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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 6:32am On Sep 07, 2016
taryour:



can you just stop using the words "proud and arrogant " what exactly do you mean by a 4 year old girl being proud and arrogant?? I can't count how many times you have attributed those words to that little girl.

she is just way too young to act such. I just don't get it, you keep hammering on proud, arrogant, her brothers can't wrap their hands round her, what the hell! A 4 year old girl who is likely yet to be able to spell her full names correctly. cut the crap man and stop blowing a trumpet out of it. PROUD ARROGANT for a 4 year old child. jeezzz
To solve this mystery, you will have to understand that the female energy of that child and the adult are sexually attracted on the soul level.perhaps one funny demon experimenting and playing psychic mind games with their energy fields?

On the soul level, it's quite understandable and healthy when two souls unite in pure love. love on this plane is beyond the sexual connotations we give on this earth plane.

Now, the brother having sleepless nights cos of the earthly 5 year old is neither grounded spiritually nor morally disciplined.

The 5 year old neither has the right home trainings and guidance necessary to lead her.

One thing I can guarantee you is that the moment the kid and the adult are mistakenly left unsupervised,the energies will overwhelm them and the news would be all over the internet and the brother would never understand what hit him.

He should continue playing hanky panky with forces leading to his ultimate doom.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 6:39am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
Your words are so critical.. Everyone know I try to avoid her. So, don't place any blame on me.... If I enjoyed the body rub and attention, I wouldn't be asking for advice here. I want to help the girl and that's why I'm here. .you speak as if I'm in support of this. Thanks anyway
You are lovestruck and having sleepless nights over a 5 year old. Don't disguise this. Accept this and I tell you what to do.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 6:42am On Sep 07, 2016
taryour:



can you just stop using the words "proud and arrogant " what exactly do you mean by a 4 year old girl being proud and arrogant?? I can't count how many times you have attributed those words to that little girl.

she is just way too young to act such. I just don't get it, you keep hammering on proud, arrogant, her brothers can't wrap their hands round her, what the hell! A 4 year old girl who is likely yet to be able to spell her full names correctly. cut the crap man and stop blowing a trumpet out of it. PROUD ARROGANT for a 4 year old child. jeezzz
will you just reason before you start shouting... Don't I know what I'm talking about? I doubt if she's four! Dummy! Cut me some slack! Ive seen proud and arrogant people and this girl is both combined. If you think I'm exxagerating... You can come to Ondo and deal with her yourself!. There, go and hang yourself!

St*pid ladies just keep springing up in this thread! Bimbo

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 6:47am On Sep 07, 2016
Chubhie:

To solve this mystery, you will have to understand that the female energy of that child and the adult are sexually attracted on the soul level.perhaps one funny demon experimenting and playing psychic mind games with their energy fields?

On the soul level, it's quite understandable and healthy when two souls unite in pure love. love on this plane is beyond the sexual connotations we give on this earth plane.

Now, the brother having sleepless nights cos of the earthly 5 year old is neither grounded spiritually nor morally disciplined.

The 5 year old neither has the right home trainings and guidance necessary to lead her.

One thing I can guarantee you is that the moment the kid and the adult are mistakenly left unsupervised,the energies will overwhelm them and the news would be all over the internet and the brother would never understand what hit him.

He should continue playing hanky panky with forces leading to his ultimate doom.

seriously? What sort of trash are you saying? makes no sense.

Not grounded spiritualy or morally? Your parents didn't train you morally and spiritually too! Fool!

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 6:49am On Sep 07, 2016
Chubhie:

You are lovestruck and having sleepless nights over a 5 year old. Don't disguise this. Accept this and I tell you what to do.

see? See what I said. Africans and st*pidity... I'm worried for the life of a lil girl, you're calling it love.. Yeah, I love her cos she's my little sister.stop saying dumbsh*t here.God!

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 6:56am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
seriously? What sort of trash are you saying? makes no sense.

Not grounded spiritualy or morally? Your parents didn't train you morally and spiritually too! Fool!
How come a 5 year old is giving you such sleepless nights? Kissing and grinding at any opportunity?bold enough to strip for you?

You've been doing things unholy to that kid or sublimely leading her on. Are you scared that the child will rat on you once you stop?

