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Is He For Real??? by CanadaGal14(f): 2:09pm On Sep 30, 2016
Been talking to a Nigerian man I met online for over a year now. I am from Canada. He calls me multiple times a day both on video and audio calls. He messages me all throughout his day. We laugh and share ideas and get along very well. we are trying to get him a visitor visa so we can meet in my hometown. He has sent me the data page of his passport and I have referenced it and it clears that he is who he says he is. His address checks out on google maps as being exactly where he says he is from. I have investigated where he works and it checks out. He has introduced me to his parents over video call and his siblings and many many friends. He has a picture that he made out of mine and his photo put together as his profile picture for all social media he is on. He has given me his passwords for email and social media. He has sent me money through MoneyGram for my birthday. I have his account details at his bank so I could call and see if the account existed and that his name was the same. I have scanned every dating website imaginable and can't find him. I have reverse image searched every picture of himself that he sends to me and all that comes up are the social media I am already aware he is on. I have his real phone number as well as his parents contact details. I feel like I have done all the research I can and it all comes back that he is being honest with me about everything. Now my question being is this for real?
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Sep 30, 2016
CanadaGal14:
Been talking to a Nigerian man I met online for over a year now. I am from Canada. He calls me multiple times a day both on video and audio calls. He messages me all throughout his day. We laugh and share ideas and get along very well. we are trying to get him a visitor visa so we can meet in my hometown. He has sent me the data page of his passport and I have referenced it and it clears that he is who he says he is. His address checks out on google maps as being exactly where he says he is from. I have investigated where he works and it checks out. He has introduced me to his parents over video call and his siblings and many many friends. He has a picture that he made out of mine and his photo put together as his profile picture for all social media he is on. He has given me his passwords for email and social media. He has sent me money through MoneyGram for my birthday. I have his account details at his bank so I could call and see if the account existed and that his name was the same. I have scanned every dating website imaginable and can't find him. I have reverse image searched every picture of himself that he sends to me and all that comes up are the social media I am already aware he is on. I have his real phone number as well as his parents contact details. I feel like I have done all the research I can and it all comes back that he is being honest with me about everything. Now my question being is this for real?

geez you work with FBI?

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Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Sep 30, 2016
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck

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Re: Is He For Real??? by firstking01(m): 2:19pm On Sep 30, 2016
So, what are you waiting for??, take a chance bae cool

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Re: Is He For Real??? by busterr(m): 2:26pm On Sep 30, 2016
are you jack Bauer's cousin?? and I hope you investigated the source of money he sent to you too? good luck oo

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Re: Is He For Real??? by busterr(m): 2:29pm On Sep 30, 2016
Xiadnat:
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck
.


you just made an ass of yourself with that silly post.

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Re: Is He For Real??? by Laveda(f): 2:30pm On Sep 30, 2016
avatar19:

geez you work with FBI?

cheesy same thought here..
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Sep 30, 2016
Is he jobless?
Re: Is He For Real??? by IamLEGEND1: 2:31pm On Sep 30, 2016
He even sent you money on your birthday.
you managed to snag a good one,so be grateful.
but your investigation though....na people like you dey dig up sins wey pesin sef no know say e get.

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Re: Is He For Real??? by bamisepeters(m): 2:37pm On Sep 30, 2016
With all that you have experimented i just think you are the one that will give us the answer probably when you have spent some days together because you have only confirmed his information and not the feelings or the true nature of the affection... But with all i can deduce, he is for real. Enjoy.

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Re: Is He For Real??? by Maxi112: 2:41pm On Sep 30, 2016
Xiadnat:
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck
are you really human?


what kind of advise is this? shm
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 30, 2016
Hehehehe

Re: Is He For Real??? by sunnydayasaba(m): 2:42pm On Sep 30, 2016
The question should be, Are you for real? Common, we still have sincere people in Nigeria for Christ sake.


