JuanDeDios:

Go with the lazy guy. Lazy guys rock. Besides, it's not easy to find half-Oyinbos these days. Since he's comfortable placing his hands between his legs while a woman picks his bills, I think he will transform into a hardworking person once he sets foot in America. He won't find another mugu girl there. He will send for you and you two will get married. You will hold hands and walk off into the sunset, into Happily-Ever-After where he will take good care of you.

Like they say, in every decision there are two choices: What is, and what you want; that is, what is good for you and what your emotions crave.

OMG! I can't stop laughing!

Go for d guy who is taking care of u,d oda dependent boy will disappoint u probably wen he finally travels out...

Harinholar:
........And I wll be ur sister by den so dat we can both enjoy ur new bae.....Op.....pls consider my e- bro

Lol. Tell her more about us.

gudbadgyal:
lol

Yes oh!

You know we're still expecting my bank alert....

No be only mama's boy
Which guy will you meet today and he ask if your working and you say No
and the next day the guy call you back?
the guy will run,cause no one wants a lazy guy/or babe
You might even be good to him now and after he makes out of the country
he won't even remember your first name talk more of your number

be wise woman!!!

My dear sometimes God's will is bitter. It is only God who knows the end from the beginning, the Bible says in Acts 15:18 Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world. Looks are deceptive in some cases, immediate conditions may not also be a determining factor, in order not be angry with yourself tomorrow, I will advise; you take some days to seek God's face in a serious prayer and fasting (but you must not have any of them in mind otherwise you'll not have a true revelation), some of your prayer points are; 1 Any of this guys that is not for me, i don't want to see him around me again, 2. I want a marriage I will enjoy and not endure and 3. i want a man that will draw me closer to God and help me to grow in Christ. Bear in mind; if you sincerely cry to God, the real person will surface and you must accept him, even if he's a different person entirely. God bless you

I kinda feel sorry for u OP... this guy will just leave u immediately he step out of the shore of Nigeria and look for the next meal ticket....

U think he will just go abroad and land on a job immediately? if he does not have a letter of employment shown to you before travelling then u will still have to wait for another year for him to make out proceeds to send home. and the way u painted it, it does not sound to me like someone that can take any job before the right one comes..

Please do not love blindly because of colour of the skin... do not think u were the envy for your friends because u are dating half this half that.. it is just nothing... he made u a meal ticket for a year and it is so sad...Assuming he wasn't coloured, i believe u would have put your foot down and insisted that he find a job pending the time he travelled. ..I don't know what to say but this is so sad...

catlova2:


My dear. GO FOR ME

lol. Okay

Homguy:
gudbadgyal true?

lmao. Who knows that one.I'm 19. A student of Lagos state uni and a model.

I hate it, when girls double date

Homguy:
gudbadgyal true?

You wouldn't expect her to admit,would you?

numericalguy:


I beleive the OP is a liar. Regarding the bolded. Same questions i asked her earlier on and she pretended not to have seen it.
Besides why would she be dating two guys at the Same time.

he's not applying for his dad's country. I'm not dating d 2nd guy yet, he's only been trying to win my heart and has asked me to be his gf. I've not given him a YES though, but he appreciates me a lot.

DateMynd44:
hahaha temmytanny lol. See as them catch am.
If he's dad is white, why does he need visa to travel to his own country lol the girl maybe right but just that she fell into the wrong hands.
The guy in question is a charlatan, a scammer and a nefarious swindler.

he's applying for a Visa in USA, his elder sis is also there. His dad is from Australia. I know the dad well

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

Stay with the guy you yourself has admitted "isn't willing to work". And since he's "idle", he is going to be a millionaire one day. To many Nairalanders have below par IQ.

ben1daEbiri:
You wouldn't expect her to admit,would you?

there are better ways to get my attention than cooking up lies

Richy4:
I kinda feel sorry for u OP... this guy will just leave u immediately he step out of the shore of Nigeria and look for the next meal ticket....

U think he will just go abroad and land on a job immediately? if he does not have a letter of employment shown to you before travelling then u will still have to wait for another year for him to make out proceeds to send home. and the way u painted it, it does not sound to me like someone that can take any job before the right one comes..

