady in question can be my wife tommorow but if things turns out bad, then i move on. there are many fishes in the river.

SAINTSAMURAII:
URE A girl, deal with it.

...and who are you to tell me that?

I wonder why you've got a problem with my opinion.
I'm not a girl, deal with it!

pcguru1:
As a pro feminist I won't spend on a girl because I would be oppressing her by encouraging dependency on a man. Can't have her bowing to the patriarchal society

UrWorstNitemare:
So you actually av fingaz dat can type ?? Instead you choose ta show ya paranoic state and immaturity Making fun of a discussion involving "Matured minds only"
Anyways I won't blame you I'll blame TELEMUNDO

skarlett:
Talk from now till tomorrow they still won't listen, some of them go as far as trying to use their money to woo another guy's babe and when she doesn't dance to their tune later, they'll come and cry foul forgetting that they brought it upon themselves.

Its not bad for a guy to give his girlfriend stipends and whatnot but taking over all the expenses in her life like you're her father doesn't make sense.

Op I sha hope you practise what you preach, its not the one that you'll talk one thing and tomorrow we'll see your story on nl

Rapmoney:
"I'd rather spend foolishly on my wife than spend foolishly on a girlfriend" (Rapmoney, 2016).

You can quote me on the above as long as I remain a member of this forum, Nairaland. I know there are many folks out there who would want to argue the above that a girlfriend is still the one who would metamorphos into a wife but remember, a 'girlfriend' is just a woman you are having a romantic affair with...there are no cultural, religious or family strings attached. She might 'love you crazily' today and fancy someone else tomorrow.

With the way most young women openly exhibit the character of dependency and lust for materialism, love is no longer enough to invest financially on most of our present crop of young ladies. Very few would value you for your financial commitments/investments! Majority would not value it; they might see it as your responsibility to shoulder their responsibilities all in the name of love. She will leave you when she wants to and get married to whoever she feels like getting married to. You go kill am? Her palee and malee no know you nah!

I always say it that women admire successful men. Invest in yourself and your future; be it your career or your business and see the places such feats can take you to. I bet you, there are young industrious women out there you have not met that would change your perception about life. Except it is a 'symbiotic' relationship, investing financially on a girl when you have not paid her bride price might turn out to be a huge financial loss!!! If you must invest your money, invest it on your wife; the money remains in the family. Your girlfriend could be everybody's friend.

It is such foolishness that would make you pay for professional certifications for a woman and the only thing that has added to your certificate after graduation is the lamination!

Women hardly lower their standards when it comes to romantic affairs; you'd have to be cautious before you make financial commitments. That her siblings know that your name is Idemudia and you are dating their sister is not recognized under law, tradition or religion. Don't spend your money trying to make the life of another man's wife comfortable. It's better to be called 'stingy' than to be a loser! God know say u no be stingy guy because na wisdom dem dey take lick soup wey dey

An English proverb says "Lend what you can afford to lose".

Rapmoney:
"I'd rather spend foolishly on my wife than spend foolishly on a girlfriend" (Rapmoney, 2016).

You can quote me on the above as long as I remain a member of this forum, Nairaland. I know there are many folks out there who would want to argue the above that a girlfriend is still the one who would metamorphos into a wife but remember, a 'girlfriend' is just a woman you are having a romantic affair with...there are no cultural, religious or family strings attached. She might 'love you crazily' today and fancy someone else tomorrow.

With the way most young women openly exhibit the character of dependency and lust for materialism, love is no longer enough to invest financially on most of our present crop of young ladies. Very few would value you for your financial commitments/investments! Majority would not value it; they might see it as your responsibility to shoulder their responsibilities all in the name of love. She will leave you when she wants to and get married to whoever she feels like getting married to. You go kill am? Her palee and malee no know you nah!

I always say it that women admire successful men. Invest in yourself and your future; be it your career or your business and see the places such feats can take you to. I bet you, there are young industrious women out there you have not met that would change your perception about life. Except it is a 'symbiotic' relationship, investing financially on a girl when you have not paid her bride price might turn out to be a huge financial loss!!! If you must invest your money, invest it on your wife; the money remains in the family. Your girlfriend could be everybody's friend.

