This thread is annoying... Here we go with the Generalizations again that every guy wants sex.

Op these are jst few opinions 4rm 4-6 guys out of the millions of guys in Nigeria. You can't jst assume that every guy wants sex.

You have to knw the kind of pipo u mingle with and the kind of guys u hangout with. You want a guy that can wait then mingle with guys 4rm ur church and other Godly gathering.

U can't meet a guy out at a bar or a club and expect him to wait.. My sis ur on a long thing, do the right thing and get the expected result.

If u want to make fruit salad go and buy thing 4rm a fruit shop.. Don't expect to go to a meat market and find fruits..

mrkay101:
This thread is annoying... Here we go with the Generalizations again that every guy wants sex.

Op these are jst few opinions 4rm 4-6 guys out of the millions of guys in Nigeria. You can't jst assume that every guy wants sex.

You have to knw the kind of pipo u mingle with and the kind of guys u hangout with. You want a guy that can wait then mingle with guys 4rm ur church and other Godly gathering.

U can't meet a guy out at a bar or a club and expect him to wait.. My sis ur on a long thing, do the right thing and get the expected result.

If u want to make fruit salad go and buy thing 4rm a fruit shop.. Don't expect to go to a meat market and find fruits..

hmmmm but d guy is a worker in d church Na....

daywalkerlol:
Did Jesus Christ preach about sex before marriage or is there any place in the Bible that said those who had sex before marriage won't make heaven or they will make hell fire...

1 Corinthians 6:18

Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

mrkay101:
This thread is annoying... Here we go with the Generalizations again that every guy wants sex.

Op these are jst few opinions 4rm 4-6 guys out of the millions of guys in Nigeria. You can't jst assume that every guy wants sex.

You have to knw the kind of pipo u mingle with and the kind of guys u hangout with. You want a guy that can wait then mingle with guys 4rm ur church and other Godly gathering.

U can't meet a guy out at a bar or a club and expect him to wait.. My sis ur on a long thing, do the right thing and get the expected result.

If u want to make fruit salad go and buy thing 4rm a fruit shop.. Don't expect to go to a meat market and find fruits..

True talk, bro! But unfortunately, the fruit salad market is now mixed with the meat market.


The church itself no longer seems like the safe place to get the "no sex" guy. It's more of a personal thing now.

Emroyy:



True talk, bro! But unfortunately, the fruit salad market is now mixed with the meat market.


The church itself no longer seems like the safe place to get the "no sex" guy. It's more of a personal thing now.

Of cos u'll still find some rotten fruits.. But dats like the best place to start I ur serious. Not evrybody that comes to church actually "come to Church" . If u know what I mean

misscareer:
hmmmm but d guy is a worker in d church Na....

Again I ask.. How did they meet? Where did they meet and what kind of person is dat ur friend.

Cuz the truth is there are some kind o girls that will tell me "no sex" in our relationship and I won't even think twice about bothering dem. While some u jst meet and the 1st thing that pops into ones mind is hw to shag em..

So what am saying is personality matters

mrkay101:


Again I ask.. How did they meet? Where did they meet and what kind of person is dat ur friend.

Cuz the truth is there are some kind o girls that will tell me "no sex" in our relationship and I won't even think twice about bothering dem. While some u jst meet and the 1st thing that pops into ones mind is hw to shag em..

So what am saying is personality matters

great point......the girl is respectable and responsible,they actually met online though....
I reason with you...

My guy actually waited for a year plus. ...












And still waiting coz he knows i ain't ready for dat yet

Simple question you no fit answer you dey quote 1 Corinthians 6:18

honestly, i think its all about choice. if u think u cn have sex with every person u date, ur choice. i don't judge. if u also find it wrong to share sth so personal with someone simply because he's ur bf or gf, fine. there's a reason sex is designed for marriage. that's all.

It is not ND will Neva be

So if there's no sex what am I supposed to be doing in that relationship?

Oh yes! It is more important than the Monetry aspect which is also a basic.

Almost 100% of the guys think its important....
But they end up not trusting the girl they sleep with...
And theses girls are making it so easy for them that when a girl refuses to have sex with them,they jump to the available lady that is willing to sleep with them...
Too bad...

Premarital sex is bad .
It's better you avoid any relationship till when you are ready to get married.

lilyqueen:
Premarital sex is bad .
It's better you avoid any relationship till when you are ready to get married.

