Berlynn:
you mean he expect you to pay his bills sis smart up don't be so blinded by love

Life ain't easy. Bill gate would have been tagged a very, very lazy guy when he was starting. Always on the system, doing something the world never knew would make him the richest man. I'm not saying your guy isn't lazy, and I'm not telling you to choose him over the other.

Why has the first guy given up on Nigeria? Any idea? Was he trying to find a job and got frustrated? Is he extravagant and as a result you foot his bills? What does he do everyday he wakes up, watch movies, eat and sleep?

Don't assume my questions ain't worth it. I have seen a lot of guys that everyone terms lazy but they sit at home and make close to millions. Most times I ask myself who a lazy man is. Go with your heart, maam. Trust God and always have at the back of your mind that all that glitters is not gold.

Be smart.why take one when u can have both after all half oyinbo go soon travel out u need someone to fall onto

bettercreature:
His dad is white? he is waiting for visa? you are paying the bills?he doesnt want to work.You need to very carefull it does look like the guy is a scammer.I'll advice you to stop paying the bill then see his reaction

I had a friend growing up benji , this guy is from Sapele this guy use to Claim he's MIx and his mother is Russian. This guy claim is real mom is his stepmother. This guy foooock half the girl in our high school.

gudbadgyal:
So u saying more than two people can't find themselves in similar situations. Mr mad man, what'd I gain in posting some one's story. Abeg if u gat nothing to say, you can just skip instead of wasting ur MB typing crap. As matured as u look, U acting like some one with a child's brain

The story is Fake.
The height people go just to seek attention. It's fiction: it never happened and it's not happening to you.
We'll still like your pics tho...

Follow ur heart and answer my question. Between a footballer playing for a top club and a teacher teaching in one big school which one will u pick.

You're wicked. Your sarcasm no get rival


OP Juandedios( another oyinbo ) say make u marry thr lazy half cast, who perhaps doesn't know or haven't met his dad... Just so you know that there are lotta halfcast who don't know or haven't met their fathers.. Waiting for visa kor waiting for passport ni



quote author=JuanDeDios post=49515691]
Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.[/quote]

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

Epic response!

This one is looking for encouragement to cheat

and u already cheatin him

and u already cheatin him?

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

Blahdy cheat...

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

so every white man na from Yankee abi? Ok oooo

JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

Like seriously. so u expect mr lazy bones to change when he enters yankee. Lol. U funny o. A lizard in naija cannot be a Crocodile in yankee it doesn't work like that.

Sister you better run. This kind of person is going to continue being lazy and sure banker is the fact that when he gets there na OYO you go be cos he will look for another woman who will pay his bills, this time it will be an oyinbo woman paying in dollars

dairykidd:
Be smart.why take one when u can have both after all half oyinbo go soon travel out u need someone to fall onto

Well done. Your advice makes perfect stupidity

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

He can't provide for you and he doesn't want to work.How sure are you that he will work outside the country? Dump his ass

martyns303:


I won't come close to a virus infested blood dripping sl..u.t like ur self even with a 50ft pole. 4rm ur advice 1 can tell d kinda person u are, Fvckin wh0.re...

oh someone is pained,why would i let a leaking ass gay like you touch me with a 50ft pole?see this fool,your LovePeddler of a mom is the one infected with an incurable virus to have given birth to a slowpoke who goes about insulting and nagging women....keep showacasing your virus to human race,disgrace to manhood,see this goat who doesn't mean a damn thing to me,never even knew u existed talking about why I hate people like you,who are u?with your gutter language that shows you were properly not brought up by your so called mum,instead she was whoring around,does she even know your dad?that's why u can't make a simple statement without insulting,nexthe time think with your brain before putting your leprosy infested fingers to work....grow up

toprealman:
so every white man na from Yankee abi? Ok oooo

Every white man is from Yankee. Didn't you know a simple thing like that?

