Begonia:

The monster lead himself on.
No means no not "murder me if you can't get me"
Whatever so called story behind his madness is surely not connected to her.
You guys on this forum should stop this constant female victim blaming. It's shows an extreme lack of moral values brought about by chauvinistic stupidity.

Scientist have proved that the feelings derived from heart break s same as the effects drug has on us.

We can talk till tomorrow on this matter but the truth is that the did is done and no one is saying what he did is wrong but even if we preach against it till tomorrow there is a possibility of a recurrence somewhere else tomorrow.

We can only prevent cos you can never preempt the reaction of a man or woman when it comes to matters of the earth.

Some commit suicide due to hbreak and some take out another cos there is a loss of mental coherence for some people when faced with heartbreak.

Sis believe me..some ladies are heartless that they will lead a man on and crash his heart to pieces and if the guy commits suicide they call him a fool, if he goes mad they say why but if he loses it and take the life of the lady they call hi. wicked.

As I wrote, I'm not in support of taking a life except in sincere self defence but our ladies must refrain from leading a man on.

Don't take his dime if you know you don't want him..font say yes just to waste his time and on and on.

if any man allows himself to be led on then he must be st.upid...... your position on this topic reveals a vulnerability in your person that reeks of emotional and possibly mental instability... I hope am wrong though...

Toks2008:


Scientist have proved that the feelings derived from heart break s same as the effects drug has on us.

We can talk till tomorrow on this matter but the truth is that the did is done and no one is saying what he did is wrong but even if we preach against it till tomorrow there is a possibility of a recurrence somewhere else tomorrow.

We can only prevent cos you can never preempt the reaction of a man or woman when it comes to matters of the earth.

Some commit suicide due to hbreak and some take out another cos there is a loss of mental coherence for some people when faced with heartbreak.

Sis believe me..some ladies are heartless that they will lead a man on and crash his heart to pieces and if the guy commits suicide they call him a fool, if he goes mad they say why but if he loses it and take the life of the lady they call hi. wicked.

As I wrote, I'm not in support of taking a life except in sincere self defence but our ladies must refrain from leading a man on.

Don't take his dime if you know you don't want him..font say yes just to waste his time and on and on.

DesChyko:
As long as that man may be a psychopath and guilty of murder, there is a huge void to be filled, and which may never be.

How did David and her late daughter begin? Were there favours, sacrifices and promises?

Just the other day, we read of a lady who gobbled cash off a guy at an eatery and deceived the guy, alighting at an uncompleted building, followed a shortcut and disappeared, leaving the guy waiting for no one. Do we honestly expect a handshake from this guy to the girl when next they cross paths?

R.I.P. Lady. We hope you died innocent.

P.S.: For those of you attacking me, continue. I have four sisters in all and for those that are single, I always caution them to be wary of relationships that hinge on promises and favours. There are often prices to pay when they are contravened. Call me a murderer if you will, just don't encourage your acquaintances to do the same, even if you have no qualms with it.

This is a very despicable post. Stop it

DesChyko:
As long as that man may be a psychopath and guilty of murder, there is a huge void to be filled, and which may never be.

How did David and her late daughter begin? Were there favours, sacrifices and promises?

Just the other day, we read of a lady who gobbled cash off a guy at an eatery and deceived the guy, alighting at an uncompleted building, followed a shortcut and disappeared, leaving the guy waiting for no one. Do we honestly expect a handshake from this guy to the girl when next they cross paths?

R.I.P. Lady. We hope you died innocent.

P.S.: For those of you attacking me, continue. I have four sisters in all and for those that are single, I always caution them to be wary of relationships that hinge on promises and favours. There are often prices to pay when they are contravened. Call me a murderer if you will, just don't encourage your acquaintances to do the same, even if you have no qualms with it.

it is clear you didn't read about their story when it happened. well according to her siblings, she was killed because she turned him down

This story aside and on another note, a lot of young ladies will tell you "He's my maga, he's been toasting me and I'm only chopping his money". This is a game most young ladies have played. It's a fun game, just chop and move on to the next mugu but the game could potentially turn deadly if you play it with a psychopath.

This game has been the genesis of most rapes and crimes of passion where the lady felt she was just playing a game with a dumb guy.
Then the "used guy" decides to humiliate her or collect his pound of flesh the first chance he gets her alone. This is why rapists will say, "she is my girlfriend" and the lady will say something else. Two friends with patient boyfriends eventually lost their virginity to married men who they were "playing with just for fun, trips and cash". The men eventually forced themselves on the ladies after a light kissing session. The ladies then came back to tell their boyfriends stories of rape. Ladies please don't put yourself at risk, not everybody is a human being abeg.

