Only religious zombies will take most of his points to heart.....BUT! Some of his points make sense and it's very realistic, I must agree

doveda:
You will be surprised but fo.ols do take him seriously

Toks2008:


As far as I'm concerned the bible is my guide.

Desertion is the only condition for a woman to divorce her husband

A man can keep cheating and asking for forgiveness just as we keep sinning and asking that God forgives us

Human philosophy has replaced vivid biblical injunctions

So yes you are expected to keep forgiving him except he leaves the marriage totally but if he still wants you I guess you have no reason to divorce him.

This is exactly the point..ladies have soft minds and they could forgive a husband who is a repetitive adulterer but the heart of many men is so hard that they are even ready to stone an adulteress to death.

Any lady dt keeps forgiving a cheating hubby is a cheating wife...birds of a feather flocks together

Thats not true

Vikky014:
Any lady dt keeps forgiving a cheating hubby is a cheating wife...birds of a feather flocks together

ItsQuinn:
As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world

am really stunned at this statement smh.

ItsQuinn:
Thats not true

reallyso a faithful wife can forgive her cheating spouse..i dnt think so

Vikky014:
reallyso a faithful wife can forgive her cheating spouse..i dnt think so

maybe not you but other ladies can like me

Why are you stunned? Human beings are unpredictable, you shouldn't be stunned

schumastic:


am really stunned at this statement smh.

ItsQuinn:
maybe not you but other ladies can like me

nt twice. u can only forgive once...any lady dt forgives her spouse dt cheats repeatedly is a cheat or was once a cheat oo

indeed, the write up has shaken the marital world.

reality is that most women are divorcing spouses based on adultery irrespective of biblical teachings. not many people are that forgiving anymore.

dear lord, cleanse my mind from the things I read down here.

I don't think so, some ladies might just don't give a fvck or careless, some might be so deep in love that cheating is so irrelevant to them. Thats why people have different ideas and see things differently than the way other people see things

Vikky014:
nt twice. u can only forgive once...any lady dt forgives her spouse dt cheats repeatedly is a cheat or was once a cheat oo

ItsQuinn:
I don't think so, some ladies might just don't give a fvck or careless, some might be so deep in love that cheating is so irrelevant to them. Thats why people have different ideas and see things differently than the way other people see things

you hv a point

Hosea chapter 1:- Read the story of Hosea and Gomer (undying love) in the bible

When the LORD began to speak through Hosea, the LORD said to him, "Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the LORD.

The LORD said to me, "Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another man and is an adulteress. Love her as the LORD loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes."


Laveda kingcheezypuff Diddyydiva vikky014

Teespice:
indeed, the write up has shaken the marital world.

reality is that most women are divorcing spouses based on adultery irrespective of biblical teachings. not many people are that forgiving anymore.

dear lord, cleanse my mind from the things I read down here.

My sister these are deep facts.

If you know how many ladies have divorced their husband just because he committed adultery just one time despite the guy beggibg with tears, his family begging and she keeps saying "Even the bible supports it"

Anytime I hear such I just shake my head at the ignorance

I repeat...there was never a place where a woman was asked to divorce her husband because he commits adultery and yes some men do it again and again but if he keeps saying sorry and still wants you I guess marriage is about repetitive forgiveness.

But in the case of men, their hearts are so hardened that they are even ready to stone the woman to death according to Moses laws...or just wake up one day and give her a divorce note just like Islam suggests that all a man should say is "I divorce you as my wife" like 2 or 3 times...

It's because of this hard heartedness that Jesus kuku said "OK shebbi your heart is so hard to the extent that Moses gave you an easy pass....OK I now say that no man (very gender specific) must put his wife away except for adultery....yet forgiveness is not ruled out but most men have stone hearts when it comes to forgiving an adulterous woman so unfair .

Lalasticlala please let's see more opinions.

Toks2008:


My sister no matter the sermon in churches and scriptures ...believe it or not, the crazy act of a man cheating will forever remain...so rather than waste time echoing the sermons why not be factual about it.

What does the bible prescribe for an adulterous man?
If it is an unchanging fact, hence persistent and wilful disobedience of the tenets of christianity, how does the religion address it without reference to woman?
Remember, adultery is not just a simple act of being unfaithful, within it lies other sins ergo, coveteousness, greed, lies, pride, lust etc

Toks2008:


My sister these are deep facts.

If you know how many ladies have divorced their husband just because he committed adultery just one time despite the guy beggibg with tears, his family begging and she keeps saying "Even the bible supports it"

Anytime I hear such I just shake my head at the ignorance

I repeat...there was never a place where a woman was asked to divorce her husband because he commits adultery and yes some men do it again and again but if he keeps saying sorry and still wants you I guess marriage is about repetitive forgiveness.

But in the case of men, their hearts are so hardened that they are even ready to stone the woman to death according to Moses laws...or just wake up one day and give her a divorce note just like Islam suggests that all a man should say is "I divorce you as my wife" like 2 or 3 times...

It's because of this hard heartedness that Jesus kuku said "OK shebbi your heart is so hard to the extent that Moses gave you an easy pass....OK I now say that no man (very gender specific) must put his wife away except for adultery....yet forgiveness is not ruled out but most men have stone hearts when it comes to forgiving an adulterous woman so unfair .

Forgiveness is for the Lord, so how does an adulterous man earn it? Don't say the wife should forgive and that makes it okay, she is NOT the Lord.
Now I believe a truly repentant person will not it is in my DNA to commit a particular sin, they would strive to not fall short of the standards set by their faith constantly rather than excuse their shortcomings.

