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gimakon:
It's well.. I understand.

gimakon:
You have a point there you know..

chris2face:
Yea but I can't do that I feel maybe they are using me anyway am off for good

chris2face:
Exactly my point have done that though but is not easy I feel I have been used

mizzbouqui:
And are you the first person that will help a lady financially don't you ever say to your lady "I made you who you are from nobody" it's not good

Anyways to my own understanding, I think you've been given the title "chairman" , you do the supply and they do the spending
I can't imagine having a male friend in my house at that kind of odd hour when he is not my man
Just be patient and do some thorough findings about the guy and once you found out she is cheating on you dump her ass
ladies are not grateful

And the guy might be the father of her child, who wants them together again but she is refusing, some guys can be very funny, threatening her he will end her relationship with you if she won't give him his child or come back to her.

Engrobiorah:
Thank you

party:
Every girl cheats. Deal with it.

alexistaiwo:
What assurance do you have that your next woman wouldn't be worse. She might be/might not cheating on you. Get your facts straight.

thekingisback:
Bros trust me I have seen worse. The day you start giving a woman trust, you're automatically signing your death warrant. She's only yours when she's with. Have that at the back of your mind. Do you know what my ex did to me even after all I did for her? I don't want to start typing long epistles. If not I would have told you.

Girls are naturally ungrateful. Everything you do for them is seen as a responsibility.

alexistaiwo:
What assurance do you have that your next woman wouldn't be worse. She might be/might not cheating on you. Get your facts straight.

chris2face:
I know better now

thekingisback:
don't allow her to cajole you or sweet talk you into accepting her back. Few men would do what you did for her. To even imagine you rented her an apartment and took her daughter as your own and even sued the father of the child too. Bros people like you are indeed rare. People like her don't deserve anything good. She's an ingrate.

thekingisback:
shut up. It's people like you that give love a very bad name. Are you encouraging ingratitude?

kowalsky:
Every girl cheats.. Deal with it!

thekingisback:
shut up. It's people like you that give love a very bad name. Are you encouraging ingratitude?

baddestchic:
if every girl cheats.... then it implies same for guys.... what am trying to say is.... it means youre a cheat



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kowalsky:
You look like a gurl who cheats very often

chris2face:
I meet this lady about a year ago and feel in love with her even though she is got a daughter
She has got nothing when I meet her,her elder brother drove her out when she got pregnant for her then boyfriend who later denied the pregnancy
I guess I should just go to the main issue,yesterday I went unannounced to her house the house that I paid with my money around 10.30pm
I noticed she was taking time in opening the door,eventually she did on coming inside close to her doorstep I meet his guy in jalamia standing there
I went inside and my girl told me that I should please excuse her to see her visitor off
On coming back I asked who the guy is she is telling me that he is just an ordinary friend from the church
An ordinary friend that will visit a girl at almost to 11 in the night,out of annoyance I told her she has been cheating on me and she took up off her cloths that I should see if she just cheated
This is a girl I made what she is,loved her and her kid unconditionally but where she is cheating
I left that night and she is been on my neck that I should forgive her and even telling me that I don't trust her,anyway the guy she was with called me imagine telling she is just her casual friend that she loves me bla bla
I can't take this,i have asked my self so many questions while will an ordinary friend visit her at that odd hour?
Why did it took her so long to open the gate for me?
Naira landers please help a fellow
I don't think am ready to continue that friendship not anymore

gimakon:
Relax, I would say you shouldn't conclude yet. But thinking of it 10:30pm at night is way too wrong for a man to be in the house of a lady who you aren't dating, I wouldn't say you call it off 100% but I'd say you don't take everything out of your hands first of all without having some evidence.

Call her and caution her that you're not comfortable with the idea of that fellow coming over to the house at that time, but in secret, make your findings and don't make her find out, don't be nosy much just pretend and be a man, when you find out things you want to and they don't suit you, you can then call it off for good, but for now, don't be in a haste to do what you have in mind... have some good evidence first. This works for me.

chris2face:
Bros thanks but sincerely I don't see my self going back into that relationship

thekingisback:
Bros trust me I have seen worse. The day you start giving a woman trust, you're automatically signing your death warrant. She's only yours when she's with. Have that at the back of your mind. Do you know what my ex did to me even after all I did for her? I don't want to start typing long epistles. If not I would have told you.

Girls are naturally ungrateful. Everything you do for them is seen as a responsibility.

AfroKnight:
I feel your pain. Forget her and move on. You no be pikin. Nobody fit bobo you say dat guy na casual friend.

Just forget all you spent on her. But next time, don't spend so much on a babe you have not married . Single ladies hardly appreciate such favours.

chris2face:
I meet this lady about a year ago and feel in love with her even though she is got a daughter
She has got nothing when I meet her,her elder brother drove her out when she got pregnant for her then boyfriend who later denied the pregnancy
I guess I should just go to the main issue,yesterday I went unannounced to her house the house that I paid with my money around 10.30pm
I noticed she was taking time in opening the door,eventually she did on coming inside close to her doorstep I meet his guy in jalamia standing there
I went inside and my girl told me that I should please excuse her to see her visitor off
On coming back I asked who the guy is she is telling me that he is just an ordinary friend from the church
An ordinary friend that will visit a girl at almost to 11 in the night,out of annoyance I told her she has been cheating on me and she took up off her cloths that I should see if she just cheated
This is a girl I made what she is,loved her and her kid unconditionally but where she is cheating
I left that night and she is been on my neck that I should forgive her and even telling me that I don't trust her,anyway the guy she was with called me imagine telling she is just her casual friend that she loves me bla bla
I can't take this,i have asked my self so many questions while will an ordinary friend visit her at that odd hour?
Why did it took her so long to open the gate for me?
Naira landers please help a fellow
I don't think am ready to continue that friendship not anymore

DeeTus:
Stay away from baby mamas. They are simply full of drama and are only concerned with their comfort.

I understand wanting to help her but she had succeeded milking you and turning you into a wussy.

Efewestern:
I Feel for the little girl..

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After reading your comments, I'd suggest you move on.. She doesn't worth u a bit..

God bless u