I've been a blunt person so if you don't like coming to terms with bluntness and gospel truths, you might consider disengaging yourself from this post.

Our romantic culture in this part of the world is one that's largely based on materialism and expected standards laid down by young women in our cities. There's nothing a typical Nigerian girl is more conscious of nowadays than her beauty, looks or 'natural endownments'. In fact, with these, she feels she holds both the yam and the knife! With this assumed position, she tries to set the standards. There's nothing like mercy or pity here; women hardly exhibit 'pity' when they make choices. Anyway, would you prefer to be pitied on? I still don't understand why some young men do not realize that men are expected to set standards too as it stands now! If you struggle to be successful tomorrow, don't just pick any girl; go for the best; go for a successful woman too because even the one that lives in the ghetto might look down on you if you are nothing.

To be sincere, trying to keep beautiful ladies over here in a relationship is a pain on its own because most of our young women are no longer conscious of anything they could showcase to give themselves value in love other than 'natural endownments' and face. As a guy, focus on your priorities first; don't pretend to be superman, trying to please any girl you consider a must-get when your legs are still financially shaky on the ground because she's beautiful. You might soon lose her to that successful man who meets her standards while trying to be Mr Pleasy-Pleasy!

If you are still an undergraduate on campus, don't judge this post because of the pretty young ladies that you are having strings of affairs with; that's campus for you! There's little or no choice, it's a students' community. Wait till you get out of that fantasy land and see if these girls would still be there when you are expected to take responsibilities now

Struggling to date a pretty woman without the necessary resources to provide her comfort and financial security simply leads to frustration! If you are not up to the task, why subject yourself to emotional torture in order to please anyone?

My guy, your 6-packs, big chest, fine face, humour, etc, put together, cannot meet this standard if finance is not involved.

Stay alive...don't give yourself unnecessary heart-attack

Happy Sunday!

Damn straight!

donbenedict:
Damn straight!

I sight you!

Rapmoney:
I sight you!

na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.

donbenedict:
na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.

Lol! I guess she possesses big things and pretty face

Rapmoney:
Lol! I guess she possesses big things and pretty face

dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu

donbenedict:
dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu

Oh! Ah dor dai!

tosyne2much:
This is a brilliant write-up Oga Rapmoney... You have never disappointed me

Thank you, Tosin. We shouldn't shy away from facts.

True talk

warri boys and sense just be like white rice and stew,they go together

but we should note something, there are two types of beautiful women. the ones you get with money and the ones you get with lies


so choose

dickhead01:
True talk

A bitter one

True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

blayde:
True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

I tell you, this factor defies both culture and religion.

This one everyone is agreeing with op, let me read the write up.

IamLEGEND1:
Best thread I've seen today.

As a jobless guy myself,i know say my best option na to dey hit and run.

Staying one place na direct plea for disaster. if girl offer me,I knack.....she start to dey catch feels...I run.
#Simple

@the knacking part, e be like say you be magician. I wan talk am before but ah nor know how to talk am

No worry, you go soon get job

True talk

Dont give urself HBP over a gurl dat will dump u without blinking an eye

Fabulocity:
This one everyone is agreeing with op, let me read the write up.

You dey read comments before post?

True but no too true

Sometimes, to know if the post is worth the read.

Rapmoney:
You dey read comments before post?

IamLEGEND1:
Some guys go wan form hardcore....dey try play girls wayo.

before he realises what's going on,babe don jack him sense+wallet spiritually.
for Naija dating scene,no time for man to dey do Omo Mummy.
everybody na king Kong.if you dull,girl go chop you finish.

Na e be Ojuju Calabar style

faith551:
True but no too true

Ok. It's like that sometimes.

Nice one bro.

Op, your writeup shows the kind of ladies you surround yourself with..

Rapmoney:
Ok. It's like that sometimes.

Thank God you know. One thing you should understand is, if a Nigerian girl decides to love you, you'll be the one trying to escape from her grip.Am talking from experience my man,majority go for the money but at the end they cheat with that good looking young dude who is no where near her wealthy boo or husband

ReddLabel:
Op, your writeup shows the kind of ladies you surround yourself with..

The type of ladies I surround myself with? Do I really surround myself with ladies? Sorry miss, NO!!! I naturally oscillate toward reasonable ambitious women.

faith551:


Thank God you know. One thing you should understand is, if a Nigerian girl decides to love you, you'll be the one trying to escape from her grip.Am talking from experience my man,majority go for the money but at the end they cheat with that good looking young dude who is no where near her wealthy boo or husband

Are you talking of now or 25 years ago?

Rapmoney:
The type of ladies I surround myself with? Do I really surround myself with ladies? Sorry miss, NO!!! [/b]I naturally oscillates toward reasonable ambitious women[b].

That's very good. I was quick to judge. Is your lead post not a product of your experience? How do you reconcile it with the emboldened?