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checkengine:
I will not subscribe to this my guy because, PEOPLE CHANGE. That sweet lady you know back in school most of the times have evolved over a period of time to become something only imagined. Referral is good if the "referrer" has a sound knowledge of the "referred" and deems her fit for a wife. Thats how me I see it sha.

nma24:
Are you sure you are okay upstairs? Spoken like an uncouth tout.

ladyF:
hehehe... So it's okay that you guys ask for big breast and big butt, but we ladies can't make our own physical demands... Issorai...

Dottore:
Whores are never hard to spot. By their utterances you shall know them. Go on but I won't honour you again by responding, I got a busy day.

Toks2008:
What gives you this idea that all guys are freak of big boobs and booty?

I dont know about other guys but anything above 36d cup is a No for me and I love a curvy moderate booty.

Nevertheless no matter how big a lady is, as long you have a slimer waist line and a considerably flat tummy I guess you are good to go.

professore:
I thought you guys (engineers) are always boasting that all the ladies in this world are on your neck

Now my advice: this is why it is good to be a church boy or girl from the early age,all you need is to approach your pastor to approach a sister for you,no stress no insults if she is interested or not it's a matter of yes or no.

To any young man or woman reading this,here is one more,I mean,one more reason to be a serious/devoted christian.

Joavid:
so you're done multiple dating in your 20's and early 30's and now, you're waiting for a magical wife material to jam.

Rome was not built in a day. who were does karishikas you were wasting time with eh, that you couldn't jam future wife and keep her??

hehehehehehe....people wey marry by referral still dey divorce.


you neva chin chum chin

your search just begin.

sirusX:
Being a churchy kinda person doesn't guarantee jack.

Life doesn't have any template for that...cz everyone is different. It's all about finding that special one that understands you for you in a way that you both complement each other...hoping that you both share similar values in life.
You also have to understand each other's flaws & know if u can handle that at it's worst

professore:
I thought you guys (engineers) are always boasting that all the ladies in this world are on your neck

Now my advice: this is why it is good to be a church boy or girl from the early age,all you need is to approach your pastor to approach a sister for you,no stress no insults if she is interested or not it's a matter of yes or no.

To any young man or woman reading this,here is one more,I mean,one more reason to be a serious/devoted christian.

gelo:
You get what you deserve... most of the time. But generally, don't aim too high, 60-70% is a very good score, 50-60% is good and acceptable, I doubt you'll score too much yourself or else the ladies will be all over you. Whether by referral or otherwise, keep an open mind, you can meet your wife anywhere, if u meet her in a night club be ready to continue the night life. Look for someone who believes in you, respect you but doesn't fear you, preferable from a decent family, girls from broken homes are usually broken though not all of them, you can find the best things in unexpected places, I married the little girl that used to go and call my gf for me, Look for a normal girl thaf has reasonable or similar expectations as you do, that believes in marriage and that understands that sacrifice from both parties is necessary to make it work. I don't emphasis so much on love at the beginning, if she loves u, fair and good, if you marry a good person and you are good yourself then love will come eventually. Marry your type and kind. If u are a thief, marry a thief, if u are a pastor, marry a sister in church, not a club girl. I have friends who married from Facebook and are happy today , keep an open mind, be good to the people you meet and be prayerful, love will find you. Goodluck.

EngrWanted:
I'm in my mid 30s and is really desirous in settling down with the right lady but I am confused as hell. I've dated couple of ladies and the experiences are better imagined as most of these ladies turn into something else in a short while into the relationship.

Due to this fact, I am even afraid of approaching another since it is the usual woo a lady I don't know from Adam and begin to study her, her family and et AL all over again and in the course of such enterprise things may come crashing again unexpectedly.

Is it ideal if I rely on relations, friends for a referral? I was thinking it is better because a particular relation already knows the girl background and all about her.

Please between wooing a lady or banking on referral, which is Best OPTION in landing a good woman for marriage?

nma24:
I dey market too o.... I'll soon be off the market though

golor:
Bros I disagree with you, my babe is from akwa ibom nd I hope to Marry her by God grace, it almost year now she haven't cheat on me nor even show sign of that. I know she only have 2 brodas nd a sister, so if eventually we got married,how will she cheat on me with such regards? Stop generalising probably because you fell in to d wrong hand......this babe I mentioned they don't have such attribute at all. I wish you know them. I will do my possible best to make sure I marry my Ima luv...pretty akwa ibom girl, you see dis girl she's coming to delta ...She don't do make up but yet she is extremely beautiful. The girl of my youth and a virgin before I met her

Cutehector:
cmon don't think like that. There are guys out there who havnt wasted their youthful days chasing women rather they used such energy in trying to prepare a bright future for their future wife and kids.


Are you single? Why not hook up with him? He may be a billionaire.

EngrWanted:
I'm in my mid 30s and is really desirous in settling down with the right lady but I am confused as hell. I've dated couple of ladies and the experiences are better imagined as most of these ladies turn into something else in a short while into the relationship.