Not in any way justifying these crimes of passion but just a note caution to ladies that play games on men they do not want to marry.

JustHere2Observ:


I dont think you understand how an obsessive mind works. You dont have to create any enabling environment, they are mentally unstable. I had an experience with one, never told him I liked him, never dated him but he keeps bothering me, lurking around my street and even threatens me until I reported him. Luckily his family moved away but he stayed in touch on Facebook until I blocked him. All these happened for as long as 6 years. They can't take no for an answer.

The issue is this: In this man's case; Did they date or did they not date? Can you fully explain the man's role in her life from entry to exit? You can't. Neither can I. There is a void that must be filled.
The death is gruesome; it is untimely. It is frowned upon. I'm just exposing another avenue how ladies let in such men into their lives and cause what they got. And I commented with uncertainty. It is not known. May never be known. The living just have to be careful

DesChyko:
As long as that man may be a psychopath and guilty of murder, there is a huge void to be filled, and which may never be.

How did David and her late daughter begin? Were there favours, sacrifices and promises?

Just the other day, we read of a lady who gobbled cash off a guy at an eatery and deceived the guy, alighting at an uncompleted building, followed a shortcut and disappeared, leaving the guy waiting for no one. Do we honestly expect a handshake from this guy to the girl when next they cross paths?

R.I.P. Lady. We hope you died innocent.

P.S.: For those of you attacking me, continue. I have four sisters in all and for those that are single, I always caution them to be wary of relationships that hinge on promises and favours. There are often prices to pay when they are contravened. Call me a murderer if you will, just don't encourage your acquaintances to do the same, even if you have no qualms with it.

Oga are you a psychopath yourself? Why looking for justification for the heinous crime? Please let the dead rest. That man in question should be made to face the wrath of the law and pray any of yours don't meet a psychopath. If they do, you wont have time to type all those your justification. There is no reason whatsoever for the man to gruesomely murder a woman. PERIOD!!!

ourchoice:
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Some men can go spiritual, diabolical and occultic if u pay with their emotion...so as a lady, play safe...this world is deep, so many people are not ordinary, then don't take issues for granted, they are ready to kill for nothing..

You know, a cousin once had this issue, dating a guy, then dropping him to marry another.

The guy came to collect all the cash he spent on her and we the males began to defend her honour, resulting in a war of words with the guy.

But my mother mentioned something that has a role to play in my comment today. She let us understand that we have no idea how their relationship was. All we are basing our conclusions on is hearsay. The real witnesses to the relationship is the man and the woman. She begged us to resolve it amicably otherwise the guy may go diabolical on her womb or married life and we lose a lot more than just her honour. She spoke from a female's point of view.

Things dey happen. We just have to acknowledge it.

tete7000:


Oga are you a psychopath yourself? Why looking for justification for the heinous crime? Please let the dead rest. That man in question should be made to face the wrath of the law and pray any of yours don't meet a psychopath. If they do, you wont have time to type all those your justification. There is no reason whatsoever for the man to gruesomely murder a woman. PERIOD!!!

This, my friend, is just you being blind to the realities of our existence. Tomorrow, we may see another story of this sort, and you may repeat your claim of 'no reason'. But it happened and your denial didn't stop it from happening. The living just have to keep in mind that such happens and play their parts in making sure such doesn't befall them.

DesChyko:


So says the first sentence of my comment.
However, we must not let sentiments paint the lady innocent of any wrongdoing simply because she is dead.

I was simply seizing on this misfortune to address certain things ladies do that may throw a man over the edge. It's a two-way thing.

she asked the man if her daughter owed him anything but he said no that he was just angry... I'm not trying to start a tribal war, but I think Yoruba men are obsessive lovers and they are always quick to use violence when things don't work out... I've noticed it with them and I pray that I never have them as admirers... I don't know if it's a Yoruba thing but I've had more than one violent scenario with them and that is why I walk as fast as my legs can carry me once I discover that my supposed toaster is Yoruba, it might be a coincidence though... they got no chill at all and can kill someone for rejecting them, what they don't realize is that being soft and gentle with a lady gives them a better chance of getting her... I've had my wrist broken more than once for refusing to kiss a Yoruba boy, those guys sha... I think he was an obsessive lover so the lady ran for her dear life, this type of man sef will kill her for talking to another man

dROC1:
This story aside and on another note, a lot of young ladies will tell you "He's my maga, he's been toasting me and I'm only chopping his money". This is a game most young ladies have played. It's a fun game, just chop and move on to the next mugu but the game could potentially turn deadly if you play it with a psychopath.

