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Trina0936:
And you have never cheated before right?? Clap for yourself! I hate hypocrites

It's like you are peppered somehow don't take it personal I already stated i wasn't a saint when I did that but had to change my ways knowing she deserves better and it you read well I said even if she errs I will forgive and before she will it means I'm doing something wrong.

Phonefanatic:
Digging is sometimes important if you want to take a relationship to another level. On 2 occasions I tried this trick before.... Opened another account, chatted up so called Bae's and after about a week guess what? On the 2 occasions I rented a hotel and invited Bae of which she had no clue I was the one chatting her.... That night she gave me excuse that she was sick and can't come around but ended up going to see the ghost chatter in the hotel room lo and behold she met me in the hotel room....... Case closed relationship ended on both occasion.

I've tried that on current Bae e no just work... She simply told me she is in a relationship when I pressed further she deleted me.

Being techy I got her password codedly and once in a while I snoop her whatsapp chats only to see all my chats with her since we started others are business related, no funny sms or whatever then I felt guilty cos if she check my whatsapp I'm dead .

I scored her 95/100 then changed to team Bae only even at that I will snoop once in every 4months . The day I will see funny chat I think she deserves forgiveness and I will know there's something I'm not doing right.

This makes no sense. Not all ladies dt go to hotel get laid. Your good girk can turn something else any day.

Keep calm and stop all those tests except if you can cope with shock.

Trina0936:
Bottom line still remains if you were the one being tested, you would fail! All the same,what's my biz??

his failure should not be a prerequisite for the other party's moral. His point is simply, The girl has got morals, decency a straight forward person and that's what is driving his commitment. Hardly, do people last in the relationship where there is no commitment. That he migh fail does not mean his bae should fail too. Will you fail an exam because you think your friend might fail too?

majekdom2:
his failure should not be a prerequisite for the other party's moral. His point is simply, The girl has got morals, decency a straight forward person and that's what is driving his commitment. Hardly, do people last in the relationship where there is no commitment. That he migh fail does not mean his bae should fail too. Will you fail your because you think your friend might fail too?

Stop being a hypocrite! No one is prefect

[quote author=rokiatu post=49001869]Digging too much in a relationship is just bad.






Women are so complicated seeing dem as dis they are sm tin else. God him

CrazyQuinn:
what about divorce?

of course ...infidelity

Phonefanatic:
It's like you are peppered somehow don't take it personal I already stated i wasn't a saint when I did that but had to change my ways knowing she deserves better and it you read well I said even if she errs I will forgive and before she will it means I'm doing something wrong.

So because i am being honest and blunt that means am pained?? Just that people change and your lady you think is faithful today might not be tomorrow. Bottom line is change is constant! Simple!
Most people(men and women) who eventually find out they were being tested by their partners usually don't trust them again because they feel they aren't trusted enough!
Hope she never finds out about all these cos that is where all the wahala would start!

Trina0936:
Stop being a hypocrite! No one is prefect

many lack understanding. No one is perfect- that was why he said, if she perhaps "fail" he would forgive and then know there is something he is not doing right. It is easier to forgive someone as as lady than to do to a LovePeddler.

majekdom2:
many lack understanding. No one is perfect- that was why he said, if she perhaps "fail" he would forgive and then know there is something he is not doing right.

I was talking of the first lady he ended the relationship with!

wizkidblogger:
This makes no sense. Not all ladies dt go to hotel get laid. Your good girk can turn something else any day.

Keep calm and stop all those tests except if you can cope with shock.

I've got shock absorber. Going to hotel to sleep and pray I guess

majekdom2:
many lack understanding. No one is perfect- that was why he said, if she perhaps "fail" he would forgive and then know there is something he is not doing right. It is easier to forgive someone as as lady than to do to a LovePeddler.

So because a lady chats with a guy online,it means she automatically becomes a lovepeddler?? Just like saying you would sleep with every single lady you chat up online The only problem was that she actually went to the hotel. Now that is a real cheat!
Guess she wasn't serious about the relationship because if she were,she might want to see the said guy but somewhere public!

Nice 1 bro....just to know how faithful your bae is to you, i guess digging is not that important if you trust you bae

Digging is sometimes important if you want to take a relationship to another level. On 2 occasions I tried this trick before.... Opened another account, chatted up so called Bae's and after about a week guess what? On the 2 occasions I rented a hotel and invited Bae of which she had no clue I was the one chatting her.... That night she gave me excuse that she was sick and can't come around but ended up going to see the ghost chatter in the hotel room lo and behold she met me in the hotel room....... Case closed relationship ended on both occasion.

I've tried that on current Bae e no just work... She simply told me she is in a relationship when I pressed further she deleted me.

Being techy I got her password codedly and once in a while I snoop her whatsapp chats only to see all my chats with her since we started others are business related, no funny sms or whatever then I felt guilty cos if she check my whatsapp I'm dead .