Why are you so scared and fearful to instill or command discipline into a 5 year old?

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 6:59am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
see? See what I said. Africans and st*pidity... I'm worried for the life of a lil girl, you're calling it love.. Yeah, I love her cos she's my little sister.stop saying dumbsh*t here.God!
If you are so worried about her life,you know the right to do regardless of the consequences on you.

Nobody but you is sexually and psychologically abusing that child!

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 7:11am On Sep 07, 2016
Chubhie:

How come a 5 year old is giving you such sleepless nights? Kissing and grinding at any opportunity?bold enough to strip for you?

You've been doing things unholy things to that kid or sublimely leading her on. Are you scared that the child will rat on you once you stop?

Why are you so scared and fearful to instill or command discipline into a 5 year old?
Look. I'm not scared. I'm decent and have been away from sex for about 7yrs now... And whenever she does it slightly, i beat her and chase her off. Is that too hard to understand?

Gee! Get it! I don't like trouble and being in a police cell will not be good for the profession I'm going after. I need a clean record.

Well, what do you know? You only know how to cast and defame... You insulted my person in your post.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:11am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
will you just reason before you start shouting... Don't I know what I'm talking about? I doubt if she's four! Dummy! Cut me some slack! Ive seen proud and arrogant people and this girl is both combined. If you think I'm exxagerating... You can come to Ondo and deal with her yourself!. There, go and hang yourself!

St*pid ladies just keep springing up in this thread! Bimbo

Did you say that are a church worker?
Is this how people grounded in the word talk?
By their fruit we shall know them

Do you not have a pastor in your church, considering all this is happening in the church
Do you not have a pastors wife? a woman who will be able to observe the girl and then talk to the girls mother?
Do you not have elders in your church that you can call to one side and explain your findings to and they as more experienced people will be able to handle it?

Were you expecting no one to question you?
We are mothers and fathers here
we have 4 and 5 year olds so we know what obtains

People are telling you stay far away from the girl but you keep on giving excuses. What is so difficult in what you have been asked to do?
is there more to the story?


Bro TV01 ejo e wa o!
Chief priest Bellong eyin na a mabo o

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by cococandy(f): 7:23am On Sep 07, 2016
Biko what is this?
Chubhie:

To solve this mystery, you will have to understand that the female energy of that child and the adult are sexually attracted on the soul level.perhaps one funny demon experimenting and playing psychic mind games with their energy fields?

On the soul level, it's quite understandable and healthy when two souls unite in pure love. love on this plane is beyond the sexual connotations we give on this earth plane.

Now, the brother having sleepless nights cos of the earthly 5 year old is neither grounded spiritually nor morally disciplined.

The 5 year old neither has the right home trainings and guidance necessary to lead her.

One thing I can guarantee you is that the moment the kid and the adult are mistakenly left unsupervised,the energies will overwhelm them and the news would be all over the internet and the brother would never understand what hit him.

He should continue playing hanky panky with forces leading to his ultimate doom.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by cococandy(f): 7:28am On Sep 07, 2016
That's how one was saying the other day how a 13 abi 12 yrs old girl 'overpowered' him and grinded on him until she orgasmed.
Yea and he couldn't push her off before she finished. Smh. Of course I was thoroughly irritated.

OP I didn't say you're like him o. But your story and his have something in common. Inability to..... Fill in the blank.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:28am On Sep 07, 2016
There are some issues You dont have to create a thread or share online. You are a grown adult with a functioning brain. You ought to know what to do instinctively.

Your story is akin to someone coming online to ask what to do because his house is on fire.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 7:29am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


Did you say that are a church worker?
Is this how people grounded in the word talk?
By their fruit we shall know them

Do you not have a pastor in your church, considering all this is happening in the church
Do you not have a pastors wife? a woman who will be able to observe the girl and then talk to the girls mother?
Do you not have elders in your church that you can call to one side and explain your findings to and they as more experienced people will be able to handle it?

Were you expecting no one to question you?
We are mothers and fathers here
we have 4 and 5 year olds so we know what obtains

People are telling you stay far away from the girl but you keep on giving excuses. What is so difficult in what you have been asked to do?
is there more to the story?


