send her packing

The way you sounded is like you have been looking for a loophole to nail your wife as an excuse to have extra marital affair.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

Restore her breast and her hole to its former state, then you can divorce her. Nonsense.

How old are you oko iyawo?

dollyjoy:
You want to divorce a legally married woman who has risked her life to make you a man because of age issues? Nigga you are bluffing!!

Your stance would have been understandable if the affair is just a b.fr and g.fr thing.

You reason from your anus. Why lie about your age? 6 years for that matter. Such a woman would stop at nothing to cover up things. Trust is lost and love went out with it. Bullshit

Just 6 years and you're screaming. Bet this your mistress is older so why the fuss? You obviously like them "older"
https://www.nairaland.com/3059271/saw-sperm-like-fluid-outside-va#44875634

So after this,what next? *sips coke*

my guy u better forgive and forget if u divore her now cos she lied abut herr. age.what if u see another who may end up lying about sex. some ladies aretransgender now ooo hold the one u re sure of oo.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

go and hang yourself, what is age if there is love in the first place? I am disappointed in you.

Respond appropriately to the situation instead of Supporting the party that lied. In as much as I dont want both parties to divorce, I hate when pple r nt fair wen it comes to judging issues.

dollyjoy:
You want to divorce a legally married woman who has risked her life to make you a man because of age issues? Nigga you are bluffing!!

Your stance would have been understandable if the affair is just a b.fr and g.fr thing.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

My guy, I have a few questions for you.
- has she been a good wife you?
- has she been a good mother to your kids.
- has she been faithful to you?
If your answers to the questions above are yes, don't divorce her. If no just let her go.

Come to think of it, haven't you lied before?

you just try to move on. Has she been a good woman? That should do

You posted this about your older mistress in April. You prefer older women obviously so why act surprised that your wife is 6 years older? You are either confused or confused and you are also a cheat. You've been married for 3 years and cheated on your wife with the mistress in this post.

https://www.nairaland.com/3059271/saw-sperm-like-fluid-outside-va#44875634

age issue

it has already happened but divorce is not the right step to take now except maybe later you eventually find out that she has been concealing alot of things from you like infidelity.

werthy:
Op, you have been enjoying a woman who is older than you for about five years and yet you arw conplaining about age wahala,


Its not even about the most important thing which is her respect for you


Bro.... you are still a boy...

Tired of seeing babies with grown fallangies inbetween their legs getting married because the feel they have aged enough

And to you you are the grown man with old phalanges between your legs? You lots will just open your mouth anyhow to call anybody a boy without using your brain to think things through. Inasmuch as I would advise the guy to forgive its very difficult. Trust is gone and without trust no love. Imagine a husband who can no longer vouch for his wife? She didn't just lie -- she repeated lie to cover up her tracks. Imagine your wife is 33 years instead of your supposed 27 years. Its a mental thing and without Trust the marriage as good as over. They are not even married to me sef cos any marriage built on falsehood and deceit is not a marriage anyway. Bullshits everywhere!

after founding out that she lied.....Nairaland now become the next place to sue her??my brother take her the way she is.....after 3years who you wan make e carry her now?

This is the kind of stories that make you believe there's safety in ignorance.
Go to a professional counsellor for advise and possibly rebonding

lady's life style

Ranchhoddas:
Gosh I was shocked at the comments. Can you just imagine those idiots?

Shudn't b surprised. People r getting more frustrated day by day.
leavin' d' ball, attacking d' player.

werthy:
Op, you have been enjoying a woman who is older than you for about five years and yet you arw conplaining about age wahala,


Its not even about the most important thing which is her respect for you


Bro.... you are still a boy...

Tired of seeing babies with grown fallangies inbetween their legs getting married because the feel they have aged enough

Smh! How u take know say him be boy! Easy with d effizi Na.....u too harsh abeg!

@OP pls dont quit bkos of age issues. She may or may not have lied. For the sake or ur children, down-play the whole issue and look at the best moments of ur marriage so far. For the sake of God, passs! The most important thing is love. Afterall, she has bn a good wife if nt for this "minor" issue.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

WesBreezy:
So after this,what next? *sips coke*

u still dey drink coke this night?



My friend op don't divorce her u hear.

We know say the thing pain you

If na me e go pain me too.


But me like to marry older woman

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

Pls forgive and forget .Cos we Africans dont like anything that have to do with Divorce, infact we dont believe in Divorce.

@Op forgive her...

But before you forgive her have a mature one on one conversation with her. Let her know that she has to tell you the truth and own up to the age falsification. Not only that, she has to reveal any secret about her that you don't know in order for you to trust her.

If she insist on her story, then I will advise you to ask for a very genuine evidence to proof it. Like going to her primary or secondary school and get the original register for her first day in school, or obtain a copy of the letter she wrote to Waec for age correction. You can even go to the extent of asking her to do bone test.

And for people saying op is not serious, it is just ordinary age. Do you know how long 6 years is?, if it is just 1 or 2 years it's pardonable (though lie is still lie and she has to apologize) but 6 years is a very huge gap and a lot of things could have happened within those years.
Imagine if you were the OP, how will you feel thinking that you are a year older than your wife only to find out that your wife could be 5 years older than you. That means your wife has to from babe turn sugar mummy.

Josephamstrong1:


Shudn't b surprised. People r getting more frustrated day by day.
leavin' d' ball, attacking d' player.

I swear the way people think is gross to say the least. Especially when its a lady involved. It would have been a different story if it was the man who lied and probably his employers found out and sacked the guy from his job. The lady will say all manner of bullshit about lost trust and how she can't cope in the marriage again. All our laws and by extension how we think now is now feminist. A man is always liable but if its woman then its just a mistake that is irrelevant and should be ignore. What rubbish!

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

Quinn..Quinn...Quinn.. How many times I call u so? No blame d guy too much ooo.... It was on d same nairaland that a bride cancelled her wedding because d hubby lied say him dey work for chevron.....on her wedding day!.... DAT one nko?

chuksbogus2001:
All those that comment didn't address the issue at hand .you guys are absolving the wife of any wrong doing making it look like the guy I not suppose to feel bad after finding out this.what is there are other things this guy is yet to find out.I expect people to first condemn the wife for lying to the husband .in fact she deceived the guy into the marriage.if the guy is aware of the age then he can make an inform decision .

Now ,op I know u are feeling bad about this but you have to put urself together.has she not been a food wife to u? remember her good attributes and forgive her. I guess she did it cos she doesn't want to loose u.

You ended up taking us miles back. Op and everyone who commented before you knew how band what she did was and the wife ain't here to take the blames when they are dished out.


Op since your wife had the strong resolve to keep such secret as serious as a six year differential from you, my bro, I'm afraid there are more truths to be told by her.

NOC1:
Pls don't divorce forgive her.
but why do ladies lie a lot, my uncle divorced because the wife lied to him that he studied law, while she studied english.

There lies na mumu lie

I don't blame your uncle, a relationship built on the foundation of lies can never stand for long

True love knows no Race, Religion, Age, size or whatver





Tell me that thing that is greather than LOVE ?





Divorce her now who dey beg you before?




Shior





You just make me angry this night