Girls, the one who can be a best friend, a partner, a girlfriend, an amazing mother in short they try to be best in each of the role they are asked to play in someone’s life but there are times when they aren’t valued or taken care equally, one can’t be like them but that’s not what they demand even a little thing can make her smile. But more than smiles world is busy hurting her and the agony is they never realized what they did. So here are few statements that hurt girls but people don’t even think about it.



1) You are looking Good!

When a girl dresses up for an occasion or a special day and your reply is just “You are looking Good”, it hurts. They won’t express but they aren’t happy with the comment!



2) You should try being like Her!

Never say a girl this because every individual has his/her own charm and shouldn’t try being someone else. She would never expect that statement from you.

3) I only want to have Physical relationship with you!

Boys many of the time don’t even think before saying, But truly Girls can react if they aren’t reacting its just because you were/are her friend.


4) I didn’t read your message!

They aren’t free but they know how to take out time and this reply looks like an insult. Never ever say it directly. You can say that in more polite way.

5) You don’t want to talk? OK!

Just remember when you say this what’s Her reaction!! She eagerly wants to talk to you and spill out everything that is going through her mind but not so early.

6) Ya Say!

If she is going to talk something important and your reaction is this! Sorry no one is going to say you the real matter.

7) You are too Emotional!

Not each one of them are, it’s just they don’t believe in hiding. Let her express it in her own way.

- I never meant that!

Either say or not, Do or don’t, be clear and than say them these words.


9) You are thinking too much, its just FEELINGS!

it's FEELINGS!! And they think because its damn important. You should start respecting feelings, not only her but everybody out there you meet.


10) Now, You are behaving like a Kid!

As if you behave like a matured man!! Each one of them has this in themselves just learn to understand.

Teachers plenty for nairaland. Anyway, thanks.

Tpave:
Teachers plenty for nairaland. Anyway, thanks.

lol it's romance section bro,
so these are stuff you need to see to build up ur love life

dude wats up with dis life lessons

no matter how hard you try,you can never understand women cos they are made of complicated tissues

Does anyone suck ur breasts jus like I do.
I'm the best guy that has ever dated you.
I love u cos u look like my ex GF.
Why are you so lazy.
You like food too mch.
You will die if you don't see me.
You can neva find anyone who will love u like I do.
Is my dick the biggest and longest of all the guys u've slept with.
All gals are the same.
You are senseless.

huh! my girl is always happy when i tell her how good she looks...so op wetin u mean

PLEASE DAH NUMBER ONE IS A BIG "LIE"....
SHUUUUUU?WAH DO U WANTO HEAR AGAIN? YOU ARE *FINED* No?

donholy28:
huh! my girl is always happy when i tell her how good she looks...so op wetin u mean

.EVEN MYSELF DON'T UNDERSTAND op

^{nothing hurts a girl like telling her to get dressed after taking her to that high level of expectation}

Bro, when she comes crashing huh, just escape!!!


The second one na to tell them "sorry, i'm not intrested" after they ask you out (i'm so guilty of this)

donholy28:
huh! my girl is always happy when i tell her how good she looks...so op wetin u mean

Wat op means is dat d lady wud feel so she hasnt been looking good except just that day?

sickstars:


Wat op means is dat d lady wud feel so she hasnt been looking good except just that day?

I think op misinterprets words

You are looking Good TODAY! When a girl dresses up for an occasion or a special day and your reply is just “You are looking Good”, it hurts. They won’t express but they aren’t happy with the comment!

AngryNigerian:
^{nothing hurts a girl like telling her to get dressed after taking her to that high level of expectation}
Bro, when she comes crashing huh, just escape!!!
The second one na to tell them "sorry, i'm not intrested" after they ask you out (I'M SO GUILTY OF THIS)

for your mind

wetin them construct those sentences for before?
na to chop them Abi ?

no be only never say "I never meant that"

see as full grown up men they give themselves uneccessary rules while the girl is busy being real and saying all she wants and have to say.

Dheartless:
wetin them construct those sentences for before?
na to chop them Abi ?

no be only never say "I never meant that"

see as full grown up men they give themselves uneccessary rules while the girl is busy being real and saying all she wants and have to say.

Oga its on nl girls gives rule

In reality its d guys dat gives rules

CaroLyner:
for your mind

No, true...i'm not lying, & you know it!


...especially wen itz coming from d guy she really cares about, & desperately wants to make love with!

op! I disagree for that ur number one..

AngryNigerian:



No, true...i'm not lying, & you know it!


...especially wen itz coming from d guy she really cares about, & desperately wants to make love with!

i wouldnt know.i'v never needed to ask any guy out

You guys sometimes confuse things people in relationships shouldn't do with things decent human beings shouldn't do. I can't see any comment here that shouldn't be made to ladies in particular. Truth is, there's just no helping clueless people. You either have common sense or you don't

K

Thank God am free from all their problems

Who told you no one realises it?

W

Everyone just telling you what and what not to do on the Internet these days

What about 10 Statements That Hurt Guys But No One Realise ?

1. You're really boring

2. Your face turns me off.. wtf

3. Is this the highest you can afford?

4. You're not even good in bed

5. Are you done yet? e.t.c

so many lectures on girls this days... men too have feelings, we're just good at sucking it in...