daretodiffer:
Neverslbolt, you are not too smart sir. If you think this behavior is particular to women, you must have little human experience.

Any animal with two heads is a monster !

If she can't be corrected as a gf, she sure can't be corrected when her tentacles have grown tap roots tru marriage!

It is d duty of ladies to submit n men to Luv .


Basic Bible marriage principle .

Men where born to lead THEIR homes, for d very day a Woman lead n fed Man(adam,), humanity was lost!

Go figure

Them never see anything yet, she ll decay waiting

Trina0936:

Ok sir. Noted.
But the truth still remains that everyone can't be docile that is the fact,just because he didn't love her enough to tolerate it doesn't mean another guy won't!
Btw didn't even know OP was this young unless he isn't the one on his profile!

Love her enuf to tolerate her?

That sounds more like Love her enuf to let her RUN his life!

She wants a kissa33 , some1 she can easily manipulate ,
Run d rule over !

This kinda gurl wud drive all ur family members away the very moment u marry her!
U wud hv argument on dah constant!
N the guy can't but die of high BP!

Esdb3:


Now let me shock you, I have one I adore, worship, I've even called her a goddess numerous times and bruh I really do love her. To the best of my ability I've spent. What I've spent to show how much I care,(I didn't do to influence her decision) some boyfriends have not done the same for their girlfriends. The shocking thing, she is still holding out on me for a reply.... They are creepily strange. I pray things work out. I'm one of those africans that will marry a white girl the way I see things. I can't spend my life with girls that don't understand what 'being in Love' means. I'm an hopeless romantic, that shld give you an idea of how hurting it feels. #TeamWhiteGirls.

#mugualert!

HARDDON:




#mugualert!

You see! What is wrong in giving everything you have to the one you love?! Arghhhhh!!!!!!!!

fartkay:


Her first name start wit F end wit E n her surname start wit M end wit W

FolashadE MatheW.

firstking01:
Dating a nigerian girl is harder than bricklayer work, except you 've never been there.

This really got me cracked.

delishpot:


My dear brother, if she does not posses the qualities you can live with now, be careful about marrying her in the end. If you can't cope with it, DO NOT MARRY Her!
And I support your move to encourage her to talk things over instead of keeping it inside.. Make sure her change is genuine before you say I do

Now you see reasons with me... Thanks jor..

I love you for this writeup.. I will try and check her thoroughly oo... Cos I can't fit enter another one chance after this buhari own again oo... Lols

nevetsibott:
honestly bro. This girl is the same. I wanted something really awesome for us but.... She ruined it all. I'm intelligent as far as others have commented but You wouldnt see me trying to lead all the time. this lady too won't apologise.. Ive never even heard her say ''I'm sorry''

That's just it, the most painful of it is that they refuse to acknowledge their problem. If you have views contrary to theirs they'd tag you sexist.
Apology is like accepting defeat to them, and they are masters of blame games. Blaming every one except themselves. My advice to everyone plagued with a partner as this is to always be open minded and receptive to them even when they get on your nerves end. Try to discuss how you feel about their behavior and if they listen and change, so good. If they don't, leave bro......no one has the right to make you feel unhappy and distraught.
#Merci

Snow5:


Now you see reasons with me... Thanks jor..

I love you for this writeup.. I will try and check her thoroughly oo... Cos I can't fit enter another one chance after this buhari own again oo... Lols

Hahahahaha, CHANGE get two sides. Next time make people ask the particular one and how the leader in question seek to bring am about. So that we all go discuss our change together and prepare for am. See how Joseph warn the Pharaoh about Change and they prepared for it so it did not affect Egypt rather they we're able to even feed others in that time of change. Good planning is good when planning change lol

delishpot:



Hahahahaha, CHANGE get two sides. Next time make people ask the particular one and how the leader in question seek to bring am about. So that we all go discuss our change together and prepare for am. See how Joseph warn the Pharaoh about Change and they prepared for it so it did not affect Egypt rather they we're able to even feed others in that time of change. Good planning is good when planning change lol

... Lmao... Dis babe u no well gan!!!... Make buhari catch u..

Seriously this country is messed up... No Joseph of our time fit even see this kind farming wen come soo.... All dey saw was change.... But couldn't define the change..

Snow5:
I do of course...


Not submitting in every aspect oo...

She is too bent on not listening to my advice... When she knows she is wrong..

I tire jor

ok.

tt148:


being a submissive is not that bad and please tell me youre not into this femisim bull shit[color=#990000][/color]

I am a feminist but that doesn't mean I can't be submissive

mployer:


Idiot That didn't bother to respect someone's family.

Get lost, it's not your business

nevetsibott:
yes. He might have a bad grammer and you have never come across a babaric illiterate like him. But damn!!! if you can't spot your errors in the bolded words, you're a bad grammarian!

well, I am still better than him when it comes to grammer atleast. He is a dumbo, big time!