Bro TV ejo e wa o!
and did you read where I said ''no, i can't stay away from her''?? Its clear you can't read and understand. Ey there dey make baseless assumptions.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:30am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


Did you say that are a church worker?
Is this how people grounded in the word talk?
By their fruit we shall know them

Do you not have a pastor in your church, considering all this is happening in the church
Do you not have a pastors wife? a woman who will be able to observe the girl and then talk to the girls mother?
Do you not have elders in your church that you can call to one side and explain your findings to and they as more experienced people will be able to handle it?

Were you expecting no one to question you?
We are mothers and fathers here
we have 4 and 5 year olds so we know what obtains

People are telling you stay far away from the girl but you keep on giving excuses. What is so difficult in what you have been asked to do?
is there more to the story?


Bro TV ejo e wa o!
Well said sire.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:30am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
and did you read where I said ''no, i can't stay away from her''?? Its clear you can't read and understand. Ey there dey make baseless assumptions.

I'm very sorry for you

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:32am On Sep 07, 2016
VikingsOO7:
Well said sire.

Thank you sir smiley
You know the more I read, the more I worry for the girl
Something is not right
I wish I knew which church it was. I will speak to the pastor myself
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 7:34am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:

I'm very sorry for you
be sorry for you slow thinking
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:38am On Sep 07, 2016
cococandy:
That's how one was saying the other day how a 13 abi 12 yrs old girl 'overpowered' him and grinded on him until she orgasmed.
Yea and he couldn't push her off before she finished. Smh. Of course I was thoroughly irritated.

OP I didn't say you're like him o. But your story and his have something in common. Inability to..... Fill in the blank.


The truth is that he is the adult and she is the child
Even if a kid tries to manipulate an adult, the adult has more brain power to overcome it
If the poster cannot deal with a 4 year old then how can he be mature enough to deal with other challenges in his life
Coco we are talking about a 4 year old here
I am sure that the poster is over 22

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:38am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
be sorry for you slow thinking

Motigbo

Shebi your pastors picture is here on NL and your facebook page link is on one of your posts
With that I know that nothing can happen to that girl

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 7:52am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


Motigbo

Shebi your pastors picture is here on NL and your facebook page link is on one of your posts
With that I know that nothing can happen to that girl
Lol. You think I'm scared? do what you will, you'll be taking a burden off my head... And hey, my picture is on this profile too.... If you need a clearer one, let me know. Whatever you wanna do, do it quick and I hope pastor calls me soon. It won't be bad if someone helps me report. Thanks.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
Lol. You think I'm scared? do what you will, you'll be taking a burden off my head... And hey, my picture is on this profile too.... If you need a clearer one, let me know. Whatever you wanna do, do it quick and I hope pastor calls me soon. It won't be bad if someone helps me report. Thanks.

You are the one who will report yourself and if you cant report, stay clear from the girl
End of story

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 8:02am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


You are the one who will report yourself and if you cant report, stay clear from the girl
End of story
please. Reasonable people have said this earlier in the post. Too late girly!

Nb; I noted that majority of the people who posted defaming posts here are females... That says a lot innit?. Have a nice day.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 8:03am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
Look. I'm not scared. I'm decent and have been away from sex for about 7yrs now... And whenever she does it slightly, i beat her and chase her off. Is that too hard to understand?

Gee! Get it! I don't like trouble and being in a police cell will not be good for the profession I'm going after. I need a clean record.

Well, what do you know? You only know how to cast and defame... You insulted my person in your post.
You should be very worried and scared! That you claimed to have not tasted a woman for years makes it all the more dangerous!

That child must be rescued before you forever tint her worldview sexually.

Behave like a person and discipline that child to earn your respect by default.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
please. Reasonable people have said this earlier in the post. Too late girly!

Nb; I noted that majority of the people who posted defaming posts here are females... That says a lot innit?. Have a nice day.


Just stay away from the child..........
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 8:07am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


You are the one who will report yourself and if you cant report, stay clear from the girl
End of story
Not just report. He must confess! I wonder the timeline al this kissing,grinding and stripping happened

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by delishpot: 8:11am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
please. Reasonable people have said this earlier in the post. Too late girly!

Nb; I noted that majority of the people who posted defaming posts here are females... That says a lot innit?. Have a nice day.

