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Good day ladies and gentlemen. It would be helpful to me if you guys can give me your candid advice on this issue.
Ok I have Mr A and B, they are both great men. Mr A and I started dating some years back but at first I wasn't sure if he was the right one base on how we started but along the line, Mr B came and asked me out too and I accepted looking for which is going to work out. I live in U.S and Mr B also lives in U.S. Mr B wasn't opening up to me when he is having issue financially and I didn't like it for not sharing his problems with me even when I always try to talk to him, he will say he doesn't want to border me with his issues. Because I didn't like that idea I broke up with him but once in a while he checks up on me. Sometime two weeks ago he told me he wants me back that he regretted letting me go but I haven't told him yes yet. But Mr A a nice, loving and caring guy who is trying to get things going with the present Nigeria's economy. Mr A and I became very close, always looking out for each other, can't stay a day without talking, who can tell when I am not myself, I can't even hold a secret from him for a day even though is a distance relationship. Sometime last year when I visited home I met with his family and he met some of my siblings but not like official introduction. He has a nice family I most say. They both are not financially ok which I don't really care much about because as long as they both have a degree they will make it someday. I don't know if I should tell Mr B that I am into a serious relationship or give him another chance or see who wins at the end. But I am still asking God for directions and I also need your opinions maybe some persons have experienced it. How did you handle it, how did it end? Please help me because I don't want to hurt anyone deeply. Thanks in advance.
Please moderators in the house help me move it to front page.

There is no need for Mr B if Mr A got what you need.

So now we name them A B to Z...

If u truly love mr A u woundnt have allowed mr B into d scene to start with.so its ur call gal

Chai.

Nigerian women and double dating. If you are a man and reading this, you better have a spare too before someone will just drop you in the middle for Mr B.

Tell Mr B you are into a relationship with someone else and hold Mr A

Go for Mr C. His own is true love.

Tallesty1:
Go for Mr C. His own is true love.

What bout mr D? I'm sure He's a godly person

Tallesty1:
Go for Mr C. His own is true love.

lol

Seriously, if the 1st man was good enough, there wouldn't be any need for the 2nd man.

Den again, women life just de baffle me.

U broke up with a man that has refused to open up to u on his financial difficulties. He doesn't want to bother u with his problems, yet u saw it necessary to even break up with him.

Meanwhile a woman will see a man who has financial difficulties and will always look up to her for help as a sisi/pussssy. In near future, the man get angry which is normal and blows out, she calls him ungrateful fellow.


Una just complex