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Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by shuggah(m): 11:10am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
Bro I can tell you authoritatively that I live a good life! I don't steal, I don't fornicate, I don't kill or cheat someone, I don't keep malice, I don't backbite etc....I just keep wondering what else do they want to tell me in church when other so called christains don't even have such qualities as I do grin I just give up
Lwkmd, I knew from when I saw ur post that u re an atheist, u live a good life indeed, OK bye
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by vosquare: 11:12am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
I think it's the kind of church u r going. Going to church is essential in a Christian's life and I think d solution for u is to pray to God to lead u to HIS church not d church u want but d church HE wants u to be
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Bigromeo(m): 11:14am On Sep 11, 2016
Olalekanbanky1:
When u pple prefer going to new generation churches where the true gospel of Jesus are not preached, when won't u feel Bored? Stop attending churches where the pastors preach like motivational speakers. Attend a church where the pastor will preach and make u feel like a rag b4 Jesus and d need for u to change back to Jesus.

If u attend churches dat preaches prosperity, with the current economic situation, u will feel bored by fire by force
the best answer and comment so far.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by DoctorAlien(m): 11:14am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
Bro I can tell you authoritatively that I live a good life! I don't steal, I don't fornicate, I don't kill or cheat someone, I don't keep malice, I don't backbite etc....I just keep wondering what else do they want to tell me in church when other so called christains don't even have such qualities as I do grin I just give up
This was exactly me last year. However, GOD in His infinite mercy sent help my way and put me on the right part.

Sermwell, I have something for you. Send me a PM?
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by NobleG1(m): 11:16am On Sep 11, 2016
uzilee:
well said bro...right now the rest of my family is in chrch and I'm at home...stopped believing this religion crap months ago.....always had my doubts frm years back tho...bt assured myself 100percent that religion is a scam jst few months back...now i don't blame anyone or anything for happenings in life....reality unfolds as it should, nobody alters it, definitely not some make believe God
I'm glad you were smart to free yourself from religious bondage. Religion is the greatest manipulative tool created by man.
A Tool for ignorance, power, control and money.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by dualprince0280: 11:18am On Sep 11, 2016
Lexusgs430:
Very normal attitude. How many of our present situations have all the numerous churches and preachings helped?
We have so many churches, so many pastors and our problems are multiple multi folds.
Most churches have simply become the easiest way to print money.....................
Almighty God can only solve problems.no single creatures is worthy of solving issues but God.stop d believe that your pastor/churches can solve ur problem.their is power on your tounque,purify ur heart and seek help directly from God.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:26am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
it's very normal smiley church sucks tongue
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Nobody: 11:27am On Sep 11, 2016
perfectly normal
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by An2elect2(f): 11:32am On Sep 11, 2016
florest:
That is not possible ma, U can't be saved outside the church. Who preached to you? What is your definition of CHURCH? I am sure d building did not preached to you but a member of the church.
The kind of church op is referring to. That's why i put it in quote
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by cescky(m): 11:38am On Sep 11, 2016
[quote author=Sermwell post=49250562]I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!




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Research the Diff btw Religion and Christianity they both differ....and your thirst will be quenched ...trying downloading and reading " the power of your subconscious mind" by Joseph Murphy ...it's free it will lead u along way down the right path. God bless
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by apatheticme(f):
Olalekanbanky1:
When u pple prefer going to new generation churches where the true gospel of Jesus are not preached, when won't u feel Bored? Stop attending churches where the pastors preach like motivational speakers. Attend a church where the pastor will preach and make u feel like a rag b4 Jesus and d need for u to change back to Jesus.

If u attend churches dat preaches prosperity, with the current economic situation, u will feel bored by fire by force
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Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by noziz(m): 11:48am On Sep 11, 2016
An2elect2:
I got saved outside 'church'
u mean in his place outside church?
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Mockinbird: 11:49am On Sep 11, 2016
Uyi168:
the last time i went to church was the last week of january..
op,u are far from being alone..
same old sermons..
same routines...
Are you the infamous Uyi Iredia?
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Lexusgs430: 11:50am On Sep 11, 2016
dualprince0280:
Almighty God can only solve problems.no single creatures is worthy of solving issues but God.stop d believe that your pastor/churches can solve ur problem.their is power on your tounque,purify ur heart and seek help directly from God.
Read my post and fully comprehend the contents. I never said a pastor is a problem solver ..........................
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Jephjay: 11:51am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
Logically it kind of make sense but spiritually you are making a fool out of yourself. John 4:24 take note of that verse
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by raphieMontella: 11:53am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
dude...the relevant thing in life is being altruistic..and never hindering the survival of another human...
Church? Thats bullshvt of the first millenium...we're in 2016..''Times'' change..
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Tdonks: 11:58am On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
OP Brother, God bless u for pouring out ur mind!
Embrace it! Love it! Nd Live it! To follow christ requires a lot
of strength to be part of the race. This race is not to the
swift, the battle is not for d'strong...

