Mrrpatozky:


Is she a virgin or not

Of course she is of which I confirmed it.

LordOfSamosa:
Goodluck on your '' no sex relationship''

I smell sarcasm here.

xtervaganza:
you have been dicked bro

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahah hahahahh


seriously. ...it's all about experience.... i did no sex.. for 2yrs she left, another for 8 mnths she left.... i stopped.... oooo...

girls have really dealt with us with this no sex stuff. i don't just believe in it again!!!

What is the gain of someone in no sex relationship but having sex with someone else, [/b]is it not highest form of self deceit[b].Most people in no sex relationship have sex with another person else including one night stand for girls and visiting ashawo houses for men.

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encryptjay:
Sex in a relationship is overhyped, we all know such relationships usually end.
A lady opens her legs like rumours, the manipulative guy does his thing, after few Weeks/months, a new catch becomes the next thing on their mind .

Guys will always be guys but ladies keep falling everyday.

I'll always respect ladies who refuse to use sex as basis for relationship.

The world is obsessed with such stuff which is not really good.

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kowalsky:


Get out of dat relationship fool!!

bro i use whatever u serve beg u don't call me fool. am I your puppet? my decision....respect that

Horpsy17:


Of course she is of which I confirmed it.

If she wasn't will u have accepted the no sex talk?

honeygirl17:
Come back and testify after a year.

Am looking forward to that.

as i'm today am in my late 20s i can boldly say that i'v not had sex b/4, not because some times i don't fill lyk as a human, but because i decided to my self under control, I no some people might say is not possible i tell u it is, and it has really help alot *i can easily work out of any relationship with any emotional attachement*i'am a free man*i can hangout with any lady without fear*i have enough time to study any lady of my choice*i can't contact std*i am always bold to approach any lady*i spend less*i am deviod of distraction* infact my benefit are endless and above all i will still get married one day, as for sex i will definately get tired of it so i don't want to steal with i know that belongs to me why dying today when i kw that i can live 2moro.

Mrrpatozky:


If she wasn't will u have accepted the no sex talk?

That's what I'm looking for in the first place

Let me just mark my presence here, to be candid a no sex relationship is a no no for me. At the initial stage of the relationship I'm ok with no sex, 2,3 months after I better be prospering in her Canaan land

as i am today, am in my late 20s i can boldly say that i'v not had sex b/4, not because some times i don't fill lyk as a human, but because i decided to my self under control, I no some people might say is not possible i tell u it is, and it has really help alot *i can easily work out of any relationship with any emotional attachement*i'am a free man*i can hangout with any lady without fear*i have enough time to study any lady of my choice*i can't contact std*i am always bold to approach any lady*i spend less*i am deviod of distraction* infact my benefit are endless and above all i will still get married one day, as for sex i will definately get tired of it so i don't want to steal with i know that belongs to me why dying today when i kw that i can live 2moro.

@Horpsy17 How did you confirmed it

ibietela2:
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Goodnight sir

Naturally everything in life is about choices and in long run every of our choices would surely tell on our future. The significance of sexual purity cannot be overemphasized. Each person to his own decisions.

Its not by a man 's effort being chaste only God makes it possible, moreover we are all humans prone to sin. So that extra factor coupled with being determined and making your NO capital NO and your YES same too as i was taught in secondary school some years ago makes it work.

I'm not a pastor and i won't preach to anyone. I know whatever you sow that you shall reap it has been so right from the days of Adam and Eve.

Bonne nuit

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

She is either having sex with you or having it with others while you wait, except she is a virgin.

I once dated a lady who had a no-sex relationship with someone else. The funny part is, they eventually separated as she discovered the guy impregnated another girl.

peeparty:


May God continue to help you.,try as much as possible to avoid situations that can lead to that. I know it won't be easy but his grace is sufficient. Then plan towards doing the the needful on time.

thanks bro. we are working on that .

Meeloreh:
Well, it's still available. Yes, here in Nigeria. It's about finding the right person that geniuly loves you and has a future. If he has the fear of God n he wants a future with you, it's all good. The phrase "everyone is doing it" shouldn't make u do it cuz that phrase isn't 100% correct. Stand out sis

fear of God my foot. When u both get married and he can't satisfy u in bed, shebi it is the fear of God dat will save your marriage.

biitches sef... they will tell guy A.. no sex... guy A will be in that relationship until he realizes that the gal has been giving guy B sex.... if u dey form holy for biitches on top no sex ish.... ur OYO...guys still dey go into relationships with out sex for dis 21st century... adonbelivit

niconresort7:
as i'm today am in my late 20s i can boldly say that i'v not had sex b/4, not because some times i don't fill lyk as a human, but because i decided to my self under control, I no some people might say is not possible i tell u it is, and it has really help alot *i can easily work out of any relationship with any emotional attachement*i'am a free man*i can hangout with any lady without fear*i have enough time to study any lady of my choice*i can't contact std*i am always bold to approach any lady*i spend less*i am deviod of distraction* infact my benefit are endless and above all i will still get married one day, as for sex i will definately get tired of it so i don't want to steal with i know that belongs to me why dying today when i kw that i can live 2moro.

