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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by sixtus3606(m): 1:13am On Aug 18, 2016
[quote author=jelly15 post=45930990][/quote] I agree with you on this!
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by gbeseun(m): 1:40am On Aug 18, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

come unto me all ye that labour I will give you rest,
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Nobody: 2:07am On Aug 18, 2016
@OP, pls Google Samsu Oil. Buy it for ur husband, he should apply it just underneath the cap of his penis like an hour or 2 before action, then he should wash it off. Thank me later. N.B. He should not apply too much o otherwise he will not release o. Just small underneath the cap of the penis.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by slysteel: 3:07am On Aug 18, 2016
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by IGLE25(m): 3:16am On Aug 18, 2016
Bro pls what is dates?
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by ponti93(m): 3:23am On Aug 18, 2016
dis is one of d reason why, women turn ti sugar mummy over nyt.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by IGLE25(m): 3:27am On Aug 18, 2016
Does Samsu oil have any side effect?
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by datigboguy(m): 4:28am On Aug 18, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks


Didn't u guys date b4 getting married? U shud have known about his weakness before now and choose Weda to marry him or not.. I don't like d idea of medicine after death.. Ur hubby needs medical advice
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Nobody: 4:29am On Aug 18, 2016
If your husband is a one minute man, you sef must reduce yourself to a thirty seconds woman...problem solved, thank me later tongue
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Nobody: 4:32am On Aug 18, 2016
IGLE25:
Does Samsu oil have any side effect?

Samsu oil is a type of 'desensitizer' just like it's other variants that come as sprays. It kills the sweet sensation that comes with thrusting in and out of your woman, that way it can help the man stay longer without ejaculating. Work done right?

But guess what people? The marketers will never tell you it also desensitises your woman's walls thereby making her orgasm (which is the missing utopia) even more difficult to achieve. Just like your shaft gets desensitized, her walls too gets desensitized because her V walls also gets in contact with the active ingredients of the oil or spray.

In conclusion, oils' and delays sprays defeats the original aim of getting the woman satisfied. Great sex is not equated with how long a woman gets pounded, it's on the quality of what you give her and how you give it to her. Most ladies will agree with me that once you pound them past 20 mins, I mean actual trusting o, their V gets dried up. Why does that happen? Because the V is tired of getting pounded and it shuts down. Every other pounding after that is just punishment but most won't tell you because they are patiently waiting for you to climax except she gets bruised which often is the result.

Great sex is spiritual and both partners must connect on a different realm during the act. Our minds have been corrupted by the porn industry (the ladies inclusive o) that sells us the idea great sex involves ramming a yam-sized shaft down the hole of a lady at supersonic speed. Great sex takes a gradual process that involves the mind and soul of the couple involved. Start slowly by kissing, necking, lightly touching your partner everywhere possible until you are both sensually activated. Proceed as the man to give your woman pleasure in all the ways you both find acceptable which may include tounging and sensual nibbling of her clit.

No be person go tell una when it's time to drive in and finish the ritual. Trust slowly mr man and take note of your woman's hip movement so that you can sync your trusting with the rhythm of her hip movement and please don't ditch kissing her deeply while the trusting is going on. The deep kissing will even help ur shaft stay stiffer. Make sure you don't concentrate on your own pleasure lest you erupt. Instead concentrate on the beauty on your woman's face because by this time her eyes are closed and she has abandoned this world on a trip to the 9th cloud. That look of surrender also is a good motivator and shaft stiffner (great guys in bed can relate to this). I bet you in 10 mins, she would have convulsed twice with orgasm before yours.

Don't pound your woman hours on end, that's not what great sex is, pleasure her instead and watch her world revolve around you. Love making is not war, it's an art.

