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Where the relationship dae go

cuvox:
Good morning peeps.

There's something bothering me for quite some time now. it is about "the question" that some girls ask after sex.

Imagine a guy being enticed into a "friends with benefits" aka "no strings attached " relationship and after exploring the honey pot (which the babe must have enjoyed very well) the girl will grab hold of his d! ck, mistake it for a heart, bring out all her yo-yo, guitar and G-strings and every other strings and ask "the question"

‘So what are we doing?
’‘So what are we?’‘
Are we dating?’‘
What am I to you?’

like really?
seriously?

if you wanted to know what we are doing shey you for ask since ni?

who goes into a relationship without giving it a name?
asking "the question " after sex is unfair to us. you put us in a tight spot. you don't expect us to tell you we don't know where it is going. except the guy have developed feelings too (then he will bring his own strings and an attachment is formed), he will lie to you then start finding an exit route


now while he is basking in the glory of exploring ecstasy without commitment you will now come and deflate his ego with the question that you should have asked even before you near his bed (couch, bathroom and any other shady place wey una take dey f)

bhet why?
seriously why?

Before I used to think friends with benefits means she gives u sex, while u give her money and any material things u can afford to offer her that she would appreciate, but pls o edakun, when a broke guy who has nothing to offer asks a girl to be friends with benefits with him, what benefits should she be expecting ? Pls explain coz I'm confused about this "friends with benefits" thingy

To those saying you have to define the relationship before going into, what about after definition, he still uses u for sex alone? By the time he starts acting funny when he's done or had enough of u, what will you do then? u go kill am? No! Don't u think its best u just let it flow? Then if he's really serious with u, he would definitely show it to u in actions, not just words, this is why I love the idea of girls keeping at least 2 or 3 boyfriends, and roll with them normal so that if A doesn't work out, B must work, or at least C, unless she's a professional prostitute, no girl can be friends with benefits with a guy without adding a little emotion at some point which makes them add the dreaded question of "what are we?" at the end.

My opinion though.
It's not by force to agree with me, so pls no silly mentions unless u just want to seek for notice.
#seekingfornoticebyforce

kilokeys:
my epic reply always...
We are nothing but pencils in the hand of the creator

badest.. Heaven is watching you in HD

SexyStrawberry:
Before I used to think friends with benefits means she gives u sex, while u give her money and any material things u can afford to offer her that she would appreciate, but pls o edakun, when a broke guy who has nothing to offer asks a girl to be friends with benefits with him, what benefits should she be expecting ? Pls explain coz I'm confused about this "friends with benefits" thingy

nope...more about two people fvcking each other without all the drama and commitment that comes with relationships. That your illustration is trade by barter

cuvox:
nope...more about two people fvcking each other without all the drama and commitment that comes with relationships. That your illustration is trade by barter

And u believe when she starts having sex with u just like that, she won't catch feelings?
Girls bikonu wise up o! Do well to stay away from these set of people
#mytwocents

if she ask "what are we"

just respond
We are nothing but pencil in the hand of the our creator " But it disgusting though some will even ask

you "Are you satisfied now" pathetic

SexyStrawberry:
And u believe when she starts having sex with u just like that, she won't catch feelings?
Girls bikonu wise up o! Do well to stay away from these set of people
#mytwocents

you taking this way too personal. had a past bitter experience? cause all I did was give answer to the question you asked besides I was only trying to point out that asking a guy those relationships questions immediately after sex is wrong that should be done any other time ... all you will get is lies.

kilokeys:
my epic reply always...


We are nothing but pencils in the hand of the creator

My own be like
'i, I don't understand, are we nor human beings?, or like how are u meaning it', is it like the scientific name?