It is such foolishness that would make you pay for professional certifications for a woman and the only thing that has added to your certificate after graduation is the lamination!

Women hardly lower their standards when it comes to romantic affairs; you'd have to be cautious before you make financial commitments. That her siblings know that your name is Idemudia and you are dating their sister is not recognized under law, tradition or religion. Don't spend your money trying to make the life of another man's wife comfortable. It's better to be called 'stingy' than to be a loser! God know say u no be stingy guy because na wisdom dem dey take lick soup wey dey

An English proverb says "Lend what you can afford to lose".

pcguru1:
As a pro feminist I won't spend on a girl because I would be oppressing her by encouraging dependency on a man. Can't have her bowing to the patriarchal society

ronald4lif:
Sarcasm much. E be like say mesef go join this pro feminism crew o.

Rapmoney:
"I'd rather spend foolishly on my wife than spend foolishly on a girlfriend" (Rapmoney, 2016).

You can quote me on the above as long as I remain a member of this forum, Nairaland. I know there are many folks out there who would want to argue the above that a girlfriend is still the one who would metamorphos into a wife but remember, a 'girlfriend' is just a woman you are having a romantic affair with...there are no cultural, religious or family strings attached. She might 'love you crazily' today and fancy someone else tomorrow.

With the way most young women openly exhibit the character of dependency and lust for materialism, love is no longer enough to invest financially on most of our present crop of young ladies. Very few would value you for your financial commitments/investments! Majority would not value it; they might see it as your responsibility to shoulder their responsibilities all in the name of love. She will leave you when she wants to and get married to whoever she feels like getting married to. You go kill am? Her palee and malee no know you nah!

I always say it that women admire successful men. Invest in yourself and your future; be it your career or your business and see the places such feats can take you to. I bet you, there are young industrious women out there you have not met that would change your perception about life. Except it is a 'symbiotic' relationship, investing financially on a girl when you have not paid her bride price might turn out to be a huge financial loss!!! If you must invest your money, invest it on your wife; the money remains in the family. Your girlfriend could be everybody's friend.

It is such foolishness that would make you pay for professional certifications for a woman and the only thing that has added to your certificate after graduation is the lamination!

Women hardly lower their standards when it comes to romantic affairs; you'd have to be cautious before you make financial commitments. That her siblings know that your name is Idemudia and you are dating their sister is not recognized under law, tradition or religion. Don't spend your money trying to make the life of another man's wife comfortable. It's better to be called 'stingy' than to be a loser! God know say u no be stingy guy because na wisdom dem dey take lick soup wey dey

An English proverb says "Lend what you can afford to lose".

SAINTSAMURAII:
LOL its not about music bro, we work hard, we play hard. i spending money on a girl, does not mean im stvpid, i just want my girl to look good and presentable becaus everybody knows she is my girl.

Smellymouth:
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Diddyydiva:
Hi joke!!!

Try your monster stunt on someone else. it isnt getting to me

Triczchic:
Guys plzzzz.... If u can afford to spend on ur woman without tears, pls do..

..if u can't, pls don't...don't even attempt to buy a sachet of water cos u might be physically and emotionally ruined for the rest of ur life if she breaks up with u. U would be eternally traumatized.

Damn!

generalbush:
.... I see you

Diddyydiva:
i see you too

Sweetpenis:
Op take 1 goldberg there!!!....u made sense..I read ur post and I was happy there are still men whose brain hasn't been mixed with pvssy juice.......the most annoying 1 is sending 1 stupid girl to school bros biko snd ur self or atleast ur village person,if she no gv u toto anoda girl will...stop being a pvssy nigga she'll take all ur 9lives and leave u 4 d nxt best tin.

skarlett:
Talk from now till tomorrow they still won't listen, some of them go as far as trying to use their money to woo another guy's babe and when she doesn't dance to their tune later, they'll come and cry foul forgetting that they brought it upon themselves.

Its not bad for a guy to give his girlfriend stipends and whatnot but taking over all the expenses in her life like you're her father doesn't make sense.

Op I sha hope you practise what you preach, its not the one that you'll talk one thing and tomorrow we'll see your story on nl