This game has been the genesis of most rapes and crimes of passion where the lady felt she was just playing a game with a dumb guy.
Then the "used guy" decides to humiliate her or collect his pound of flesh the first chance he gets her alone. This is why rapists will say, "she is my girlfriend" and the lady will say something else. Two friends with patient boyfriends eventually lost their virginity to married men who they were "playing with just for fun, trips and cash". The men eventually forced themselves on the ladies after a light kissing session. The ladies then came back to tell their boyfriends stories of rape. Ladies please don't put yourself at risk, not everybody is a human being abeg.

Not in any way justifying these crimes of passion but just a note caution to ladies that play games on men they do not want to marry.

Yes you are.

As usual many stupid nairaland guys will come here and blame the victim as long as the victim is female.
Most Nigerian men are very stupid! You can find them on nairaland. Can't you fools read?? She rejected the psychos gifts and advances yet she was murdered and then you morons are twisting the story, saying probably the guy spent so much on her. That's so stupid!!

You guys always feel a lady owes you her life cos you spent money on her. I'll never advice my sisters to marry nigerian men. Misogynistic donkeys!

I'm Nigerian. Don't quote me.

daretodiffer:


Relationship is a risk. Do you actually need another human being to tell you that common sense? If you are not willing to take that risk, you shouldn't be in a relationship. No one asked them to spend their money or time. They did because they wanted to, because they were willing to take the risk. Sacrificing all you have is not a precondition to love, na you get your sacrifices and frankly, I don't see how anyone would rather be married out of pity than love.
There are many some men who should be shot for taking advantages of women too. This shit goes both ways:g\


I can't see where in the article she was ever in the relationship with the guy

while you are on point with all you have said, I didn't see anywhere in the op which stated that she collected gifts and rejected his overtures later on.

all I read was that she rejected his advances and gifts and she was killed in a fit of rage.

Thumbs up.

Begonia:

The monster lead himself on.
No means no not "murder me if you can't get me"
Whatever so called story behind his madness is surely not connected to her.
You guys on this forum should stop this constant female victim blaming. It's shows an extreme lack of moral values brought about by chauvinistic stupidity .

Achorise:
After dating a bad guy, you want to marry a nice guy.

For those of you who prefer dating a bad guy over good ones, read and be wise.

where was it stated that she was dated him.

all in a bid to comment, you ended up saying rubbish.

They never fail to disappoint. Smh.

tartarus:
As usual many stupid nairaland guys will come here and blame the victim as long as the victim is female.
Most Nigerian men are very stupid! You can find them on nairaland. Can't you fools read?? She rejected the psychos gifts and advances yet she was murdered and then you morons are twisting the story, saying probably the guy spent so much on her. That's so stupid!!

You guys always feel a lady owes you her life cos you spent money on her. I'll never advice my sisters to marry nigerian men. Misogynistic donkeys!

I'm Nigerian. Don't quote me.

Toks2008:


Scientist have proved that the feelings derived from heart break s same as the effects drug has on us.

We can talk till tomorrow on this matter but the truth is that the did is done and no one is saying what he did is wrong but even if we preach against it till tomorrow there is a possibility of a recurrence somewhere else tomorrow.

We can only prevent cos you can never preempt the reaction of a man or woman when it comes to matters of the earth.

Some commit suicide due to hbreak and some take out another cos there is a loss of mental coherence for some people when faced with heartbreak.

Sis believe me..some ladies are heartless that they will lead a man on and crash his heart to pieces and if the guy commits suicide they call him a fool, if he goes mad they say why but if he loses it and take the life of the lady they call hi. wicked.

As I wrote, I'm not in support of taking a life except in sincere self defence but our ladies must refrain from leading a man on.

