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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 8:48am On Sep 18, 2016

cococandy:
Make your own money, perform your marital duties and expect to be cheated on. In summary, don't bother getting married because the person you're getting married to isn't worth the trouble ain't it Oga toks.

The usual gibberish

The truth is always bitter.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 8:53am On Sep 18, 2016

Jobia:
Im not surprised you couldnt keep your marriage

go and get married first and see if you will be able to keep yours before you criticize someone else.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by ochuciano(m): 8:54am On Sep 18, 2016

Toks2008:
If that was directed to me then I need a short cut. Please help out.

One thing i have seen online that amazes me is the gullibility of ladies and the hypocrisy of the guys.

I am definitely a symbol of a bad guy on nairaland because of my dogged stands as regards facts and not fiction but most ladies love lies,they love fictions and they prefer fantasy to reality and this is the greatest bane of many ladies.

Even many guys who keep string of girlfriends will come to nairaland to start forming saint and those who fornicate day and night will come here to condemn self servicing.

Hypocrites every where.

I am with you on this, is our nature in Africa to be hypocrites and run away from d truth. Your post abt marriage is not far from the facts we see everyday.

It's like seeing churches and mosques everywhere and u will expect everybody to be saints, but in reality is not so. We still battle with d nature of man everyday

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by metallisc(m): 8:55am On Sep 18, 2016

LuvU2:
My husband shd expect me cheating on him
I think i'll recommend the op as personal counsellor for my hubby.

nice idea

you want to cheat on me?... so somebody else will come and be caressing those beautiful legs i love sooooooo much and holding them apart in the air!! shocked

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 8:58am On Sep 18, 2016

ucsparks:
y'all ladies just dissing OP without thinking,, (don't even wanna talk about the guys),, can't y'all just think and try to understand. He ain't saying husbands should cheat,, his just trynna make you emotionally ready and strong to handle a cheating man when eventually you catch him cheating... for goodness sake its for your own good.....
Some of fragile hearted ladies even commit suicide foolishly cos they can't believe a nigga is gon cheat on them,,.. DAFUQ!!!! ,, Is it with the kind of pics y'all ladies put up on social media, and you trust a nigga not to cheat?....
A word is enough for the wise, Thanks OP

they are called "FishBrains" for nothing, don't expect any reasonable comments from them, retired hoes expecting to marry faithful men, some were even sleeping with other ladies husbands forgetting that what goes around comes around.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Justiyke4u: 9:00am On Sep 18, 2016

To your no1 what you expect you think about and what you think about you attract

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Barigaboy(m): 9:09am On Sep 18, 2016

U over make sense. All d point r intact
If u r d type who feels no man can cheat on u then u r already in big soup becos d day it happened u will develop heart attack. So its good to assume it before it comes to b on a safer side. Yor man may not cheat all.

Having your own money by getting something to do gives u security.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by eyoniggar(m): 9:11am On Sep 18, 2016

Toks nice post there. But I'll advise that when this sort of post is to be published, kindly ask the deluded ones to please read the major points over and over again in order to avoid unnecessary bashing and criticism.
I have been married for 4 years now with 2 kids, havent cheated on my wife, but I have had so many chances and opportunities. It all depends on the man their self-discipline. In all sincerity, it aint easy to be faithful with so many wolves moving around.

Ladies, this is a very lovely and bright post by Toks, whether you like it or not, some men will cheat, he is just preparing your mind for the worse if you unfortunately find yourself with one. Also, the major reason for this post at the end of the tunnel is to save your marriage no matter what, and as we all know, infidelity is the major cause and reason behind most failed and broken home these days.

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 9:20am On Sep 18, 2016

we are already friends, Lagos

Laido:
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Damn! So your Dec? I'm Dec 22 .. Kinda happy..

Where you based? My whatsapp.. 08142604728 My bbm.. 2BE294D1. We could be friends!