Please do not love blindly because of colour of the skin... do not think u were the envy for your friends because u are dating half this half that.. it is just nothing... he made u a meal ticket for a year and it is so sad...Assuming he wasn't coloured, i believe u would have put your foot down and insisted that he find a job pending the time he travelled. ..I don't know what to say but this is so sad...

You only feel sorry for lies from the Op. This same topic has been discussed on Radio and forum.

What people do to gain one minute fame and likes online especially Nairaland baffles me.

wot abt love aunty?

nma24:
Badass sarcasm.... Op please dump d lazy buffoon

Even if u pple shout from now Jesus comes, she's not ready to dump him, cos d guy is handsome and has a white man's father. In her heart of hearts, she knows d proper and wise thing to do but she doesn't want to do it. She will 'definitely' not adhere to any wise counsel offered. She's still being enticed by d allure of beauty and a fool's paradise called a white man's country d guy will travel to after deceiving, banging of her ...... (make i know mention name) and eventual dumping. A lazy man (not just an idle mind) is a devil's workshop. In fact, contextually, a lazy man is an idle mind.

dayosweetness:
follow ur mind

...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS
(Your Love life and Pornography)

Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn.
Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet.
In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include:

Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong.

Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different.
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Nice dp. Back to the topic,follow the latter cus he knows what relationship is all about unlike the former that sponge on others for his needs(mama's boy)

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

if you love two things go for the second one because if you truly love the first one there will be no second one.

Op, please follow who loves you among them, never mind the expenses now because the person you love and didn't truly love you will definitely used you and later break your heart. Study both of them and find out who truly loves you among them, and please endure with whoever it may be till things are OK. And please don't double date, love your man with one mind and always pray for him and your relationship.
Good luck sister.

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

folo ur hrt not ur head... bt use ur head while u folo ur hrt.... u dont build a bridge in 3days

Your boyfriend is a lazy ass motherfucker who doesn't know anything apart from sex,cos I can't phantom  the reason why you are with an un ambitious guy rather than the good sex he offers,so if his visa didn't work out,he will still be forming mummy's boy and you will be paying for his boxers and other items. What makes you think he won't be a lazy ass over there in America because the zeal to make money is not in him,anyway,follow your heart jare. Always love with your heart but don't leave your brain behind.

Visit www.datingcomrade.com for your dating tips and counselling.

Laburus:
Now we Know its you

So I can advice you Lol,

Run for your dear Life from the Lazy dude. and when you return read the two lines below.


The Half cast has nothing to offer you apart from his Fine Boyishness. Move on with your Life.
He is just a Lazy ass and will find another girl to foot his bills, Be Smart Dont ever deceive yourself it gonna be well between you and him.


Finally I dont give out Money online.

Goodluck

gudbadgyal:
he's not applying for his dad's country. I'm not dating d 2nd guy yet, he's only been trying to win my heart and has asked me to be his gf. I've not given him a YES though, but he appreciates me a lot.

It still doesnt matter. This is because most white countries dont need visas to travel to other white countries. Germany, Britiain USA, Canada, Austria, etc hardly need visas to travel to most white countries and even non-white countries in the world. This your story get k-leg abeg.

You are not dating the second guy but he is doing stuffs for you and you are collecting them. Hmm... Na wa for you sha. You have turned the second guy into your own personal maga.

Op which sort of bills have u been footing for him?

I can sense emotional and sentimental blindness in ur post

Ps: work with him towards being a better man
most times great men were pushed into greatness by their woman.
so work for the future and not for feelings.

choose wisely

Nairalanders are not God who knows the end before its begining go to God in prayer

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gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

You really sound confused as you put it. With all the laidback qualities you mentioned about this your mixed race sweetheart, somehow you have still clunged unto him. Even by merely mentioning you have bn picking the bills, Are you sure it isn't you seeking something more? If all these complaints aren't aired in to his face then you better examine yourself honestly. He may just be being himself - mummy's boy as you pointed out - while you as the clever party might be the one anticipating a hidden gain.

Just boyfriend you pay his bills when una marry nkor, babe forget the lazy bone, I see no future there. In this recession you pay his bills? Some guys get luck sha.

gudbadgyal:
lmao. Who knows that one.I'm 19. A student of Lagos state uni and a model.

your profile pics doesn't look 19. You look like a lady in her late twenties and early thirties

I smell lies in the story.