Don't take his dime if you know you don't want him..font say yes just to waste his time and on and on.

you seem to know alot... what should be done to those stalkers who refuse to take no as an answer and decide to go violent on you... I don't see any reason whatsoever to blame the victim, I've been a victim of obsessive admirers and there is really nothing one can do to stop them, the only option is relocation and changing details... how possible is that in a country like Nigeria, do we have to keep changing location cause of an unstable human being? In developed countries, we see cases where the psychopath relocates with his victim sef, The perfect guy is one movie that describes this situation very well, the lady had to kill the guy to be free from him... you don't even need to collect a dime from the psychopath for him to decide to frustrate your life, just pray that nobody you know becomes a victim of this, it's not an easy battle, believe me

daretodiffer:
That was why I told the Id.iot stalking me on this forum that is it were in the physical world, I would kill him after exercising all my legal options.

The mor.on thought I was joking. I meant it

women and mouth sha.


NL comedy

herbie27:
I get your message, "ladies should be careful".
I think that lady was a very responsible one.

I like you oo, can we like date or be F@#K buddies

NgcoboP:
if any man allows himself to be led on then he must be st.upid...... your position on this topic reveals a vulnerability in your person that reeks of emotional and possibly mental instability... I hope am wrong though...

On the contrary you are enmeshed in perpeptual hypocritical denial of a possible incoherence in the reaction of humans.

It will be insane for anyone to support what the guy did but i try as much as possible to see issues from a realistic point rather from the hypocritical side.

We hear stories of ladies chopping off the manhood of guys,pouring acid on some guys and we even have a case where a lady poisons her hubby cos "she heard" of his infidelity...so what is my point?

It is better to always play safe and not do things that may aggravate the other person. There are some humans that are too jealous to a fault and these are Scorpios and leos..they are highly possessive and can harm themselves if they are heart broken while i am a gemini with a fickle touch and i can never react the way a scorpio or leo will react to a heartbreak.

We must play safe at all time by not saying yes when we are not interested or allow a lady or guy to spend years with us just for us to shatter their heart.


If you don't understand my point then im sorry i can explain further.....I dont support what the guy did but i have seen ladies who stole their dad's money and organize robbery just to use the money to help a guy who latter dumped them and unfortunately the robbers went extra mile to kill both parents at teh time of the robbery...Abeg if you are this lady will you leave judgement to GOD if such a guy fvcks up?

I repeat, i will never support any beastial act against another human for any reason but according to the law of dynamics, "for every action, there just might be a bigger reaction"

smileysmiley:
you seem to know alot... what should be done to those stalkers who refuse to take no as an answer and decide to go violent on you... I don't see any reason whatsoever to blame the victim, I've been a victim of obsessive admirers and there is really nothing one can do to stop them, the only option is relocation and changing details... how possible is that in a country like Nigeria, do we have to keep changing location cause of an unstable human being? In developed countries, we see cases where the psychopath relocates with his victim sef, The perfect guy is one movie that describes this situation very well, the lady had to kill the guy to be free from him... you don't even need to collect a dime from the psychopath for him to decide to frustrate your life, just pray that nobody you know becomes a victim of this, it's not an easy battle, believe me

Please please dont twist my message.. i am not blaming the victim in this story..please get that straight

What i am saying is that ladies must be very careful not to lead a man on or say yes to a guy because they want some things from him because you never know if that person is a demon in man's flesh.

If you see a stalker biko report him to the police as long as you know you dont want him....we have innocent stalkers but when you strat to get uncomfortable please bring the police in and make him sign undertaken as well as get the police to know his family members and get them involved.

If the lady had allowed her mum to take that step i guess she will still be alive today.

BTW:I dont know too much...i am only very opinionated and once i discover im wrong about an issue i take corrections.

Fulani turned Yoruba.

tt148:


I like you oo, can we like date or be F@#K buddies

Thanks!, if i need a f*ck i know where to get one.

BS
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Toks2008:


On the contrary you are enmeshed in perpeptual hypocritical denial of a possible incoherence in the reaction of humans.

It will be insane for anyone to support what the guy did but i try as much as possible to see issues from a realistic point rather from the hypocritical side.

We hear stories of ladies chopping off the manhood of guys,pouring acid on some guys and we even have a case where a lady poisons her hubby cos "she heard" of his infidelity...so what is my point?

It is better to always play safe and not do things that may aggravate the other person. There are some humans that are too jealous to a fault and these are Scorpios and leos..they are highly possessive and can harm themselves if they are heart broken while i am a gemini with a fickle touch and i can never react the way a scorpio or leo will react to a heartbreak.

We must play safe at all time by not saying yes when we are not interested or allow a lady or guy to spend years with us just for us to shatter their heart.


