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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Aug 29, 2016
You're a virgin... Oya go and use it to collect money from wells fargo nah angry

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Teeboi56: 11:19pm On Aug 29, 2016
Am still a virgin as a male but i pray dat God should give me strengths to keep it till my wedding night

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Larryfest(m): 11:20pm On Aug 29, 2016
Dem dey use am collect money for bank

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by oluwasegun007(m): 11:21pm On Aug 29, 2016
REASONS;
1. secondary school: Young lover go do

2. Higher Institution: 419 Final year guy and crazy lecturer go do

3. NYSC: " i go marry u " corper Shawn go do

4. Labour Market: Bad ass boss go do for promotion....

................................and the season film never get to end

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by joseph1832(m): 11:21pm On Aug 29, 2016
Bitterleafsoup:
Your still a virgin?
That much is obvious.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Aug 29, 2016
I dunno ooo.
Brb lemme go and ask those men that keep deflowering them.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Jephjay: 11:26pm On Aug 29, 2016
Stop being gendee bias everyday women women what have they done that men have not than worse?
And the women too the sex is too much

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by shogotermies(m): 11:31pm On Aug 29, 2016
Why virgins are hard to find these days is because guys can't keep there dick at a place.
So she lays down her body to prove her love for him,but guys will still go to another virgin and do the same. And so another guy,will date her and meet her as a disvirgin. At least guys we should use our head,there are many rapist that rapes kid at tender age,wait o.p do you expect them to be virgins when they grow up. If my future wife isn't a Virgin,I won't complain because they are virgins that are deadly that non-v.

Conclusion: if you are a virgin keep it up,its cool. And if you are non-v never mind you are great.


modified..

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by vislabraye(m): 11:34pm On Aug 29, 2016
Berbierklaus:



All I see are wise men and women cool

This gender favouristism Culture needs to stop,because what is good for the goose is good for the gander cool


Btw I want to celebrate this FTC on my new moniker by calling on lalasticlala,Fynestboi,Royalrol,the mods I admire from afar to celebrate with me.


Not forgeting the guy that cracks me up
Smellymouth grin
And every other friend I made on nairaland


DJ iykekelvins please play me, E no easy by psquare cheesy

I like you jare. As men dey donate, make women dey collect. Make we go nah grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Aug 29, 2016
Bvg
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by paragon40(m): 11:41pm On Aug 29, 2016
Your choice, as for me don't need one for a wife...

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by kaycito: 11:43pm On Aug 29, 2016
whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.
Stupid post, why should it be always about the ladies, what of guys? and by the way does virginity really add value to anyone? you backward people should grow up.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Vision4God: 11:43pm On Aug 29, 2016
Som no longer fear God. Secondly friends are key influence on ds.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by simonreal: 11:44pm On Aug 29, 2016
because moral decency as been watered down. In fact in does days our forefathers were not Christian yet dey maintain dis aspect of morality. Finally my people Jesus is coming again very soon, do yourself a favor by repenting of your sins and accept Jesus Christ as ur Lord and savior. Premarital sex is a great sin before God doesn't matter d reason y u committed it, d punishment is severe and everlasting. Complete repentance is the only way out.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by fabfunmi(f): 11:47pm On Aug 29, 2016
LAME!!!!
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by OsuGanja(m): 11:52pm On Aug 29, 2016
whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.






Answer to your question....... Boys dey para
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by paragon40(m): 11:53pm On Aug 29, 2016
Diamond121:
Most time men are d cause of it,dey date a girl who loves them n demand for sex and if she refuses they put up a kinda attitude towards her! N she later decides to do what he wants just for d cause of love,most girls lost dere virginity through rape,most just like sex naturally,most girls go through hard time n instead for d man dey run into for help to help out freely without demanding anything from dem eventually demands for sex! Dey have no other choice dan doing it,please no one should put all blames on female only! We are Africans and I know virginity before marriage then used to be very important but due to some issues its has all changed,virginity is a very big pride of a woman and no woman ever wished to be disvirgined before marriage.
intelligent lady, you are indeed a Diamond.. nice one miss.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by alizma: 12:00am On Aug 30, 2016
Berbierklaus:












All I see are wise men and women cool

This gender favouristism Culture needs to stop,because what is good for the goose is good for the gander cool


Btw I want to celebrate this FTC on my new moniker by calling on lalasticlala,Fynestboi,Royalrol,the mods I admire from afar to celebrate with me.


