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I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 9:17am On Sep 20, 2016
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by JuanDeDios: 9:18am On Sep 20, 2016
gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please
Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by nmreports:
For this economy. You still have bf in twos.
You are looking at the bright side of the lazy guy right?. White dad, visa, the probable security etc... but this guy fit leave you for LAWMA once he travels.

Oh! the other guy who has been doing "things" to you... Doing things to youhuh. Ah! I bet this one don steal your heart already na.

Anyway, I don't really meddle in "advice over the internet stuff" because I don't really believe in it especially when it comes to relationships.
I feel it's weak, immature and most times lame.
Was thinking its about marriage choices and confusion.

Just make the RIGHT choice by thinking BRIGHT.

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Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody:
you mean he expect you to pay his bills shocked sis smart up don't be so blinded by love undecided
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by bettercreature(m): 9:21am On Sep 20, 2016
gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please
His dad is white? he is waiting for visa? you are paying the bills?he doesnt want to work.You need to very carefull it does look like the guy is a scammer.I'll advice you to stop paying the bill then see his reaction
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by xpressTrade: 9:25am On Sep 20, 2016
op u nottin buh a gold digger...folow who u luv
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by dayosweetness(m): 9:26am On Sep 20, 2016
follow ur mind
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Synzu(m): 9:29am On Sep 20, 2016
xpressTrade:
op u nottin buh a gold digger...folow who u luv
Where did the bolded come from? Do you draw inspiration from the abundance of shiit that has clogged your rectum?
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by xpressTrade: 9:35am On Sep 20, 2016
Synzu:
Where did the bolded come from? Do you draw inspiration from the abundance of shiit that has clogged your rectum?
ass licker spotted
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 9:39am On Sep 20, 2016
JuanDeDios:
Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by jmichlins(m): 9:42am On Sep 20, 2016
are you actually doing this. I mean roll with lazy men. His head is already too lazy to figure out what to do with the opportunities here which means he may actually be lazy when he travels. Guess the guy is handsome and you are falling for that
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Synzu(m): 9:44am On Sep 20, 2016
xpressTrade:
ass licker spotted
LOL
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 9:45am On Sep 20, 2016
JuanDeDios:
Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.
Badass sarcasm.... Op please dump d lazy buffoon
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Goldenheart(m): 9:58am On Sep 20, 2016
grin

Why choose one when you can have all. Be smart
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by obyrich(m): 10:03am On Sep 20, 2016
Stop picking his bills. His reaction will tell you how much you are worth to him.
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by MzPecs(f): 10:11am On Sep 20, 2016
[color=#00cccc] A mama's boy is a no no for me undecided undecided

When will he grow up and start acting like a man?
OP better wise up except you just dating for fun! If it's a relationship you'd like to lead to marriage then you've got to think well.

cool
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Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:21am On Sep 20, 2016
xpressTrade:
ass licker spotted
[color=#679267] That's not asslicking boy..The lady in question isn't digging any gold na

it's her man ripping her off instead.. did u take kwale weed before commenting huh [/color]
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Synzu(m): 10:33am On Sep 20, 2016
Jarizod:
[color=#679267] That's not asslicking boy..The lady in question isn't digging any gold na

it's her man ripping her off instead.. did u take kwale weed before commenting huh [/color]
You even have time to reply him. Why do you think I just laughed it off? gringrin
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:38am On Sep 20, 2016
Synzu:
You even have time to reply him. Why do you think I just laughed it off? gringrin
[color=#679267] some people are seriously confused I tell you grin grin [/color]
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by timpaul664(m): 10:40am On Sep 20, 2016
gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please
you should go with the oda guy cos ds lazy guy dat diesnt wanna work will never work and will kip dpending on people...u just gotta use ur brain and follow d oda guy
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Synzu(m): 10:44am On Sep 20, 2016
Jarizod:
[color=#679267] some people are seriously confused I tell you grin grin [/color]
gringrin
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:55am On Sep 20, 2016
[quote author=Berlynn post=49515745][/quote]that's it oo. Most times he doesn't have money and asks me to lend him, or if we going out I'll pay for Tfare and every other thing. I've told him already that I can't continue with that attitude
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:57am On Sep 20, 2016
xpressTrade:
op u nottin buh a gold digger...folow who u luv
I don't have time to trade words with you, didn't u read clearly?
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:57am On Sep 20, 2016
Synzu:
Where did the bolded come from? Do you draw inspiration from the abundance of shiit that has clogged your rectum?
hun please ignore those immatured minds
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Shiitposter: 10:59am On Sep 20, 2016
xpressTrade:
op u nottin buh a gold digger...folow who u luv
So you don't understand what the word gold-digger means? Lol
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 10:59am On Sep 20, 2016
jmichlins:
are you actually doing this. I mean roll with lazy men. His head is already too lazy to figure out what to do with the opportunities here which means he may actually be lazy when he travels. Guess the guy is handsome and you are falling for that
I'm only trying to be patient with him because I love him truly. Money shouldn't be a basis for love. Just that I hate the fact that he's been idle for close to a year now
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 11:00am On Sep 20, 2016
Goldenheart:
grin

Why choose one when you can have all. Be smart
because I wanna be loyal.
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 20, 2016
MzPecs:
[color=#00cccc] A mama's boy is a no no for me undecided undecided

When will he grow up and start acting like a man?
OP better wise up except you just dating for fun! If it's a relationship you'd like to lead to marriage then you've got to think well.

cool
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but he's begging me to be patient with him, that things gonna get better when he leave Nigeria and his mom is so close to me, that's one issue
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 20, 2016
Jarizod:
[color=#679267] That's not asslicking boy..The lady in question isn't digging any gold na

it's her man ripping her off instead.. did u take kwale weed before commenting huh [/color]
Oh Lord, thank you for understanding me Swt, leave those who lack understanding alone
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 20, 2016
Synzu:
You even have time to reply him. Why do you think I just laughed it off? gringrin
muuuuah!!
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by jmichlins(m): 11:11am On Sep 20, 2016
gudbadgyal:
I'm only trying to be patient with him because I love him truly. Money shouldn't be a basis for love. Just that I hate the fact that he's been idle for close to a year now
Re: I'm Confused On Who To Choose, Help Me Out by jmichlins(m): 11:13am On Sep 20, 2016
gudbadgyal:
I'm only trying to be patient with him because I love him truly. Money shouldn't be a basis for love. Just that I hate the fact that he's been idle for close to a year now
it's obvious you dream of having kids as beautiful as him and believe me love is a basis for love but depends on when you notice it. Ask the couple on vacation on those islands you read only in magazine
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