Church is a place we all come together to gather and
worship God which we must do perpetually.

Thats what we can at least do to repay Him apart from being righteous. Even though u think. Ur relationship with God is okay and u dont want to go to church. Pls dont let the devil overwhelm u with distractions, regrets and fear. Thats his job.

Pls brother, go to church. Dont ever get tired of d'messages.
His mercies are new every morning. It's never the way u
heard dem before.

Pay the price now!
Loose the fun u need to loose now.
Consecrate. Sell out.
God will use you.
Amen
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Mockinbird: 11:59am On Sep 11, 2016
DoctorAlien:
This was exactly me last year. However, GOD in His infinite mercy sent help my way and put me on the right part.

Sermwell, I have something for you. Send me a PM?
Dr, i'm worse than sermwell.
I'm a backslider, i do bad things on Sundays too.
How can i get help?
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by florest(m): 11:59am On Sep 11, 2016
Tremor007:
Don't sound like an unbeliever, yes one can be saved outside the Church, after all Saul of Tarsus had an encounter with Jesus on his way to Damascus, he was baptised in water, change his name to Apostle Paul and did exploits than those of his contemporaries who slept in church, got born again in Church. Do not rewrite the BIBLE!
the point is a church member still have to tell him what to do for him to grasp what it means to be born again. The church is not the building as is mistakenly called by so many, the church are people scattered everywhere according to James 1:1-2.the opening of the very apostle Paul (you mention) letters was addressed to people not the temple nor the synagogues. 2, everyone who repent or become born again MUST have had an encounter at one point in time, irrespective of where that happened. It may be in the temple or outside of it. Cornelius had an encounter in his own house, he had to sent for Peter. 3, Paul did not baptise himself, neither did he change his name himself but by the church.thanks to Barnabas a Church member. In conclusion, an encounter is not the new birth experience. Paul encounter did not stopped there but the beginning of the journey. Have you heard about this movie called pilgrims progress? It's a movie I like to recommend to anybody, Christians or none Christians. The character had an encounter but yet he is not saved UNTILL he met the Church which lead him to Christ. Shalom!!
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Mockinbird: 12:03pm On Sep 11, 2016
apatheticme:
Don't understand y'all. Make u feel like rag? Seriously! Why? Jesus said come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy Laden, I will give you rest. Must u be made to feel like rag again. U pple are the problem of Christianity, fanaticism, overzealousness, hypocrisy and the urge to reduce the next person to nothing with the aim dt u're doing it for God. God send una reach like dthuh? Mtcheeeeewwwwwww
That guy is just like Mother Teresa, (saint of the gutters).
She believe pain and poverty is next to God.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Luckymay(f): 12:04pm On Sep 11, 2016
frank317:
Lord's choose members are the most delusional of them all. I feel you are a very wicked person for inviting the OP there. Have you seen them on the streets? They look so wretched and forsaken, wearing that dirty unkempt vest like confused people. I see no difference with these people and beggers.
Have u seen them publicising their crusades. They hire dirty trucks with ancient looking bands and sing local songs, sharing poorly made fliers on the streets. Their Young girls look old and haggard, their men poorly dressed. I mean, what's it with them and that off coloured vest anyway. Whose idea is that!! Only that vest is a sign that they don't know Jesus.
And when they preach on buses... They always talk about sex like sex starved people.

Pls Op, don't go there... Those people need to get a life.
Rotf.... Lmao.
Spot on. (wicked)
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by DoctorAlien(m): 12:11pm On Sep 11, 2016
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Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by DoctorAlien(m): 12:12pm On Sep 11, 2016
Mockinbird:
Dr, i'm worse than sermwell.
I'm a backslider, i do bad things on Sundays too.
How can i get help?
GOD can help you climb out of anything you find yourself in right now. He longs to restore you to a state of sweet communion with Him.