Q.E.D #Checkengine

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by unmask: 4:47am On Aug 18, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)
and they all say terry g sings rubbish.........*singing* ginger o ginger, ginger o ginger

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Nobody: 4:51am On Aug 18, 2016
martineinstein:
u must be an old man...for u to remember dat song,it shows u arent from indomie generation

I don't think I can forget that song. That's the song that actually made Ludacris popular before the release of his own hit track.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Burgerlomo: 4:54am On Aug 18, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)

Gracias D Doc. in the house, me too need am grin
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by igbanbajo(m): 5:39am On Aug 18, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by ogzille(m): 5:57am On Aug 18, 2016
1. Check for infection. If he is infection free, then
2. How often do you guys have sex or was he very sexually active? If true, then
3. He may just need a break for his body to reset. Like a 6 month sex and romance free break. Maybe he only needs a break. Sometimes when one cant perform, a reset is all that is needed and not a drug to perform.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by nyabinghi(m): 6:00am On Aug 18, 2016
I am a 65 minute man, divorce him or see me for away matches, your kitten won't be the same again, expect me to deposit loads of spunk in there.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Category1: 6:09am On Aug 18, 2016
tolatawni:
huh....how wont i know....
U are a fool!
U are the same person who wrote this topic, but different moniker...
I had to check ur profile coz u both registered the same time grin
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by HaroldFinch(m): 6:14am On Aug 18, 2016
less sugar intake, more exercise (go jogging with him every morning.... this is to control his breathing and tiredness), mental control, tell him to forget about his orgasm and focus on you, just you alone. Lastly, a trick that has worked for some folks is taking a shower after each round.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Kpapa1978: 6:31am On Aug 18, 2016
Write me back end on my email kolameg2000 at yahoo.com I will tell you the solution and your husband will be okay and will last longer in bed when having sex..Kaypapa
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by thedarams: 6:34am On Aug 18, 2016
This is quite simple but requires about five(5) different activities. (1). You must talk together and make him admit he has a little challenge and that it doesn't mean you are wayward. (2). Go for medical check-up and rule out any medical health issue. (3). Reverse his usual/common food and activities(if possible). (4). Try natural herbs and counsel(yem kem,oko oloyun, oroki and the likes). (5). Sex film is very important in this situation. Some have been wondering why it's allowed on the web up till now...the American govt allowed it as a means of teaching sexuality to couples having this kind of challenge, which is one of the leading causes of broken homes in developed countries. Many couples have been able to overcome this kind of situation, you are not alone in it...#don't give up and never you try another man..that will hurt or end the marriage in the long run.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by damtee(m): 6:35am On Aug 18, 2016
let's communicate,there is a long lasting solution for h im
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by erimmy(m): 6:42am On Aug 18, 2016
Meanwhile my wife doesn't like sex.Different strokes for different folks.I'm really sorry for ya case,but I think he should engage more in physical exercise. Anyone who can help me on ma own case? Also check my signature for help on how to obtain your international passports.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by tbliss22(m): 6:45am On Aug 18, 2016
datigboguy:



Didn't u guys date b4 getting married? U shud have known about his weakness before now and choose Weda to marry him or not.. I don't like d idea of medicine after death.. Ur hubby needs medical advice

My thoughts exactly, maybe she never even tested the engine before marriage. Medical advice is all she needs.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Flexherbal(m): 6:48am On Aug 18, 2016
LaExpert:


contact Flexherbal.

I've heard lots of testimonies from people about him.
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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by jr3: 6:52am On Aug 18, 2016
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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Handsomeemmy(m): 6:57am On Aug 18, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)
This is wh they called comprehensive report.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by einsteino(m): 6:58am On Aug 18, 2016
It is either you have been banging guys who always have condoms on or who take aphrodisiacs and pills(has side effects) to aid their performance. You need to do some research yourself and find out how long an average guy can naturally last in bed in a skin to skin sex. while there are methods he could employ to improve, he actually isn't doing bad naturally.

and even that your five minutes cant be a reliable measurement cos in the midst of the whole ectasy, time flies and time keeping becomes sloppy
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Lagazine(m): 7:02am On Aug 18, 2016
I have no advice because my own wife is just like that. When u marry someone who run away from sex, u have no option than to continue searching for a wayout. So, its not only guys, some ladies are like dat as well.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by DedeNkem: 7:08am On Aug 18, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

As long as you have had some experience of what great sex is, it could end your marriage if you and your husband don't do anything about it soon!