Now if men and women were truly repentant, then we would have less instances of adultery, infidelity in relationships. Yeah you might slip up once or twice but you wouldn't be a serial cheat because you are genuinely sorry that you are a dishonest person not because you got caught.

I see some of your write-ups and I walk past however I'd like to assert that to make heaven/ be righteous is not gender specific. There are directives in the bible where if you fulfilled them, infidelity wouldn't come up in the first instance before the issue of divorce even comes up.

For there to be talk of dissolution, one party has already broken a biblical injunction so in no position to admonish the other party. The choice remains theirs if they want to break another injunction or not. Judgement for both the infidelity and dissolution of the union remains with the Lord not man.

Ps: I'm no Christian.

Laveda:
No, it doesn't make sense.

Just see how you twisting the bible and making it go in line with your selfish thoughts, so a man is allowed to commit adultery and nothing will happen and when the woman does same? Hell will let loose..

This is total bullcrap!

I'm all for equity.

Life is unfair in ur Next life be a man

ItsQuinn:
As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world

devil don press this one mumu button

Toks2008:


My sister no matter the sermon in churches and scriptures ...believe it or not, the crazy act of a man cheating will forever remain...so rather than waste time echoing the sermons why not be factual about it.

Well, you can extend that sermon to the wives and babies who had died from contracting HIV/Aids from the wandering dicks they married. Or probably your female relatives and daughters (when you finally have them) .

The men can shamelessly commit sin not caring how their actions affect the woman and entire family but the woman has to be tied down by some. biblical doctrines against better judgement?

HaneefahRN:


Well, you can extend that sermon to the wives and babies who had died from contracting HIV/Aids from the wandering dicks they married. Or probably your female relatives and daughters (when you finally have them) .

The men can shamelessly commit sin not caring how their actions affect the woman and entire family but the woman has to be tied down by some. biblical doctrines against better judgement?

Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....

Toks2008:


Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....

You do your fellow men a disservice with your blanket statement. There are men, lots of them who do not cheat.
There are lots of women who cheat.

You don't fall short of standards and revel in it.

Toks2008:


Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....

Well you can't give what you don't have.
You are in no position to tell anyone how to react to situations. An hypocrite is what you are

Not every man cheats and not every woman can stand a cheat. Tomorrow when the devil uses the woman and we hear stories like a woman butchered her cheating husband, they'll come out to cry.

calmG:

devil don press this one mumu button

lwkmdt!

I was amazed when I read that but she had written afterwards that she is sorry for writing such and to think she us born again as she claimed...it is well

HaneefahRN:



Well you can't give what you don't have.
You are in no position to tell anyone how to react to situations. An hypocrite is what you are

If you read the article very well..I sincerely warned your likes to stay clear from making comments on this thread.

Please font force me to come down to your level of derogation the more as you already made me skipped the line a bit.

If you know you are incapable of reasoning deep and making sensible,educative and intellectual contribution please I beg you...just read the comments of others.

Toks2008:


If you read the article very well..I sincerely warned your likes to stay clear from making comments on this thread.

Please font force me to come down to your level of derogation the more as you already made me skipped the line a bit.

If you know you are incapable of reasoning deep and making sensible,educative and intellectual contribution please I beg you...just read the comments of others.

The same BS you keep saying after making your biased, silly threads devoid of right thinking.
Only you and the retarded ones (with special thinking I agree) will understand your 'deep meaning '.

Yeye. Can you just leave women alone and make threads on other 'intellectual issues '? Or better still face your gender. Who needs your stupid advice? Dumbos, I'm sure

HaneefahRN:



Well you can't give what you don't have.
You are in no position to tell anyone how to react to situations. An hypocrite is what you are

Not every man cheats and not every woman can stand a cheat. Tomorrow when the devil uses the woman and we hear stories like a woman butchered her cheating husband, they'll come out to cry.

Gbam!

shaybebaby:

You do your fellow men a disservice with your blanket statement. There are men, lots of them who do not cheat.
There are lots of women who cheat.

You don't fall short of standards and revel in it.

Only a jack ass will say all men or women cheat and only a miopic person will say their partners can't cheat on them...the only logical thing is to look at the situation realistically

A woman will only be a mumu if she breaks up a philandering hubby to start sleeping with another lady's husband or worse still sleeps with different men upandan because believe if or not this is what 90% of them do.

So take this hard truth now and save yourself from delusion.

HaneefahRN:



The same BS you keep saying after making your biased, silly threads devoid of right thinking.
Only you and the retarded ones (with special thinking I agree) will understand your 'deep meaning '.

Yeye

Unfortunately, many women here reason the same manner he does....

SalomonKane:
Unfortunately, many women here reason the same manner he does....

It is just so irritating. Anytime I see his name attached to a thread, I know it'll be a silly post aimed at degrading women in form of advice no one asked him for

HaneefahRN:


It is just so irritating. Anytime I see his name attached to a thread, I know it'll be a silly post aimed at degrading women in form of advice no one asked him for

Well you can ignore, like many do. I believe he is entitled to air his own opinion, even if it's degrading or not.

You have the choice of countering him though..

HaneefahRN:



The same BS you keep saying after making your biased, silly threads devoid of right thinking.
Only you and the retarded ones (with special thinking I agree) will understand your 'deep meaning '.

Yeye. Can you just leave women alone and make threads on other 'intellectual issues '? Or better still face your gender. Who needs your stupid advice? Dumbos, I'm sure

Ok noted..at least we can have some serenity now right.

Many ladies? I hope you included your mama


You are a broken record sir. You are in no fvcking position to tell others what marriage is like.

Toks2008:


Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....