My dear, Nigerians still makes gud spouses all over the world. If you have any doubt, let him know so he can address it and stop being over paranoid
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 30, 2016
Xiadnat:
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck
hehehe see them. People like this can't make money in their life, born poor die poor SMH

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Re: Is He For Real??? by CanadaGal14(f): 2:52pm On Sep 30, 2016
Thanks to everyone for all the wonderful advice. There is good and bad everywhere in this world. I guess I'm just scared. I will never know unless I see it through and give it a chance. Thanks again to all who gave advice...much appreciated smiley
Re: Is He For Real??? by chigoizie7(m): 2:54pm On Sep 30, 2016
If all these checked out well, then he is for real.



But why would all these people be talking all negative things about a guy they never knew?

When did this very guy approached u and told u he wanted to use the girl and leave naija?

Even if na to look for greener pastures, is it not a good thing that one improves himself?


All these bad belle just to score cheap and worthless goals is what I don't understand.
Re: Is He For Real??? by SlaughterGang: 2:55pm On Sep 30, 2016
White people...SMH
Re: Is He For Real??? by stuffs4me(m): 3:04pm On Sep 30, 2016
CanadaGal14:
Been talking to a Nigerian man I met online for over a year now. I am from Canada. He calls me multiple times a day both on video and audio calls. He messages me all throughout his day. We laugh and share ideas and get along very well. we are trying to get him a visitor visa so we can meet in my hometown. He has sent me the data page of his passport and I have referenced it and it clears that he is who he says he is. His address checks out on google maps as being exactly where he says he is from. I have investigated where he works and it checks out. He has introduced me to his parents over video call and his siblings and many many friends. He has a picture that he made out of mine and his photo put together as his profile picture for all social media he is on. He has given me his passwords for email and social media. He has sent me money through MoneyGram for my birthday. I have his account details at his bank so I could call and see if the account existed and that his name was the same. I have scanned every dating website imaginable and can't find him. I have reverse image searched every picture of himself that he sends to me and all that comes up are the social media I am already aware he is on. I have his real phone number as well as his parents contact details. I feel like I have done all the research I can and it all comes back that he is being honest with me about everything. Now my question being is this for real?


He seems real enough. But the question is are you real yourself? I just hope our innocent Nigerian lover boy has not been chatting with some Canadian serial killer.
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Sep 30, 2016
Damn!! Omo see investigation oo grin grin
Re: Is He For Real??? by NemzySeries(m): 3:35pm On Sep 30, 2016
I Tink question shd b "is d OP 4 real "? bkos we kw everything abt ur fwend but we no nofin abt xcept 4 d fact dat u do more research & investigation dan d FBI
Re: Is He For Real??? by moonloved(f): 3:44pm On Sep 30, 2016
Whatelse do u need? He is more than real
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Sep 30, 2016
busterr: now, what I just did is be realistic. I am guessing you are a Nigerian man who is aspiring to be a scam artist. What I did was inject some truth into her mind.

maxi112: a realistic one. Which world do currently live in?

ucsparks: I am an executive doctor translation: I am a medical doctor and up & coming CEO, I drive a benz, I own a mustang. I live in a three floor, two bedroom, 2.5 bath gorgeous home surrounded by nature and bliss in US. Now say what again? I didn't get where I am by being gullible. People can "fake" anything until they get what they want. Real world. Do you live in it?



canadagal14: you can take risk, but be very careful. Protect your heart and be prepared that he may just be using you. Too many scammers in Nigeria anxious to leave. But, when he gets to Canada, he may drop you like its hot.

Take your head with you when/if you dive in. If its too good to be real, it is.
Re: Is He For Real??? by yomi007k(m): 3:48pm On Sep 30, 2016
Not all of us r fake. A few r still real but rare.
Re: Is He For Real??? by ceejayxy(m): 3:52pm On Sep 30, 2016
my dear...just wait let me ask the ancestors#typing in tongues of d ancestors jmatamjuamjt ajmgtgajgtmatamjtamtajatajmatjamtdatamjtda tamjadajtapamjb no answer..sorry
Re: Is He For Real??? by Miladi(f): 3:55pm On Sep 30, 2016
Xiadnat:
Oh he is for real. You are asking the wrong question tho.

He is a man on a mission: operation " leave naija to better pasture". Lol

The real issue is if he's mission is of noble and pure motives. Only you can answer that. And oh yes! TIME. If you ask me: a year or so is too soon.


