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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by maasoap(m): 8:07am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings
halfricanadian:
Dear romancelander
i really need to apologise to a wonderful amazing God sent guy in my life that i treated bad i really feel terrible inside please romancelander help me apologise on my behalf that i am sorry i over reacted i was selfish i had dis big fat ego i av been filled with pride which has eaten me deep i av been overly jealous rude insultive i never cared to his needs i abandoned him wen he needed me d most all his sign languages i ignored im not a bad person cry cry cry cry i just felt disrespected im really sorry i am ready for a change a new chance i have forgiven forgotten let u b d lead while i follow im sorry help me apologise and to every one i have offended i am sorry cry cry cry cry i'm not d revengful type i wont revenge i have forgiven and ready to open a new chapter with u start afresh i really really appreciate ur efforts im sorry i love u dearly im still me d good girl to u no changes cry cry cry cry help me beg please any one every one im sorry

Not giving the guy a chance is completely different from the guy not treating the girl well. Someone who has never said yes or looked your way, how do you plan to treat them well because I don't see the connection?

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Nobody: 8:14am On Aug 18, 2016
maasoap:



Not giving the guy a chance is completely different from the guy not treating the girl well. Someone who has never said yes or looked your way, how do you plan to treat them well because I don't see the connection?

I tire off no correlation at all
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Nobody: 8:19am On Aug 18, 2016
So what's the big deal ? She didn't responded he got married to someone else so what's the take home point ? Abeg jare that doesn't mean the lady in brown won't find someone else
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by emsheddy(m): 8:20am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist
That's because you've never met a guy like me

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Kasnel: 8:24am On Aug 18, 2016
"Love does not exist" hmmmmm. very interesting opinions and reactions. I nearly accepted that warped theory after many heartbreaks until a few days ago... Friends!, love is so beautifully real as the truth of your existence. One thing tho, true love is a personality, sensitive and responsive just like God who is LOVE.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by tk4rd: 8:41am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


for real no reasonable woman will leave d arms of a man that truly shows her love

nd for my type dat stays during thick nd thin if i shd leave a guy it means volumious pains is wat i feel i wish any one Good luck

#smiles i cant force any one to love me

i hold onto God

a man marries nd treats very very well d woman he truly loves

if u are being maltreated nd treated like trash he doesnt love u

u are an option he needs till he finds d woman he wud giv d white wedding gown to
#no hard feelings
Hehehahahahaaa..
Some ladies hate guys that love them so much. They see such guys as fools., and they would start complaining and be treating the guy like a fool.. (Naturally, guys tend to be a little silly when they truly fall in love, but ladies hate it).
Ok naa.. But when the guy wisens up, the first thing he would do is to start seeing other good things in other ladies, and thus, his love for his lady drops a little..
By then, the same lady would start complaining that her boo has changed totally. You can imagine.. Just a little change, and she don dey cry again.??
That's women for us shaaa..
That's the fun afterall.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by michaelwilli(m): 8:44am On Aug 18, 2016
gimakon:


It does my dear. Only maybe you and some other girls spent your time possibly dating the extreme wrong fùck boys who only know swag, and pussy...

Don't be offended. But there are still some good guys out there who want a decent girl.

Cheers.

like me. lol
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by phenase(m): 8:49am On Aug 18, 2016
coolcool
I love the love of life so...Much. Can even drink her bath water.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by gymnasium(m): 8:57am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

it does exist my dear...............just that you ladies are too selective...........somtimes you need to look beyond the physical appearance and go for a long lasting happiness...............remember that no condition is permanent

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Emeonyerichard(m): 9:00am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


for real no reasonable woman will leave d arms of a man that truly shows her love

nd for my type dat stays during thick nd thin if i shd leave a guy it means volumious pains is wat i feel i wish any one Good luck

#smiles i cant force any one to love me

i hold onto God

a man marries nd treats very very well d woman he truly loves

if u are being maltreated nd treated like trash he doesnt love u

u are an option he needs till he finds d woman he wud giv d white wedding gown to
#no hard feelings
did u see the pics at all.. Or u need xplanation.. D gal was rejecting the guys advances and by so doing the guy tried another door. Dy where nvr dating, jst dat her pride nvr allowed her listen to wat d guy had to say.. What a sophisticated way to feel dejected
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by halfricanadian(f): 9:02am On Aug 18, 2016
Emeonyerichard:
did u see the pics at all.. Or u need xplanation.. D gal was rejecting the guys advances and by so doing the guy tried another door. Dy where nvr dating, jst dat her pride nvr allowed her listen to wat d guy had to say.. What a sophisticated way to feel dejected

ok pride u say? ok heard u
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by halfricanadian(f): 9:03am On Aug 18, 2016
pcguru1:
So what's the big deal ? She didn't responded he got married to someone else so what's the take home point ? Abeg jare that doesn't mean the lady in brown won't find someone else

exactly they making it seem like she wont find her own man too

one man's taboo is anoda man's sole desire
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Nobody: 9:10am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist
At the moment, I have to agree with you.

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by seguno2: 9:23am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Are you a member of Chris Oyakhilome's Christ Embassy church?
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by decub: 9:25am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist
It does, but difficult to find

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by bigiyaro(m): 9:33am On Aug 18, 2016
gimakon:


It does my dear. Only maybe you and some other girls spent your time possibly dating the extreme wrong fùck boys who only know swag, and pussy...

Don't be offended. But there are still some good guys out there who want a decent girl.