Not forgeting the guy that cracks me up
Smellymouth grin
And every other friend I made on nairaland


DJ iykekelvins please play me, E no easy by psquare cheesy

you are right my dear, even the bride price and other expenses have give way too after all you girls say we are equal.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 12:01am On Aug 30, 2016
whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.
you were almost making sense until I realised you didn't mention anything about men having premarital sex. So, who "disvirgin" the women? Men can have sex before marriage but women can't? Who are the men sleeping with? Animals? Are you a virgin yourself? Do u think you made any sense with this post? What exactly is your aim? To bash women abi? You forgot ur mum, sisters! Aunties and your born and/or unborn daughter? Please take a walk to Old trafford stadium and have several seats. Just negodu nonsense and senseless talk undecided

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 12:04am On Aug 30, 2016
whogoesthere:
moral decadence...

so sad
have you had sex before? Have you masturbated before? Have you had sexual urges before? So.. who made you judge of others..especially women? #Judginus!

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 12:05am On Aug 30, 2016
Acepen:
Lack of self worth and value

lack of principles and selfcontrol

victimization(rape)

media influence

peer pressure

stupidity and ignorance
Virgin? If married, did you marry a Virgin? If women have sex.. is it your body? Is it ur jajaina?

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 12:10am On Aug 30, 2016
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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by anigbajumo(m): 12:11am On Aug 30, 2016
dhesire:
I was perplexed when a lady, 22 years old stated categorically that 'do you know it's almost three months I last had sex, I am dieing under'

I was like 'are you supposed to have sex at all? When you are not married?

She sarcastically replied 'would you do me or not?

With mouth opened I said...............

Continue nah.....
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Mosesbutez(m): 12:11am On Aug 30, 2016
REASONS
1. SOCIAL MEDIA / INTERNET :
in old days there is no phone and internet where corruption can be extracted into the minds of innocents
2. TV:
love movies and sex movies contributes in corrupting the mind of innocent youths
3. BAD FRIENDS:
peer group influences bad thought that will be put to practice by the innocents
4. LACK OF FEAR OF GOD:
Satan takes control of your life
5. LACK OF PARENTAL CARE OF WHAT THEIR CHILDREN DO OR WATCH :
parents don't like advising their children about sex and it's imperication therefore their children learn it from their corrupt friends and out of curiosity they put it to practice expectally the bogs.



guys are to be blamed

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 12:12am On Aug 30, 2016
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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 12:15am On Aug 30, 2016
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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 30, 2016
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by anigbajumo(m): 12:16am On Aug 30, 2016
What's the hype about being a virgin??


It is highly overrated.
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by goingape1: 12:18am On Aug 30, 2016
whogoesthere:
The issue of virginity till marriage is one that I've usually wondered about. I've noticed that nowadays it's very difficult for a lady to keep herself till she gets married as compared to back in the days.

I also noticed that some of these ladies are actually good, wife material but for one reason or the other they lost their virginity.

Is it that the modern society puts so much pressure on the girl child or what?? I don't just get it.
can you dig a well and said "no one should take water from this well" undecided

a well is meant to take water from it so as a woman yansh!

women are just obeying the natural instincts of there inbuilt well.


summary! you can't find a virgin well on this world
Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by AreaFada2: 12:19am On Aug 30, 2016
ADBOK:
A genetic research by a group of medical scientist revealed the presence of a gene on the X-Chromosome which codes for a protein called Oboyundin responsible for inducing a 'itchy' vagina seeking the 'scratch'. The presence of this protein on the two XX-chromosomes present in women is culprit in their unnatural sex drive, which complemented for in males due the one X-chromosome present...

grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Hahahahaha.

At the end a complex protein called "konjiyudin" results, that functions like cAMP and stimulates the limbic system, espcially the hippocampus, amygdala as well as the dentate & cingulate gyri of the limbic lobe, bah? grin grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by jojosweet(f): 12:21am On Aug 30, 2016
elrony:
Too much social exposure,and nobody wants a bride with a vestigial genital! grin grin grin


Technically, Virginity is overrated!..
u are simply amazing for this post kiss

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Re: Why Is It Difficult For Ladies To Keep Their Virginity Till Marriage These Days? by arosunshine(m): 12:23am On Aug 30, 2016
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