The first step is going back to Him in prayers and asking for His forgiveness, resolving not to go back to your sins. He surely will forgive you and forget that you ever did any bad thing(Heb. 8:12). Even right now, His arms are wide open waiting to give you a big embrace.(1 Jn. 1:9; 2:1-2)

Then, you begin to study your Bible daily. There you will discover His will and promises for you.

I'll help you as much as I can. Send me a PM?

God bless you.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Mockinbird: 12:15pm On Sep 11, 2016
DoctorAlien:
GOD can help you climb out of anything you find yourself in right now. He longs to restore you to a state of sweet communion with Him.

The first step is going back to Him and prayers and asking for His forgiveness, resolving not to go back to your sins. He surely will forgive you and forget that you ever did any bad thing(Heb. 8:12). Even right now, His arms are wide open waiting to give you a big embrace.(1 Jn. 1:9; 2:1-2)

Then, you begin to study your Bible daily. There you will discover His will and promises for you.

I'll help you as much as I can. Send me a PM?

God bless you.
Thanks for your prompt response, i'll contact you soon.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
Thank god for your life, you have finally seen the light.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Rich4god(m): 12:17pm On Sep 11, 2016
frank317:
Lord's choose members are the most delusional of them all. I feel you are a very wicked person for inviting the OP there. Have you seen them on the streets? They look so wretched and forsaken, wearing that dirty unkempt vest like confused people. I see no difference with these people and beggers.
Have u seen them publicising their crusades. They hire dirty trucks with ancient looking bands and sing local songs, sharing poorly made fliers on the streets. Their Young girls look old and haggard, their men poorly dressed. I mean, what's it with them and that off coloured vest anyway. Whose idea is that!! Only that vest is a sign that they don't know Jesus.
And when they preach on buses... They always talk about sex like sex starved people.

Pls Op, don't go there... Those people need to get a life.
You mean their bullet proof.... It's claimed that it protects them from sickness and accident.... But their overseer is enjoying the necessity of life.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by realmindz: 12:17pm On Sep 11, 2016
An2elect2:
I got saved outside 'church'
Got saved from what?

You are a mortal that shall die when the time comes.
You are subjected to the same universal law and physics as those u think aren't saved...


so saved from what?
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by DoctorAlien(m): 12:18pm On Sep 11, 2016
Mockinbird:
Thanks for your prompt response, i'll contact you soon.
You're welcome.
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Pamelayoung: 12:19pm On Sep 11, 2016
dblackninja:
You are now waking up little by little cool
What's the essence of going to church as must when what you will get at last is your hard enough being ripped off without knowing, while getting nothing in return?

What's the essence of going to church "hoping" your problems will be solved, only for 3 good hours to be wasted by a man ministering & praying for hours upon hours, yet the result is being left off worse than before?

I mean what's the essence of going to church to pray to a God, hoping to receive answers, yet none has come, is coming, or will ever come.

Have we been deceived? Are they scamming us? #Food for thought.

All the same am not saying that going to church is all bad. It all depends on your reason.
If yours is going to receive a solution, you're in for a long thing...

If yours is like mine:
-I go to RCCG, winners, Glorious power assembly to watch the dancers & probably dance as well, enjoy the band & music & above all hear testimonies cheesy

-I go to the Catholic church if I feel like communing with the saints and singing high hymns with the choristers...lovely
And of course receive the fresh precious flesh of Jesus christ (not delicious though sad ).

-The kingdom hall of Jehovah Witnesses. I love this one above all I must confess. When ever I feel like re-visiting my mythologies & know how far I've gone with the bible , then that will be my right place to be that Sunday. I will go to meetings hoping to catch a new scapegoat for a wonderful, glorious debate smiley

-Other pentecostals are based on invitations.

Those are the reasons I go to church when I feel like, otherwise, I use it to tackle real issues & enjoy a good time cool
You are damn too funny
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Cathony(m): 12:19pm On Sep 11, 2016
Sermwell:
I feel going to church is just a waste of time since they are all going to be repeating themselves undecided everyone here in our house is busy preparing for tomorrow's sunday service but I don't see the big deal and I'm already making up my mind not to attend any church service anymore! I'm just tired abeg!! I hope this is normal!
it ain't normal, you should know your purpose...
Re: I'm Just Tired Of Going To Church! Is This Normal? by Abadulbature(m): 12:21pm On Sep 11, 2016
Sure is normal. Don't u forget we have right to religion, u decide how 2 play ur cards. If I were u I'll be a ranegede, so its cool bro. Don't go to church no more!
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