Read my response ( I pasted it below) from another thread. It has good info to help you have great sex. It can help your Husband last long and give you a great sex.

(https://www.nairaland.com/3232154/reasons-should-not-divorce-man/2#47648503):

For better for worst doesn't apply in every situation.

Examples where it applies;
When something bad happens to your partner of which he or she had no control of. E.g. Car crash he didn't cause, Family hereditary disease, etc.

Examples where it doesn't apply;
When something bad happens to your partner due to his/her recklessness or your partner caused the problem of which he or she could have stopped from happening or resolved. E.g. car crash he/she caused, disease he/she contracted recklessly, domestic abuse, not being able to satisfy sexually, etc.

Back to the topic. Nobody has a genuine reason for not satisfying their partner, unless the person is totally incapacitated clinically.

This man can improve his sex life if he has the knowledge and willingness to follow it through.

There three main reasons why some men cum too early;

1. You've a very high sexual attraction to your woman.
a) Don't do long f*oreplay.
B) Don't use bright light during sex, use a very dimmed light or total darkness (recommended). This will limit your ability to admire your woman's body during sex.
c) Try to distract yourself during sex. Think about what your woman did some time ago that pissed you off. Your woman can help in intervals by pinching your stomach a little hard or giving you a soft slap on your face.

Don't overdo anything to avoid losing your er*ection.

2. If your woman's p*ussy is real tight for your d*ick. This one is the hardest because the above tips can't help you here. The more tight your woman is, the more quicker you cum.
a) Turn her on very well during a long intense f*oreplay before intercourse.
b) You can use a vibrating intimacy gadget on her to put her in the intense sexual mood faster and may even cum.

3) Lack of stamina. Yes, it can cause premature eja*culation.
a) Engage in Cardio workouts like Circuit Training, Indoor Cycling, High-Intensity Interval Training, Plyometrics, Indoor Rowing, etc. Choose the on you're comfortable with if you unable to try all. Mine is Indoor Cycling.
b) Eat healthy. A healthy body works better.

If none of the above tips worked for you, then go commando;

1. Make her cum first before intercourse.
Nothing makes a woman cum quicker and harder than o*ral sex. If you're not already doing it to her, start doing it today, if your woman has good hygiene. If not tell her to clean it the way you want before you down on her. Most Nigerian women have Yeast Infection and they have no clue they have it. One of its symptoms is that makes p*ussy stink badly and it's treatable.

2. Short interval before second round.
Within 1-2 mins after the first cum, do whatever you can to erect your d*ick again. Your woman can help make it faster. As soon as your d*ick is fully erected go into her again. This time you will last very very long.

3. Masturbate in 1-2 mins before sex.
This one is a bit similar to the above (2) and will achieve the same or better result. If your woman have no time for two rounds and you want to go once and go big. Or you have a new girlfriend you want to give a good first impression sex. This is for you. You can masturbate discreetly during shower and then go for the kill.

Good luck f*ucking!
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by ifycelebrity(f): 7:10am On Aug 18, 2016
teekol:
Thanks for all your comments. He is not a sugar person. We have tried different herbs but I learnt they have side effects. I dont just know what to do

The truth is that he is tired just like you pointed out. He is tired. Why? What does he do for a living? That is where the problem is. Many times, our professions require us to take work home with us in one form or the other. Try to limit this spillover effect. Also be adventurous in bed. Let him use toys and tongues to spice your sex life.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Lagazine(m): 7:12am On Aug 18, 2016
teekol:
All your suggestions are noted. Who knows of any potent drug he can use. Pls help
pls, don't accept any drug prescription because, it will surely have a side effect. Tell him to start doing exercise. If not everyday, make it every weekend. U will see some changes.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by kolomax(m): 7:13am On Aug 18, 2016
sweetilicious:
You are a darling. Good food is the best remedy. You have to take care of his diet and ensure he eats well on time. You have to help him out cos he is also not happy you are not getting satisfied.
read and comprehend it's not difficult at all than pouring your frustration on me

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