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The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 6:46pm On Aug 21, 2016
I've been a blunt person so if you don't like coming to terms with bluntness and gospel truths, you might consider disengaging yourself from this post.

Our romantic culture in this part of the world is one that's largely based on materialism and expected standards laid down by young women in our cities. There's nothing a typical Nigerian girl is more conscious of nowadays than her beauty, looks or 'natural endownments'. In fact, with these, she feels she holds both the yam and the knife! With this assumed position, she tries to set the standards. There's nothing like mercy or pity here; women hardly exhibit 'pity' when they make choices. Anyway, would you prefer to be pitied on? I still don't understand why some young men do not realize that men are expected to set standards too as it stands now! If you struggle to be successful tomorrow, don't just pick any girl; go for the best; go for a successful woman too because even the one that lives in the ghetto might look down on you if you are nothing.

To be sincere, trying to keep beautiful ladies over here in a relationship is a pain on its own because most of our young women are no longer conscious of anything they could showcase to give themselves value in love other than 'natural endownments' and face. As a guy, focus on your priorities first; don't pretend to be superman, trying to please any girl you consider a must-get when your legs are still financially shaky on the ground because she's beautiful. You might soon lose her to that successful man who meets her standards while trying to be Mr Pleasy-Pleasy!

If you are still an undergraduate on campus, don't judge this post because of the pretty young ladies that you are having strings of affairs with; that's campus for you! There's little or no choice, it's a students' community. Wait till you get out of that fantasy land and see if these girls would still be there when you are expected to take responsibilities now cool

Struggling to date a pretty woman without the necessary resources to provide her comfort and financial security simply leads to frustration! If you are not up to the task, why subject yourself to emotional torture in order to please anyone?

My guy, your 6-packs, big chest, fine face, humour, etc, put together, cannot meet this standard if finance is not involved.

Stay alive...don't give yourself unnecessary heart-attack grin

Happy Sunday!

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by donbenedict(m): 6:49pm On Aug 21, 2016
Damn straight! cool

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 6:50pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
Damn straight! cool
I sight you! wink
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by donbenedict(m): 6:54pm On Aug 21, 2016
Rapmoney:
I sight you! wink
na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.
Lol! I guess she possesses big things and pretty face grin
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by donbenedict(m): 7:00pm On Aug 21, 2016
Rapmoney:
Lol! I guess she possesses big things and pretty face grin
dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu grin

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:04pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu grin
Oh! Ah dor dai! grin
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by tosyne2much(m): 7:07pm On Aug 21, 2016
This is a brilliant write-up Oga Rapmoney... You have never disappointed me cool

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:09pm On Aug 21, 2016
tosyne2much:
This is a brilliant write-up Oga Rapmoney... You have never disappointed me cool
Thank you, Tosin. We shouldn't shy away from facts.

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by dickhead01(m): 7:14pm On Aug 21, 2016
True talk
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by lilmax(m): 7:16pm On Aug 21, 2016
warri boys and sense just be like white rice and stew,they go together

but we should note something, there are two types of beautiful women. the ones you get with money and the ones you get with lies grin


so choose cool

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:18pm On Aug 21, 2016
dickhead01:
True talk
A bitter one wink
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by blayde(m): 7:19pm On Aug 21, 2016
True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:23pm On Aug 21, 2016
blayde:
True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

I tell you, this factor defies both culture and religion.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Nobody: 7:28pm On Aug 21, 2016
This one everyone is agreeing with op, let me read the write up.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by IamLEGEND1: 7:29pm On Aug 21, 2016
Best thread I've seen today.

As a jobless guy myself,i know say my best option na to dey hit and run.

Staying one place na direct plea for disaster. if girl offer me,I knack.....she start to dey catch feels...I run.
#Simple
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:30pm On Aug 21, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Best thread I've seen today.

As a jobless guy myself,i know say my best option na to dey hit and run.

Staying one place na direct plea for disaster. if girl offer me,I knack.....she start to dey catch feels...I run.
#Simple
@the knacking part, e be like say you be magician. I wan talk am before but ah nor know how to talk am grin

No worry, you go soon get job wink
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Fidelismaria: 7:36pm On Aug 21, 2016
True talk

Dont give urself HBP over a gurl dat will dump u without blinking an eye

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:36pm On Aug 21, 2016
Fabulocity:
This one everyone is agreeing with op, let me read the write up.
You dey read comments before post?
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by IamLEGEND1: 7:38pm On Aug 21, 2016
Rapmoney:
E be like say you be magician. I wan talk am before but ah nor know how to talk am grin
No worry, you go soon get job wink
Some guys go wan form hardcore....dey try play girls wayo.

before he realises what's going on,babe don jack him sense+wallet spiritually.
for Naija dating scene,no time for man to dey do Omo Mummy.
everybody na king Kong.if you dull,girl go chop you finish.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by faith551(m): 7:39pm On Aug 21, 2016
True but no too true
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Nobody: 7:40pm On Aug 21, 2016
Sometimes, to know if the post is worth the read.
Rapmoney:
You dey read comments before post?
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:42pm On Aug 21, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Some guys go wan form hardcore....dey try play girls wayo.

before he realises what's going on,babe don jack him sense+wallet spiritually.
for Naija dating scene,no time for man to dey do Omo Mummy.
everybody na king Kong.if you dull,girl go chop you finish.
Na e be Ojuju Calabar style grin
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:44pm On Aug 21, 2016
faith551:
True but no too true
Ok. It's like that sometimes.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Nobody: 7:45pm On Aug 21, 2016
We guys should just get our priorities right, make money and every other thing will follow, no one wants to suffer and no guy is glad if he can't provide basic things for his partner.
Splendid piece Rapmoney, splendid piece.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by ojay2053(m): 7:47pm On Aug 21, 2016
Nice one bro.
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Nobody: 7:47pm On Aug 21, 2016
Op, your writeup shows the kind of ladies you surround yourself with..
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by faith551(m): 7:48pm On Aug 21, 2016
Rapmoney:
Ok. It's like that sometimes.

Thank God you know. One thing you should understand is, if a Nigerian girl decides to love you, you'll be the one trying to escape from her grip.Am talking from experience my man,majority go for the money but at the end they cheat with that good looking young dude who is no where near her wealthy boo or husband
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:52pm On Aug 21, 2016
ReddLabel:
Op, your writeup shows the kind of ladies you surround yourself with..
The type of ladies I surround myself with? Do I really surround myself with ladies? Sorry miss, NO!!! I naturally oscillate toward reasonable ambitious women.

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:55pm On Aug 21, 2016
faith551:


Thank God you know. One thing you should understand is, if a Nigerian girl decides to love you, you'll be the one trying to escape from her grip.Am talking from experience my man,majority go for the money but at the end they cheat with that good looking young dude who is no where near her wealthy boo or husband
Are you talking of now or 25 years ago?

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Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 21, 2016
Rapmoney:
The type of ladies I surround myself with? Do I really surround myself with ladies? Sorry miss, NO!!! [/b]I naturally oscillates toward reasonable ambitious women[b].

That's very good. I was quick to judge. Is your lead post not a product of your experience? How do you reconcile it with the emboldened?
Re: The Pains Of Struggling To Date Beautiful Ladies As A Guy by Rapmoney(m): 7:56pm On Aug 21, 2016
ojay2053:
Nice one bro.
wink

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