Due to this fact, I am even afraid of approaching another since it is the usual woo a lady I don't know from Adam and begin to study her, her family and et AL all over again and in the course of such enterprise things may come crashing again unexpectedly.

Is it ideal if I rely on relations, friends for a referral? I was thinking it is better because a particular relation already knows the girl background and all about her.

Please between wooing a lady or banking on referral, which is Best OPTION in landing a good woman for marriage?

SABA2002:
Wow ... I wish I could take you off the market.


If wishes were horses beggars might ride

golor:
Bros I can refer two for you, d two re extremely wife material one a fresh graduate of English department, good cook she's, intelligent she's to make matter worst, you can travel for years and still come back to meet her d way you leave her, she's from akwa ibom state.......the babe I swear is a wife material. The second is just graduated from sociology, from cross river, extremely good cook your friends and family must love her, she's a treasure, she doesn't keep enemy, even if you like offend her, she will still be the one to reconcile with you, you can keep her and travel as well, she's a die hard hustler. They re both my neighbour here in school uniuyo. Both are extremely godly. You won't regret any if you choose any.

nma24:
lol

paranorman:
Do that and make the worst mistake of your life!
I bet you haven't met pretenders, they'd pretend till you end up in marriage..
Bro, there's no proper way to find the right lad for marriage these end times..

If you're a true Christian, my advice is for you to pray and fast personally about it. You don't need any pastor or soothsayer to help as long you're a true child of God. Ask God to reveal your wife to you. Pray in your closet. Fast and let not a soul know. Don't not ask for any sign. Just ask God to reveal your true wife to you. Marriage can either make or mar you as a man. Don't go for a girl because she's very religious or her father is a pastor or she sings like an angel or she has the anointing of Elijah or your great-grand granpa can vouch for her or she's beautiful or she's rich/gainfully employed e.t.c. Seek God's direction and you'l be happy man for the rest of your life. DON'T HURRIEDLY ENTER a LIFE-TIME BOUNDAGE, pray and wait on God for a lifetime BLISS!

Ask4Info:
RUBBISH! ABSOLUTELY RUBBISH!!

The very same pastors divorcing and sleeping with other people's wives everyday? Sheeps like you are why those CRIMINALS are still in business.

They will say God called them. Who was there when God called them. I personally and millions of people will make Heaven before those guys (that's if up to 2% of them will even smell the gate of Heaven).

missingrib:
diff strokes for diff folks imagine the statement.. Ur pastor will refer a wife to u..we ourselves are prophets of our own..this pastor that pastor..its only God that knows those that serve him in truth and spirit..

paranorman:
Do that and make the worst mistake of your life!
I bet you haven't met pretenders, they'd pretend till you end up in marriage..
Bro, there's no proper way to find the right lad for marriage these end times..

If you're a true Christian, my advice is for you to pray and fast personally about it. You don't need any pastor or soothsayer to help as long you're a true child of God. Ask God to reveal your wife to you. Pray in your closet. Fast and let not a soul know. Don't not ask for any sign. Just ask God to reveal your true wife to you. Marriage can either make or mar you as a man. Don't go for a girl because she's very religious or her father is a pastor or she sings like an angel or she has the anointing of Elijah or your great-grand granpa can vouch for her or she's beautiful or she's rich/gainfully employed e.t.c. Seek God's direction and you'l be happy man for the rest of your life. DON'T HURRIEDLY ENTER a LIFE-TIME BOUNDAGE, pray and wait on God for a lifetime BLISS!

Adaobi12:
Op referrals do work atimes. your sisters are the best bet for such. From there friends they can pick up a decent lady for you.

Above all, biko seek God's opinion concerning marriage. Don't be to desperate to rush into it.
Good luck.
HML in adv

Lincolnburrows:

what about you? are you married? can't u make yourself available for the OP? though u look under 20sha

nma24:
You simply lack humour... You would have seen d humour behind the "Lazy" comment. But no, u chose to insult me. Na you sabi sha, typical male trying to slut shame a lady at any small given chance.

gelo:
You get what you deserve... most of the time. But generally, don't aim too high, 60-70% is a very good score, 50-60% is good and acceptable, I doubt you'll score too much yourself or else the ladies will be all over you. Whether by referral or otherwise, keep an open mind, you can meet your wife anywhere, if u meet her in a night club be ready to continue the night life. Look for someone who believes in you, respect you but doesn't fear you, preferable from a decent family, girls from broken homes are usually broken though not all of them, you can find the best things in unexpected places, I married the little girl that used to go and call my gf for me, Look for a normal girl thaf has reasonable or similar expectations as you do, that believes in marriage and that understands that sacrifice from both parties is necessary to make it work. I don't emphasis so much on love at the beginning, if she loves u, fair and good, if you marry a good person and you are good yourself then love will come eventually. Marry your type and kind. If u are a thief, marry a thief, if u are a pastor, marry a sister in church, not a club girl. I have friends who married from Facebook and are happy today , keep an open mind, be good to the people you meet and be prayerful, love will find you. Goodluck.

Ask4Info:
Don't mind those sheeps who is their pastors that think for them.