Cheers.
leave dat tin, the supposedly 'real love' is from is from God to humans but from happenings in the world, death, disease n sufferings, one may really doubt if there is really a supreme being out there who loves his creatures. As for humans, sex is love, spend money on a girl its love. As far as u r giving a human what he needs or wants, it love. Why do you think couples UnCloth each other prior to fvckin, but after the whole thing, each is left to dress up by himself or herself... because nobody likes a fvcked up person.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by yinkslinks(m): 9:36am On Aug 18, 2016
I have real love to offer uote author=lilyqueen post=48568924]Real love doesn't exist [/quote]
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by shaqhead: 9:48am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings
Nope lady, Nobody is talkin about treating a lady right or cheating from that pic and the thread topic-u r changing the narrative here!

The issue here is about ladies who wont even entertain/allow an environment that could foster a relationship wittingly or not by their attitude!

An example would suffice: Ds guy saw ds gurl in church, asked for her number.He called her a couple of times: Most times she doesn't pick, d few times she picked, she sounded like it was her landlord that called to ask for an overdue rent. Even though the guy tries to be all fun, she keeps killing his spirits!

He tries to chat wt her myb she wl b more expressive but all he got was ds interrogation style response of fine, ok, yes, uhumm...

Maybe she doesnt like him....maybe its ds "chilidish forming", but at 29?....hmm..but he likes her and his intentions are pure. He gets tired of trying to break ds wall around her and moves on...meets someone else who "listens" and gets hooked!

This is what we talking about here!

In simple terms what that pic is saying is LADIES SHOULD HEAR MEN OUT then sift the wheat from the chaff cos u just might never know when u watch something beautiful that could have been slip right under ur nose! Simple!

I guess d next line of consolation for the ladies would be "it wasn't meant to be"!
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Nobody: 10:13am On Aug 18, 2016
bigiyaro:
leave dat tin, the supposedly 'real love' is from is from God to humans but from happenings in the world, death, disease n sufferings, one may really doubt if there is really a supreme being out there who loves his creatures. As for humans, sex is love, spend money on a girl its love. As far as u r giving a human what he needs or wants, it love. Why do you think couples UnCloth each other prior to fvckin, but after the whole thing, each is left to dress up by himself or herself... because nobody likes a fvcked up person.


I don't answer to rants like these.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 10:22am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings
The picture didn't say much
What if she wasn't picking cus she felt he wasn't her type
Some girls can size a guy they are meeting for the first time and feel he isn't their type,only to become jelous when they seehim With another girl..
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 10:30am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


exactly they making it seem like she wont find her own man too

one man's taboo is anoda man's sole desire
No be eveybody go mary last last
Wat if that waz her only chaance

U nevr know undecided

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by jhidey08(m): 10:40am On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


for real no reasonable woman will leave d arms of a man that truly shows her love

nd for my type dat stays during thick nd thin if i shd leave a guy it means volumious pains is wat i feel i wish any one Good luck

#smiles i cant force any one to love me

i hold onto God

a man marries nd treats very very well d woman he truly loves

if u are being maltreated nd treated like trash he doesnt love u

u are an option he needs till he finds d woman he wud giv d white wedding gown to
#no hard feelings
no dey talk that thing jor. How do u expect him to show u love when u refuse to give him chance.

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 10:41am On Aug 18, 2016
kiss
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 10:42am On Aug 18, 2016
I hav this aunty,when she wz young,she waz introduced to this young guy who wz just starting life,trying to make ends meet,but she didn't want him,she wanted a guy who wz aalready made,with cars and hwses
Many yrs now she is still singe and. In her late 40s,the. Guy is doin very well now with his family and business..

She lost her chance..

Now she is gonna remain single cus no onewill marry a 50 year old lady
No child,no husband undecided

Girls will nevr agree to start from scratch with a guy,thaats y many girls end up being used.
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Nobody: 10:53am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist
Can u give me a chance in ur life to show u that TRUE love do exist?

Call me +2348180609204
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Mistadora01(m): 11:14am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Bae. are u for real Am still dating a gal till bow this s making t 3yrs. And we haven't had sex. it does jhoor. just that u tend to go for d wrong ones. She's very beautiful and I doubt if am 20% up to her beauty. If she wanted a rich guywith d looks. it wouldn't have lasted. My sincere advice to u. Don't go for looks. follow ya hrt

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by halfricanadian(f): 11:20am On Aug 18, 2016
lurdkriss:
No be eveybody go mary last last Wat if that waz her only chaance
U nevr know undecided
only chance? dats whoever thinketh this in their hrt so shall it b for dem
cos wen there is life there is hope
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by Swizdom(m): 11:46am On Aug 18, 2016
lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

I won't argue with you, sisi, but know this:

Whatever you set your mind to believe that is exactly what you get, even your prayers, fasting, determination won't help solve that. You will one day ask people why you don't find love when others talk about how loved up they are. Keep saying negative things and you will keep getting negative things. Change it to positive thinking and saying, you will likewise get the same. The mind is very powerful, very powerful. Nice day!

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Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 12:00pm On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


only chance? dats whoever thinketh this in their hrt so shall it b for dem

cos wen there is life there is hope
Like hope of getting married at 50
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by halfricanadian(f): 12:01pm On Aug 18, 2016
lurdkriss:
Like hope of getting married at 50
ARE YOU MY GOD?
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by lurdkriss: 12:07pm On Aug 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


ARE YOU MY GOD?
LoL, I'm deffinitely not
Buh God will not come knocking on ur door with a man undecided
Re: He Once Asked Me Out...had I Known by halfricanadian(f): 12:10pm On Aug 18, 2016
lurdkriss:

LoL, I'm deffinitely not
Buh God will not come knocking on ur door with a man undecided

but he can melt my heart make me have a soft spot for d true man he sends to me thats from him

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