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"For better for worse" is like Mr blackmailer who always reminds married couple of the promise they made to each other the day they said the " i do." It holds couple to ransom just same as emotion and conscience.

Here i want to talk about dating singles alone to avoid asunder condemnations.

Love use emotion to blackmail while for better for worse use conscience to imprison and blackmail; but my question goes....how many times do a man has to physically assault his wife,girlfriend in a relationship for her to comprehend the handwriting? How severe or mild should it be? what type of physical assault will qualify it serious? Should the little, little spankings be over looked? will loosing it just few times while dating qualify him a wife beater tomorrow? Forgive the first time especially if he apologizes and tag it wasn't serious?

Finally, is it advisable to have a future plan with such a man in mind? Who knows, it may just be a moment of anger and not just part of who he is or just walk.

Remember ,many women are history today because of domestic violence and it is rarely a cause of first time.

I need your candid view and answers to those questions.
Blessed.

Please stay in the relationship till he kills you in a "moment of anger"

At least I have enough data to type 'RIP' when your murder story hits frontpage

buygala:
Please stay in the relationship till he kills you in a "moment of anger"

At least I have enough data to type 'RIP' when your murder story hits frontpage

You are harsh..It is a general issue.

Here we go again; heap the blame on the man. Forget the woman's annoying habit or her sudden change in attitude. Forget the fact that she gained 30 pounds in 3 weeks all for the sake of pregnancy. Forget that she nags and whines at every single thing after marriage.









Then; after the man finally responds with a show of force; call me a wifebeater and a brute.














Most of these love asunder cases are usually caused by the woman

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SirWere:
Here we go again; heap the blame on the man. Forget the woman's annoying habit or her sudden change in attitude. Forget the fact that she gained 30 pounds in 3 weeks all for the sake of pregnancy. Forget that she nags and whines at every single thing after marriage.









Then; after the man finally responds with a show of force; call me a wifebeater and a brute.














Most of these love asunder cases are usually caused by the woman

For me, i don't think it good for a man to ever use force on his woman; there are many ways to kill a rat but physical assault is not of it.

Once you have sworn the vows, no going back.
Christianity discourages divorce.

A "real" man would never raise his hands on a woman. (notice i said real). What happened to walking away and talking about it when every one's nerves are calm?

ayobase:
Once you have sworn the vows, no going back.

Christianity discourages divorce.

Sound more like a certificate to die of abuse.

This only happens when you delve into marriage/relationship for the wrong reasons...

Gennyike:
Sound more like a certificate to die of abuse.

Thus it is needful to be sure before swearing.

ayobase:
Once you have sworn the vows, no going back.

Christianity discourages divorce.

even though it kills you?

CrazyQuinn:
even though it kills you?

That's more reason you should pray before marrying.
And a responsible man doesn't just start beating his wife without reason.