If you don't understand my point then im sorry i can explain further.....I dont support what the guy did but i have seen ladies who stole their dad's money and organize robbery just to use the money to help a guy who latter dumped them and unfortunately the robbers went extra mile to kill both parents at teh time of the robbery...Abeg if you are this lady will you leave judgement to GOD if such a guy fvcks up?

I repeat, i will never support any beastial act against another human for any reason but according to the law of dynamics, "for every action, there just might be a bigger reaction"

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tartarus:
As usual many stupid nairaland guys will come here and blame the victim as long as the victim is female.
Most Nigerian men are very stupid! You can find them on nairaland. Can't you fools read?? She rejected the psychos gifts and advances yet she was murdered and then you morons are twisting the story, saying probably the guy spent so much on her. That's so stupid!!

You guys always feel a lady owes you her life cos you spent money on her. I'll never advice my sisters to marry nigerian men. Misogynistic donkeys!

I'm Nigerian. Don't quote me.

Honestly, some are so disgraceful.
It's disappointing!

DesChyko:


This, my friend, is just you being blind to the realities of our existence. Tomorrow, we may see another story of this sort, and you may repeat your claim of 'no reason'. But it happened and your denial didn't stop it from happening. The living just have to keep in mind that such happens and play their parts in making sure such doesn't befall them.

They happen when you have psychopaths, people with sick minds, people with obsessive and twisted minds. Thats where the place of prayer is - pray that your sisters don't meet one. If they do and the kind of that incidence happen to them?, You will search for justification in your head and won't find, that time you ll be the one cursing anyone trying to help you rationalise what has happened.
Don't men too treat women badly? Why is it that it is instances of women treating women in bad way that people like you always seek to use to justify evil. Evil is evil irrespective of why it happened. It takes only another with an evil mind to justify evil. There is no reason for the man to gruesomely murder that women. Only sick people behave that way. Simple!!!

Painful!
Truly Painful.
There is a great difference between Love, Infatuation & Obsession.
True love does not harm. True love celebrates peoples happiness against all odds.

.......nothing can justify such an act.
Let Love have His way in us.

DesChyko:


So says the first sentence of my comment.
However, we must not let sentiments paint the lady innocent of any wrongdoing simply because she is dead.

I was simply seizing on this misfortune to address certain things ladies do that may throw a man over the edge. It's a two-way thing.

You should be arrested too, that your stupid brain needs to reset!
Spewing rubbish and nonsense!!!!

Imagine the fool justifying murder!
DesChyko, have you killed before?

usbcable:

Guys like him always wants something in return for any favors.
Imagine him trying to justify murder of a Lady you claim to woo. And because she no free extended the anger to her mum.

Too bad some people are animals moving about in human clothing.

DesChyko:
As long as that man may be a psychopath and guilty of murder, there is a huge void to be filled, and which may never be.

How did David and her late daughter begin? Were there favours, sacrifices and promises?

Just the other day, we read of a lady who gobbled cash off a guy at an eatery and deceived the guy, alighting at an uncompleted building, followed a shortcut and disappeared, leaving the guy waiting for no one. Do we honestly expect a handshake from this guy to the girl when next they cross paths?

R.I.P. Lady. We hope you died innocent.

P.S.: For those of you attacking me, continue. I have four sisters in all and for those that are single, I always caution them to be wary of relationships that hinge on promises and favours. There are often prices to pay when they are contravened. Call me a murderer if you will, just don't encourage your acquaintances to do the same, even if you have no qualms with it.

YOU!
ARE!!
MAD!!!

tete7000:


They happen when you have psychopaths, people with sick minds, people with obsessive and twisted minds. Thats where the place of prayer is - pray that your sisters don't meet one. If they do and the kind of that incidence happen to them?, You will search for justification in your head and won't find, that time you ll be the one cursing anyone trying to help you rationalise what has happened.
Don't men too treat women badly? Why is it that it is instances of women treating women in bad way that people like you always seek to use to justify evil. Evil is evil irrespective of why it happened. It takes only another with an evil mind to justify evil. There is no reason for the man to gruesomely murder that women. Only sick people behave that way. Simple!!!

just like jungle justice! is somehow not right no matter the crime committed abi?

I will rather advice my NL fam here to be careful when dealing with people. don't take them as fools even if they seem like. humans are not computer. you can manipulate computer not humans. if u try it there will be chaos!
the prolonged ascence of a father figure (daddy) also has a huge effect in this tragic occurrence.
may we not encounter such a character(aggressor) in our lives.
RIP to the lady.
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