Lazy dudes are awesome, I used to be one, I was like a a senior member in our club, we gather play games, watch anime( I still do these two) eat cookies & drink some soda.
we used to think real life movies are lame......well dat was two like almost 3 yrs ago cause am now a CHANGED man, I got my own business (big shop plus a large bird farm)but my dad & big brothers still give me allowance( which is awesome)

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onyekachee:
oh someone is pained,see this fool,your LovePeddler of a mom is the one infected with an incurable virus to have given birth to a slowpoke who goes about insulting and nagging women....keep showacasing your virus to human race,disgrace to manhood,see this goat who doesn't mean a damn thing to me,never even knew u existed talking about why I hate people like you,who are u?with your gutter language that shows you were properly not brought up by your so called mum,instead she was whoring around,does she even know your dad?that's why u can't make a simple statement without insulting,nexthe time think with your brain before putting your leprosy infested fingers to work....grow up

Did I hit a nerve? Better stop who.e.ring around and take down those legs of malnourished pelican on ur dp.... Olosho

martyns303:


Did I hit a nerve? Better stop who.e.ring around and take down those legs of malnourished pelican on ur dp.... Olosho

no you didn't hit a nerve,you showed display of stupidity and I have low tolerance for dunces,if insulting you will give you commonsense why won't I employ such means,you don't even know what else to say other than talking about my legs,worthless piece of shet

martyns303:


Did I hit a nerve? Better stop who.e.ring around and take down those legs of malnourished pelican on ur dp.... Olosho

you still dey get time to dey exchange words with that scoundrel?
That onyekachee na guy ooo, abeg ignore am cos he's just an attention seeking reta^rd

onyekachee:
oh someone is pained,why would i let a leaking ass gay like you touch me with a 50ft pole?see this fool,your LovePeddler of a mom is the one infected with an incurable virus to have given birth to a slowpoke who goes about insulting and nagging women....keep showacasing your virus to human race,disgrace to manhood,see this goat who doesn't mean a damn thing to me,never even knew u existed talking about why I hate people like you,who are u?with your gutter language that shows you were properly not brought up by your so called mum,instead she was whoring around,does she even know your dad?that's why u can't make a simple statement without insulting,nexthe time think with your brain before putting your leprosy infested fingers to work....grow up

gender marginalization on nairaland.
If na me type this kind abusive comment now mynd44 go come ban me

reminiscing:

He can't provide for you and he doesn't want to work.How sure are you that he will work outside the country? Dump his ass

dump his ass? Ouch that's so harsh and rude of you

emusmithy:
The story is Fake.
The height people go just to seek attention. It's fiction: it never happened and it's not happening to you.
We'll still like your pics tho...

check her dp and guess her age.
She told me she's 19 which contradicts the face on her dp which resembles a lady in her late twenties

Snakes and Seun



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Babe, its unfortunate u found u self in such a dilemma, but to be honest with u....................no man marries a woman dt is a liability these days not to talk of a young n enterprising lady like u settling for a lazy bone of a guy (no offence though). Hear me babe n tk ma words seriously, did whole issue of his dad being white, him nt liking Nigeria hence wants to go abroad blah blah blah................are just smokescreens used to cover his failings in life. U don't need a soothsayer to tell u dt such a relationship has no direction at all. I wud nt necessarily advice u to settle 4 d oda guy cos he pays ur bills n does oda stuffs 4 u bt all m saying is dt u shud luk beyond lvv in making crucial life decisions such as dis. If he's parents are wt he claims they r then why can't he pay his own bills. Evrytn na wash ma dear, you knw wht u wnt bt ur eyes are still shut hence ur inability to see beyond ur nose. U sound like a smart n intelligent girl..............make it count n don't let dt loafer use n dump u like filthy rag cos as soon as he goes overseas, that's if he will, he will so abandon u .............after all u won't b der wit him. Use ur head n make d right decision. Wish u d very best!

JuanDeDios:

Every white man is from Yankee. Didn't you know a simple thing like that?

will ask John Terry when next we meet for tea.

gudbadgyal:
that's it oo. Most times he doesn't have money and asks me to lend him, or if we going out I'll pay for Tfare and every other thing. I've told him already that I can't continue with that attitude

Biko run for ur life.. i was actually in ur shoes. he will continue to be dependent till he grows old..maybe u should ask him what his goals/plans are to see if he has any; just like i did to him. i lend him money too which he never refund even after we broke up. "NO" to mummy's boy.

Synzu:


Where did the bolded come from? Do you draw inspiration from the abundance of shiit that has clogged your rectum?

gracious goodness!!!

mamawin:
gracious goodness!!!