Good luck


Your pettiness stinks. Why been prejudiced towards someone you don't know? I wonder who told you that the person in question may not be able to afford a trip to Canada, on own-accord. I pity those who may assumed you're their friends, because it's obvious that you're the type of person that would revel after backstabbing anyone around you.

To the OP, as much as it's not a taboo to ask questions or to be cautious when dealing with people, yet in a situation like this, you ought to know that the best advice you will get is one you give to yourself, based on the facts available to you. Citing your explanations and observations towards your said friend, he has not done anything to deserve suspicion from you. Therefore, I see no need of this public validation you're looking for.

Nigeria, just like every other countries, has both good and bad people. So a discerning mind should relate with people on the basis of their personal attributes rather than on how the generality of a nation is perceived.

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Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Sep 30, 2016
And you have clearly spoken like you know me. I am merely saying: people desperate can act all kinds of way until they get what they want.

Go back and re-read my post slowly. Don't use emotions and jump to conclusions.

This is the world we live in, you can't be gullible, that way you avoid stories that touch. I don't want to read an epistle in a few months how she has been dubbed by a guy she met and thought was a good man.

Get with the real world please. Sure he is investing now by buying her stuff and constant messaging, but to him it could be a business transcation that he hopes will gain him return of investment.


Miladi:



Your pettiness stinks. Why been prejudiced towards someone you don't know? I wonder who told you that the person in question may not be able to afford a trip to Canada on self-accord. I pity those may assumed you're their friends, because it's obvious would revel pleasure in backstabbing anyone around you.

To the OP, as much as it's not a taboo to ask questions or to be cautious when dealing with people, yet in a situation like this, you ought to know better that the best advice you get is one you give yourself based on the facts available to you. Citing your explanations and observations towards your friend, he has not done anything to deserve suspicion from you. Therefore, I see no need of this public validation you're looking for.

Nigeria just like every other countries, has both good and bad people. So a discerning mind should relate with person based on the attributes they possess rather than on how the generality of a nation is perceived.
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Sep 30, 2016
Xiadnat:

I am an executive doctor translation: I am a medical doctor and up & coming CEO, I drive a benz, I own a mustang. I live in a three floor, two bedroom, 2.5 bath gorgeous home surrounded by nature and bliss in US. Now say what again? I didn't get where I am by being gullible. People can "fake" anything until they get what they want. Real world. Do you live in it?

Hmm, i guess am not stupid enough to believe this. You can take it to someone who's stupid enough to believe your fairy tales cheesy
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 30, 2016
ucsparks:
Hmm, i guess am not stupid enough to believe this. You can take it to someone who's stupid enough to believe your fairy tales cheesy

A hater has indeed arrived. Nothing to prove here. Take care.
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Sep 30, 2016
Did you read the post?
STFUareyouG0d:
Is he jobless?
Re: Is He For Real??? by busterr(m): 4:16pm On Sep 30, 2016
[quote author=Xiadnat post=49803418]busterr: now, what I just did is be realistic. I am guessing you are a Nigerian man who is aspiring to be a scam artist. What I did was inject some truth into her mind.

maxi112: a realistic one. Which world do currently live in?

ucsparks: I am an executive doctor translation: I am a medical doctor and up & coming CEO, I drive a benz, I own a mustang. I live in a three floor, two bedroom, 2.5 bath gorgeous home surrounded by nature and bliss in US. Now say what again? I didn't get where I am by being gullible. People can "fake" anything until they get what they want. Real world. Do you live].









well thanks alot for satisfying my curiosity with those replies. I've realized you are really stupid as I suspected and I can't help you, sorry.
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Sep 30, 2016
royalvalentine19:
Did you read the post?

Yes, I did.

Did you see this part "He calls me multiple times a day both on video and audio calls. He messages me all throughout his day."?
Re: Is He For Real??? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Sep 30, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
He even sent you money on your birthday.
you managed to snag a good one,so be grateful.
but your investigation though....na people like you dey dig up sins wey pesin sef no know say e get.

Would you blame her?

I do the same also. I carry out a thorough research on any guy I plan to be serious with. I won't even let him know all I've found out about him. Make I no go on journey of no return abeg!

Life's too short to be falling head over heels, without carrying your brain o.

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