Exactly my point!! If I get into a relationship and dont indulge in sex its either the girl calls me "weak" or I have voluntrarily placed my self in her friend zone. Aside sex what can a boy get from a girl that I cant get from you who I have not seen? Though there are merits knowing you but there will be lots of disadvantages.
Truth is the whole concept of relationship is just sex.
So I support you. Its better for a guy to just hustle now,find a girl and court for short period of time then marry. But all these long relationship of a thing just leads to sex.
Better avoid it if you cant deal with the consequences.

lilyqueen:
Premarital sex is bad .
It's better you avoid any relationship till when you are ready to get married.

God bless you dear,yoi don't want to have sexwith him, but you want to have rights of his wife, in which sex is part of it

misscareer:
Almost 100% of the guys think its important....

But they end up not trusting the girl they sleep with...

And theses girls are making it so easy for them that when a girl refuses to have sex with them,they jump to the available lady that is willing to sleep with them...

Too bad...

@ misscareer,
with these facts now, with emphasis on the bolded, what do u deduce?


CC : Yewandequeen

obadizena:



@ misscareer,
with these facts now, with emphasis on the bolded, what do u deduce?


CC : Yewandequeen

For me truth be told it's bad.

But trust me scarcely will you see a guy that will want to keep to the 'no-sex' thing. A lady can still keep to it cos we have more conscience than the guy #not judging. In the early age the no sex things worked but in this age not anymore.

If a guy agrees to a no sex relationahip in this age,either he has never done it before,a comitted pastor or he has a side chick somewhere doing the needful when required.#my opinion

Now back to the topic it isnt a must and neither is it the guys right.

U can opt for romance and add a very strict self control but when both parties are sexually active trust me this question will never surface-it's inevitable

misscareer:
really
So guys don't respect virginity anymore?
Hmmm

Sorry, but is this comment a joke?

misscareer:
Almost 100% of the guys think its important....
But they end up not trusting the girl they sleep with...
And theses girls are making it so easy for them that when a girl refuses to have sex with them,they jump to the available lady that is willing to sleep with them...
Too bad...

Sorry, but I hope you know you have not said anything.

rosy4u:
My guy actually waited for a year plus. ...












And still waiting coz he knows i ain't ready for dat yet

Lol madam be easy. There's more to it. Go and find out.

Yewandequeen:


For me truth be told it's bad.

But trust me scarcely will you see a guy that will want to keep to the 'no-sex' thing. A lady can still keep to it cos we have more conscience than the guy #not judging. In the early age the no sex things worked but in this age not anymore.

If a guy agrees to a no sex relationahip in this age,either he has never done it before,a comitted pastor or he has a side chick somewhere doing the needful when required.#my opinion

Now back to the topic it isnt a must and neither is it the guys right.

U can opt for romance and add a very strict self control but when both parties are sexually active trust me this question will never surface-it's inevitable

@ the bolded,
This could be enforceable only when the girl who is an advocate of no-sex, is allowed to be in full charge and control throughout....
In practice, this is usually not so.
Majority of guys want to have their dick inside the pusssy and are not interested in any alternative approach to relieving sexual stress when it becomes unbearable for them; some cannot even conceive of any other options other than having their dick inside...


.

LePrezident:


Lol madam be easy. There's more to it. Go and find out.

There's NOTHING more to it. I'm a guy and have waited for years. #TeamAbstinenseTillMarriage

Emroyy:


There's NOTHING more to it. I'm a guy and have waited for years. #TeamAbstinenseTillMarriage

Lol this guy, I comment my reserve.

Emroyy:


There's NOTHING more to it. I'm a guy and have waited for years. #TeamAbstinenseTillMarriage

I can only hope you don't get dissapointed post marriage. You should prolly combine your abstinence with prayers sha

misscareer:
Wat will u gain from having sex now,when u can have it without restriction wen u get married?

Mek i hear, even after d so called mariage d girl go begin tel u say them shoot bird mama fly 4 me no sex is no go after all if i no see am i no go pay

EvenVirgin MaryStill had a Holy axx banging. Gals bring up this kinda excuss when they have finish distributing the tin in the past, only to now be looking for a dumbass to dupe wit no Bleep relationship. As for me, axx is what I only need to pound if a girl is serious about not leting me go. Afterall, I'm the bills Pay Master.

If i would agree to sex before marrage then she must nt ask me 4 a dime bt LADIES com to tink of it if afta a no sex relationship and you find out ur man is impotent what will you do

lilyqueen:
Premarital sex is bad .
It's better you avoid any relationship till when you are ready to get married.

May God bless you a lot...

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