I scored her 95/100 then changed to team Bae only even at that I will snoop once in every 4months . The day I will see funny chat I think she deserves forgiveness and I will know there's something I'm not doing right.[/quote]

majekdom2:
many lack understanding. No one is perfect- that was why he said, if she perhaps "fail" he would forgive and then know there is something he is not doing right. It is easier to forgive someone as as lady than to do to a LovePeddler.

She's seems guilty

Trina0936:
Stop being a hypocrite! No one is prefect

yeah....no one is perfect doesn't mean when u see a pot hole u should just speed through it....

I cannt say because Nigerians believe in Africa time., I too will just follow suit...


reason y I said I don't like dat Naija mentality

Eyaaaaah & he loves her so much. bro take it easy God will send u yr real partner oh

Fourwinds:
of course ...infidelity

what of if you had kids for another woman and your wife wants a divorce, would you understand the reason for the divorce and accept your fate?

honeygirl17:
See your mouth, why him go dig watin him no ready for. Why u no call yesterday? still waiting

Why he no go dig?

I say make you meet me for that way na. You no come.

Phonefanatic:
I've got shock absorber. Going to hotel to sleep and pray I guess

Lol. Last last you will understand....

CrazyQuinn:
what of if you had kids for another woman and your wife wants a divorce, would you understand the reason for the divorce and accept your fate?

now if she was in d scene before I had those children out side..she has a good point to seek divoice..


but if it was after I had them...then I must tell her before marrying her

Phonefanatic:
She's seems guilty

very guilty that I avoided accusing her.

Fourwinds:
yeah....no one is perfect doesn't mean when u see a pot hole u should just speed through it....

I cannt say because Nigerians believe in Africa time., I too will just follow suit...


reason y I said I don't like dat Naija mentality

Clearly,you are a hypocrite

very fair enough

Fourwinds:
now if she was in d scene before I had those children out side..she has a good point to seek divoice..


but if it was after I had them...then I must tell her before marrying her

Trina0936:
So because a lady chats with a guy online,it means she automatically becomes a lovepeddler?? Just like saying you would sleep with every single lady you chat up online The only problem was that she actually went to the hotel. Now that is a real cheat!
Guess she wasn't serious about the relationship because if she were,she might want to see the said guy but somewhere public!

@ bolded, you got it wrong there. She is no serious person whether seeing in a public place or in a hotel. Infact, she might be considered serious visiting the hotel as it is a fast thing. Do and she gets paid, clean mouth like nothing happened, wasn't seen after all. She may get seen in a public place and that will cause more troubles. So, she prefers a fast one in the hotel where she isn't seen and can continue with her dude. Why entertain a guy online? Why chat hey daddy? Why deny your dude? Why send your pictures? Why give a guy green light when you have claimed to put your commitment elsewhere? It doesn't make sense to me. There is a difference btw a committed relationship and hide and seek one.

Fourwinds:
won't you like to be a wife.? so u need it

Errrmmm, do you know if I'm somebody's wife already?

majekdom2:
@ bolded, you got it wrong there. She is no serious person whether seeing in a public place or in a hotel. Infact, she might be considered serious visiting the hotel as it is a fast thing. Do and she gets paid, clean mouth like nothing happened, wasn't seen after all. She may get seen in a public place and that will cause more troubles. So, she prefers a fast one in the hotel where she isn't seen and can continue with her dude. Why entertain a guy online? Why chat hey daddy? Why deny your dude? Why send your pictures? Why give a guy green light when you have claimed to put your commitment elsewhere? It doesn't make sense to me. There is a difference btw a committed relationship and hide and seek one.

And who said there was any form of commitment in the relationship?? Where did you see 'committed relationship'?
A man cannot expect a lady to put all her eggs in one basket when he obviously has not made any serious commitment. Very few ladies would cheat in a relationship they know is serious and headed for the altar so stop all these rants!
So you mean you have never gone out to see another lady in public while dating someone else?? OK. Continue lying!

CrazyQuinn:
very fair enough

yes.. I have conscience

rokiatu:


I thought you said "as long as you are my wife"

I was gonna say marry me quick.

rachet

HalimaX:
Errrmmm, do you know if I'm somebody's wife already?

then there is no need

Trina0936:
Clearly,you are a hypocrite

nothing like hypocrite here.!!! truth will always catch up with falsehood no matter how long it takes....

the Originality of existence is truth...

so how do u escape from it
..until humanity learn that dey will keep running in circles

Trina0936:
And who said there was any form of commitment in the relationship?? Where did you see 'committed relationship'?
A man cannot expect a lady to put all her eggs in one basket when he obviously has not made any serious commitment. Very few ladies would cheat in a relationship they know is serious and headed for the altar so stop all these rants!
So you mean you have never gone out to see another lady in public while dating someone else?? OK. Continue lying!

@ first bolded, I wasn't wrong when I said you didn't understand the post. Dude has been committed, he is looking to hit the altar soon. So, read again
@ second bolded, you are not me, so don't judge with your standards.

Lmaooo these hoes aint loyal nah