Please romancelanders..
Urgent help is needed by me to overcome this emotional trauma I am experiencing since two days ago.

In my last thread, I posted about a girl I'm in love but later found out she's in a relationship with a guy before being called-up for NYSC. After many advices from romancelanders, I decided to let the girl go.

I invited the girl over to my place on friday evening. So after the dinner, I broke the news to her...told her that we shouldn't continue the relationship again. That she has someone who loves her and it's like she loves him too. The babe, after looking perplexed about my sudden change of heart, broke into tears. After much pleading to stop crying, she burst of my house at night and went to her place.


Continue down...

Move on

Sorry Mr broken heart

go and finish what u started!why leave her in d middle of nowhere?im sure u av spoiled her relationship with d other guy because of the proximity btw u 2!na ur type no go allow other pple babes 2 rest.

I'm ashamed of you. Are you sure you're a man?

Now the problem is, ever since she burst out of my house that night, her number has not being going through. I couldn't sleep from that night uptill now. I am now emotionally down because I really love this girl. The worst is that I went to her house yesterday to see her and know why her number was not going, her room was under lock-and-key. Tried calling her friends, but non has the idea where she might be.

My Heart is aching real bad. I really miss her and i want her back.

Where could she be?

How do I overcome this emotional trauma?

Please guys what advice can you give as regard to this issue?

Bash me if you will, but atleast pity my situation and tell me how to overcome heartbreak. THANKS.

lofty900:
I'm ashamed of you. Are you sure you're a man?

You should be sir. I'm even ashamed of myself

hemartins:
Move on

How do I then know her whereabout?

Mtcheeew if ah comment's make mah di*k bend

GoldenJAT:
go and finish what u started!why leave her in d middle of nowhere?im sure u av spoiled her relationship with d other guy because of the proximity btw u 2!na ur type no go allow other pple babes 2 rest.

I have not spoilt her relationship. The guy is still calling her on daily basis. Was just trying to do the right thing sir.

mhisbliss:
just think of buhari

mhisbliss:
just think of buhari

MrGentleTouch:
Now the problem is, ever since she burst out of my house that night, her number has not being going through. I couldn't sleep from that night uptill now. I am now emotionally down because I really love this girl. The worst is that I went to her house yesterday to see her and know why her number was not going, her room was under lock-and-key. Tried calling her friends, but non has the idea where she might be.

My Heart is aching real bad. I really miss her and i want her back.

Where could she be?

How do I overcome this emotional trauma?

Please guys what advice can you give as regard to this issue?

Bash me if you will, but atleast pity my situation and tell me how to overcome heartbreak. THANKS.

A girl sheeding tears for a guy doesn't mean you own her trust 100% ehn...

Am sorry your supposed girl might be in the arm of a guy bleeping away the thought of you or somewhere puffing smoke over her heart break.get busy at your thing and watch her attitude towards you after her resurfacing ,I advice get a new babe to start chatting with to ease off the pain

MrGentleTouch:
Now the problem is, ever since she burst out of my house that night, her number has not being going through. I couldn't sleep from that night uptill now. I am now emotionally down because I really love this girl. The worst is that I went to her house yesterday to see her and know why her number was not going, her room was under lock-and-key. Tried calling her friends, but non has the idea where she might be.

My Heart is aching real bad. I really miss her and i want her back.

Where could she be?

How do I overcome this emotional trauma?

Please guys what advice can you give as regard to this issue?

Bash me if you will, but atleast pity my situation and tell me how to overcome heartbreak. THANKS.

Suicide detected!! !

youngberry001:
Mtcheeew if ah comment's make mah di*k bend

you just commented

Here is my humble opinion dear....
First, I don't know how long or close u both have been together. I think on that day u broke the news to her, u ought to have confronted her about the other guy and if she still confirms dat she's still seeing him, den u give her reasons why can't go on with d relationship or better still tell her to make a choice btw the guy or you.
I think that way she wud bear the responsibility of the choice she made.

As to being troubled on her whereabouts, just calm down cos I'm sure she's an adult. If she really valued ur relationship with her she wouldn't have been messing around with some other guy, so y wud she now act like shes heartbroken. You can call some of her friends that u knw to knw find out whereabouts and safety and not necessary to get back with her.

Most times, love is not just enof in relationships, there are other factors they strengthens it e.g respect, trust, communication and loyalty.
And it's also possible that u both need some space to knw how important ur absence mean to each other.

What will be will always be.

MrGentleTouch:
Now the problem is, ever since she burst out of my house that night, her number has not being going through. I couldn't sleep from that night uptill now. I am now emotionally down because I really love this girl. The worst is that I went to her house yesterday to see her and know why her number was not going, her room was under lock-and-key. Tried calling her friends, but non has the idea where she might be.

My Heart is aching real bad. I really miss her and i want her back.

Where could she be?

How do I overcome this emotional trauma?

Please guys what advice can you give as regard to this issue?

Bash me if you will, but atleast pity my situation and tell me how to overcome heartbreak. THANKS.

Hehehehehe, o, how love makes a grown up man to become a baby

firstking01:
Hehehehehe, o, how love makes a grown up man to become a baby

Hahaha! Omo e no easy

konnet:


A girl sheeding tears for a guy doesn't mean you own her trust 100% ehn...

Am sorry your supposed girl might be in the arm of a guy bleeping away the thought of you or somewhere puffing smoke over her heart break.get busy at your thing and watch her attitude towards you after her resurfacing ,I advice get a new babe to start chatting with to ease off the pain

Thanks

MrGentleTouch:
Hahaha! Omo e no easy

Lol, i understand, was once there.

@Uhalauju Thank u so much 4 ur advice. U ar d best.

The Op dont want to let go, his strong feelings for the girl is still there .... His mouth is telling him no but his body and mind is telling him yes