Timbuktou:


Congratulations.

I think you're confusing nairaland with Facebook or twitter.

The only way I won't quote you is if I don't feel like, not because of any misguided demands you might think you're entitled to.

Take your own advice.

Then don't quote me! this is my opinion and not yours, you can not shield me from stating my own opinion, ever!

BiggyB242:


Would you just stop been bias, we don't want a "yes yes" lady but arguing over everything is bad no Nigerian man want's that, my cousin cancels his introduction to his ex because of the same reason she was doctor so it was like she was doing him favour in less than 3 months he met another doctor who was loyal now they are getting married this September. Advice to the ladies there are so many loyal girls out there with good career and also beautiful so if you continue giving attitude when you turn 35 without a spouse then you will be surprise when na you go come sponsor wedding just answer his name.

Pls stop with this rubbish! We are so tired of hearing that! Turn 35 and so what?? I have seen an 80 year old woman give birth through IVF so stop playing that card! How many men are loyal to their women?? You are the hypocrite!

iebanehita:


Hehehe..
If I said yes, woukd you believe me?
I hate being docile... does no one any good?
and I'm not co.cky.. I hate show-off..

Same here
Can we go on a date now??

Trina0936:
Same here Can we go on a date now??

Time and place.?
It's like you were busy making money..

iebanehita:



Time and place.?

It's like you were busy making money..

Na wa oh! So fast??
Na so u like free thing reach?? Oshofree

Trina0936:
Na wa oh! So fast?? Na so u like free thing reach?? Oshofree

Hmmm... I never knew you pay a lady to go on a date with her though...

iebanehita:


Hmmm...
I never knew you pay a lady to go on a date with her though...

Plsssss! Which lady did you pay to go on a date with??

Trina0936:

Plsssss! Which lady did you pay to go on a date with??

Lol. .read your post....and remind me the free thing I so much cherish.. cz I seem to have forgotten it..

iebanehita:


Lol. .read your post....and remind me the free thing I so much cherish.. cz I seem to have forgotten it..

Oga chillax na! was only teasing you but I was surprised at the fast response though

Trina0936:

Oga chillax na! was only teasing you but I was surprised at the fast response though

Lol. I knew it was teasing, with those smileys...

As per the fast response, when I'm online and get a mention, I reply.. No need wasting scarce commodity

[quote author=iebanehita post=48540714]

Lol. I knew it was teasing, with those smileys...

As per the fast response, when I'm online and get a mention, I reply.. No need wasting scarce commodity [/quook oh

iebanehita:


Lol. I knew it was teasing, with those smileys...

As per the fast response, when I'm online and get a mention, I reply.. No need wasting scarce commodity

Can you expantiate on the bolded above??

Trina0936:
Can you expantiate on the bolded above??

Lol.. tryna read too much meaning to it?
I was simply referring to time.

[quote author=Trina0936 post=48539098]
Pls stop with this rubbish! We are so tired of hearing that! Turn 35 and so what?? I have seen an 80 year old woman give birth through IVF so stop playing that card! How many men are loyal to their women?? You are the hypocrite! [/quot

How many 80-year-old have you seen giving birth through IVF? Probably 1 of 100000, Secondly is she a Nigerian?

[quote author=BiggyB242 post=48543564][/quote]
That isn't the point, we all know Africans are not as enlightened as the whites so face the main topic and stop raising dust.
Just because he doesn't like her doesn't mean there isn't a man for her out there! Simple and short! One man's meat is another's poison.

Trina0936:

That isn't the point, we all know Africans are not as enlightened as the whites so face the main topic and stop raising dust.
Just because he doesn't like her doesn't mean there isn't a man for her out there! Simple and short! One man's meat is another's poison.

Nah, these are lies ladies tell themselves "I won't change, there is someone who will take me for who I am" if a lady has an attitude she should change before she regrets it later, Every man wants a submissive woman whether you like it or not. Those who makes you kind of statement are ladies in their early twenties still young and little boys are toasting you all around town and you think are the Queen of England unknown to you they are just after sex when you are in your thirties still single your perspective will change. Do some research dear and stop ranting on nairaland.

BiggyB242:


Nah, these are lies ladies tell themselves "I won't change, there is someone who will take me for who I am" if a lady has an attitude she should change before she regrets it later, Every man wants a submissive woman whether you like it or not. Those who makes you kind of statement are ladies in their early twenties still young and little boys are toasting you all around town and you think are the Queen of England unknown to you they are just after sex when you are in your thirties still single your perspective will change. Do some research dear and stop ranting on nairaland.

You are not God and you do not represent every man on earth so who are you to dictate what someone's future will be?? It is people like you who judge others that are always the worse hypocrites!
You do not know me so how can you tell my age?? How do you even know I am not married??
Maturity isn't by age for your info. So pls stop ranting and acting arrogant because you are not God. Do me a favor and shut the Bleep up! Rubbish!