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Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 11:51am On Aug 12, 2016

There comes a time in our relationship lives where we tend to experience heartbreaks from the people we love or the ones we have crushes on. In times like this, we can't get over it sitting alone feeling sober, the right thing to do is sit up straight and let it all out. Focus your thoughts and emotions on something else. Something paramount to your Brighter future.

On this thread I will take my time in trying to give cases and advices on situations you might find yourself in a relationship and the easiest way out. (spoiler alert - I might be wrong but you can also give your contributions or opinion)

So let's kick off.

NEVER DATE AN EX: You might think this is illogical but take it from an expert, reuniting with an ex never turns out right (only if you both decide on opened relationship)

NEVER BEG ANY FOR LOVE: Love they say is a beautiful thing. To be able to establish a defining mutual feelings between two parties is the best thing anyone can ever experience in a relationship.

Now tell me why will you want to beg anyone to experience the good love you have to offer!

IF HE/SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU BACK, DUST THE SAND UNDER YOUR SHOES AND MOVED ON: I hope this is self explanatory. When I says DUST your shoes I mean erase the person from your memory/life/existence. Be oblivious about the fact that they exist to you.

DON'T KEEP UP WITH WHAT YOU CAN'T GET: I have heard so many people talking about persistence in getting a lady you want, but I will say If she doesn't see the love in you from the start, she probably wouldn't see it for life. There are about 2 million single, more intellectual and beautiful ladies waiting for you to saw something to them.

TREAT YOUR CRUSH RIGHT NOT LIKE A TREASURE: Yes you have a crush on him/her and you want this individual to see the potentials of a caring and living person in you. There is no problem in that, where the problem comes is when you start treating someone who is not yours like a treasure. You are bound to be pushed aside for someone else who doesn't cherish her as much as you do. Sorry to burst your bobbles but that is the truth

BE MYSTERIOUS: People get freeked out by others with mysterious attitudes but it doesn't stop them from trying to unfold those mysteries. In other words, don't show people all you have got, be unpredictable

Ok this is how far I can go for now. So what do you think?

source. Gflat

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:57am On Aug 12, 2016

OP....you might not know this, but you just helped someone a whole lot!!..nice article

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by ikbnice(m): 12:03pm On Aug 12, 2016

I nearly made the mistake of dating back my ex but thank God I didnt sha. There's always someone better out there, just move on and you gonna meet him/her.

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 12:05pm On Aug 12, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
OP....you might not know this, but you just helped someone a whole lot!!..nice article

you are welcome bruv. Just feeding my mind on what the problem might be with some individuals when it comes to failures in relationships.

It is not mostly about the looks or money. Sometimes it is what we do or did not do

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 12:08pm On Aug 12, 2016

ikbnice:
I nearly made the mistake of dating back my ex but thank God I didnt sha. There's always someone better out there, just move on and you gonna meet him/her.

Yes bruv. There are other ladies who you could share your vision, Ideas and love with then you will be able to get results from different perspective

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by ikbnice(m): 12:11pm On Aug 12, 2016

Gflat:
Yes bruv. There are other ladies who you could share your vision, Ideas and love with then you will be able to get results from different perspective

agreed 100%

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:12pm On Aug 12, 2016

Gflat:
you are welcome bruv. Just feeding my mind on what the problem might be with some individuals when it comes to failures in relationships.

It is not mostly about the looks or money. Sometimes it is what we do or did not do

I agree with the bolded....sometimes we are misunderstood....and a little patience is all that is needed...but then again..not everyone sees it that way

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 12:21pm On Aug 12, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
I agree with the bolded....sometimes we are misunderstood....and a little patience is all that is needed...but then again..not everyone sees it that way

Not everyone sees is bruv, something weird happened to a friend who told his crush what he truly felt for her and at the end of the day he didn't get her to love him back.
Told him to move on but he couldn't seem to detach himself from the affections he had put in play

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by fbtowner(m): 12:27pm On Aug 12, 2016

relationship no be food

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 12:34pm On Aug 12, 2016

fbtowner:
relationship no be food

Only a gullible mind will say otherwise. The truth is love is life and it is merely not for stomach satisfaction

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Gflat(op): 12:35pm On Aug 12, 2016

Lalasticlala, do you mind? Thanks

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:42pm On Aug 12, 2016

Gflat:
Not everyone sees is bruv, something weird happened to a friend who told his crush what he truly felt for her and at the end of the day he didn't get her to love him back.
Told him to move on but he couldn't seem to detach himself from the affections he had put in play

sad

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by fbtowner(m): 12:52pm On Aug 12, 2016

Gflat:
Only a gullible mind will say otherwise. The truth is love is life and it is merely not for stomach satisfaction

love doesn't have to be relationship

in fact what is love lool everyone is out for something only gullible ones will think otherwise

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Joeyy(m): 1:07pm On Aug 12, 2016

I'm here to learn!

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by obiorathesubtle: 1:13pm On Aug 12, 2016

NP: Lola Rae- No TIME

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by charijee(f): 1:14pm On Aug 12, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
OP....you might not know this, but you just helped someone a whole lot!!..nice article

[color=#CD1076]Adjust make i follow you learn [/color]

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Iphesure212(m): 1:14pm On Aug 12, 2016

Well well well

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:22pm On Aug 12, 2016

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Adjust make i follow you learn [/color]

Amebo raise to power 10 grin

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by charijee(f): 1:27pm On Aug 12, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
Amebo raise to power 10

[color=#CD1076]Amebo is the spice of life [/color]

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by DeLioncourt: 1:30pm On Aug 12, 2016

Hey Guys... I'm really hurt about something that happened some two days ago...

I was here...reading comments ooo! That is how one girl called one boy ugly. I checked the girl's picture and she sef was not fine.

So i proceeded to call her ugly.

Next thing, one yeye moderator banned me for two days!!!
They did not ban the girl ooo!!!

My pipu! Is this fair??

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:37pm On Aug 12, 2016

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Amebo is the spice of life [/color]

lol agreed

Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by aloobright17: 1:41pm On Aug 12, 2016

DeLioncourt:
Hey Guys... I'm really hurt about something that happened some two days ago...

I was here...reading comments ooo! That is how one girl called one boy ugly. I checked the girl's picture and she sef was not fine.

So i proceeded to call her ugly.

Next thing, one yeye moderator banned me for two days!!!
They did not ban the girl ooo!!!

My pipu! Is this fair??

Maybe na mods pusi u called uglee Lol

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Re: Are You Feeling Hurt? Let It All Out Here. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Aug 12, 2016

lovely

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