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I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by bond007i(m): 10:13am On Aug 29, 2016
Hi guys,We bring you another damsel in distress, she needs your advice please...

Please somebody help me with this situation I got my stupid self into. I slept with my best friend's boyfriend when she travelled out.
We met in the club, I was really drunk and he offered to take me home and had his friend drive my car to his house. When I was leaving the club my flat mate wasn't anywhere to be found so I had to go to his house, on getting there, I took a shower and he made me indomie, I wasn't so drunk again but a bit tipsy…

Long story short we had sex. I felt so terrible the following day that I begged him to act like it never happened and forget it. We both agreed, after my friend came back from her trip, I felt so guilty I wanted to tell her but because I didn’t want to spoil anything for her, I decided to distance myself from her, she had no idea why, I told her I was going through depression and she believed and always called me to check on me.

Now it’s been almost 4 months since the incident and my friend has travelled again, I recieved a phone call two days ago from her boyfriend saying he misses me and wants to sleep with me that he is happy I am no longer very close with his girlfriend so I don’t need to feel guilty, I dropped the phone on him but he kept calling me back but I didn’t answer.

Today I had a lengthy conversation with my friend and she was crying that she doesn’t know why he hasn’t proposed yet. Should I tell her I slept with him? Should I tell her not to expect a ring from him? Should I tell her to leave him?
I am so confused, somebody please advice me, don’t judge me please, we are all humans and we make mistakes, I am not proud of what I did but I still love my friend and I know this boy is just wasting her time and will never propose.

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Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 29, 2016
All this story sef
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Mimidiva(f): 10:17am On Aug 29, 2016
foolish girl, always drink what your being can control
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by IHATEPUZZY(m): 10:18am On Aug 29, 2016
let ur friend knw.

say d truth and shame d devil
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by IHATEPUZZY(m): 10:19am On Aug 29, 2016
Mimidiva:
foolish girl, always drink what your being can control

do u believe dia z any human above mistake?
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by zixit(m): 10:22am On Aug 29, 2016
give it a try
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by ULSHERLAN(m): 10:32am On Aug 29, 2016
Tell her to leave you not him
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 29, 2016
Tell your friend to focus her energy on something else...

You need to vanish! And resurface when the wedding plan is revealed!

The guy is definitely doing other girls, you shouldn't be one of them, and u definitely shouldn't play CIA.

Just disappear!
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 10:56am On Aug 29, 2016
U get mind sleep with ya friend guy come here talk say u dey tipsy. If i use this hunger mood curse u ehh.. U can never be trusted cant even trust your own self.. Cheat oya come and be going
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:03am On Aug 29, 2016
Hmmm
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by IamLEGEND1: 11:12am On Aug 29, 2016
Women!
#SMH
You slept with ur supposed best friend's boyfriend and somehow you're pointing the accusing finger at the guy.
But it's something we've known since the earth's inception- THE LADY IS NEVER TO BE BLAMED.
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 29, 2016
Leave the both of them alone.

Bad stuff happens. But when you continue ruminating on them, it gets worse.

Don't tell your friend, it will break her and she will blame you for ruining her relationship. Also, leave her boyfriend, he seems like he's a very unserious person... Why did he wait till after she left to call you? He doesn't like you or her. Leave him alone with his trouble.
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by yemoxyl(m): 11:31am On Aug 29, 2016
This Is Super Story........ undecided
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Aug 29, 2016
Oh dear, don't tell her to leave him, tell 'you' to leave the world. Hoes everywhere.
PS: Didn't read the whole content tho, the topic was enough
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by drealbobo(m): 2:27pm On Aug 29, 2016
The deed has been done, jst leave her to handle it herself, if not you would be blame for ruining her relationship. As for you, you had better keep away from gettin tipsy since yu dont know how to controll yourself when you drunk so yu dont fall into the hands of anoda of yur friends bf again. Period.
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Aug 29, 2016
I pity ladies in the hands of today's men. Very few of us are faithful. grin
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by AnodaIT(m): 5:52pm On Aug 29, 2016
While she is contemplating whether to tell the friend or not, there's some guy somewhere that would swear that her babe cannot sleep outside.

Girls sef
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by schumastic(m): 7:36pm On Aug 29, 2016
ladies are their own enemy undecided undecided
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Cool23(m): 10:40pm On Aug 29, 2016
It is always drinks they blame
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Simitrendy: 11:37pm On Aug 29, 2016
What's the title of this movie grin
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 12:22am On Aug 30, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Women!
#SMH

You slept with ur supposed best friend's boyfriend and somehow you're pointing the accusing finger at the guy.
But it's something we've known since the earth's inception- THE LADY IS NEVER TO BE BLAMED.
actually no.The story ain't real
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by MENTORCH(m): 1:28am On Aug 30, 2016
Women like using alcohol as excuse to do what they want to do. For you to have done it; it means you don't value her friendship, so no need to tell her Coz you don't value her.
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by IamLEGEND1: 7:03am On Aug 30, 2016
ILuvGummyBears:
actually no.The story ain't real
Says who?
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by FreeSpirited: 8:01am On Aug 30, 2016
But why are we blaming this lady? Why can't we blame the guy, who carefully planned to Bleep/take advantage of a tipsy lady. why can't we blame the the who still wants a replay of that sex. at least this lady shows remorse unlike the shameless cheat
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by Nobody: 11:58am On Aug 30, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Says who?
the evidence.
1.it has a website link for the story,websites make up outrageous tales to boost tragic/readership
Re: I Slept With My Bestfriends Boyfriend, Should I Tell Her To Leave Him ? by 12choice: 12:37pm On Aug 30, 2016
what an Interesting movie grin[color=#990000][/color]

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