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Fkhalifa(m): 9:29am On Sep 18, 2016

I have advised this man on his articles, those who can't reason deep and unbiased won't get you, they won't understand nor agree, they hate the bitter truth....

No guy will come out and tell you he will cheat when proposing nor do it to your face in marriage, only if a machine that can test or detect men(even the disciplined and religious) who have cheated on their spouse,you all will get so shocked...

Only the women of old would understand, all these young girls still in their prime would think their sexiness will hook a man all to herself, look around and see the hoties who are ready to weak your man at first glance...

Fight infidelity with wisdom, and never encourage nor advise him about condoms.

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Laido: 9:35am On Sep 18, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
we are already friends, Lagos

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Lol .. True, but don't you mind the public chat? Some of the things I may want to talk about that the public must'nt see! Lol

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by LuvU2: 9:42am On Sep 18, 2016

metallisc:
you want to cheat on me?... so somebody else will come and be caressing those beautiful legs i love sooooooo much and holding them apart in the air!!

Cheating is fun nd if u want personal peace expect it- Toks2008

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by HaneefahRN(f): 9:48am On Sep 18, 2016

This man and his moronic threads *sighs*

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Laido: 10:00am On Sep 18, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
we are already friends, Lagos

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Lol .. True, but don't you mind the public chat? Somethings I may want to talk about that the public must not see! Lol

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by wrongnumber: 10:01am On Sep 18, 2016

LuvU2:
My husband shd expect me cheating on him
I think i'll recommend the op as personal counsellor for my hubby.

nice idea

Biko stand up make I see you.

You look like Yvonne jegede.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 10:01am On Sep 18, 2016

I'm not shy

....You shouldn't be shy

Laido:
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Lol .. True, but don't you mind the public chat? Somethings I may want to talk about that the public must not see! Lol

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Laido: 10:08am On Sep 18, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
I'm not shy ....You shouldn't be shy

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Dhur! Why shall I shy? I'm I not a people.. Smiless.. How did you comeby your username *Crazy..*.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by sosa993: 10:09am On Sep 18, 2016

sincerely if my husband cheats on me I won't even fight him or stress myself at all, I'll tell him I know he's cheating. I'll perform my wifely duties, but sex won't be part of the duties I'll ever perform. who wants to die. in fact I'll kill him with affection, but I'll stop having sex with him because of diseases.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 18, 2016

klbakare:
Nobody said u have to tell him u re expecting him to cheat. Jst have it in mind he might cheat

Did you read the post carefully?

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 18, 2016

Laido:
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Dhur! Why shall I shy? I'm I not a people.. Smiless.. How did you comeby your username *Crazy..*.

My name refers to "Harley Quinn", from the batman animated series. Harley Quinn served as a humorous female sidekick to the Joker. In her first appearances she was depicted as a character completely devoted to the Joker, totally oblivious to his psychotic nature. She's crazy, loveable and a genius kiss

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by klbakare(m): 10:42am On Sep 18, 2016

Oliviaarims:
Did you read the post carefully?

Kindly quote and/highlight the part he said that

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by IVORY2009(m): 11:17am On Sep 18, 2016

It takes an intelligent lady to understand wat d OP has writen, unfortunately some are not seeing the hand-written on the wall, rather attacking the messanger instead of d message!

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Nobody: 11:20am On Sep 18, 2016

Itzurboi:
Good day everyone, having read most comments, i will like us to understand toks2008 is right to some extent based on the society we found ourselves, take corruption for example, male politicians are always been praised to female counterpart in term of corrupt practices despite the fact that its a bad act... i have this feelings young ladies/teenagers wont understand this points because they havent meet with the reality of life... the op might have been dishing out points that doesnt go well with you all but the ladies should try and take insightful look at the above listed points of the op, it might still not go down with you but if you keep record of articles you read in mind, you will remember toks2008 when you are in a similar situation.... happy sunday

Read the title of the thread again ad ask yourself this question, "Will a woman/Man who is being cheated on be happy in his/her marriage? "

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by naijaboiy: 11:27am On Sep 18, 2016

LordScent:

Naijaboiy and epistle be like this....