It should show You that women expect you to tell them as soon as you notice such from their daughters or kids. Cant you see?


Chubhie:

I'm afraid to break this news to you--You've shown all the traits of a master pedophile.
You must report and seek help. The sisters are there yet,you got sexually attracted to a 5 year old


Lets slow down here, I don't think it has gotten to this stage. Abeg, let's just not start calling each other names here. Abeg una for the sake of God. We can disagree and speak our minds without accusing someone without proof.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 8:11am On Sep 07, 2016
NevetsIbot:
please. Reasonable people have said this earlier in the post. Too late girly!

Nb; I noted that majority of the people who posted defaming posts here are females... That says a lot innit?. Have a nice day.
I'm afraid to break this news to you--You've shown all the traits of a master pedophile.

You must report and seek help. The sisters are there yet,you got sexually attracted to a 5 year old

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by Chubhie: 8:15am On Sep 07, 2016
cococandy:
Biko what is this?
Perhaps,sukkot might indulge and simplify it more?
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 8:23am On Sep 07, 2016
Chubhie:

You should be very worried and scared! That you claimed to have not tasted a woman for years makes it all the more dangerous!

That child must be rescued before you forever tint her worldview sexually.

Behave like a person and discipline that child to earn your respect by default.
Is this the reason why you've been silent? Trying to come up with a good reply?

I just don't get it. A guy comes up to find solution to a situation. You turn it around like he's causing the situation. And I'm sure God would make people take your good gestures as sinister just like you're warping mine. Get a life and stop whinning.

The fact that I can stay away from sex for years means ''self control'' ... Self control. If you were a guy and you faced half the temptation I got from ladies this year, you'd have broken your streak. Just stop saying meaningless trash and use your brain.

No matter how mucch you lie about and distort things... It can never change the truth and the truth is.... I, Stephen, did this with good intentions and ion care what you say or do.

Someone who knows me saw this thread and called you guys ''st*pid''. He isn't far from the truth. Be there making baseless assumptions on my personality. You don't even know me from adam and you're making meaningless assumptions.

I get it already! ''Leave the girl if you can't report'' and that's what ive been doing for months now. You Irk me.

People like you make me wanna go back to being a misogynist.

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Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 8:29am On Sep 07, 2016
Chubhie:

I'm afraid to break this news to you--You've shown all the traits of a master pedophile.

You must report and seek help. The sisters are there yet,you got sexually attracted to a 5 year old
may God strike me with death if I really am attracted to this girl. And If I'm not, may God strike you with death. So shall it be!

What about that? My words come to pass most times and now you're pushing your limits. Ion feel sorry for you if you reap death over your assumptions... There's a level of personal insults I can tolerate. I don't do voodoo.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by NevetsIbot(m): 8:34am On Sep 07, 2016
delishpot:


It should show You that women expect you to tell them as soon as you notice such from their daughters or kids. Cant you see?


Lets slow down here, I don't think it has gotten to this stage. Abeg, let's just not start calling each other names here. Abeg una for the sake of God. We can disagree and speak our minds without accusing someone without proof.
delishpot. I get it.. They want me to tell. And I don't think I can... I don't think I'll even be able to tell a mother that her daughter does things as extreme like this. As in, can't you get it?...

That lady has pushed it to her limit and I won't take nonsense anymore.
Re: I Think Someone Is Sexually Abusing Her. Is It Wise To Tell Her Parents? by cococandy(f): 8:40am On Sep 07, 2016
tearoses:


The truth is that he is the adult and she is the child
Even if a kid tries to manipulate an adult, the adult has more brain power to overcome it
If the poster cannot deal with a 4 year old then how can he be mature enough to deal with other challenges in his life
Coco we are talking about a 4 year old here
I am sure that the poster is over 22

Or better still how can they deal with temptation from a mature woman? lipsrsealed

If the girl is all he said she is and telling the mom isn't an option since they spoil her according to him. Then simply never ever be in a private with her. She can only do those things he says she does if no one is around right? After the first incident, he should have NEVER have been in a private setting with her ever again. Dude is here sounding like Olympus is falling. grin

And no one was really judging or questioning him until he started making excuses for every solution suggested to him. I don't know what he wants people to say again.

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