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| How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 12:34pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I've been good friends with a lady for a year already, we always had fun together, chill out, go see movies and so on. But what transpired last week was a new experience in our friendship; she came over to my house, We drank and laughed a lot but at some point, we started kissing and one thing led to another. After we had it, I tried to talk about it, but she said that she was cool, she felt good, so we moved on, she left my house an hour later. Ever since then, she's doesn't answer my calls, reply my text, boxed her on FB and asked what happened, she was like "I don't know but ever since we had sex, I've been thinking a lot, I really love you as a friend, I don't wanna lose you too, but I just have to avoid you"...I told her we can fix this,let's meet so we should talk about it, but she said she doesn't wanna see me. Hitherto, she has been snubbing me, I really don't wanna lose this friendship but what should I do now? Did sex ruin our friendship?? Please I need everyone's honest opinion about this.... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by semasir: 12:40pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Shouln't have even surfaced but since the heat has been shared and she conscented to it and not a rape, bro!!! she will be back but I strongly do not support the sex except you has been married before. Cathony: 1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by donbenedict(m): 12:40pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Her iSsues... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by wree91: 12:41pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Once you start you can't stop |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Just let her calm down for a while, give her space and let her think it through, she will come around  .......if she doesn't, just move on, simple! 2 Likes |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by herzern(m): 12:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
A brother just cross the border of friendzone..... Let's someone shout Hallelujah!..... 5 Likes |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 12:53pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
semasir:yeah thanks man |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 12:56pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
wree91:hmmmm true, still have the pre-intimacy in my head... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Marioplus(m): 12:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Get back to Jesus Christ and ask for mercy. FORNICATION IS SIN SIN DESTROYS EVERYTHING GOOD ONLY SEEKING GOD'S MERCY AND PRAYING TO GOD FOR HOLINESS "I am Holy and you should be holy for I have separated from among all the peoples of the world to be MINE" {Lev.20:26} thus "Lord Jesus Christ I come to you because only your MERCY can triumph over the judgment of my sin {James 2:13} by the POWER OF YOUR BLOOD POURED OUT ON CALVARY FOR MY SINS (Jn.19:34), I surrender to your forgiveness and cleansing power of your BLOOD that speaks better than vengeance of sin {Heb.12:24} and receive your restoration in Jesus Name. Amen." 'whoever the SON sets free is free INDEED' [Jn.8:36] go ahead with your life for JESUS CHRIST has set you free Stop bothering over her rather extend this prayer to her for forgiveness from God if she cares to come back DEFINE NO SEX OR IMMORALITY in your FRIENDSHIP from hence OR LET EVERY ONE DEPART IN PEACE TO AVOID FURTHER DAMAGE. GOD'S GRACE TO YOU.... 1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 12:58pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:yeah I am, I'm seriously hoping we get together again, don't wanna lose her, she's one of a kind, thanks anyways 1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Lyricallly: 12:59pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
chineke nna emegokwa nwa ogbenye ezege everyday by day i just dey celebrate oh…..eh everything i do e just dey penetrate oh i just want to say o thank you jehovah oh see i’m living large i get angels o for my gate oh never forget where i come from na from ghetto…..eh oh no no no no no no no no no no…..ah i just want to say o thank you jehovah oh…..eh buru ekene riwo otuto fada fada eh…..fada fada eh a di kwam loyal o fada fada eh…..fada fada eh 1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 1:00pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern:LOL , no...if this would ruin our friendship I'll just prefer been friends with her for eternity, but the deed has been done #ConfusedStateOfMind |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by obyno1011(m): 1:02pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
She is avoiding you cos she will jump over you for more sex. Her thought has been about you, comparing you to other guys, weighing the options of having a serious relationship with u than just friends. She is in love already. Do u love her to start a serious affair? You have built trust, closeness and companionship since you became friends. Now is the time to know what you want from each other. A relationship with her will be great. Think and tell her your feeling. Cheers 2 Likes |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 1:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Marioplus:yeah thank you |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Laveda(f): 1:04pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
You didn't _fuck her right..  1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 1:08pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
obyno1011:Yeah I get your point ...but she doesn't want a relationship now, although I've never asked her on a date...yet...; I'm not sure if I love her yet, but I just don't wanna lose her. thanks man |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 1:10pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Laveda:kindly read my post again...thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by herzern(m): 1:13pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Cathony: Bro... Abeq....stop all dhiz 'nice quy' syndrome biko.... Yhu should be lookinq for ways to proceed in that ministry..... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 1:15pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern:I'm no Mr Nice guy, you should know there's a big difference between a fling and true friendship,I expect you to understand |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by larabae13(f): 1:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern:werey!  ur mouth too much! U sef u neva even leave friendzone |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by herzern(m): 1:24pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
larabae13:  .....Larab.ae13 friend-zones Herz.ern ....No worry....come haibee make yhu see iffa no qo commot... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by larabae13(f): 1:28pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern: hehehe enu loni bi ti ajakaraBeta go nd find ursef a gal |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by herzern(m): 1:38pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
larabae13: biko....see ridicule...... Maka just Lock up oooh....  |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by larabae13(f): 1:44pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern:oya pele  |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by herzern(m): 1:47pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
larabae13: I dey hunqry sev.... Dem Food Vendors no cook.... And food no dey house.... All my Muslims friends don deny me biko.... |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by larabae13(f): 1:49pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
herzern:ahh ehya go buy indomie chop nah |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by obyno1011(m): 1:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Cathony: The fact you are worried about her feelings shows you love her. Same thought going through her mind. Nature has a way of helping us in our weaknesses. You are scared of making the move or the responsibility of dating. Ask yourself if she has what you admire in a lady. If you don't make the move now and she finally decides to avoid you, you may regret using this opportunity. Be a man, open up and dont wait till she makes the move. 1 Like |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 2:03pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
obyno1011:yeah thanks man... Just hoping she gives me an opportunity to meet her and discuss things. |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by schumastic(m): 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Cathony: maybe she thought you can hit the right spot but was shocked when you couldn't |
| Re: How Does Sex Impact A Friendship? by Cathony(m): 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
schumastic: you got that wrong. Read my post again...thanks |
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