What is this?
So people who have sex in relationships aren't free?
They can't boldly talk to people of the opposite sex?
What are you saying?

Missmossy:
Naturally everything in life is about choices and in long run every of our choices would surely tell on our future. The significance of sexual purity cannot be overemphasized. Each person to his own decisions.

Its not by a man 's effort being chaste only God makes it possible, moreover we are all humans prone to sin. So that extra factor coupled with being determined and making your NO capital NO and your YES same too as i was taught in secondary school some years ago makes it work.

I'm not a pastor and i won't preach to anyone. I know whatever you sow that you shall reap it has been so right from the days of Adam and Eve.

Bonne nuit

mahma sometimes you don't need to blame us having sex ...things happen for a reason... i once dated a girl for 2yrs without sex.. she just left like that, i felt bad cause she wasted my time... i opt in for another 8months with another girl.. she got tired....and left.....( these gals left cause they have nothing to loose... after their promises oo....
when they know you av not had sex with them... they are just not committed.. meaning the can just decided to leave you anytime )

so i just stopped it.... so am i to blame

tee4all:
Nice thread, but believe me sex or no sex does not guarantee happiness in a relationship.... Av been in a relationship that involved sex, and she's istill d love of my life, and av also dated some girls dat insist no sex, but just to find out sex is not their problem, they just don't know aw to make a guy fall in love.. trust me, it ain't sex!! A guy dat needs sex can get it anywhere.... you can't buy a guys loyalty with sex... Girls, pls work on yourself...

True talk, some guys are already making it seems as if that guarantees you a successful marriage

kdfinest:
hmm dats great, well am also in one too we are more than a year and some months now.I do love her dearly.

it's good to know that there are still guys with principles and that doesn't follow the crowd

justicejay:
Have done it before and am still doing it now.
I dated this girl when I was in skl, we had 3yrs relationship without sex, yes 3yrs, you don't need to believe but that's the truth...I can still remember that we sleep together for 2months in same room, when the school was on strike but yet nothing happened, thou the temptation came but we always manage to wave it. After we broke up I didn't regret it although my friend didn't believe that I didn't touch her and does who believe were bashing me like I Bleep up big time. But to me its a joy. I don't know why, but am always happy that things like that didn't happened between us. BUT during all those time, I av extra girls I do shine and she doesn't knw, the ones that she wanted to knw I tried to convince her and even call the girl she is suspecting to talk to her that there is nothing going on between us which always worked cos most of those girl I shine are friends with benefit and the knw too.mind you the reason I was aving extra girls is not that my girl friend is not servicing me but its wat I want to do cos even if we are aving sex I will still shine other girls pussy

And my current relationship too, its going to 3yrs now, and there is nothing like sex. Even kissing is so scarce in this relationship but am not complaining cos I still love it that way. Cos I noticed that it made the relationship stronger, geniue and respectable. BUT yet I dey shine some extra congo...may the lord deliver me cos I wanna change.

But bottom line my sister, relationship without sex is possible and I tell u their are some guys who are ready for it,that won't even av extra affairs like me cos I av a guy at skl dat tym too he was into no sex relationship and he doesn't av extra girl like me. So keep ur faith and don't believe all those nairaland guys who always say I can't do such the truth is that most of them are into that kind of relationship just that they av extra girls.
So believe it, if u are looking for sexless relationship you will defiantly get it if u don't quit.
Best of luck.

Why did you break up? Why where you shining other peoples kit kat? Is this not cheating?

dozofavour:
this is my fifth year of dating and we have not had sex.
i promised God and her that until i get married to her then i will enjoy sex.

It is a prohibition of blasphemy, specifically, the misuse or "taking in vain" of the name of the God of Israel. Exodus 20:7 reads: "Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain." (KJV).

MaziOmenuko:


Wow! That's great. You are getting married to your friend and that's something to be proud of.

Many peeps indulge and still get married thereafter,.

Lol

mengho:
it's actually quite easy, it has to do with HOME TRAINING, my parents raised me to belive dat sex b4 marriage is bad, evil & demonic plus I never had access to d internet till I was like 15 yrs. We always watch TV with my parents...guess what's d best channel CNN,BBC oh yeah Disney & cartoon network for my little siblings..
when watching a movie, sex scenes are skipped like sharp sharp.

What am trying to say is relationships aren't all about sex, if u truly love each other then I see no reason why you can't wait to get married & have ur first time 2geda.

But hey am just d guy who just loves to play vidoe games. finds pre-marital sex disgusting cause there is no gurantee the girl/guy will marry you...so why expose ur body?

I call anybody who has sex casually a cheap hooker/slut. Besides u don't even get paid

There's no guarantee that you guys will get married without involving in pre marital sex

What's wrong with sex in a relationship, most times it's ladies that doesn't fancy sex or like sex that comes up with a trend like this, Every man wants a lady that's good on bed not the other way round, most Nigerian girls are very lazy on bed, am a Christian let's face reality, I forbid it for me kole werk.

2dugged:
what is a serious relationship?, start from there,even marriage falls into the serious relationship scale if you want to go broad, and please the uncouth fool just called me a town whor3, you didn't expect me to let it slide?

I blame some so called men of God.