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She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by dearbunmi(f): 5:32am On Sep 20, 2016
Dear Bunmi,

I have known this girl for over 3 years but we actually became romantically involved about one year now.

The problem I have with her is that she actually wants me to romance and kiss her for as long as possible but will never give in to sex. She might even be the one to initiate the act. She will want me to kiss and romance her, but when its come to the issue of sex she will tell me that she can't do it. It's gotten to the extent where she has to tell me that she would not mind me having sex with another girl.

I do love this girl and my people have come to know her as my girl friend, hence they (my people) regard her very much even to the extent that she can cook and bring to them an they will eat. I am confused indeed.

TK
Via Email

Click below to see my response
http://dearbunmi.com/wants-caress-no-sex/

Do you have any relationship questions?
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Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by DollarPikin(m): 5:41am On Sep 20, 2016
cry cool wink Abeg,U need to carry that girl go do brain check Up!She might be developin Scor-Scor! U know that harsh economy like this,is not good for ladies!
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by dilini(m): 5:45am On Sep 20, 2016
Hmmm... she is not psychologically ready for it because she feels she might be taken advantage of if the deed is finally done. Best bet: propose to her and get her engaged then she will feel safe and secure believing she really belongs to you. I guess by now you should be planning your wedding date



My 2cents sha....

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Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by wizaro(m): 6:09am On Sep 20, 2016
Sorry about that.. Unfortunately I jus came out of such of recent my fiance. Was double dating loved both so much.. One of them because of her background and principles we dated for a year a ND six months.. With a no sex.. After few months into d relationship she insisted on romance.. Kissing. But no sex.. No matter d style I used to lure her she was resolute on her decision. She always plead to wait till after marriage but to tel u d truth I did wat ever she wanted without complaining. because my other babe was giving it to me so I didn't bother her on dat.
She loved me with her life if I can say that and I loved her too.. Got to a point I wanted choose among dem. It was a tough decision.. Like Tony tetuila.. Love with two women don't know which one to choose.. Anyway I finally opted for my oda baby giving it to me..i think I needed someone experienced in love making like my baby.. She almost killed her self when I called it quit with her.. She still calls me till today saying she still loves me. But to tel u d truth.. If u can't cope. Pls quit. She only was disvirgined at a young age. And her strong religious commitment hence d reason she refused sex bfor marriage.


Happily engaged to my baby.. Going to pay her bride price by God willing November.!!

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Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Nobody: 6:23am On Sep 20, 2016
grin



I rest my comment after reading this thread abt kissing... I can't stand with kissing stories.. Makes my stomach turns upside down.
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by somez(m): 6:41am On Sep 20, 2016
Oga, a bird at hand is worth a billion on the street o. For this buhari regime she give you kiss ,u dey complain. Continu the kissing biko.

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Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by jonaifame22(m): 6:42am On Sep 20, 2016
My brother manage it like that, half bread is better than none
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by preetyslim(f): 6:53am On Sep 20, 2016
My brother u have been eating white rice without stew all this while cheesy. Chai I blame the economy. Anyway, manage am like that we are in the CHANGE era. Try and adapt to it grin. grin





But on a serious note, Sex before wedding abi Marriage issnor good ooo. I rest my case.
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Nobody: 6:55am On Sep 20, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin



I rest my comment after reading this thread abt kissing... I can't stand with kissing stories.. Makes my stomach turns upside down.
Lol wink
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Nobody: 6:57am On Sep 20, 2016
preetyslim:
My brother u have been eating white rice without stew all this while cheesy. Chai I blame the economy. Anyway, manage am like that we are in the CHANGE era. Try and adapt to it grin. grin





But on a serious note, Sex before wedding abi Marriage issnor good ooo. I rest my case.
Sex before marriage isn't good, how you con take know say he dey chop white rice without stew?.
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Darammliveth(m): 7:13am On Sep 20, 2016
Oga Op, make i tell you something, since the girl no be virgin anymore and she doesn't want to offer you sex till after marriage broz na day light rubbery Oooh...
Those #holes aren't loyal
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by preetyslim(f): 7:32am On Sep 20, 2016
emitoz:

Sex before marriage isn't good, how you con take know say he dey chop white rice without stew?.


The OP said it na. He has been kissing and romancing his gf without getting the main thing. That's what I meant when I said he has been eating white rice without stew wink grin grin. Abi do u enjoy eating white rice without stew? wink
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by tee59(f): 8:03am On Sep 20, 2016
Must sex be involved in evry relationship? D oda lady may be great in sex but may lack sm qualities as a wife material. Ur real girlfriend may nt giv in 2 sex now, may cus of som reasons best known to her. That doesn't mean she wil not lik sex later if u do it right. Sex alone can not keep a marriage! If nt why are pple getn divorce evryday? Don't marry 4 sex, marry 4 love.
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by falcon01: 8:47am On Sep 20, 2016
you guys rena my wayo wallahi!! you'll jus create a stupid thread claiming you are some sort of love expert abi relationship expert. mcheew
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Famouson: 9:17am On Sep 20, 2016
DollarPikin:
cry cool wink Abeg,U need to carry that girl go do brain check Up!She might be developin Scor-Scor! U know that harsh economy like this,is not good for ladies!
It so sad how people think with their Anus these days
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by fox26: 9:31am On Sep 20, 2016
its because she is having sex with much much older person than you. and enjoying too bad!!. so she is under rating you. best suggestion is this I give you now oga.
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Princejebs(m): 9:39am On Sep 20, 2016
These one pass me ooo
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by Rocketicon(m): 9:46am On Sep 20, 2016
Propose marriage to her!!
Re: She Only Wants Me To Caress Her But No Sex by warisogeophysics(f): 9:50am On Sep 20, 2016
dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I have known this girl for over 3 years but we actually became romantically involved about one year now.

The problem I have with her is that she actually wants me to romance and kiss her for as long as possible but will never give in to sex. She might even be the one to initiate the act. She will want me to kiss and romance her, but when its come to the issue of sex she will tell me that she can't do it. It's gotten to the extent where she has to tell me that she would not mind me having sex with another girl.

I do love this girl and my people have come to know her as my girl friend, hence they (my people) regard her very much even to the extent that she can cook and bring to them an they will eat. I am confused indeed.

TK
Via Email

Click below to see my response
http://dearbunmi.com/wants-caress-no-sex/

Do you have any relationship questions?
http://dearbunmi.com/send-your-story
love is not sex. u cant force any1 to have sex before marriage because biblically it is wrong. so nothing is wrong with her

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