[color=#1980BC]Oga Naso o!

It's better to express yourself to your fill instead of bottling it up. I just expressed what I feel on the topic. [/color]

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 11:28am On Sep 18, 2016

Joavid:
This mysgonist e-diot is back again.

what's worse is lalasticlala who brought the garbage to front page.

we might as well expect him to bring his mistress home and have intercourse right in front of us.

We might as well buy a truck load of antiretroviral drugs in preparation for the HIV he's going to bring home.

nonsense!!

you can vex from now till tomorrow, men will continue to cheat, don't blame the men though, blame the cheap pusys littering every where.

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by naijaboiy: 11:32am On Sep 18, 2016

[color=#1980BC]Sir Toks2008 I kind of agree with you on this this time around, but I also understand why people are fighting you.

It's not easy to make people understand certain realities. That's why we have so many idealists and less realists today.[/color]

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by KunkeAkinola(m): 11:46am On Sep 18, 2016

fromnigeria:
To be real as usual my friend, only the last point made sense.

In a GODly union, you don't expect any to cheat
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i can't figure out whats making you believe any woman or man will be happy knowing that the partner is an 'adulterer'.

#SayNoTolegalizedAdultery.

She actually made sense all through. I think U just didn't understand it well.
#SayNoTolegalizedAdultery

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 11:48am On Sep 18, 2016

wrongnumber:
E be like sey many ladies reading this article dey read am upsidedown or nah dia brain no fit understand.

He wrote that ladies should have the expectation and not that it is OK for a man to cheat and he even condemn the act sef. Omo I no go fit marry naija babe o cos many if them get low iq walahi.

low "IQ" is an understatement.

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Laido: 11:50am On Sep 18, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
My name refers to "Harley Quinn", from the batman animated series. Harley Quinn served as a humorous female sidekick to the Joker. In her first appearances she was depicted as a character completely devoted to the Joker, totally oblivious to his psychotic nature. She's crazy, loveable and a genius

.

Oh that's good. Then you must be Crayy, loveable and a genius too. The 3 perfect trips! Then I gotta open my head so as to learn some new thinza...

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 11:51am On Sep 18, 2016

Kaira333:
Op this ur no 1 point is meaningless to me.

Expect who to cheat? My own hubby, not possible dear. I can't leave with a cheating hubby since I know dat I can Neva cheat on him.

If not for anything HIV and other std's are real.

smh

Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 11:59am On Sep 18, 2016

Sophyrocks:
An overaged man with a bad marriage record dishing advice to ladies! Ladies, if you dnt want your marriage to pack up like his, you better disregard this op for your own good. If every lady should expect a man to cheat, then let every man expect their girlfriends and wives to cheat too. For every man cheating must cheat with a woman. So ladies, the op has given all yall the indirect permission to cheat. Oopsies! You dnt need permission at all. Its already happening. The post was actually supposed to be directed to men since they never want to admit that their wives can cheat on them too. Men like the op are always afraid, constantly living in a fantasy world expecting what they cannot give. Someone cheats on you and op is saying be patient and calm. Is that realistic? hahaha. You are dreaming op. You need to follow your own advice Toks. Now who is more in deceit?

bla bla bla... wait till reality sets in.

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Re: This Is For Every Lady Who Wants To Experience A Happy Marriage. by Youngpo413: 12:02pm On Sep 18, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
Every point except number one makes sense. If I should expect my husband to cheat and act indifferent to it then he should expect me to cheat and act indifferent to it.
Such marriage will never be a happy one, mistrust, fear, jealousy and despise will be the bedrock of such marriage. You can never respect a man that you expect or think will cheat on you.

then marry a broke and ugly man, they are faithful to pieces.

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